New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Suggestions on how to not look like a moaning, insecure girlfriend? I need them!

Tagged as: Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (24 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *race1 writes:

i am in a serious relationship and i am very happy with my boyfriend and very much in love. We got engaged about two months ago and all in all we have a fantastic relationship. He is a very social outgoing guy and his job requires a bit of flirtation to sell but just recently he has started saying things about other girls and iv just gone along with it messing around because i know he's only joking and doing it to wind me up but it has started to get to me and make me feel a bit insecure. i know he absolutely adores me and i know 100 per cent that he would never cheat on me but im worried that my insecurity might push him away. but that insecurity is down to his recent actions. I was wondering what advice people could give me on what to do or how to approach the situation without looking like a moaning insecure girlfriend because when i have previously brought it up, he's just like dont be stupid you know im only winding you up and then it just makes me feel stupid.

View related questions: engaged, flirt, insecure

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, mediocreland United States +, writes (25 June 2009):

If you don't want to flat out ask him to stop mentioning it, maybe you should just stop joking along with him. It might be a subtle way for him to realize you don't think it's that funny anymore and he might stop.

Guys are usually slow to notice those sublte things though, so if something like that doesn't work there's not much you can do but tell him its making you feel a little insecure. If you say it makes you feel dumb and insecure it will probably put him in a position to comfort you better than saying he's only winding you up and whatnot.

<-- Rate this answer

Add your answer to the question "Suggestions on how to not look like a moaning, insecure girlfriend? I need them!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0468302000008407!