A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i'm 16. ok so i liked this guy for almost a year now. hes so cool and amazing. ok well we hung out a couple of times and i had tons of fun. plus went we hung out we got really close. we were laying on top of each other and and biting each others noses. he carried me around and even held my hand. he knows i like him too. i finally thought that i had a chance with him and thought he might like me too. i was so happy. ok so heres the problem, i found out today that he hung out with my best friend yesterday and he acted the same way to her. he was biting her nose and everything! then i remember him saying that he bite some other girls nose from his old school too. i now know that he acts that way to every girl. but i hate this feeling i'm having. i'm kind of scared to talk or text him now. i feel stupid for thinking that he treated me different and that he might like me. plus now i'm jealous that my best friends is so close to him. i can't trust her either cause she already tryed to ask him out even though she new i liked him. now i have no idea what to do? i tryed to get over him, but i just like him so much. hes just so different then other guys i've met before, but i just hate the way he flirts with a lot of girls. i just get jealous and upset. please help, i don't know what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): The best way to solve this problem is to leave the guy. Both you and your friend should refrain from contacting him. Since you said that he does that to every girl, do you think he can be trusted not to go around flirting with other girls while in a relationship with you? Block him off any communications with you. You wouldn't wanna sacrifice a good friendship for a guy who is such a jerk.
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