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writes:hey guys,i've seen a guy that i really like but i don't know if he likes me. we are good friends, but i am really confused!!! i have liked him since the start of year 7 - maybe 7/8 months now - but i really do not know if by me asking him out it will wreck our friend relationship. please help me!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (25 June 2009):
 Obviously it could ruin your friendship but then again it might not. You have to decide whether you like him enough to risk your friendship. Also it might be a good idea to try and find out if he likes you beforehand maybe by asking someone that you trust not to say anything to him to casually bring it up in a conversation or try and look for signs such as prolonged staring or subtle flirting, he may be doing this without you noticing!Good luck and I hope I helped!=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009): Well, yes it might, but it might not. You won't know until you tell him how you feel. Has he been giving you signs that the feelings are mutual? If you tell him, he may not feel the same, in which case you'll have to ask yourself whether you can be 'just friends'. If he says yes and you two get together, then great. If you don't let him know, you'll still be 'just friends' and as I said, you have to work out whether you can handle being ok with that. I say go for it because otherwise you'll be wondering 'What if'. Good luck
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