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writes:I was born on Oct. 30,1960 I believe in the pm, and he was born feb.14,1960 at 11:35 pm, are we a good match? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): How are we to know? Only you can decide that.. Sweetie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Who knows!? Go with your gut... go with how you feel! Don't ask us and try to pin your future on numerology!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): An astrologer will be able to give you an 'answer'. If so, please bear in mind that astrology is a pseudo-science, utterly ridiculous and predicated on the premise that the positions of the planets in some imaginary, arbitrarily-constructed set of twelve 'constellations' vis-a-vis their alleged positions in the heavens at the time of one's birth can seriously influence and shape human actions, emotions etc. I'm wary of sounding like an absolutist know-all atheist outlining to religious people that there isn't a shred of evidence for the existence of 'God' - I've an open mind on that one. But astrology? Come on. Interesting topic, and harmless as long as people don't let it influence their decisions. But to answer your fundamental question 'are we a good match?', I'd venture to suggest that you consider: Do you love one another's company? do you find one another hugely attractive? do you have similar interests? do you adore talking to one another and looking into one another's eyes? These should be the relevant guides to how good a match you are, rather than whether a quack (who's willing to cash in on someone's belief in a pseudo-science which has been discredited for at least 100 years) deems that you're 'compatible'. (In any event, if you were born 'I believe in the pm', but have no idea what your approximate time of birth was, then you don't have accurate enough information to construct a 'birth chart' - a shift of about half an hour is enough to completely transform the 'results' divined by the astrologer. Feel free to go ahead and get a reading which would be hopelessly inaccurate even if astrology was 'true', but for heavens' sake, don't let it guide your relationship decisions.) And I'm sorry, I don't mean to come across as sneering. I hope it works out wonderfully for you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Well that would depend on a lot more than your birthdays wouldn't it? Those are just numbers honey. I would take a look at your personalities, goals, values, morals, hobbies, way of solving arguements, compromising skills, etc.
~SY.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (24 June 2009):
You can't judge by birth dates!? Do you get along well? Do you have the same intentions as far as the relationship goes? Do YOU think you make a good match? Does he? This isnt an astrological site, it's an advice site, hun. Got another question? We will be more than happy to try and answer it! :)
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