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writes:what if you are not in love with your wife, and discover that maybe you never have been. what if your marriage has gone bad, and you are not intimate any longer with each other and considering divorce. what now if you have fallen in love for her sister. what of you are overwhelmingly in love with her and have been for years. what if ahe honestly was not the reason for your marriage going bad...my marriage was going bad long before she came into the picture. is it ok to divorce your wife, and start a relationship with her sister?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): what if your wife calls her sister a homewrecking whore/ what if your wife blames her for the state of the mess in this marriage? what if the real reason you could not love your wife was because you were not honest with her from the beginning, that you had feelings for her sister instead? there is so many what if's.
but this is a guarantee: you will be creating havoc in everyones lives. i am assuming that you have already been having an affair with the sister in any event. do you want to destroy 2 families. can you live with this. i assume again that it is yes. you have been dishonest in your marriage. now after how many years, you want to throw your wife away to be with her sister. your total non committment to your marriage means that you have been a selfish sod for so many years. in your wifes golden yrs you decide to throw her away. why couldn't you do this before when she was younger. why couldn't you release this wife of yours so that you could move on with her sister?
you and her sister are sowing heaps of pain/ suffering/ betrayal. what are you both going to reap? you have stolen your wifes good years, stolen and destroyed it. don't you see your selfishness. don't you see the errors of your ways. in your old age i would have assumed that you would have some compassion and kindness towards your wife, after all that is what we expect from older people. you have proven otherwise. you selishly stayed with your wife even though you were not in love with her. you used her. you took her best years away from her. now you want to dump her. to shack up with her sister. this is the cruelest blow you could give your wife. i hope this sex thing you have going with her sister is worth the devastation you are causing. but i am sure you see things differently. each to his own!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 June 2009):
 How does the sister feel? Are you so sure she'd be willing to date you after you have divorced her sister?
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