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*oxic_oreos
writes:so my ex left me for my friend and i dont talk to neither of them but my ex is veru confusing, he disses me then is nice to me. he tells everyone he hates me. i dont have any form of feelings for him.hes constantly dissing me!on myspace he said he will kick my a**and i just ignored it but hes the type that would. and i blocked him on myspacenow he WILL NOT stop calling my house. he calls on private everynight but this dude calls me at 5 in the morning and im scared because im only 13 and what if my mom finds out. i most defenetely will not tell my mom though.he is 14 and been in trouble with the police 4 times. everyone told me to stay away from him even the teachers and principal.before when i had feelings for him he would never call!now that i found someone new he keeps calling!i tell him stop but he dosent listen he thinks i stupid and dont know its him.i always reject his call.idk what to do! please give me advice and dont tell me to tell my mom or contact the police or w.e-thanksz-
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): If he calls you & keeps calling you it's harssement & stalking sweetie & you can get a thing on him or call the law and they can give him a full warning or arrest him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2009): Tell a trusted adult male to ring him and give him a warning. I don't understand why you won't tell your mom or why you wouldn't consider the cops, has he threatened you if you do that or something?
Don't be scared of this fool, you're too young to put up with this crap alone and he will keep doing it unless he gets a stern warning from an adult or the cops.
Please let us know why you feel that isn't an option.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Before you go to bed UNPLUG your phone. Sooner or later he will understand that he can not bully you.
Secondly, good job in blocking his MySpace. !
Thirdly, tell your mom. He seems pretty unstable and even if he is only 14, he can still be dangerous or do something crazy. If you can not talk to your mom, then find a teacher and talk to him/her.
He needs to be told (properly by an adult) that he needs to stop all contact with you.
Don't let him bully you and don't suggest your BF deals with it. It is your mess, you need to ask someone GROWN up to help you out.
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reader, That Fragile Capricorn +, writes (24 June 2009):
 All you can really do is ignore him, don't let him get to you. Or if you want, confront him in a semi-public place. I'm not real sure, but you really should tell an adult of some kind. This guy doesn't sound good, and you alone may not be enough to stop him.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 There's nothing that you can do apart from ignore him if you don't want to tell your mum or the police! I think you are totally stupid if you don't tell your mum or the police!
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