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*ireangel
writes:Can someone pz help me with this question? My boyfriend has been on the fritz lately and i dont know why. He has been being so mean and i am getting tired of it. He acts so mean towards the kids. He hasnt been to work in the past three days and i asked him why and he says it is none of your business. I kind yelled at him this morning because he isnt going to work but he is the only one working and i stay home the the kids. He get mad at the kids for trying to talk to him or get his attention. I just wish i knew what was going on with him because maybe i could help or do something to make him feel better about whatever it is bothering him. The kids are only 2 and 3 yrs of age. PLZ can someone give me some advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, fireangel +, writes (24 June 2009):
fireangel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he was written u twice at work but one of the times is because te car broke down and he couldnt get to work and they wrote him up for that the second time was because he was going to be late for work but didnt rrelize he wasnt going to beable to go in and had forgot to call them and offically let them know he wasnt going to be in for the day. but he was trying to find a way to get in because of the car breaking down again. he had just told me over this past weekend that he had to work this up coming weekend. now i relize that the job is getting to him but he doesnt need to be taking it out on us. it has made me think that maybe i need to move on and just let him be.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 June 2009):
 Of course it is your business if he goes to work or not. You need to sit him down after the kids are in bed ( cause they really don't need to hear/see this) and talk to him. Be calm - don't yell, don't scream.
It is possible he got laid off? Fired? That he hasn't worked up to telling you? What he needs is to know that no matter what you will love & support him. Taking care of a family financially can be rough, specially in the economy as it is today. But staying home from work ( if he is still employed is only going to get him fired and then where are you financially ? )
If he lost his job you two need to figure out where to get some financial help. Food don't show up, diapers out of the blue.
Good luck,
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reader, fireangel +, writes (24 June 2009):
fireangel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell he isnt going to go see a doctor. that would be completely out of the question when it came to him
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 June 2009):
 He sounds depressed, he would need to see a doctor. X
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