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I'm still bothered by my girlfriend sleeping with a former friend. What should I do?

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I know what a pain it is to read long questions. But I really need help from some mature smart people! So… I met my girl, we were 22 finishing school, dated a few months, broke up, we stayed friends; started seeing each other again casually in the middle of 06. We were inti... (1246 words

I can't deal with being single. Do I need professional help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi. I guess quite a few of you know me by now, but I'm asking for help tonight because I think I'm going a little crazy. I really can't deal with single life. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, and I'm some how not like other guys who seem to get lucky all the time. ... (160 words

Do I give him a second chance?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I dated my b/f for 3 years before becoming pregnant. We got into a huge fight and broke up 3 months ago, 3 weeks later my son was born and he didn't show up for the birth. He showed up on Easter Sunday telling me he loves me and we ended up sleeping together. This was the ... (115 words

Other forms of birth control?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been sexually active since I was 15, I am 18 now. I have been on the pill in the past but I have a very hard time remembering to take it. My current b/f and I have sex regularly but neither of us really likes the way condoms feels. I like the feeling of him cumming ... (75 words

I'm attracted to younger teens... is this sick?

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 18 and I'm from the UK. I've suddenly become attracted to younger teens, 13+. Is this normal? I'm scared because I don't want to turn into a paedophile, do I need to seek further advice for this? Has anyone else gone through the same thing as me? I'm also attra... (119 words

What to make of this madness?

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I was recently a part of a indirect matchmaking. A great friend of mine introduced me to her friend. It was kind of awkward because there was a lot of pressure from friends for us to be together and to advance faster than both of us were ready. We are both old-school style with ... (261 words

I used my best friend's sister for sex and now she's pregnant! What do I do now?

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I started messing around with my best friend's little sister, and now she is pregnant. I have been friends with the guy since elementary school and I have a girlfriend who is always in college. I LOVE my g/f and planned on asking her to marry me on her graduation day. I ... (121 words

He told me he'll never change... does that mean he doesn't love me?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for like 9 months. I love him so much but we always fight, I know fighting is normal but not all the time.. he has a really bad temper and he gets mad for everything and he always causes it. I don't know why he does that when I don't do none of ... (138 words

I am scared of turning 30 and never having no boyfriend...

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am scared of turning 30 and never having no boyfriend ever and never even got my first kiss Am I a joke?... (23 words

I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity.

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity. My mates go on about sex all the time. They say how good it is and how much they enjoy it. When I'm thinking about loosing my virginity I feel confident but when I nearly did it with my ex boyfriend I backed out ... (181 words

My husband doesn't want to have biological children and I do!

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - My husband doesn't want to have biological children and I do. What should I do?... (15 words

How can I not freak out when we go to these parties and see so many naked/almost naked girls?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I know problems like this must have been asked like a thousand times before, so I apologize. I'm in college and next week is the university's anniversary, so a lot of activities and competitions will take place. A lot of parties, etc. And there is this one competition that... (396 words

Is he making me depressed too?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I asked this question before but I think I need to go into more detail. I met this guy online about a year ago and we have talked every day since then, I really like him a lot but he lives in a diffrent state. We have never met in person and I'm super happy when we talk but ... (141 words

All these questions are rattling around in my head...

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Why do you think people are so unwilling to come to terms that things are not the way they were? Why does not having that person in your life hurt so much ? Why is it that some people need to hurt other people and then go to others saying they don't know why things happe... (110 words

But I love her and want to be sexually with her. How can I make her understand that?

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - When I was 17 I was living a wild life, drinking, drugs and lots of sex. After my parents kicked me out I moved in with my uncle, got into a good drug program and joined a church group and took a purity pledge. I have dated girls since but never intercourse. I would always be ... (165 words

Worried army wife!

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is in the army and was recently deployed. He went at the begining of February. It is the first time he has been away since we have been together and when he first left he called me regularly every few days, but I have not heard from him for three weeks. I do not ... (125 words

I keep going back and forth with him and don't know what to do for the best. Help!

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have been with this guy for 8 months now. Since the first month I have been back and forth about whether I should be with him or not, despite the fact that we got along really well, he treated me well, etc. I found him to be really needy and I broke up with him. His 2 year o... (290 words

How do girls masturbate? I'm not really comfortable with sticking stuff in my vagina yet.

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and I don't really masturbate. I’m not sure how to. Is that weird? Is that bad? Me and my boyfriend are doing a lot of stuff with hands. This is the first time either of us have gotten this close to another person before. We’re around the same age and... (214 words

Was I right to leave my emotionally abusive ex-boyfriend?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I went out with a guy on and off for 3 months. We spent so much time together and he was so charming. After the first month, things degraded and we argued a lot. He gave me silent treatment lots. But we always made up. Then one night he embarrassed me when he dumped me on a ... (713 words

I feel like a sinner and I don't know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - I feel so so dirty! A man on here helped me with one of my problems and we got chatting and he said he'd help me with any other problems. Anyway he started talking sexually and I did too cos I was so unbelievably horny but now I feel so dirty and used and just eurgh, I'm ... (74 words

I feel disadvantage !! I feel like I'm not growing up at all !!!

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'm 16 and I feel I'm very innocent. I don't drink, I 1st kissed at age of 16th, I never dance with girl before, I never been on an airplain and I'm a virgin etc. I've seen many of teenagers doing something fun and enjoying thier lifes. I feel so disadvantage and ... (72 words

Help! I'm torn between two girls!

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, well here's the deal. I have a girlfriend and she's great to me but I think I've fallen for someone else. The girl I like is very very pretty (I've seen pics and videos of her) and has a sense of humour and but we've never talked before. She lives nowhere near me, I think ... (176 words

Pull out and pray!!!!

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok I had sex with my girlfriend we only had sex with out a condom for like 3 or 4 minutes then we used one. What's you opinion on the chances of her getting pregnant? Her period was 3 days before this. ... (44 words

I'm afraid I hurt his feelings...

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hey, there is this boy I've liked 4 ages and we used 2 be quite close. I still see him often and the other week, my friend asked him if he'd go out with me. The thing is, we were surrounded by people and I'm really shy so before he could answer I said no. I felt really guilty ... (117 words

Why is my life so miserable?

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - I just can't handle it any more! It seems like there just seems to be dozens of more crap by the day! My life has always been complicated and hard. I hardly know any of my family including my brother who to be honest has broken my heart and the rest are horrible and have hurt ... (131 words

Is it weird to fancy someone so young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - In a nut shell was with a guy for 3 years, he treated me like shit, you name it he did it!! Met a guy thats 18, I'm 22!! Fancy him like mad but he's four years younger then me, is it weird to fancy someone so young?!... (49 words

My life is going from bad to worse!

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13 April 2009 (F age - Hi, my life is going from bad to worse. I am the wife with the text cheating husband. You might have been following my story. Well I discovered a couple of weeks ago that he's had a pay as you go mobile for the last 8 months after I thought the deceit was all over haha. ... (399 words

Some questions for you to answser about a friend I'd like to be more than a friend!

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I think I love this girl. She's a close friend. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel since her boyfriend just broke up with her after almost two years. The thing is, her ex boyfriend is one of my best friends too. I haven't talked to him since right before the break up ... (163 words

Silent treatment and no answer. What do do ...

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have currently developed feelings for this guy that I've known for around four years. Things have started to develop with us but we haven't had intercourse with him. Even though we both want to do things, afterwards I feel like he's given me the silent treatment for a few ... (77 words

I like her but I am not attracted to her? Am I trying to change her?

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Okay so I'm seeing this girl. She's not usually what I would go for.. Like she's really cute. Maybe a 5.9/10 on my scale. I usually date 7/10's and up... I'm involved with this girl because I'm looking for someone to share my time with and someone who really understands me. ... (273 words

I need to quiet my mind, or...

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13 April 2009 (M age 51-59 - Ug...I can't believe I'm even asking this. My GF and I are in our late forties...certainly old enough to not play games. My GF has taken a short vacation, for which I am happy for her. She works hard and deserves it. My concern is... On the day that she arrived (in a city ... (369 words

Should I play him at his own game? Tease him and make him chase me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my friends have been hanging around with this group of lads for quite a while now and basically one of them is what you would call the stereotypical bad boy, good looking but he knows it, cocky and is so persuasive and convincing. The thing is Ive kissed him and gone a ... (198 words

I cannot move on as I love her with all my heart and will wait forever for her to come back.

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - hello, im in the army and started a relationship about 6 months ago, and everything was going great. However after 5 months my partner fell pregnant totally by accident, and everything changed. she already has one child and i treat him fairly and had a lot of fun with him ... (278 words

My husband swore this was the first time he cheated. Do I give him a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - My partner of 10 years and father of our 2 children,youngest 6months old has been sort of offhand with me for the past few weeks. He came home tonight and blurted out he had been seeing a co-worker for the past few weeks and has finished with her as she began to come on stro... (240 words

Please enlighten me on BDSM

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has recently told me he's into BDSM. I'm completely open to it, but I've never done anything like it, handcuffs maybe but that's it. When the day comes that we decide to do this, I don't want to look like an idiot ha ha. If anyone could give me any suggesti... (75 words

Do Virgo men take an awfully long time to open up and trust women?

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13 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been in love with a man since last summer. I made my feelings towards him fairly clear but at Christmas he said he could only offer me friendship, despite the fact that he was sending messages to indicate he wanted more. I decided I would develop/deepen the friendsh... (293 words

Should I take a sabbatical from all men?

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my current boyfriend for almost two years, he has a lot of problems and growing up to do as far as his own life is concerned and I got tired of waiting around and so I told him I was going to start seeing someone else. After having dinner with the other gu... (257 words

Does he REALLY only like me as a friend? I can't get over him!

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've liked him for almost two years. I think he found out that I liked him (`cause everyone else knew). He keeps on staring at me and when we talk he always puts his arm around my shoulders. There was this one time where he had his hand around my shoulders and he asked me ... (495 words

G-spot problems!

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've learnt all about the female G-spot, and my current boyfriend has managed to find it (hooray!), or at least i think he has!! When he touches a certain part, it feels better than anywhere else, which is why i'm assuming it's the g-spot, but it really seems to press on my b... (130 words

How do pop the question to my pregnant girlfriend?

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - i love my girlfriend alot and we just found out she is pregnant and i want to ask she to be my wife but i am not sure when or how to ask her i have been thinking about this for a long time... should i... (46 words

No foreplay and no condoms!

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13 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - No foreplay and no condoms! I have just started to sleep with my guy - but he seems reluctant to give me any foreplay! Also he says that when we do have sex he doesn't like using condoms!! - I am confused with what to do - as I love him but am unsure if he loves me as he seems... (65 words

Is he making me depressed?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - i met this guy online and we have been best friends for about a year now and we talk everyday and i really mean everyday and im super happy when i talk to him and im my normal self but when we arent talking my friends and family think im depressed and i havent noticed it until ... (91 words

I've never felt this way about anybody. Am I in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hockay, so, classic one this, and if I'm a bit vage tell me because I realy hate talking about my emotions and myself generally, but anyway... I've known someone for a really long time now and we used to argue and be at each others throats all the time, but about a year ago I ... (1090 words

Why do I hate my boyfriend masturbating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - This may be a very unusual query but ANY advice would be helpful! My long-term boyfriend (known each other for 5 years) has a rather strange view on sexual matters. When he gets very depressed (for instance, when we have a big argument), he sees masturbation as a way of feeli... (315 words

My married man's wife is pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am 24 years old and have been having an affair with a 33 yr old married man from my small community for over a year now. I just found out that his wife is pregnant. I have tried to end our relationship but I always find myself drawn to him. A friend of mine said that I sh... (91 words

I feel so used and hurt and cannot believe he didnt really value our friendship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - YES, YES! I am finally admitting it, I NEED HELP! I met this guy (online) about three and half years ago. At the time I was 'kinda' involved with someone else and he TOO had 'designs' on a chick. We hit it off immediately -sharing same sense of humour etc and would always end... (836 words

I like him, but he's a player. What do I do?

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and has straight black hair, and ... (199 words

How do I find more independence when my boyfriend is away?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of nearly a year and half has gone away for a week, and i miss him terribly. I've found myself doing nothing, just feeling sorry for myself. How do i create more independence in my relationship, and stop myself feeling so bad when he's not here?... (51 words

How do I get out of our engagement? He's not the one anymore

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for exactly two years and one month now. I'm nineteen and my fiance is seventeen. Although he's only a year younger than me in school terms, he's just a really young guy in his graduating class. Anyways, just recently have I come to realize ... (590 words

Has anyone had a break up after a long time and felt like this?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, just wanted a little moan again. I'm so fed up of feeling sad, and worrying about things. I split with my bf five months ago, and although I don't want him back, I miss being in a relationship. He's moved on fast, which he's entitled to do, but I feel so low. After five... (126 words

I would like to have my parents' blessing, but how do I tell them about this relationship?

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I come from a very religious family (my father is a pastor) I am a youth pastor. Just a little over a year ago a young girl joined our church she was married to a very abusive man and had a 1 yr old son and was pregnancy. I helped her leave her abusive relationship, help... (194 words

How can I heat things up? Help

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - my guy and i have been together for 2 years and a half now . we love each other so much have sex almost 3 times a week sometimes more . but i feel that our sex life is starting to be boring , same old same old. we have a little foreplay in the beginning and then just have sex... (116 words

Ribbed condoms?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Do ribbed condoms make a girl "loose"?... (7 words

Longing for the love I once had and want to have a family.

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone,I have a boyfriend who I have been with from I was 14,but when I turn 16 I was on a plane to the us. I was so said and hurt for leaving him down there and I always remember the last time I saw him he was crying so much. I came up here thinking everything was goin... (282 words

What is she thinking? It's really confusing me!

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi there. I recently split with my ex of 3 years 2 weeks ago. I am 27 she is 22. It was her decision but we had a long talk and decided it was for the best as we just seem to have "grown apart". However i was in fact devastated by this and spend days feeling pretty low to sa... (390 words

Help...sex problem: it hurts when he goes in

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - i've been with my partner for 2 years now but i have a problem during sex , it hurts so much when he tries to go inside and only part of his penis would go inside . when he tries to finger me with one finger .. it hurts, and i know for sure i'm not virgin . what is the problem ... (66 words

My gf wants me to choose between her or my family (with my handicapped brother)

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I wonder if you guys can help me on this matter. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we've started to talk about marriage and moving in together. I currently live with my mum and my twenty year old brother who is in a wheelchair. I help my mum care for my brot... (173 words

Now I'm scared I could be pregnant.

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 18, I met him through my friend from school whos dating his best friend (she's 13, he's 17). We've been together 6 months now, and he's never asked for anything sexual at all. My parents have met him and approve and really like him, he stay... (364 words

The test first showed negative, but then positve. Am I pregnant?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - So i posted a question a couple days ago about being pregnant and i took two tests. The first one i took waited two minutes and nothing happened. When i looked at it about 2 hours later it was positive. Then the next morning i took another and within the first two minutes it s... (125 words

We have right good time, but his visit to my home town is just a "flying visit"??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Last year I got back in contact with someone I knew years ago. We live hundreds of miles away from each other so have mostly spoken via the net, phone and text. We have both admitted that we are attracted to each other. And have seen each other once or twice, I was invited to ... (288 words

What is a "courtesan"?

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - what is a courtesan?... (4 words

I just don't know how to tell him that I would love to marry him some day

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - So my boyfriend and I were recently talking about marriage and I said some things I now wish I hadn't. I admit I was kind of trying to lure out of him his feelings on the topic (in general) and I kinda had the impression that he didnt really want to get married ever. So I sa... (243 words

We broke up after we had a three-some. I felt so disrespected by him.

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi guys, My fiance and I went out last night after having a 3some with another woman the night before (his idea) We went to a bar and he kept reacting around a certain girl who was out. I asked what was wrong as he kept gasping, stopping still and holding my hand tight aroun... (194 words

What kind of friendship is she looking for ?

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - hello people ...i broke up with my gf 2 weeks ago because it really had no future and i had a strong reason...she is and will always be the most special person for whom i care a lot in my life.... she is really sweet and very understanding and wanted to keep the friendship at l... (295 words

How do I ask him out? What do I say to him?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - this boy has asked me out and i have known him most of my life, he is really nice but until now i have only seen him as a friend, so i said no. but the problem is i think im in love with his best friend and have liked his best friend for more than a year! i dont have the guts... (133 words

My bf is 7 yrs older than me and I know it's illegal for us to date. Is he worth it?? Please read xxx

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - i am currently going out with a 21 year old and im only 13 (he was 20 when we started seeing eachother) the thing is he hasnt pressured me into anything and ive never felt this way before. i know about his past and everything ive spoken 2 his cousin n most ov his family and ... (364 words

I'm 17 and I'm a sex addict

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - ok im gana get down to the question i love having sex i just do its a part of me but am i over doing it i mean i wana have sex 24/7 im an addict i need a woman's oppinion how do i stop cuz i wana have sex 24/7 with my fiance all the time and im only 17 yes i have a fiance @17 ... (80 words

Are all guys like to have skinny girlfriends?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - just looking for body advice.. Im 61kgs and probably around 165 cms maybe a bit taller. Im not fat, im curvy. I like my bum i like that i have one. The only things i dont really like is my boobs, there a bit small but im not that phased. The thing is my bf is always saying t... (154 words

Is it wrong to like being a tease?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - is it wrong to like being a tease? I used to have very low self esteem and guys would use me but as i have grown up i am a more confident woman. being honest, not trying to sound like a snobby bitch but when i go out clubbing i feel like i can get anyone i want now. Guys are... (135 words

I am so infatuated with my sister in-law.

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I am 32 male, married and love my wife to bits. she's also 32. since We fell in love nearly a decade ago we have been together all the time spending both quantity and quality time together. I have never ever, even once looked at any other woman with any interest at all. It ... (279 words

Is her love for us fading out?

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I've been dating my partner now for 4 1/2 years we have a lovely little boy of 2 1/2 years. Over the last 6 months things seem to have changed dramatically as we hardly ever see each other. we live together but are lucky to spend a few hours a day together. I moved out for 3 ... (169 words

Is there a way to salvage a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - is there a way to salvage a relationship once it has gotten to the point where the person your with is continuously disrespecting you? my boyfriend is always calling me a slut, whore even a cunt. He is overly jealous and tries to make me feel guilty for going out with friends. ... (247 words

Ideas for our one month anniversary please!

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi guys me and my new boyfriend has been together for about a month and i am looking to celebrate a one month anniversary with him, i dont have any clue what to do for him or what to buy for him can u plz help with some advice. thank you... (51 words

Is using mirrors during sex fun?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Do you use mirrors during sex? How so? Is it a fun experience to have sex in front of a mirror or mirrors? What makes it fun?... (27 words

Should I tell him, or just stay away from their business?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - i like this guy whose girlfriend is most likely cheating on him he asked me advice but ive known the girl for 2 yrs she's never stayed in a relationship for long should i tell him or just stay out of it I really don't want him hurt.... (48 words

What do you guys think? Do I no longer want boys?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a really complex situation right now. ok, I had an ex for 10months but we dated back in high school (the senior years) its been almost 2years since our break up, but during that time we'd use to flirt and always looked like we were going to get back with each other. I u... (431 words

I am deeply confused and in pain. What should I do?

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I was Involved my a wonderful girl for around seven months.when we were first dating she confessed to me that she was still married with her long time boyfriend. It was an agreement between them two so she could get her green card.she told me that from the bottom of her hear... (232 words

Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has been with 2 people coup... (350 words

Mum had an affair, and possibly still is.

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13 April 2009 (M age 26-29 - About 5 months ago my mum had an affair with my dads friend. My dad was furious when he found out and extremely upset, my mum sounded like she wanted to leave him completely for the other guy. I found all this out gradually while overhearing their arguments, and unfortunately ... (434 words

Best friends like the same girl. need advice

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok i have been talking to a girl, who i will refer to as L, for the past 4-5 months. We frequently have very long and interesting conversations through IM and texting (different colleges) and we have hooked up several times. A few weeks ago L began talking to my best frie... (320 words

Pulled out during orgasm and ruined it for me. Was I wrong for getting mad?

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13 April 2009 (F - I'm not sure I was totally in the wrong in this situation, so please just let me know what you think. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were having sex in the morning and right when I was orgasming, he pulled out and ruined it all for me. It felt like he was just taking all the good... (226 words

My boyfriend, or the bit on the side? I like them both! What do I do?

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I really don't know what to do. I am in a relationship which i have been in for 7 years and when we first got together, he cheated on me several times with my ex best friend, since then there has been suspicious incidents regarding friends and situations. I was so angry at him ... (538 words

Three girls, all like this one boy. How do I ask him out?

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - i like the same guy as me and my 2 friends,but they don't know it. i want to ask the boy out but i don't want to hurt my friends feelings,they don't know i like him and i don't want them finding out the hard way. But i really believe i should ask him...help??... (60 words

14, in love, and both of us are ready for sex. But I'm scared of the pain.

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - OK, I don't know what to do... I started a relationship with this guy I've known for years about a month ago. So far, we've only had oral and manual sex. It's clear he wants to go all the way, but he's reassured me that he won't do anything I'm not comfortable with... (156 words

I love him, he's all I ever think about. What should I do?

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - Well im thirteen, and ive like this boy who's in my year at school for about 2 years on and off, and ive told him a few times but everything went awkward, but this time i told him and he was fine with it, and we were talking about it last night and he admitted he's liked me for ... (101 words

Sex and travel during pregnancy?

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi there, my wife is pregnant for about three months. Can we go abroad on August and can we have sex normally or it will make things difficult. Thank You... (33 words

My guy made me feel like I did something wrong. Did I?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Saturday night I went out with my boyfriend and 4other people he knows(1 being a girl). It was suppose 2b me and my guy at 1st but his man called wanting to go to the movies bringing along his girl. We get in the car and the plans have change. The 2nd couple wanted to go to a ... (868 words

There' so much trust broken. What more can I do than walk away?

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13 April 2009 (F age 51-59 - Not quite sure where to begin. I posted a problem about 18 months ago whilst I was undergoing treatment for breast cancer. My partner of then just 6 months was signing up to dogging websites etc and you guys offered me invaluable advice - Thank you! We are still together a... (291 words

Follow up: In love with 2 teachers.

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-gosh---struggling-under-the-pressure.html Please please please help! I am completely head over heels in love with 2 of my teachers! I have no idea what to do....these feelings are so strong. Can someone help me?... (39 words

He didn't come inside me, but yes, it was penetrative sex. Could I be pregnant?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi there, this is a question about the mini-pill Cerazette. I missed taking my pill for 3 consecutive days (weekend break and I forgot to take it with me, argh), then had been taking my pill for 3 days after I got back before having unprotected sex on the third day. Was this ... (87 words

I need to pull myself out of this heartbreak but I don't know how.

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I really need to pull myself out of this heartbreak and i dont know how. i'll cut my story really short all that i care about now is that i miss him and i dont think there is anyway back as he made it clear he has absolutely nothing else to say to me and i should get on with my ... (164 words

Is he saying we belong together as a couple?

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13 April 2009 (F age - I asked the man I have been with for 5 yrs if he ever found out that i was sleeping with another man what would he do. He told me that he would have to be gone. That any decent man doesn't share what he already has sexually. is this his way of saying we "belong" to each other ... (72 words

In love with my boyfriends cousin!

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Im falling hopelessly in love with my boyfriends cousin. Everything about him is amazing. His 10 years older then me, as in I am 21 and he is turning 31. But I cant stop thinking about him. We meet for coffee and lunch every week, he visits me, we call each other all the time ... (298 words

Confused..Scared..can't cry. Whats wrong with me?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I was just informed from a guy I work with that he told my supervisor whose a guy that im gay.the guy supervisor all hurt and I need to have a conversation with him. moving on... though I think the supervisor told the rest of my supervisors cause Ive had 3 of them crack ... (298 words

Addicted to the internet!

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - This has nothing to do with love or relationships, but I think i'm addicted to the internet!! I sound like a sad loser that doesn't have a social life, but i'm simply on it more because there's nothing to do, and I have no money. Especially bored because it's the Easter hols... (124 words

I'm 30 shes 40, and I want to tell her how I feel

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - I have been friends with an older lady, she is 39 and i am 30. We met at salsa classes and ever since the moment i saw her we have been talking. Recently, in the past two weeks we have exchanged numbers and started to text each other. She is single, not married and ... (251 words

Can people notice any smell on other people?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I always take my bath or shower immediately before bed but then during the night I do some self-stimulation and become quite damp. I am a bit afraid that I will have odor during the day. During the course of the day my underclothing may become damp a couple of times. Can anyb... (72 words

I think I'm in love with my best friend! But, we are both females!

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Iam a female i have a good friend female we have kissed on lots of occasions my feelings are getting strong for her lately we have a few fights. We went to Thailand together and things happened there. I think im in love with her I don't want to be a lesbian. help... (53 words

I just want him to be my best friend

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - my closest and best friend is in love with me but i dont feel the same yet i don't want to see him sad. i just want him to be my friend. am so confused... (35 words

The Police keeps harassing us because my ex bf violated parole

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - my now ex boyfriend violated parole months ago. he doesn't live with me, btw i live in bronx new york. officers keep coming here, they just left a few minutes ago. its now 600 am, they got here at 445 am. i have repeatedly told them the same information i know, but they keep ... (98 words

I really like him. Should I stop?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy who have seen a couple of times and he asked me out, i said no because i didn't know him very well but now i have grew strong feelings for him and i have began to like him. i have asked him out and he said 'dunno' and them people began to make rumours up about ... (94 words

My husband lost interest in sex because I look too supermodel-girly!

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - For the past 3 weeks my husband's been refusing to have sex with me. Everything I've tried didn't work - sexy lingerie, a romantic night in, massages from me, roleplay, wearing sexy bikinis - it all failed. He just showed no interest at all. I asked him why and he said it... (339 words

What is the suitable age to get into a relationship?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - what's the suitable age to get into a relationship?? I mean the time when " u should b in a relationship" without anyone feeling strange or talking bad about you. (such as parents n relatives) Pls do give sincere advices and I would like to hear your experiences. ... (58 words

I still love him but I don't know if I should take him back

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey I need help ASAP. My ex wants me back but I found out earlier that he tried to put the moves on "K" his room mate. She laughed at him when he bought her roses. So I think he only wants me back because she turned him down. But I still love him and don't know if I should take ... (70 words

Good looking guy!. Every one assumes he's got a girlfriend

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Can a god looking friendly guy have so many female friends but not girlfriend yet?i like this guy but i don,t he like me.he has ginger hair and blue eyes tall and every one thinks he got a girlfriend when he does not ... (44 words

My parents took my mobile phone and now I cannot contact my bf anymore

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - once when i joined in my college..i was very happy and i got a new brand mobile.and my number unfortunately spread to some gangs of boys..and they started like a good friend and finally they were torturing me saying that they would come in gang and rape me.. i was rather s... (284 words

We both love each other but I don't know if I could trust her or him.

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. But we broke up last week because we just couldn't handle us fighting all the time. We seemed t be fighting about the same stuff over and over. I was going to school and working too much and not spending enough time with... (131 words

Is my girlfriend being unfair by not forgiving me my mistake?

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for eight months. I love my girlfriend but, alas, I've made some stupid mistakes. Considering that our relationship is long-distance, it's been difficult on me as I'm a guy and had recently lost my virginity (to my girlfriend, and she I). In t... (426 words

Am I wrong to feel this need for our penance?

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Here’s the story… This happened years ago… So, I met this girl who was a little rebellious at first. She was flunking out of school and what not. I really liked her because she was herself around me. I feel madly in love with her. She was perfect with her flaws. We were you... (1013 words

I'm starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hello everybody... I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months now and we've already been through so much together... But, I think starting to lose my feelings for this girl but I'm so scared of breaking up with her because i don't want to hurt her and all her family lives... (73 words

What on Earth do I do about all this lying?

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Right. Very long story short.. I've been with this girl for 20 months (engaged since August)and everything was absolutely fine until.. January sometime. Basically, she went to University, not too far away, close enough that I can see her *nearly* every weekend. Since a... (461 words

Should I ask her about this other guy?

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13 April 2009 (M age 41-50 - Dear all, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now, and things are going pretty well. We get along quite well, laugh a lot, and have many things in common. We see there is a future for us. I must say that sex life is rather dull though (1-2 times a week, si... (797 words

Why do they do it?

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - why do so many girls get back with their ex's after they cheated on them?? i would never cheat, and think it is a very horrible thing to do, but why do girls get back with guys that cheated on them? how can they trust him?... (46 words

Torn between two great guys

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Im really into two different guys and i dont know which one to go with. They are in the same band and they are both very talented, extremely nice and supportive, and cute. Which one should i choose???? Guy 1 six years older than me mature sweet and supportive ... (239 words

Can anyone tell me what my problem is?

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - I'm a guy, i've been dating since i was 16, albeit poorly. I've tried to be every kind of guy, badass, nice, and in between. And everything else you can think of. All i want, all i've ever wanted, is a stable relationship. Something that, i can have for years and years on e... (235 words

I had fallen into a deep sleep but woke up because he had his hands all over me!

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi Guys, I'm feeling a little confused - A few nights ago I was staying at a friend's house, we were watching movies and having a bit of a drink, nothing too out of the usual. A few months ago he'd confessed to having a little thing for me, but as I have a boyfriend who I ... (300 words

I can't find his soft spots!

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13 April 2009 (? age 30-35 - Heya! My boyfriend and I are 15, we've been together 3 months, and we do not plan to have sex until we are married. That being said, do you have any advice as to how to really make him go crazy, he's found all my soft spots (in appropriate places, I mean) but I can't find his... (70 words

I can't stand to see him with someone else! Is this love? Or addiction?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - its almost a week that i broke up with my boyfren.. i have been in dis relationship for almost 3 and half years.. i loved him very much and we also had a very intimate relation.. but then he always doubted on me, was very possesive and abused me and even hit me a couple of ... (103 words

My bf takes forever to cum

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - It is really hard to make my bf cum.He can only come if he is on bottom.i need help.Is there anything he can take that will make him come easer... (30 words

What's it like the first time you see your boyfriend naked?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Girls respond… I have a good relationship with my bf. What is it like to see your boyfriend naked for the first time? What is it like to have your boyfriend see you naked for the first time? How can it be a good experience? What can be done to make sure it is a good experi... (65 words

I think I'm addicted to the sex

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for four months. The first two, we dated but the last two we decided it was best to be friends with benefits. The problem is, I think I'm addicted to the sex! We meet about once a week for it, and I always stay the night. It's not the sex that's a... (185 words

I'm back..why doesn't he make any effort to see me?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for around 6 months now. We had a great first 4 months, then I had to move to another part of the country. We've taken things long distance for the last 2. What confuses me now is that I'm back for a few weeks, and he hasn't made any effort to see me... (182 words

Why Is My Former Teacher Behaving So Strangely?

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - Why Is My Former Teacher Behaving So Strangely? I Contacted My Former High School Teacher After 5 Years To Catch Up. He Initially Answered My Email And Said That He'd Love To See Me Again But Then when I wrote back to him to set up a date and time to meet, he never replied. I ... (133 words

Id rather talk with a 46 yr old man instead of my 21 yr old boyfriend

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Well i'm 21 and i am attracted to this older man he's 46 any how i love talking to him about interesting things he's very intelligent. The problem is i have a boyfriend which is 21 and they live together. I don't know what to think anymore me and the older guy use to talk to ... (480 words

Can a guy hook up with a girl multile times and have no feelings for her?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Can a guy really hook up with a girl multipile times and have no feelings for her what so ever? like is this really true? Ive heard guys can not even care what she looks like and they have no feelings for them?... (43 words

What to do with the 2 boys I like .....

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - dear readers , im a senior in high school and im so confused i like this guy(well i like his image and he is all that i have ever wanted in a guy friend.) and he knows i like him, but i find it so hard to be myself around him,i lose my train of thought , i get tongue tied. ... (117 words

Is this real? He's my ex high school teacher

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - Back in high school I had this crush on one of my teachers. I had him as a teacher for 2 years. I tried not to think to much of it but I became really close with him. I found myself taking 3 periods of his classes just to be with him. I never thought anything would come of it, ... (523 words

I did what I had to do on facebook. What's next for me?

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13 April 2009 (M age 30-35 - There is this girl I like, this is the same girl from my other question, and she's been avoiding me a lot. I tried to convince myself that I could get over her, but I cant. She was my first love and I've liked her for a long time. Well I did something desperate to get the info... (219 words

Any tips for first time beautiful sex?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in love. We have not done it but will. How can I make our sex good, beautiful, enjoyable, and a wonderful experience for both of us? ... (44 words

Love at first sight and coincidence

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - What do you think about love at first sight and coincidences? How i met my bf was we were both coming from school, i was coming from high school night school and he was coming from college night school, we were at the same station and got on the same elevator, he was... (235 words

Confused! Is this love? Should I give him some space?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been going out with my bf for about a month now and a half, how we hooked up was him revealing his love for me and i gave him a chance finally. I have been hurt many times with ppl cheating on me and it is taken me a while to stop being scared of being hurt. But i have... (323 words

14 yo virgin and ready for sex with my bf. Mom said OK if I loved him

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - im a 14 year old girl and me and boyfriend have been together for about 6 months we get along great and always have fun together we just mess around but no sex every time we talk about it i say that im scared of sex and not ready he says that's fine and doesn't get offended or ... (154 words

What are some of the descriptors of making love and having sex?

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - How would you define the difference between making love and just having sex? What are some descriptors of each? Does one involve more touching or kissing than the other? Is it the amount of time spent? How would you suggest that I make doing it part of making love rather than... (56 words

Should I or shouldn't I, have sex with my ex?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've been contemplating this problem for a few days now, and still haven't come to a conclusion! I spoke to my ex-boyfriend last Wednesday (we don't talk much, he's in the US army) and we started off with the general chat, how everything was going etc. However, it then... (285 words

Single and loving it! Any ideas to make it better?

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am nineteen. I have been single for four months and four days now and have not had sex in that long. I have recently masturbated for the first time ever (about a month ago) and I have to say, I really enjoy it. But are there any techniques and "things" I could use from around ... (94 words

My uncle's a famous country singer..one my girlfriend loves!

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13 April 2009 (M age 51-59 - Hey im 17 and i need help. I have a famous country singer uncle and my current girlfriend (whom i have had for 1 year now) dosent know. The thing is that she is a huge fan, what do i do and how do i do it?... (50 words

The problem is I have begun to like him...a lot!

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - here goes, I'm a 24 yr old gal who likes this really cute guy and me and him were always talking online everyday, and we met each other two three times already.. he told me he finds me attractive and is attracted to me.even we met the first time he was really attached to me. ... (150 words

Help me with better sex for my husband!!

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13 April 2009 (F age 36-40 - hey,could you help me please!i wanna ask a question but i don't know how to do it,can u help me plz!!! The question is i'm 22yrs and i'm married for 4 yrs,and also have a child its a boy! my question is i just can't give my husband the best "ride" in bed. is their anything u ... (89 words

I like being with my boyfriend and find it hard to break up...

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13 April 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi I've been going out with this guy for 3 years now...but for the past year we have been falling out and things aren't what they used to be....he's very jealous and sometimes controlling but on the other hand he can be so sweet and fun...lately I like someone else and we'v... (128 words

What would you do if your bf had 4 women spend the night?

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - What would you do if your boyfriend had four females spend the night? I had recently gotten back together with my ex after a two no contact period. He had cheated on me in our relationship before and we broke up. Fast forward two years, we got back together and everythi... (156 words

I don't know if I even stand a chance with him!

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13 April 2009 (F age 26-29 - There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and has straight black hair, and ... (198 words

I love them...both.

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13 April 2009 (F age 41-50 - I've been married since last June, but we've been together since 2002. In 2005, I met a man. A great man. We fell in love so fast and effortlessly. But I was in a relationship and scared to leave for what I may have been giving up. Nonetheless, from 2005-now, we... (253 words

Divorced women..Did you find happiness the second time around?

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13 April 2009 (F - This question is for all the women out there who filed for divorce from their first husband (for various reasons) and went on to re-marry again later in their lives....Did you find happiness the second time around? I have heard that most second marriages end even sooner than ... (85 words

I really can't cope with the constant rejection!

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13 April 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi everybody. My problem is this, I am in love with a girl who is also my best friend. We are pretty much like a married couple and even refer to each other as husband and wife, i've never told her because I really don't know how she feels back. When we're together (we tal... (157 words

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