| A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Girls respond…I have a good relationship with my bf. What is it like to see your boyfriend naked for the first time? What is it like to have your boyfriend see you naked for the first time? How can it be a good experience? What can be done to make sure it is a good experience? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, daletom  +, writes (28 April 2009):
There are some good answers here!
When the time is right, I think most lovers WANT to see their partner naked, and be seen as well. At the same time there's a fear (not necessarily a bad kind of fear) when it happens.
Keep in mind that your B/F has his own insecurities about his body. Guys may not be quite as sensitive about this matter as girls, but it's still there and you can hurt him (perhaps even unintentionally) if you're not careful.
A
female
reader, Nat8124  +, writes (13 April 2009):
You know I think it all depends on how you feel about your boyfriend. I think if the feelings you have are genuine then your man could have the body of an elephant and the little 'man' of a mouse and it won't matter to you in the slightest. I happen to think boys bits are very attractive and I think once you get over the initial nerves of the situation, exploring slowly and patiently can be amazing. I think to make sure you are looking your best for your 1st naked experience you should eat well on the run-up, make sure your skin is looking its best and try and not worry about it. The worst thing you can try and do is cover yourself up - show him your body (slowly in stages - don't just whip everything off as its not very seductive) and be proud of it. Take your time - figure out what feels good and try not to rush it - a good first experience is much better to remember for the rest of your life than a bad one! Good Luck!
...............................
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 April 2009):
It's terrifying!
Even at 25, I still get that "am I normal looking" worry that he is going to point and scream and run away.
The way to do it is in stages. Do stuff like kissing with your tops off so you have both got used to the top half. Then next time do stuff with your skirt on by your pants off so you don't feel so vulnerable.
Boys bits are just not attractive. Sorry guys but they are not. So it's a bit scary seeing one for the first time, especially when they want you to do stuff to it.
But the thing to remember about all this is that being scared and nervous and then having it all go right is the best feeling ever. It's all part of the experience.
Just stay comfortable and if you want to keep your bra or top on then do. It's very personal and only you know which bits of you really bothers you so follow your intuition.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Depends on how your boyfriend looks naked!! It could be horrifying or very pleasant. lol.. i'm sorry.. i know that's not what you were looking for. Don't get naked all at once.. first time.. maybe the shirt.. and then later.. the bra.. and later later.. the pants.. and you get it i'm sure. I think you should split it into different days. Don't move too quickly, ok? And when he gets naked, don't stare at his junk.. you know? Continue to make eye contact so that he knows that you still care about him. You can stare when he's waking away ;}
...............................
|
