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51-59,
*airy Godmother
writes:I have been in love with a man since last summer. I made my feelings towards him fairly clear but at Christmas he said he could only offer me friendship, despite the fact that he was sending messages to indicate he wanted more.I decided I would develop/deepen the friendship with the hope that in time he might reciprocate my feelings. We have gradually become closer friends, offering each other help and support, talking and spending some time together (we also work at the same place). My feelings for him have become deeper and it is very hard for me to contain them when I'm with him.He is a Virgo and from what I read, very typical in that he is taking an awfully long time to open up to me and trust me. He seems to be 'sussing' me out before he makes any sort of decision but he gives me just enough to hope. He offered to spend a day with me last week helping me with something at home and we had a really nice time, working hard, chatting and then I cooked a meal. I gave him a kiss on the cheek when we'd finished to say thank you and he seemed pleased and touched. As he was leaving we went to kiss each other goodbye and ended up with a brief kiss on the lips and a hug.I would appreciate any advice about this because it is so hard to feel all that I do but not be able to show him or tell him. What do you think? Are there any Virgo men out there who could shed some light? Thank you!
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reader, Fairy Godmother +, writes (14 April 2009):
Fairy Godmother is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everyone for your answers. I perhaps gave the impression that I'm really into stars etc., which I'm not. Just coincidence that I happened to read something about Virgo men that seemed to mirror my experience, that's all. Really I am easy-going and fun-loving and take horoscopes with a pinch of salt and am not into tarot. When I'm with this man we always have a really nice time together with conversation flowing easily and lots of fundamental things in common as well as shared interests. Friendship is lovely and of course it's the bedrock to anything more but I would so much like to have more with this man, that's all.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (13 April 2009):
 I am a Virgo man, and I think you need to think much less about Star Signs and more about individual personalities.
Maybe he doesn't want a relationship with you because you focus on things like this, maybe his idea of a first date isn't palm reading followed by a bit of tarrot.
I'm sure you could keep pushing and pushing and eventually he will give in and have a relationship with you, but you do seem to be wearing him down rather than, that spark you get when you first meet some one.
As I say I am a Virgo man and fell in love with my wife very quickly indeed!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): HiI would just keep enjoying the friendship and let it develop at it's natural pace. Regarding the Virgo Man bit......It don't matter if he's Leo ,Scorpio, Aquarius....i would not run your hopes and relationships around horoscopes...with the greatest of respect i think everyone is unique and yes i believe we have some influence from the stars. Your relationship sounds all well and i really would not mend it if it is not broken.Just for the record i am female and October born...every Virgo man i have known are good friends, some reserved some sexy but all unique. via con dios.
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (13 April 2009):
 oh come on star signs mean nothing!
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