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*oldier1
writes:hello, im in the army and started a relationship about 6 months ago, and everything was going great. However after 5 months my partner fell pregnant totally by accident, and everything changed. she already has one child and i treat him fairly and had a lot of fun with him whenever i could. One day i was away at work and i got a text message explaining that she wanted to go on a break and that i should call her to talk, so i called her that night and she broke up with me, she explained that i hadn't done anything wrong and that she didn't like the way she was always nasty to me, i explained that it wasnt always and i never took it to heart. But she had made her mind up, i keep in touch as much as i can to find out about the pregnancy and how she is and she frequently says she wants to be close friends, i then asked about her reasons of breaking up with me and she gave me another, this was that she found it hard to raise one child and didnt know how to cope with a second, i asked wouldn't it be easier if we were together and she said i would only be home on weekends anyway. i feel that she doesn't want to break up with me and it could be hormone's but then again i know nothing about pregnancy. i cannot move on as i love her with all my heart and will wait forever for her to come back. can you help me? i dont understand....
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reader, soldier1 +, writes (15 April 2009):
soldier1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey, i visited one of my good friends and his fiance' which is her sister, nw they both say she always talks about me and visit's her family more often now im gone, so she must be feeling lonely, right?
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 She's taking space to figure out what she wants.
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