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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a good guy but girls don't give me a second take

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've asked a lot of questions over the past week or so, but I haven't received many answers. I've asked about how I should behave when I go out clubbing, I asked about alternative places to meet women, and I've asked why I don't seem to have any luck with girls whenever so many ... (172 words)

How can I be more comfortable with my body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've always been skinny, and I've never seemed to be able to put on any weight no matter what I've done; eating heavily, going the gym...you name it, my body just refuses to put on weight. While it's always bothered me that men and women, and even really young teenagers ... (203 words)

2 periods in the same month, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i been tring to get pregnant this month i had 2 periods in the same month is the normal or could i be pregnant ... (26 words)

She has feelings for he ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am not feeling well as I am writing this. I have just found out that my girlfriend still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. She has been hanging with him a lot lately and she has just admitted that she has now grown feelings for him again. We had been going out for 4 months. ... (206 words)

My horrific past is haunting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

- For a year I went out with my bf who abused me really badly, not only physically but emotionally and sexually (in which he raped me). I broke it off with him, so I guess hes always had anger towards me for that. For atleast a year after the break up, I had really bad night... (253 words)

I can't forget that staff sergeant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My marriage was really bad 5 years ago. I went online "just to look" I told myself and replied to a message to my personals ad. This man, a Marine who lived a few hours away from me turned my whole world upside down. I felt so alive and the emails and phone calls became my ... (451 words)

Casual sex made our friendship sour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About six months ago I developed a friends with benefits deal with someone in my dorm. We had fun in the very beginning and then she got attached to me and as much as I would have enjoyed being in a relationship with her I just don't think it would have worked out. It continued ... (585 words)

Our gushing sex life has now dwindled to trickles

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need someone a little open minded who won't judge my husband's past (just for my sanity please). Ok my husband is my best friend's cousin. He saw me at the place that she and I used to work. She set us up the day after my 27th birthday. I fell immediately in love with him... (331 words)

What should I do with my dad's cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My family is pretty normal, my parents are still together and I have a brother. We get on fine. But a few days ago, my mum goes away on business trips over night alot. My mum left for 5 days a few days ago. That night my brother went to a sleepover and I arrived home at about ... (140 words)

He keeps pestering me with texts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya guys... Okay, a friend from school who i haven't been in touch with a while, lets call her Amy, invited me round to her house [she's 18, and has just moved in with her fiance]. Me and another friend went round. While we were there, Amy's fiance's friend, lets call him ad... (249 words)

I like older guys because guys my age are too immature

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to like older guys? Like all the boys my age are so imature!!! They get on my nerves! So I like some of my male teacher but the 1's i like, flirted with me 1st so I just do it back to them. The boys my age are so annoying and dumb. Like ... (89 words)

My boyfriend seems deceitful

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a 4 month old daughter together. In the past 2 months I have found flirtatious emails exchanged between a couple of girls. My friends then told me they heard he had been cheating. When I confronted him about all of this he ... (185 words)

I am really wet but I feel that this isn't normal

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - it might sound horrible but i'm feling wet alot down below, i have had 2 children 1 c section 9 years ago and 1 natural birth 2 years ago. i do not feel normal when me and my partner have sex he says it feels great still but i worry is this normal or should i see a doctor... (59 words)

Moving out with the little income we have

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am currently living at home with my parents but am looking at moving out with my partner. we are extremely close and have discussed moving in together but i feel as though i cant afford it. anyway recently i found a property which is well within my budget and i want ... (186 words)

Told my teacher I love him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today in math class my friend and I was to lazy to get up and get are paper to our math teacher. Then the other was in there so we asked him to give it to her and he said no you guys are always mean to me. He said we need to be nice then he will. So I said "I Love You" to be ... (113 words)

My husband watches porn over me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do anymore. My husband and I met about 4 1/2 years ago. At first it was all roses and sunny days. But after the first year he started wanting other women. I almost left me when I was pregnant because he was bored with me sexually. After that he ... (212 words)

Why don't I fancy him? He's Perfect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so inlove with my boyfriend ,he is the sweetest kindest most loving person there is . He absolutly adores me .. we have been going out for three years now .. sounds blissful doesnt it? everyone envys my handsome loving boyfriend ,he is really tall dark and handsome :)... but ... (230 words)

Should I go back to my friends house after this "incident" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - last weekend somthing scarey happend at my best friends house i dont want to say much but the police came and my best friend didnt get hurt but her dad did somthing scarey to her mom. that same weekend on saturday we went to the movies (the accident happend sunday)and now s... (196 words)

How can I flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) age 26-29 - theres this boy i ave crushed on since year 7 and i really wanna flirt or throw hints as i tink he likes me to but i dont no how to flirt or anything please help me i dont no wat to do... (43 words)

Do you think my wife is having an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have caught my wife having text sex in the past, she is now secretly in contact with her ex, texting a lot whilst masturbating. I also discovered she has bought condoms, do you think she is having an affair? And what should I do?... (45 words)

We broke up over my friend. How do I get my ex's trust back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved from Michigan to Maryland 2 years ago to be with a man I truly loved. We were supposed to get married but it never happened. Whenever it was close we would argue and call it off. He travels a lot for his job or just to go back to Michigan to visit friends and family. ... (255 words)

My boyfriend's "ex" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's "ex something" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure. This girl my boyfriend used to have a huge crush on during high school is returning to town. I fear that she's more perfect for him than I am. Let me explain: both of them are Psyc... (574 words)

They are say I'm anorexic, but I'm starting think it's true.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13, and I haven't been on a diet long. A really short time in fact. My friends say I'm skinny enough already and think I'm crazy for dieting. It was just eating healthy and cutting back snacks, also with excersise at the beginning. But then one day, I missed dinner. P... (302 words)

Birthday question for the ladies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man and my birthday is coming up soon. The thing is, the gift I would like to recieve is a little out of the ordinary. I would like to ask my wife to give me the gift of letting me watch her get a massage from another woman. I'm not really interested in doing ... (166 words)

Is there anything you can recommend that I can do that is not going to cause me problems down the road?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age - I'm a guy in my late 40's and I have feelings for a girl who is 30 years old. I am training her and as a result we meet up a couple of times a week. I know that she likes me and we get on brilliant together but because of my professional situation I don't want to risk ask... (92 words)

There are times when my boyfriend makes me feel so miserable, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are so happy when we're together. but when we argue, it's a whole different story, he takes things out of proportion, and starts blaming it all on me, which obviously makes me feel really low. He shouts at me, he insults me and I end up saying sorry even if ... (88 words)

How can I make my wife swallow?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Ladies, I'm a married man of 2 years, and my wife is still not sure that she wants to swallow while performing oral sex. It creates a kind of vicious circle for me in a sense that I have a hard time "finishing" because the thought of her not swallowing is always in the ba... (193 words)

Prom is in 2 days but I'm terrified of dancing in public!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sort of vaguely related to relationships, so I figure I'd ask here anyway. I'm 19 and a Freshmen in college, my boyfriend is 18 and a Senior in high school. His senior prom is this Saturday the 25. I am, as his girlfriend, obviously going with him. I have a pretty dress and... (386 words)

I'm losing my appetite...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel myself losing appetite. Is this normal?? When winter comes I know I eat a lot but since it's getting warmer, I find myself eating little bits of food. ... (31 words)

Will our childhood relationship last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 14 and we are seriously thinking about moving in with eachother when im 20 and she's 19 are we crazy? Are we going to last that Long?... (33 words)

Can anyone out there, interpret my dream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Last night I dreamt I had a child with a guy I know, who refuses to talk to me (I in turn do not contact him), we were very close last year and after we fell out various issues (still these have gone unexplained) we do not speak anymore, also, he is laving this country quite ... (191 words)

Stretch marks!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've said this before but I'm going to say it again so that I can get as much help as I can get. I have stretch marks on my boobs, they aren't even big, only a size B and I'm size 10 and have been for a long time, so I haven't gained or lost weight. I'm trying bio-oil at the ... (207 words)

Not sure what do to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, here's the deal. There is this guy I work with that I am crushing bad over. We've known each other for going on 3 years and have always gotten along. He's had girlfriends, but I've always thought they were for cover. Then after he broke up with the last one, I found a video ... (305 words)

Should he tell her the truth or forget about her and move on????!!!!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Me again! This is another problem of my other best friend. I'll call him 'ab'. He loves this girl 'l'since last year. They're friends and he's scared to tell her the truth and he's afraid she'll never talk to him again if he tells her that he's truly madly love her. ... (80 words)

I just paranoid of being hurt again or do I have good reason to be as such?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for a little over 5 years and we have had our ups and downs as far as it goes. She has cheated on me in the past and I am still suspicious of things that she does, my question is am I just paranoid of being hurt again or do I have good reason to ... (65 words)

2 months, no luck. I obviously don't know how to act around women. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been going out on the town for about 2 months now. I've tried hard to go out and enjoy myself on a night without looking to find a girl. It's been pretty easy, but so far I haven't had any success. My friends only really go to clubs and it's impossible to strike up ... (175 words)

How could I convince her to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I live with my cousin she is 33 and has two kids but she is so hot and I'm 19. I've been wanting to have sex with her forever now. She likes having sex but just broke up with her man. I made this lie where some girl said I was a bad kisser so I asked her to kiss me to see if it ... (120 words)

My friend is desperate for a baby and is sleeping around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who wants a baby but she is 17 years old but she keeps sleeping with all kinds of guys so she will have a baby. What should I do, be a good friend and tell her not to do that or just stop talking to her?... (51 words)

Is this just a crush? I have a boyfriend but I can't get this guy out of my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a tricky situation. Been with my boyfriend for 5 years and thought I was perfectly happy, I'm very much attracted to him and love him, and we've gone through a lot together. Recently I've noticed there is a guy on my undergrad program and we really just click and I think ... (243 words)

I am wondering when is enough enough? Can a person ever change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for six years now, we live together and he has been lying to me. He has been talking and texting other women. Comments like hey sexy, hey beautiful. We have been through this before twice already and I am wondering when is enough enough can a person ... (146 words)

We're finished and I don't want him, but why does it bother me that he is now engaged and has a child with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am struggling getting over a relationship from 9 years ago. He was my first real boyfriend and I gave everything to him. I broke it off with him after a year when I found out he was hiding the fact he was looking at porn on the computer and wouldn't talk to me about it. He ... (182 words)

Should I get things straightened out and tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't get him out of my mind! The whole staring thing just won't let me. Right. Sorry about that. I needed to vent. Anyway, there's this guy at school, and I like a lot. My friends often thought that we were 'together' because of the way we acted, but we weren't. But th... (227 words)

Even although he cheated on me, now I just want him to hug me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey... I'm 14 and a 2 month ago I split up with my boyfriend who I had been going out with for 7 months because I felt the love wasn't there and I didn't care what he had to say. He wasn't very smart and didn't care to have a conversation about anything but day to day life. But ... (368 words)

I really can't get over him...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy I've know sine I was 4, really close friend, looked out for me, talked to each other about problems and he was really sweet and cute. afew years ago I found out that I kinda liked him...I didn't tell anyone coz I thought it was just gonna blow over but it... (275 words)

HIV test tomorrow and I'm really scared....

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im going for an hiv test tomorrow and im so scared i might test positive.my x bf was a player and he slept around,i found out he tested positive and ever since i have been scared.i have never had sex with anyone but him he is my first.please give me addvice im scared and im so ... (57 words)

Am I worrying unecessarily over a lack of affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! Me and my gf have been dating now for just over 2 months. Things have been going very well and we seem to really click. Although having dated girls before, this is my first real relationship and the same can be said for her, although she is probably even less experien... (560 words)

I left my friend when she needed me most. I want to rebuild it, but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to be best friends with a girl who was deeply troubled. She got more depressed over time. I helped her so much, taking her to see a counciler, listening to all her problems, helping her solve them - the works. But back in January I just couldn't take it anymore. She ... (224 words)

I thought it was just a stupid crush....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had this crush on my brother's best friend for years now. He's 18 and I'm 13, and he has a girlfriend so I know it's never going to happen, obviously. But recently I think I might be falling in love with him. I'm becoming obsessed with him, and can't stop thinking about ... (71 words)

I'm in a LDR but I have trust issues...what can I do about them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in a long distance relationship, which is hard enough on its own, but I have trust issues too. Its not just her, I've never really trusted anybody. With all this distance between us, my imagination runs wild about what is she doing. I love her, and from the things she tells ... (126 words)

Damage from dry humping...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are both virgins and recently were dry humping. It lasted quite a while, longer than we've ever gone before. The next morning, she had vaginal tearing and would bleed when she went to the restroom. Is it possible that we pushed too hard or went too long? ... (94 words)

Help! Who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, help me out on this. I am in a relationship of one year. We are okay together but my parents aren't okay with him coz they think someone else is best for me. Someone they know who is a family friend though he doesn't stay in the same country with us and we don't ... (266 words)

She dumped me TWICE, now wants a third shot, should I ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 28 year old man, I have been in this relationship for about 5 months. The first time she told me I wasn't her type. She told me she liked dark Skinned men and I'm fair skinned Half-italian half-spanish. She also mentioned she was missing her ex boyfriend a lot.... (184 words)

Caught in an emotional affair - now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice. I am in my mid 30's and have been married for 12 years. I have three children. My marriage has been rocky for years(high financial stress, low level of affection). I have never even looked at another man until a few months ago when I began an emotional affair ... (179 words)

Why do I still feel like this after leaving my abusive boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question which I've asked myself a thousand times..why do I feel sorry for myself for doing the right thing which was leave an abusive man which I've been dating for 4yrs..First of all I have kids who thank god have never witnessed anything..but everytime he does ... (277 words)

To be or not to be? A question on love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys I've posted a question about being in love before but I think that this is the final straw in my situation. Basically im in love with my friend. Its the first time i've felt this way and to be honest, its crippling me. She has no idea how I feel and im stuck abo... (203 words)

My boyfriend affair has shattered my world and I need to know how to pick myself up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunt's My boyfriend had an affair on me in may of 2008. I found out about it in January of 2009. It shattered my world, I am now trying to put my life back together and I can't seem to stop thinking about it every day and every night, how could someone who love... (434 words)

My wife thinks she is in love with another man yet our marriage is still good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My marriage is in trouble again. My wife had a fling last year with a guy she used to bump into while out clubbing, all very casual, but destructive and hurtful nonetheless. I gradually uncoevered the whole thing, and...I forgave her. She said she really wanetd to start afresh ... (359 words)

The way I look is holding me back in life!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've wanted one since I was 11, but its never happened for me. I've read through the other 'never had a boyfriend' questions and read the advice... I have plenty of male friends (probably more than female), and I am very sociable ... (316 words)

Married lover is blaming me for the destruction of his marriage!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know that there is a lot of dialogue on-line from women involved with Married men. I also know of the heartache most experience when it ends... My question is simple: has anyone been involved with a married man who swears he loves you and then suddenly blames you for the ... (356 words)

I turned her down so now she is telling everyone I'm gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, there is a girl in my class and we used to be good friends. We´d sit together and talk about all sorts of things. Then she told me that she loved me and wanted to go out with me. I didn´t fancy her, so I said ´no´ nicely, as I still wanted to stay friends with her. But sinc... (108 words)

My son is breaking my heart!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age - My son just turned 21, and simply has no time for me. Or should I say it is a real effort for him to go anywhere with me. This saddens me so deeply. I did the stupid thing and gave him everything not only money but so much love. His friends are far more important than me,... (106 words)

I'm too naive and I always seem to make myself to vulnerable to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had and on and off relationship for about 5 years. It started when we were quite young, so it was nothing too serious and neither were our arguments. But as it went on, just him breaking up with me and getting back with me when he felt like it. i just got sick of him, like he ... (422 words)

Infatuated with my married boss when I have a boyfriend too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and I have a boyfriend of three years now. I just did something I am not proud of at all, but at the same time I can not stoping thinking about it... I committed into someone's affair! He is my manager-38 years old--3 children.. What the Hell am I doing and ... (151 words)

I think I need to be single but don't have the guts to tell my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, I am in a 3 1/2 years relationship with my boyfriend, in which, I love still but than again it's becoming very lame. I feel bad to break up with him because he loves me so much... I decided to go away for College.. I live in Illinois.. moving to Cali for ... (122 words)

My ex has threatened to beat me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a massive problem!! My ex-boyfriend Jack has threatened to beat me up just because I added his present girlfriend on Facebook. But I also know that he is cheating on this girl. This girl, let's call her Shelby, has told Jack that I've said all this rubbish about how he ... (123 words)

Wishing I had more female friends to turn to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i cant seem to get along with girls(i'm also a girl)- for some reason they are just catty towards me. since i was little i just felt more comfortable around guys than girls. i try really hard to fit in but i still stand out and it bugs me. the only girls that can stand me are ... (101 words)

How can I encourage my wife to enjoy sex more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How can i get my wife to have a craving for sex with me? I realy love her but she doesnt want to give me anything. The sex is great when she eventualy gives me sex. She also never start the foreplay. What can i do?... (46 words)

I don't have much money but want to show him how much I care

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi this might be a little bit strange but i was looking for an idea of something nice that i could do for my boyfriend like an out of the bedroom type of thing. the thing is he's at uni and has to study alot and i have to work crap shifts so we dont have alot of money just ... (114 words)

Can anyone tell me if this is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - so what can i say, im a little confused and im pretty sure its over but i just want to hear others opinions on this matter, as it is rather confusing and frustrating. So ive been in a long distance relationship for a while now, everything was fun and amazing we talked every ... (251 words)

I have been out of the dating scene for so long I have no idea if he even likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have been out of the dating scene for a while now, mainly due to work and education commitments, so I recently signed up to a dating site. Now, I never thought I would ever do this sort of thing, so for me, it is quite a scary step. I am on the whole wary of the inte... (356 words)

Is it possible to tell if someone is trustworthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - in my life iv been back stabbed by a few people. like for example one friend kept asking me who my other friend liked and she annoyed me so much it burst out! then she told another girl. the thing im asking is how can one tell if a person is trustworthy or not? i mean they... (71 words)

Can anyone tell me what this girl is thinking?

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I hav this crush with this family friend. She's 17 and i'm 25. Well basically it's her who initiated and sort of pushed me to say my feeling to her. I didn't formally say that i like her (but we both told a story which is pretty obvious pointing each other) and... (1074 words)

Happy alone but being harrassed for my choice!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - All of my friends and new people that I meet tell me that I'm ugly, boring, and unattractive the second that I tell them that I've never had a boyfriend or even been asked out on a date - and people never fail to ask about this topic. I am very comfortable and happy with ... (123 words)

Worried I have cancer!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I realize that most people on this site are not doctors and I should get this checked out, but I am so scared. Maybe I'm getting upset over nothing, but I'm freaking out at the possibility that I might have cancer. What does it mean if your breasts are very badly swol... (321 words)

How can I let her know how sorry I am?

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23 April 2009 (M)

age - I'm in need of some advice a while back my wife found out i was having an affair with a co worker who was also married this is not the first time that i had been unfaithful each time with married women at the time my wife never knew about the o/w she now knows everything i have ... (431 words)

Confused and heart broken

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years and he told me yesterday he needs a break from our relationship. We've been fighting alot lately, mainly about money. We both have good jobs but he wastes his money on stupid things then asks me for a loan.At first ... (251 words)

I had sex with my best friend....am I a lesbian? I love her so much!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, im really confused... i am 17, and i am in love with my best friend who is a girl also... she is so pretty smart and makes me laugh constantly... i get excited when she texts me and i melt when she talks to me... we have kissed on numerous occsasions when we have ... (140 words)

Tried to impress my friends with my 23 year old boyfriend but they just got mad at me!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At School, My friends were talking about their boyfriends and Girlfriends and stuff. And my friend Melinda* look at me and was like "To bad you don't have one." Everyone kinda looks at me. and I smile. I said "what are you talking about? I have one." and They got all excited ... (413 words)

Betrayed by my co-worker over my flirtation with my boss!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was flirting with my boss leaving him hello notes and little candies now and then even jst stop by his office for innocent chit chat because I am attracted to him but I knw its wrong anyways my guy friend told me my boss told him about the notes and candy why would he tell ... (174 words)

Is it time to end this marriage?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Long marriage story...should we split and if so how can we make it on our own?? I've been married almost ten years we met the summer I graduated highschool we have 3 beautiful children. I'm miserable he is miserable but we love each other have fun together sex was awful but for ... (214 words)

Could my daughter be pregnant?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my daughter has had unprotected sex 4 days and 2 days before her period was due, she had her period 2 days after sex but could she be pregnant, i dont want to sound silly but my children are 21 and 18 and i really cant remember.... (47 words)

Effectiveness on Implanon contraceptive?

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23 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles I'm on the implanon contraceptive (rod in my arm) when i went on to this type of birth control the doctor told me it was completely effective and the risk of getting pregnant was something like 0.05% however im getting worried, I've missed periods(4... (116 words)

Does he like me back? Or are we just friends?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like one guy who is also my friend.. I even told him that I like him. He put me in confusion saying that "I can't discuss this thing right now.." and at that time he was confused too.. but still he didn't give any answer. Does that means he has some feelings for me? Or h... (166 words)

Eye glass fetish anyone?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know more about my partners fetish for women wearing eye glasses(not sun glasses).Do any other women have partners with this fetish,or are there any men who have this fetish?What is it about the glasses that do it for him!Also i don't need glasses and the glasses i ... (108 words)

Is my boss coming on to me?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boss and i spend alot of time together and have come very close, we tell each other almost everything and we even talk about sex,but recently he has been very flirty with me and rings me alot, he askes me personal questions that relate too sex, he says his wife doesnt talk ... (102 words)

Our break ups seem to be related to her monthly cycle

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - The first 4 months of our relationship my girlfriend was on the nuva ring birth control. She let me know early that she hated it and that she gained weight and lost sexual desire while on it. She is 24 and has two kids already from a guy who is barely in the picture and does ... (543 words)

Ex g/f still wants phone sex

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my seventeen year old ex girlfriend says that though we have broken up we can still have phone sex chats and masturbate and she said it will be only for personal pleasure ... is it ok to do it ? ... (40 words)

Feel like I'm being forced into sex stuff

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and so far I haven't lost my virginity. I want to be one of the few teens who actually save it but like 2 boys wantsz me 2 lost it to them and I keep saying no and they ask me non stop and some other boys want me to suck their ( you know what ) and they get ... (101 words)

Married a military man, and he doesn't seem to have time for me

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. A couple of years ago after a bad divorce I met a wonderful man in the Army. We dated and kept in touch via phone calls and email for about a year and a half. Finally, we decided to take a more permanent step in our relationship and get married. Within a 6 ... (366 words)

Husband wears women's clothes

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i wish not to say who i am at this stage i have this major problem i have been with my husband for nearly to years now and i am embrassed to say but he likes wearing womens clothing not in public i don't like what he is doing and i don't know how to get through this or what ... (87 words)

Why do guys ignore girls they're attracted to?

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23 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - do guys ignore the girls your attracted to even when she shows you interest . she even attemtps to be with you.. do you behave like this BUT WHY ?... (31 words)

Relying on each other, but not dating ....

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there such relatioship "relying on each other" but we are not dating??...when I feel sad, i think of him to comfort me....Am I relying too much on him?? We claimed to be friends and agreed just to stay like this at the mean time.... Sometimes I just feel that thi... (101 words)

I'm afraid that he's into stuff that's not me

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend had an adult friend finder account. i deleted it for him but i just cant get it out of my head what he did. also even after i deleted it i went on his computer and and found really wierd porn and pictures of alot older woman then me and him. im unerved and grossed ... (127 words)

I can't be with him, but I can't stop thinking about him!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Like I'm totally like this guy I can't be with. He is my soon to be stepbrother. He's 17 and so wonderful and cute! I know we can't be together but I can't seem to get over him. He (and I) flirt, usually unintentionally which doesn't make things any better. It makes things way ... (74 words)

Why do LDR not work?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with this amazing guy for a while and then he decided b/c he couldn't see me all that we couldn't be together. We were so happy until then. He lived about an hr. away and I had even planned to see him when he broke up with me. Why do long distance relationships not work?... (57 words)

It's great when we talk, but he doesn't have much time for me

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I've been going out with my boyfrend for about 2 years . I am 17 and he is nearly 20 , this whole year all he does is work and ONLY lately like the past few weeks he's hardly been talking to me , im always the one to call him , I always have to message him first or ... (122 words)

Should I go for the new girl or stay in my shaky relationship?

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a long term relationship (5 years) with a woman and I have recently met another woman that has given me all these strange feelings, i dont if you would call it love, but i cant stop thinking about her and im longing to be near her so bad its making me sick to my ... (113 words)

Do women like sensitive guys?

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey there, i need to know you girls opinion....folks around me told me that i am sensitive, do women like sensitive guys?... (22 words)

I'm losing interested in phone sex

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i'm loosing interest in having 'phone' sex with my honey; that is long distance at this time. He'll be with me in September and on though... But until then...I don't understand why i don't want to really have 'phone sex' with him. I love him with all my heart and ... (107 words)

Does he love me enough to stand up to his mother?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I need some serious advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years. During the third year of our relationship we had some problems and both of us were to blame. We broke up for about six months at the most and have been back together ever ... (475 words)

Is he interested or am I just thinking way too much?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so I saw my crush in the cafeteria today and he was talking with a girl and when I looked at them talking he was all smiles =( so I kinda got upset and hid myself behind a guy sitting in front of me, then I looked at him again and they weren't talking anymore, he stopped ... (303 words)

Can't let him go, but he has a g/f

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i have a crush on this guy, i practicly love him, for 3 years but he has a girlfriend. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. The problem is that i can't let him go. Whenever i see him i can't stop staring at him but when he looks i get embarrassed ... (101 words)

Digging for treasure with a blindfold on

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok , Im new to this , and I do feel ... very odd asking people I've no idea who are for advice on these ... very personal issuse . But Gotta swing the bat before that blood ball will fly don't I ?... Here we go . So , I am ... odd shall we say . And I am known in me own ... (437 words)

Why wont my b/f call when he says he will?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost 4 months now... we have liked eachother since i was twelve... he was 4 years older than me so we never persued it. Im 20 now, so we made it official. we expressed that we love eachother and he told me what was bothering him. He was ... (150 words)

I overheard my b/f tell his ex he misses her! Should we break up?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend, Dante, for 6 months now. When we first started seeing eachother he told me that he still technically "talked" to his ex girlfriend (they dated for 4 years) who lives about 500 miles away. When I found out I pretty much told him that I was out of ... (189 words)

My parents disapprove that I go back to China to be with my girl

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - One hundred per cent of background is Chinese but my Ma, Pa, I move to America two year prior when I sixteen. I hope my English OK. Two year prior, I left behind girl, my best mate. We knew us since before primary. She want me back in China and then to marry her. I want that... (98 words)

I don't like my body and this is killing me

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23 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hiya everyone! (I've asked a similar question to this before, but I think this one is more focused to the point.) I'm "at risk of becoming overweight" and I'm not comfortable with my weight at all. I'm a serious athlete and I'm losing fat fast. I think that if I keep training,... (206 words)

If we don't get married, do you think it will ruin the relationship?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age - First I want to give you a little background to help with your opinion. I'm 23 years older then my bj, he chased me for almost a year til I gave in. We don't plan on ever getting married or meet others family. Other then that it's norman (what ever normal is) We have been see... (202 words)

He says he doesn't love me but wants to do right by the children

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23 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi I am the mother of 7 children ranging from the ages of 30 to 8 years old. About 14 years ago I met my husband. I was a devout christian woman with 4 children then. I abstained from a relationship for about 10 years. Then I found myself going in a spiral downward I lost my ... (148 words)

Why does he need porn if he has me?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv'e just found out my boyfriend has been watching pornography and i feel betrayed and inadequate if he loves me like he says he does why does he need to look at porn?... (33 words)

I want him to show more affection!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months will be 5 in May... I love him a lot but I don't think he really loves me back. He's really nice sweet funny and everything I want.. the problem is he wont tell me he loves me, kiss me, hold my hand or anything. I've ... (117 words)

Want to get pregnant -- any advice?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and i have recently decided that we want to start trying for a baby. I came off my pill last month and we had lots of great sex, however i got my period the other day although it only lasted three days. This is confusing me as my periods have always lasted ... (154 words)

His brother pays more attention to me than my b/f!

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months almost 5 in May, and he wont hold my hand, kiss me, tell me he loves me, or anything. The most he will do is hug me. His twin brother gives me waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more attention then my bf and it's confusing me. Can ... (58 words)

Should I move to be with my LDR?

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a girl for two months, then she got out of the military, and moved back home..... to the other side of the country. We have talked on the phone everyday, sometimes for 3 or 4 hours. We have had some fights and arguments, and come close to ending it a few times, but we ... (213 words)

Why does penetration hurt now when it didn't before?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been sexually active for over 2 years now. I've only ever been with 2 guys, both my boyfriends. My current boyfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 months now. Penetration has started to hurt when we start having sex and I am wondering why? I am worried I may have ... (121 words)

Why do some girls like the bad boy type?

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I consider myself a "nice guy." I don't smoke, don't do drugs. Drink very rarely. I go to Grad School. Have a decent job, go to church every Sunday. I'm very detail oriented, I give flowers, candy, pay for everything polite, considerate, sweet reliable, responsible, sensitive, ... (120 words)

I want to work it out; I'm not sure he does.

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am under the age of 18 and my bf is 19 and we been together for 4 months. He told me that he will wait for me and that he loves me. But then he tells me that it's not going to work out and he doesn't know what he feels for me because I'm young and I live with my parents I... (123 words)

I don't know what things would be like if we DID start dating again.

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated this girl for a while, and I fell in love with her. She also fell in love with me, but she later dumped me because she hated how hurt I always was and she hated the pressure that my depression added to the relationship. It's been about two months.I've been feeling ... (126 words)

My friend's ex boyfriend has a crush on me

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I have a problem. There's this guy that I really like, and he's also one of my closer friends. But he dated my friend Cindy. See, I didn't have a problem with them being together, he didn't even know I liked him. But I thought that they both made the cutest couple (... (112 words)

I just want a girl that likes me and makes me feel special.

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im in highschool dont have many friends. Never really fit in with anyone. Most of my friends have moved away, droped out or just stoped being my friend. I used to be made fun of real bad in middle school and I was in lots of fist fights. Im 6 foot 2 and weigh 250. Ive never had ... (194 words)

My girlfriend slept with another guy... Twice.

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend slept with another guy, Twice. the thing is we started dating about seven and then we started arguing over petty things and they grew bigger. she suggested we went on a break then a month later suggested we get back together.at this point i suggested we kept it ... (310 words)

Frustrated guy with a hurt ego.

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so..i am a 16 years old athletic guy..actually i breakdance so i am in a real good body shape and no health problems etc..but the problem is my first time was with an experienced woman i guess and it was horrible..i got everything wrong i mean she was like 25-26 and when ... (236 words)

Is he over his ex?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am really into the guy in my life, we have both been divorced for over three years. the problem I'm not sure he is over his ex. Whenever anyone mentions anything about what their ex's did that ended the relationship he walks away. He seems sad if he says anything negative ... (74 words)

I have this guy at work that likes me but...

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have this guy at work who likes me alot he does most of my work for me and does his work he buys me lunch all the time we talk and he is fun but the only thing is he is about 320 pounds and black as the marker your lookin at..he keeps telling me he wants to be my boyfriend i ... (76 words)

I don't want to be like this

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please, Help me. I'm a teenage girl and haven't gotten my period yet. I hate wearing underwear and pants with zippers, buckles and flys around the waist. I'm just very sensitive around my stomache and "down there". Is there any thing I can do to change this? Is there some type ... (75 words)

My lover lives far away....

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23 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend lives over 700 miles away from me, and I get so lonely sometimes. He is really busy with school, as am I, and it feels like forever since I've seen him last. We talk all the time on the phone and online, but I miss him desperatly...Any ideas to help me stay ... (60 words)

Think I scared her off...How do I fix this?

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23 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 18 and theres this girl whose 16 on monday and who i realy like, who lives round the corner from me who used to speak with me on msn,one time i got her number on msn and we used to speak on there evrey day and i couldnt talk to her without gettin drunk and the first time ... (277 words)

I'm depressed about the end of the world in 2012, and my boyfriend thinks it's his fault

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need help with my problem.. My boyfriend told me about 5 months ago about the Nibiru/12/21/2012 end of the world theory where the whole world will be made over again. He told me about it without the intention of scaring me but he just wanted to tell me as it ... (304 words)

What were his intentions of contacting me?

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23 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with an ex a month ago. I got hurt as i really liked him and he was cheating and he wasn't the lovely guy i thought he was. We agreed on no contact as i never wanted to speak to him again after he had so little respet for me. Today i got a IM from him asking how i... (135 words)