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*arly72
writes:Not quite sure where to begin. I posted a problem about 18 months ago whilst I was undergoing treatment for breast cancer. My partner of then just 6 months was signing up to dogging websites etc and you guys offered me invaluable advice - Thank you!We are still together and I am sure that he is very much in love with me as I am him. It has taken me a considerable amount of time to build up my trust in him again but finally did about 6 months ago. But yesterday I came across something on the PC. He has advertised himself on a gay website. Now, two things - my partner says he has a hatred for gay men, as he was abused by a man as a child. I believe his story. He has done this sort of thing before and when I confronted him he says that he does it to relieve his annoyance and frustration. I said I would stand by him but he needs to get professional help. Secondly, he has a fetish for nylon and loves for me to wear stocking and tights for him.... which I do. My concern is that in his advert, he is asking for men to wear nylon for him. In my mind, if he despises gay men so much why is he associating that with his nylon fetish? I have started to believe he is definitely bi-sexual. He strongly denies this. I love him so much and just want him to be honest with me. What more can I do other than walk away?Thank you for taking the time to read this.xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (16 April 2009):
 He is not being honest, get him to tell you the truth by threatening to leave. If he cares about you then he will tell you!x
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