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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing a guy for four months. The first two, we dated but the last two we decided it was best to be friends with benefits. The problem is, I think I'm addicted to the sex! We meet about once a week for it, and I always stay the night. It's not the sex that's amazing or that I love him, I like him but not enough to be with him in a relationship, but I just love the feeling of closeness and affection. I crave it! I feel like a junkie, like a need a fix. I feel happy for a few days after I see him, but then I feel really bad the rest of the time until I see him again. Does this sound like a problem? I'm so depressed without him and all I can think about is when I see him again. Has anyone ever felt this way? Is there something wrong with me? What should I do?!!! Help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): You are not addicted to sex by your own words. You are just plain lonely and in need of a full-time partner. Its that closeness and affection you crave the most, and that, of course, comes with a regular relationship. You need to find someone that is interested in more than just a friends with benefits setup.
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