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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex is annoyed that I didn't try to stop her leaving!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and my girlfriend broke up with me. Yeah, I am heartbroken and she didn't tell me why she wanted to leave and I didn't ask because there wasn't really any point. Well I didn't try to stop her from leaving because if she wants to do this then I'm not gunna try to ... (149 words)

Can someone live in a marriage yet think of someone else the whole time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Can someone live in a marriage and think of someone else the whole time? Like someone was in love in his teens and never truly forgot this, so he or she dreams about him the whole time, secretly or in the back of his mind? I think my mom is doing this, and it really freaks me ... (102 words)

My girlfriend won't give me blowjobs any more...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right I'm new to this but here goes. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years, we have regular sex (almost every day) anyway about a month ago she said she's no longer going to give me blow jobs, I asked why and she said she doesn't like it any more because of the ... (139 words)

Bad things are happening because you don't follow your destiny. If you would, things would fall into place. Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I have these really strange coincidences, and I don't know what to do with them. They are huge, and I can't just look away. But I'm not a religious person, yet I don't know what to think. Also my life is really crazy at the last 10 years, and some people think I might be ... (93 words)

How do I get over unrequited love that supposedly won't be unrequited in a matter of time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get over unrequited love that supposedly won't be unrequited in a matter of time? THe scenario is similar to a Romeo and Juliette Story but twisted. I am in love with someone that was also in love with me for a period of time. It turns out that legally he is not s... (613 words)

Virgin with experienced partner

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and am a virgin. I'm going to have sex next week with my experienced partner. Any tips? I don't want to disappoint her.... (27 words)

Advice please... Does size matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do good looking guys fancy plain looking girls? Do tall thin guys fancy small heavy girls because I am 5ft2".... (21 words)

In love with my best friend but she doesn't feel the same way. Should I still be friends with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm guy who has fallen in love with his best friend (female). We've known each other since grade school, and are in our 20's now, so its been over 10 years that we've known each other. I've always been attracted to her, but never really felt anything more than ... (339 words)

He's a control freak!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i've been dating my boyfriend for a long time now. And it's just getting worse and worse. In the beggining everything couldn't have been more perfect. But now it's like he's a control freak. Everytime I want to go out and hangout with my twin sister he tells me to be good. ... (203 words)

Which one is the one for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so, last october the girl i liked (lets call her X to make this easier) told me that she liked me too, but then three weeks later X said that things were too weird and that we should just remain friends. We both moved on, or so i thought, as i went on to like another girl ... (489 words)

Was he avoiding saying I love you back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend 6 years in january we had an argument lots of shouting and things said i didn't mean. A few days later he said he wanted to end it cuz after the row his feelings towards me had changed he wanted to be with me but just didn't feel the same anymore. ... (231 words)

How can I ask him out he knows I fancy him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - helpp!! ok i used my friends bebo to tell this boy i rly like tht i fancy him so now he knows and its not awkward we still talk to each other normally but i really want to ask him out but im scared hes gonna say no n things will get awkward help me... (59 words)

Could this mean I am pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I had unprotected sex last tues, it was BAD sex and neither of us came BUT here i am 8 days later with cramps, dizzy spells, tirdness and temp + headache. could i be pregnant? ... (45 words)

How does he feel about me?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Helloooooooo :) There's this guy in my school, he's in the year above me but we go to a drama club together and we get on really well. I started liking him alot and decided to tell him since I couldn't really hold it in. He said he though I was amazing and stuff but he just see... (248 words)

I love him..but I feel I'm waiting for nothing!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and i had real intense passion. I love him still . But as far as being together we never work because he isnt ready 4 commitment! Hes 30 im 26. Two years we were together and no one has made me laugh so much cos he so clever and cocky at the same time.and he ... (184 words)

I have no life because of him and think I am being brainwashed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so seven years ago I met the man of my dreams. Total charmer. He went out of his way to impress me. But things turned south very quickly. For instance, every time I missed his phone call he would go crazy. He wouldnt talk to me for days. I would call him and text him and ... (604 words)

I love him and I wish I didn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok thankyou to anyone that can help! I swear i've ruined my life. I don't know how to get over him! Thing is ive liked this lad nearly 2 years now and yes all through this i thought he liked me...so did afew others but he doesn;t and hes tol people he would never go out with... (474 words)

STILL in contact with her! What now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age - It's finally happened. I am the woman whose husband has had a 'text affair' with a colleague. It all stopped last August and I was confident it had all finished. His emails to her (which he doesn't know I can access) were all above board and work related. He showed me his ... (261 words)

Homage to a woman's body

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) age 36-40 - How can you pay homage to a woman’s body? How can you pay homage to her body when it is clothed? How can you pay homage to her unclothed body? Ladies how can a man pay homage to you and your body? Is sex a good way of paying homage to a woman and her body? How can s... (84 words)

Kindred spirits? He's already got a g/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a bit confused after getting a telephone call out of the blue from someone I regarded as a friend . He called me from work to say " that he thought we were kindred spirits " and wanted to give me his mobile phone number . He has a girlfriend , and I am unsure what to do ... (61 words)

Family already doesn't like my guy..is the strain too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a man, who is very business oriented, for about 2 months. We met completely at random and have an amazing chemistry. However, three weeks into dating I found out he is ten years older than me, a huge blow because I am in college. The main issue resides in ... (167 words)

B/F treating me like crap

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First off thank u to whoever reads this, I'm so sorry that it's so long. Ok straight to the point: Im 20, BF is 25, been together about 2.5yrs aside from a breakup inbetween for a few months. Things were perfect until Sept'08. He started acting really immature (ie. starting... (558 words)

X boyfriend troubles

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, this is complicated. My ex bf and I had a fight and he left. This has happened a few times. This time I told him I was seeing someone else(I lied) because I didnt want him thinking that he could leave whenever things got tough and Id be right there waiting for him to come ... (244 words)

Wanting to be with the love of my life.......a married man who won't leave his wife....

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old and I am so much in love with a 40 year old married man. This has been going on and off for 3 years. He is in love with me as well but he has a problem with starting a future with me. He does not want to start over --- house, cars, finances. I am single ... (417 words)

How do I show her what she is doing to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help! My girlfriend is so unthoughtful and un caring. She is "cold". I have been with this girl for over a year now. Before we got together she was all about hanging with her guy friends 24/7 and watching movies with them and doing things with them. Now that we are ... (432 words)

What does she want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of two years started seeing someone else, I found out by chance, I walked away broken hearted. I wished her well. I never called him or used his name. We all work in the same building. This was sometime ago, and I have tried very hard to get on with it, I have ... (423 words)

How do I get rid of her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner P for nearly 2 years,it was a typical eyes met, fell madly in love!! from the start P has had a female friend who within in a week of us getting together started texting him saying how hurt she was and she couldn't believe he was with someone else!! ... (279 words)

How do I REALLY turn him on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What really turns a man on, men tell me what you like for you woman to do to get you turned on, women please tell me what you do to turn your man on. I am trying to get ideas of what my man might like. Thanks to you all.... (52 words)

How do I approach him with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How would I know if I am in love with someone I know very well, but he doesn't really know me? He's this guy at school who a lot of people know, and I really want to be friends with him, but I just can't. I'm not sure if he doesn't like me, but he knows I like him. I know... (153 words)

I feel like he is using me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I'm starting to feel used monetarily. I want to talk to him about it, but I'm unsure of how to start the conversation. My question is how do you start a conversation that addresses this issue. ... (46 words)

Want to tell my friends that I am gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, well I'll cut to the chase, I'm gay, in love with my bf to pieces. only my best m8s kno, but I wanna tell other m8s but just cant find the right time/place/way to bring it up. and also i honestly have no idea of how my m8s wud react to it. any help? ta v much x... (62 words)

Hugging someone from the opposite sex in a friendly way vs. more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have heard that there are different types of hugs and kisses in terms of just friends or something more. That is understandable; I just never thought of it that way. How do you hug someone of the opposite sex in just a friends way? How do you hug him in a more than friend... (82 words)

Help, he is hurting me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I actually have a secret that I've never told anyone who knows me and last night I nearly broke. Or maybe I am broken. I went to the gym with my boyfriend of just over one year and he has had his share of insecurities...and of telling me that he will cheat on me if I miss ... (682 words)

How do I encourage him to try new things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance is turning 28 and I am turning 21 in the next couple of days. Problem is he has done everything we could possibly think of sexually and he doesn't understand I haven't and want to try them out. I'm talking about normal every day things like positions, whip cream, etc. ... (88 words)

Making things right again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so yesterday was mine and my boyfriends one year anniversary, the first 5 months were great and its just all gone down hill. he gets mad at the stupidest stuff ever. hes a jealous person and doesnt want me talking to any other guys, which i understand that cause i dont let ... (158 words)

Waiting for the right one

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high school. i guess i just would ... (68 words)

I'm sick, single and sick of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm miserable right now. The problem is that nothing seems to satisfy me at the moment. I can watch any amount of comedy, play any number of games, see any number of my friends, and yet nothing is able to make me feel truly happy. I haven't been well recently. I've been run ... (185 words)

Want and need some passion..not just same ole same ole

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going to see my man tonight, and I was wondering if there was anything different I could do to satisfy him sexually. I feel that I am in a little bit of a rut we do the same ol' same ol' and it is starting to get boring. I am always dressed nice he loves the way I dress, ... (187 words)

Boyfriend has become quite abusive and controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend, OB, has been really clingy, and I told him to stop doing things which annoy me. But lately he has become really manipulative and abusive- by trying to stop me having music lessons because I have missed my breaktime, and stop doing choir and band (two things which ... (273 words)

He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21 and he is going on 28.. we ... (520 words)

Can't conceive! Is it my age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya. me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for the past 3 months, and i cant conceive, with my last boyfriend and me, couldnt conceive. is there something wrong with me? or is it because of my age or something??????... (46 words)

Friends don't want to keep in touch after school

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I guess I'm an average 16 year old who loves her friends immensly. Many I have known since I was 4 years old, whilst others instantly became best friends when we met at high school. Recently, we've been disussing our futures, what careers we want etc and universities. I ... (234 words)

He cheated and lied, I am trying to forgive him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend... when i confronted him he lied to me but then i found out the truth from his ex and it turned out to be true i once again confronted me and this time he told me the truth... its been about... (203 words)

Giving Her Space

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a college student, and I just recently entered into a relationship with a girl at my school. We hit it off really well in the beginning, but we started going in a direction that I was a little uncomfortable with. It's a long story, but I severely mishandled bringing... (229 words)

Worried my friend has an eating disorder

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I'm worried my best friend of 11 years may have an eating disorder. She has always been on the plumpish/curvy side but never overweight. She loves her food, especially chocolate and cakes etc and probably kept the weight on because she's pretty lazy and never do... (402 words)

How do I ask him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering, is it normal for my boyfriend to still add girls on tagged.com when he is attached to me? I admit I get jealous when girls tell him to exchange email address so that can talk online. my friends told me it is somehow not appropriate for him to do so. as he might ... (111 words)

Do women like younger men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Women… What do you think when a younger (younger but legal) man wants to have sex with you? How should a younger man mention/tell a older woman that he wants to have sex with her? Should he just come out and ask for sex? If you think about or have sex with a younger man d... (89 words)

I Cant Look At Her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend broke up with me for like 2 weeks and thro that time, he was kinda flirting with this other girl but then After All The Flirting And sexy talk , he told her he still loves me and he didnt mean to lead her on ?, but how can he mean not too ? he asked for me ... (133 words)

He admitted to sleeping with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend told me he has slept with some one else, and now I dont want to touch him or be close to him although i do love him. My best mate has been there helping me out and listening to my problems we have been best friend since school and have always counted our selfs as... (137 words)

He was unfaithful but I still want to be with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend split up a few moths back we was together for about 2 years and was fathful to each other for them two years, we are now back together after them few months and hes recently told me he had slpet wiv one of my school mates, last time i saw her she told me she ... (345 words)

Was I wrong to issue an ultimatum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months - he is 41 and I am 34. I've been having concerns recently that he might not want the same things out of life as me, and I needed to be sure that he wants the same things as I do. I told him that I wanted to have a family, that it was ... (231 words)

My boyfriend is my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My 3rd cuzin and i have met recently and we have fallen for each other.. hard... and last night we found out that were 3rd cuzins!!!!!!!! D: He feels that our likeness for each other is now forbidden but he really wish it wasent. I feel that it shouldnt be forbidden and we ... (95 words)

Should I tell my wife her former love has passed away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of six months was engaged to be married to another fellow about a year before she met me (2 yrs ago). From what I gather he was practically the perfect man except for his insatiable desire for women. Hence he was a cheater. The second time she caught him she threw ... (260 words)

An emotional roller coaster!

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have met a woman that I am absolutely crazy about, but am having trouble understanding some of her behaviors. She is 8 yrs younger than I am, she has 2 children and has just gotten out of a bad marriage 6 months ago,I am 41 and a single father of a 11 year old son with ... (481 words)

I love our baby but not my wife. Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my wife recently have had a baby. He is now one month old and he is wonderful, I love him with all of my heart. The problem is I do not his Mum. We have been together for 15 years and married for 9. I am just not in love with her at all. We have been struggling ... (235 words)

Trust..what to do from here on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge problem on my hands. This is a long story but I will try to make it short so you get the idea. My bf and I of just over 3 years split for a little while, during that split he started dating several other women, I dated someone myself. We decided we didn't want to ... (274 words)

Is this over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

- Serious Boyfriend problems need some help please? I have a major boy friend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was over. He said fine. I didn't m... (290 words)

Why can't I do it twice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfreind wher in her bed and we was going to have sex but i just couldnt get a boner..... i dont no why, i had one over her earler that night. im really woryd now :S and aswel when i do cum its very rare that it skworts it kinda just slowly flows out.....is this ... (67 words)

She's a pot smoker and I'm not. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend used to be an everyday all the time pot smoker before I met her. She admitted it had alot to do with the people she was with and her boyfriend at the time. When I met her 3 years ago she said that she rarely did it anymore and really doesnt want to much anymore ... (272 words)

I was raped when I was 14 - is this the reason why I can't orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't even know how to start this so i'm just going to say it. I can't orgasm. It upsets me and it upsets my boyfriend. I never have been able to in my life, I'm 20 and I unwillingly started young. When I was 14 I was raped while "babysitting". This has messed up my hea... (261 words)

I'm worried my vagina is repulsive - is it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am nineteen years old and a bit worried about something that i feel really silly talking to anyone about. i'm worried my vagina is repulsive. the inner lips are larger and darker than the outer ones and i'm worried this looks horrible. i know that everybody's bodies are a li... (180 words)

He's driving me nuts! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy in my school (Sounds cliche, doesn't it?) and I like him and I think that maybe, he likes me back. I'm not really sure anymore. We used to be close (but not that CLOSE) friends but then we had an ,I guess you'd call it, fight. We didn't talk to each other fo... (466 words)

We got caught in the act - what to do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My g/f and I went away with her family (parents, aunts, uncles and cousins) to a family gathering. This is the first time meeting a lot of these people.We went out to a party and after some drinks my g/f and I got a little frisky. Her grandparents own 4 cabins that her family ... (166 words)

Am I wrong in wanting to be happy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi,After trying for over a year to forgive my husband for his cheating and all that has come out during our sessions with relate i realise that my marriage was a sham,when i found out that he was having an affair it shattered me i would never have thought it nor would anyone ... (335 words)

I've become a social outcast overnight and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hi please bear with me for a few mins and take the time to read this. The story so far....I was BEST friends with a girl for a couple of years until 5 months ago when I accidentally backed my car into her mail box at her rental property. I apologised immediately and ... (500 words)

Gangbang..who is the daddy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and married fo 2 years. Recently (the last 8 months or so)my gusband and I started swinging with his step bother and wife.We have also has a group ogy involving 5 other men (all unprotected). I just found out Im pregnant and I hvae no idea who te father is. I told the ... (79 words)

My man is competing with me in the "girly" world!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hello. i was just wondering if it is normal for an independent woman to want a man to look after her and make her feel safe because this is what im after. i do everything myself and dont NEED a man. What im saying is it possible now society has changed so much that men havnt ... (127 words)

I promised my husband I'd quit smoking, but I started again and he caught me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently got married in Sept. When my husband and I met I smoked. When we moved in with each other I had to quit because we live with his grandfather who hates smokers along with my husband didn't like it either.My husband actually gave me an altimatem that he wouldn't marry ... (159 words)

Am I boring because I don't like to go clubbing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i don't really like going clubbing but i do socialize alot in different ways i go to house parties and like meet new people quite often but clubbing just isn't my scene. because i don't like clubbing does this mean i am boring? ... (52 words)

Is dating your ex's sister a total "NO"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner left me about 18 months ago now for another guy and at the time her sister spent a lot of time at my place, helping me with childcare. I fell for her and a while after I'd split up with her sister, we started dating. We dated for about 6 months and she split up with ... (162 words)

I like her but don't want her to feel pressure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i got girl problems. ther is this girl i really like have dun for a while to be honest, to me she is perfect i know noone is perfect, she's a red head too and got deep blue eyes her eyes literally are amazing they are so pretty and twinkly. anyways enough mushy stuff man ... (262 words)

Why does he pretend he hates me in front of his friends?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Robert has been a lot nicer to me lately. He stares at me and likes to make me laugh. He makes it sound like he's not close to me but he is. I know that I'm getting closer to him and I don't know how he's taking it. I like him a lot and I enjoy talking to him and spending time ... (99 words)

How can I convince her to get back in a relationship?

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so this is going to be very long. Me and my ex gf are juniors in high school. We started going out last summer in July. Before me there was this guy that she loved because they were best friends. This guy though was very attatched to her. So when we starts dating he of ... (703 words)

How to learn to drink in moderation?

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When I go to bars, I sometimes drink too much. Usually when I am with certain friends or when I am bored. Can anybody give me some advice on how to learn to drink in moderation? ... (44 words)

G/f doesn't want a serious relationship

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everyone,i've recently been split up from my ex gf for about 2 weeks now, we were separated for a month before 2 weeks when we got back together. she is the type that is very jealous, insecure, and dreads the future with me, she always told me that i am the best thing that ... (544 words)

Am I just waiting for Mr Right?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Argh! i am 20 years young and single this really bugs me! i've not had a relationship for a long time i've liked guys but you know things happen like they don't like me so on so forth. anyways when it does come to guys liking me! i never seem to feel the same or i think... (189 words)

My body can't deal with the excitement?

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this isn't a medical forum, but maybe some of the elder Aunts and Uncles here might have heard something, had an experience, or have schooling in this area. (2 part post) My girlfriend has tried to give me blowjobs, but they just don't seem to work. One of the ... (580 words)

Age ain't nothing but a number?

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 42 and my new girlfriend is only 17. We both really like each other and are happy when we are together and talk on the phone a lot. The problem is, she's my step-sister and we don't know what the reaction would be were our parents to find out. We are taking our ... (111 words)

I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is running it on his own, so it is ... (201 words)

I don't think the whole sex thing is going to work!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Good day, a small bit of help... Firstly, i have been good friends with this guy for a while now and we do spend a lot time together, as he says we are only friends which could be true, no matter how much i love i can give it time, he has just come out of a bad and hurt ... (179 words)

I can't decide whether to move to be with him!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - really need help and soon as I am desperate to make a decision on my relationship. I have had a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years - 2 of which he has been living in Oz. It became clear when we first got together that he was not going to change his plans and stay ... (1011 words)

Is my boyfriend gay? He's got me wondering

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is he gay? My boyfriend wants anal sex a lot, but I don't want to give it to him. He has a lot of male friends but is a "guy's guy" - athletic, sociable. But, he spends a lot of time with a particular friend behind closed doors and has even made sexual comments such as ... (98 words)

Do normal couples have private social networking profiles? (Facebook, myspace)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Privacy or secrecy?? Just wondering in a normal relationship (married or long-term) do partners have private or secret emails or profiles? I have been with my partner for almost three years and he is adament that it is okay for him to have a MySpace, (Tagged, Facebook) ... (62 words)

I really like my best friend what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

2 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like him i really like my best mate and we do nearlly everything together. he is there when i need him, he likes the same music as me and will go out of his way to help me i really realy like him and eveyone is saying we ae going out, which we are not, and i think that ... (110 words)

Nudes & videos of g/f & ex

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was using my girlfriends email (she knows i know the log in) because my email wasn't working. I came across something that hurt me deeply. When she was with her ex, they exchanged n'udes and videos. I have no idea what to think, and i can't get the sight of the pictures and ... (118 words)

She has just lost it!

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - PLEASE BEAR WITH ME PEOPLE ...IT IS A BIT LONG STUFF i have badly messed it up !! i broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago telling her that our marriage is not possible because of our family problems. she called me yesterday and cried a lot saying she cant live without me ... (525 words)

Having trouble making the first move

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never felt this way about a girl before. I've felt it for so long....5 years in fact. I do not know how to start this. Perhaps I will describe her appearance. She's shorter than me and very slender, not too fat, not too skinny. The perfect blend of both. She's got the most ... (659 words)

Something she's not telling me?

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now that I love but lately I've noticed her acting very strange towards me in the last couple of months. When we have talked about it she says she doesn't know why she's been acting this way towards me but I feel there's something ... (68 words)

What does"take care"mean?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I got in a lil argument with my bf he txt me 10 min later and said sorry i meant not disrespect take care.. does the "take care" mean hes breaking up with me?... (34 words)

He doesn't see me as his girlfriend

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i was just wondering, this guy i have been seeing, he is the best ever. He has been married although his wife left 3 years ago.... We would go away on weekends alone and so, although he does not see me as his girlfriend, he says 'you are my special best friend' what does ... (117 words)

Boyfriend never gets jealous!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all. i just want to ask the guys a question. my boyfriend of two years neva gets jealous and that hurts. i end up wondering if he really loves me. am i bieng silly or oi have a reason to be worried?... (43 words)

Do I need to go on with my life? or wait on him?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to do with the relationship that I'm in. This man that I'm involve with I don't really know where I stand with him because he is playing games and he know I love him too. This is what he has been doing lately. When I be in the club he has beeen acting like I'm ... (258 words)

We made out but then she said it wasn't right and its messing with my head!

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - oh my god, my head about to burst. i made out with my friend and i dont know whats happening. We went out, came bk and kissed, it started to get very heated than she stopped because she kept saying it didnt feel right! she said it but carried on, she wasnt being pressured, at ... (252 words)

I went over to talk to my sister's boyfriend and now I am pregnant with his child!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this may be long, but I need to tell you the whole story, because if I just say my problem you'll think I'm like all those other young teen "whores". my sister was dating this guy who is 24 and she is 23. she always uses me to bring up things she wants to tell him but ... (383 words)

Interest? Or just friendship?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If my team mate in college whom I'm moderately close to always smiles when he sees or talks to me (my friends observe that). Generally in a group he would single me out to talk or ask random questions sometimes. And when there's a group joke or something he would look at me to ... (300 words)

Every time I talk to him my face gets all red

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone!! I need help umm....I am like really shy but I want to ask this guy out but every time I talk to him or anyone for that matter I glow bright crimson! And I studder it's humiliating! I mean I can't even answer a question in class without glowing red! So how am I ... (74 words)

Friends don't like my boyfriend but I feel hurt and in love

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help! a lot of help. Well me and my x bf have been on and off for a year. my friends hate it but im really happy even though im hurt when we break up. He says the sweatest things and i feel like my friends dont see the side of him that i do. they think he is annoying ... (109 words)

Uncomfortable silences happen on the on the phone..how do I stop them?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a pen pal who I exchange emails quite often. I call him on the phone very rarely b/c we are long distance. When I call him there are moments in which we are just silent, so I get nervous and cut it short so we hang up quickly. I want to talk so much with him, but I ju... (108 words)

How do I get back with ex who has a girlfriend?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i were together 3 times; it was the 4th time we were going to get together but the [[welcome back]] dance came. he went with his friends and i went with mine. but he started dancing with another girl[[known as a slut]] so i tried to get back at him because i got ... (123 words)

I don't want to get violent but I don't like the way my girlfriend's friends treat her!

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriens friends are always making her feel like crap and i cant do anything to stop it. I love this girl with all my heart we have been dating this girl for three years and she has helped me through a lot. I used to get in fights almost with anybody and every body and did ... (116 words)

He won't give oral unless I shave and I really don't want to!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For a while when my boyfriend and i started dating i went down on him almost everytime we had sex and in between, expecting to get some oral lovin as well, but i got nothing. When i finally asked him to go down on me he said he doesn't really like to because he had a bad ... (188 words)

Did I do the right thing and move on?

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I just got out of a 1 year relationship and I have never been so hurt before in my life. To cut things short i met this girl over in canada online, we fell for eachother and she ended moving to sydney to live with me for a while. Things were not always peachy but ... (700 words)

I feel like I ruined my life and disappointed everyone

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend on and off for 4 years. I THOUGHT we had a great relationship until a few months ago. We had alot of unprotective sex (he knew I wasn't on the pill but said sex felt beter with out a condom) I'm now 18 weeks pregnant, when I told him he told me ... (148 words)

I just don't think I can cope with just being his friend.

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I really need some advice, as I think I am going crazy. I have just ended a three month relationship. I thought we were close, we went out numerous times a week, we were intimate, although we never had full sex, we did everything else but, and could talk easily ... (354 words)

I don't want this to happen but I feel I've fallen for him all over again!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, it's been ok, but not perfect as no relationship is. We've had our ups and downs (with him cheating etc) but over all it has been great. About 6 months into the relationship I felt as if I was IN love with him and I told him... (223 words)

Should I keep emailing him and see what happens?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently signed up on this online dating site. I’m only looking for guys my age and who live close to me, so I basically don’t even consider the rest (shallow I know). One guy though emailed me and although he is 15 years older than me and lives a 4-hour flight away from me I ... (292 words)

I need help!!! I'm on birth control but don't use condoms... is this bad!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. so my boyfreind and I have been together 7 months and we are sexually active.. I'm on birth control and we don't use condoms.... he cums in me every time. We are protected with the birth control but are we still at risk??? I need help!... (52 words)

I just want to feel neutral towards him! Why haven't I moved on?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't understand what is wrong with me! I just can't get over this guy! We were only together for a matter of months but I really fell for him in a big way! It's been 1 and a half weeks since it ended really badly (his fault-he cheated) and we never had any more con... (173 words)

Help! I can't seem to trust my boyfriend!

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy this for a week and 3 days. I cared about him and have known him for a year now but I really can't trust him even although I should. I mean the only reason why I can't trust him is because I got played in the past and I really don't want that happening ... (147 words)

I'm scared she'll change her mind about the abortion.

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok I have a huge problem! My girlfriend is pregnant, we are both 16 and have both been responsible. I have no idea how it happened as we had thought about it before and she was on the pill and I wore a condom which didn't rip or anything. An abortion is obviously the r... (193 words)

Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl?

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl? Sometimes my bf treats me really bad, especially when he has been drinking. So last time we went out he was flirting with a girl at the bar and I confronted him and he turned around and snapped at me. He made me so angry because ... (111 words)

We barely talk any more...

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2 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and he recently just got his cell taken away. So he calls me from his house phone. He called me when he got home from school and we talked for about 30 minutes and then he said "I don't wanna talk, ttyl (talk to you ... (94 words)

Ideas on a gift for my girlfriend...?

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2 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and my gf is amazing and spring break is in 2 days and I wanna get her something nice. We're spending spring break together but I'm not sure where were gunna go yet. Wherever she wants I guess and I wanna surprise her with something to show her I love her more than ... (134 words)