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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Well i'm 21 and i am attracted to this older man he's 46 any how i love talking to him about interesting things he's very intelligent. The problem is i have a boyfriend which is 21 and they live together. I don't know what to think anymore me and the older guy use to talk to each other a lot. And i told him that i liked talking to him and he said he liked talking to me. And once he asked me what i thought of him. But then things got complicated. My mother caught us one night talking it was really late at night and she went off on him it was terrible it was one night me and my mother spent the night at my boyfriends house. And me and the older guy was downstairs talking alone for so long and my boyfriend was upstairs sleep. So since then we haven't talked to each other like we use to now we only say hi and bye and i miss our conversations. So when i use to talk to the older guy my boyfriend would get so upset because we would talk for hours and hours. It became an addiction i would only go over to talk to the older man instead of spending time with my boyfriend. Nothing sexual ever happened between me and the older guy. We would only talk but i would always get a certain feeling when i was around him we'd often make eye contact while talking. Here recently me and the older guy got into a argument though it's a long story but i do miss talking to him. I've had dreams about him I haven't told him anything about how i feel and i don't think i ever will. Because i am afraid that he might tell my parents and i know my boyfriend would flip out. My boyfriend told me that he thought me and the older guy use to like each other since we use to talk to each other so much. I don't know why i feel this way about this man i remember certain things the older man said to me like he said i had a nice smile and that i wasn't ugly and that he liked talking to me. I sometimes wonder if he did in fact like me when we use to talk to each other what do you think?Is it bad that i miss talking to him? Is it bad because i want to talk to him and think about him? Does anyone know what's going on with me? I'd really like to know. And i'm afraid to talk to him because i know my parents would be upset i've even cried over this several times. Yet he's all i think about what in gods name should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Sounds like your young. Have fun and talk to him. Im 21 my man is 52 and I love him he can give me mature convo. Although someone younger I can relate to. So I have my cake and eat it too.
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