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writes:Saturday night I went out with my boyfriend and 4other people he knows(1 being a girl). It was suppose 2b me and my guy at 1st but his man called wanting to go to the movies bringing along his girl. We get in the car and the plans have change. The 2nd couple wanted to go to a lounge. I didn't want 2 go I said I didn't have id but my man pressed me in front of them saying I did (ok so I did). Another 1 of his guys drove in another car. On the way there his man asked my boyfriend what is your friend name again? He said my name but he didn't say I was his girl. The couple up front where playing around fake arguing. My guy laughed at everything that other girl said and kept taking up for her. His man didn't say nothing so I ignore them all.We get there and I didn't feel comfortable around this atmosphere so I started 2 drink. I was on my second drink in 15minutes. My guy told me not 2 drink til I ate but my appetite was gone by then. I drunk 2 more drinks with no food on the stomach, but I was okay.Until an hour later it kick in and my stomach couldn't hold it down. A fourth guy called my boyfriend and met up with us(remember this fourth guy).I puke in the bathroom twice before these nice women helped me out the bathroom to my boyfriend(who was waiting outside the bathroom). He grab me and took me outside and slam me against his friend girl car. I looked shock cause I was tipsy but not drunk. I understood everything that was being said. Even if I couldn't walk so good. We stood there I guess cause everyone wanted to give me time to puke again but I had to make myself do it by sticking my finger down my throat. I heard people arguing about who would take us home. Nobody wanted me in their car cause they thought I was going 2puke in it. I told them I wouldn't and I didn't. 1 of my problems is the same person that didn't want 2 drive us is the same person I bought a drink for(so he could pick up my drink to). My guy and I been out with his man plenty of times and I couldn't belive he acted that way. Bout time I got 2 my boyfriend house I was unable 2 walk but I did cause he didn't want 2 carry me. So the girl went home cause she lived 10minutes from the place but my boyfriend 3 male friends came in his place along with us. I couldn't sit on the couch straight and felled off. My boyfriend picked me up and slam me hard so I could stayed on it. It was like he was angry with me.He shouldn't have slam me. I felt it in my stomach how hard he threw me. I had my eyes close but wasn't sleep, the fourth guy said out loud who is going 2 do her 1st.Im no whore far from it but my man was right there. He got mad but said he wanted everyone 2 leave cause he had 2 get up early. Why didn't he say don't talk about my girl like that? Why didn't he say I was his girl( to the 2 guys who didn't know)? I met 2 of those guys for the 1st time that night and they didn't know I was his girl(that hurts).They all went outside and my guy said he punched the fourth man out for being disrespectful about me. Its hard to believe thats y cause he didn't speak up right away for me. The next day which was yesterday, I told my guy I was sorry for getting that way. He didn't want to talk to me so I left and went home(he took me). He text me an hour later asking how I felt but He also said I embrassed him. His forth man never seen him with a girl like me(what a girl who couldn't hold her drinks). I wasn't acting fresh in the butt, I didn't come on to anybody, I didn't say 2 words to anyone. He says he wasn't taking up for him but thats what it sound like to me. He says the other 2guys know that was his girl and the fourth guy call telling him he was sorry, he was drunk, and 2 tell me he was sorry. I think that is bulls**t. I didn't hear what I needed to hear to believe any of this. Im hurt and mad but I let it go. It still plays in my head, my guy made me feel like I did something wrong.Did I?
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 You got drunk so what. If I acted the way your "man" does I think my wife would be drunk too!
This man showed you no respect at all and should not have shoved you no matter how drunk and embarrassing you were.
He showed more disrespect to you than any of his friends and I really think you should consider if you truely want to be in a relationship that from an outsiders point of view is ABUSIVE.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Everyone gets drunk sometimes and makes abit of a fool of themselves, its understandable! I got drunk within two hours once and my boyfriend had to take me home from the party we were at! Your boyfriend is the one who is in the wrong! He should have stuck up for you and protected you! He shouldn't have slammed you up against the car or the sofa! he is the one who has acted wrongly!! X
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