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writes:There is this girl I like, this is the same girl from my other question, and she's been avoiding me a lot. I tried to convince myself that I could get over her, but I cant. She was my first love and I've liked her for a long time. Well I did something desperate to get the info I needed. I know my friend's facebook account password so I sent a message to the girl's best friend, saying do you know so and so. I was disguised as my friend so she didn't know it was me. She said that I was nice, but really weird, and that she knows that I like her best friend. She said that she has caught me staring at her in English class, and that it freaks out the girl who I like. And she also said that the girl who I like doesn't like me and that she thinks I'm weird. What do I do next, I feel so horrible. I did what i had to do on facebook because she wouldn't even reply to me, but she did reply to my friend. What's next for me. [Mod note to the OP: Could you provide us with the link to your previous question please? Thank you]
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): I stand by what I said before, though it was obviously deleted. Learn morals!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Oh sorry I was under the impression that your friend didn't know you sent a message pretending to be him! But if he's in on this too then everything is fine..... No wait a minute, it's not and when will you obsessive teenagers ever learn that by getting information by deception and following someone around IS stalking!
It's creepy and wrong!
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reader, slade4york +, writes (13 April 2009):
slade4york is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWoah wait, my friend and I know each other's passwords, and I'm not stalking any girl. I tried messaging the girl's friend, but she never replied to me, so I just used my friend's account.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (13 April 2009):
You move on! You have officially become a stalker and that IS weird!
Please don't ever do anything like that again, it was a massive breach of privacy and trust and if I was your friend and found out you hand been using my facebook to stalk a girl not only would you be weird and creepy but you would also look funny and walk with a limp for a good few weeks! How dare you HACK someone's computer to find out about a girl! I really am very disappointed that you think this was acceptable behaviour!
What you did was so very WRONG! No wonder this girl doesn't like you, nobody likes being followed around and being stared at, if you like a girl you make conversation with them and get to know them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): There's not really anything you can do... that's life. You can't always have the person you want. In fact, you can almost never have the person you want. What you did was creepy.. no sugar coating, and i wouldn't recommend doing that ever ever again with anyone or doing anything like ever. If you wanted to know how she felt, you should have approached her in person, bucked up a little and asked her straight up. But it's too late and you know how she feels so move on. Don't make it harder or more complicated than it has to be. You have plenty of time to meet someone who will be woman enough to reply to you on facebook. (although, it really doesn't take much woman to reply to someone on facebook). Anyway.. just get on with your life. I don't know what your previous question was by the way, so i'm sorry if this seems completely irrelevant.
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