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writes:I really need to pull myself out of this heartbreak and i dont know how. i'll cut my story really short all that i care about now is that i miss him and i dont think there is anyway back as he made it clear he has absolutely nothing else to say to me and i should get on with my life. I am to blame for us breaking up no cheating involved just my moods swings. we were together for 6 months. i feel so empty and i dont know what to do. i'm going on holiday i'm surrounding myself with fun etc but i cannot get him out of my head i think i'm going crazy, i would do anything to get him back or just feel myself again. it's been about 3 weeks since we last saw each other but texts messages heve been exchanged, not nice message either. i just want to feel normal again, so please tell me how.
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reader, ali20 +, writes (13 April 2009):
hi, i know what your going through and i know it hurts like hell, the only thing i can say really is that it takes time because you say its been three weeks now but three weeks is nothing really, you have got to give yourself more time to recover from this. breaking up is one of the most painful experiences i have been through but it does get better with time. surround yourself with your family and friends, keep yourself busy, and remember its perfectly normal to feel like this. don't text him either, if he wants to talk then let him text you first. you say he has made it clear to you to move on, so if he has something to say to you let him be the first one to text you/call you. dont give him the satisfaction of letting him no how much your hurting. if there is definitely no way that he wants to give your relationship another try, im afraid the only thing is to move on, i know this is much easier said than done though. for some reason its always easier for boys to just pick themselves up and move on. talk to your family and close friends, and honestly three weeks is nothing if you really loved someone. he sounds a bit selfish to me, knowing that you have mood swing problems but instead of helping you like a boyfriend is supposed to he just walks away. abit immature. you need someone to be there for you through your problems, someone to stick by you and help you, not someone who is going to do that to you. i say all this but i know it doesn't still really help when you love someone so much but trust me, as time goes by you will start to feel normal again. time is the best healer. hope this helps, good luck x
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