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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Average bedtime for 14/15 year old?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy!! I was just wondering what the average bedtime for a 14/15 year old is?because it's school holidays at the moment and my bedtime is 9.30 and because it's the holidays, I thought that I could go to bed later than that. But no!! Blatently not!!!! Got sent to bed at 8.15 the... (126 words)

Major crush of my boyfriend's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem... I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and everything is great except that I've developed a major crush on one of his best friends... they met a couple of years ago and my boyfriend told me that he thinks I'm hot (apparently he tells him that stuff often) ... (135 words)

Tips on being more attractive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need tips on how to be more outgoing. because i have this freind who use to be a "nerd" untill i met her and i always use to be the pretty one now that i "made" her she is so goregous and her clothes are nice and her hair looks amazing.. i have to admit yes i am jelous.. i ... (102 words)

He likes me but says he's not ready to date yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so basically I really really like this guy and Im not sure if he likes me even though my friend said he does. He shows moody signs, at one point he acts all flirty and the next he acts as if he doesnt care. My friend wanted us to get together and I was like I dont know I ... (317 words)

How can I be a better mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I be a better mom? I am disturbed by my ex husband. I've gone through a lot. He kicked me and our son when the child was an infant from our home. It was late night when I had to pack clothes and my son in a carriage to walk to my parent's house. He walked out, leaving ... (546 words)

Should I continue as usual or back off until he breaks up with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age - I really am attracted to this guy at work who has a g/f, but it appears he's about to break off with her, and he knows I like him and has shown signs for over a year to like me as well. Without going into detail about all the flirty ways we've exhibited our attraction to each ... (130 words)

He wants me to wait 2 years till I finish university..but I am not sure that he'll wait for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - help i dont know wat to do!!! hi i am only out of a 5yr relationship because my partner is moving to canada when he finishes uni. i would go to but i have 2 yrs to do first. we were set to plan a wedding then he decided to go back to where he used to come from. he wants m... (127 words)

I'm no angel myself but I want to work things out and she just wants out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been with my baby's mom for 6 years. Recently we have been having alot of problems. I have found wierd numbers on the cell phone bills, she has been coming home. I know Im no angel my self. I get really angry. Recently I found out my mom has cancer. I have asked my ... (106 words)

He's twice my age, married, and yet this relationship is keeping me from meeting others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here it is...I went onto this site (games) and got chatting to this guy, who I found out is twice my age and married...and doesn't even live in the same country. It was just innocent chat so I added him on msn and the more we talked the more I got to know him. After ... (207 words)

How can I relax my vagina during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age - How can I relax my vagina muscles during sex? Sounds weird as most women are looking to tighten their vagina but I want to relax it. And most men want a tight vagina. However, my partner, which I just recently decided to have sex with (after 2 yrs of him pursuing me) after ... (337 words)

No one to talk to but my sister but now she just fights with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been having troubles lately a couple months ago something happened that made me reallly upset and the only one i could talk to it about was my sister who i dont know if she has autism or severe add but now she wont even lsten to me whn i talk to her and she always fights ... (93 words)

Me and my girlfriend of 4 years split up about a week ago and I need advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys.. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years split up about a week ago and I could do with some advice and hopefully words of wisdom! Theres alot to it so thanks in advance for taking time to read it. I first met my girlfriend 4 years ago when she was only 18 and ... (944 words)

Found a lot of his ex wife's things in boxes - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is my story. I told my boyfriend that I'll be more then happy to look after his dog and fish well he goes away for a few days, he has his own business and does not always get time off, i work for him. Anyways, for the first time i have stand at his house alone, ... (263 words)

Can 2 people truly be happy with eachother forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this is a simple question and there is prbly no right answer. can two people truly be happy with each other forever?... (22 words)

Boyfriend cums too quickly. What can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were about to have sex two days ago and he ejaculated very quickly. It didn't even last much of a minute. We then tried again fifteen minutes later and the same thing happened. The first time we did it he lasted a lot longer. I finished before he did and ... (63 words)

Run away cousins ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help. Basically, I have fallen in love with my first cousin and we were going out for about 3 months, until my parents found out and made us split up. They told me I couldn't see him again until I was 16... Is it a bad idea to run away with him when I... (78 words)

Is this guy worth chasing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy i like, weve kissed and he fingered me at my party last weekend. (which he surpsingly came to) Weve been speaking online and texting for the past 3/4 months and bumped into each other at the bus stop about 4 times. Also we went to the cinema. Ive had enou... (235 words)

My wife is "talking to someone else." I am devastated. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife told me a couple of weeks ago that she was "talking to someone else". I am 33, she is 34. We have been married for almost ten years and have been together since high school. In some respects we have a fantastic marriage. We travel, go to dinner, enjoy each other's ... (219 words)

Why would he tell me he masturbates to my picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My male friend just confessed to me that he masturbates to my picture, should I be offended by this? (He has a girlfriend) What is he trying to say?... (29 words)

How do beer goggles work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is their a scientific reason why people look better looking when your druink ? Or is it just our minds playing tricks on us ? x... (27 words)

I'll do anything to get him back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 14 and there is this kid a year older then me and we use to txt alot and flirt non stop. then he asked me to hug him the next day at school so i said yeah...but before we hugged he txtd and said im gonna ask u a question after we hug (ask me out) but then he txtd 2 mis ... (219 words)

Troubled army wife. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a lot or touble dealing with my husband being in the Army. It was not a part of the plan when we were planning out lives together. Now we have two kids and I am home alone all the time. I just get so frustered, and he doesn't even seem to care. We are growing ... (170 words)

Did he lose his phone? Just not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im at the end of my teather here! Ok basically I have been talking with this guy for ages now, and hes lovely and made it quite clear he likes me, he got me a gift for xmas, we talk almost everyday etc etc Anyway we went to a party together and ended up getting with eac... (399 words)

How can he talk to me this way in front of his g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys im a bit stuck hear,i split with my ex last year but have stayed friends, anyway we where sleeping together still after 4 months after spliting, anyway he now has a gf and she works nites, so whenever shes not with hi, he flirts with me, example the other day he called ... (335 words)

My friend is annoying me so much at the moment, how do I deal with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this guy for 3 months and things are great between us and it was my best friend *Hannah who got us together in the first place cause she knew I liked him and wouldn't say anything to him about it so she told him and it turned out he liked me too and he ... (566 words)

Am I being paranoid or have I got every right to be angry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay here goes.... I was reading through my bf's phone earlier and found texts from 2 girls (they both work at the club he plays rugby for). He had deleted his sent items so I don't actually know what he said to them, but the texts from these girls had kisses on the en... (214 words)

Should I tell my parents? I think I'm pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and think I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do. Should i tell my mom and dad? I need advice before i do anything. I've had sex 1 time but he pulled out and we used a condom. I told him we shouldn't do it anymore unless we're really ready. I'me getting really big and ... (93 words)

After his experimenting 7 years ago, I'm terrified my boyfriend might have sex with his best male friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly, my boyfriend has never given me a reason not to trust him - as far as I know, he's never cheated on me, or any of his partners. But, we where talking a few months ago, and I found out that when he was about 16, he had a gay relationship at boarding school, which in... (362 words)

My boyfriend loves me but is trying to break up with me...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship. We have talked about marriage and know that we want to be with each other forever but the past month there have been some fights and things haven't been picture perfect. I see this as growing but he has gotten frustrated. I ... (286 words)

Boyfriend's Muslim family wont accept me :-(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with this guy for 6 months and his family is Muslim, but he doesn't believe in that. i am white, and not Muslim, therefore they don't want me to go out with him. they found out about us, and forced him to break up with me. but we got back together and are now toge... (181 words)

After sex, my penis hurts and her she has stomach ache. Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I feel worried, I'm 15 years old and I have had sex with my girlfriend. I have a problem which I need help with. A couple of hours after I've had sex my penis starts to really hurt and my girlfriend gets a stomach ache. What seems to be the problem? I use a condom so she ... (66 words)

I'm getting the point where I just feel used for sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive been dating this guy for 8 months on and on. But not going out. He says he wants to be single but we cant see other people. Of course it sketchy to me. But we've been hooking up all the time. And im getting the point where i just feel used for sex. Im seeing him tont... (126 words)

Has anyone tried Lybrel? Experiences?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm on a birth control (Lybrel) with the only purpose to end my periods. That is the function of Lybrel. However, I've been taking the pill for almost four months now and I've been bleeding/staining EVERYDAY eversince. I want to know if anyone here ever tried the pill... (70 words)

My bf still texts and calls his ex-wife and denies it. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend hasn't been divorced too long. They had no kids. We have had ongoing arguments about how they call each other about minor things and how it bothered me so I thought it had stopped. He told her there was no need for contact unless an emergency. She still incl... (265 words)

I looked at her texts and I think my girlfriend is cheating on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i have a girl friend and i think she is cheating on me the first thing that made me think that was i looked at her texts and it was one of her friends saying that she would set my girlfriend up with there male friend that they both know and the next thing was when me and m... (182 words)

Opinions on not marrying or having children

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been hesitating in asking, but ended up asking anyway since I want to know as much opinions as possible concerning this. I grew up in a loving family. I never had any abuse of any sort. Currently in a loving relationship with a man. I need opinion on this: I do not p... (278 words)

How do I tell him I am not into just fun but I want us to remain friends?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, last year he told me we wanted different things when he just want... (270 words)

I don't know how to tell my chat friend that I love her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Its like am in love with this girl, she is 18 and am 18 she is living far away from me but in same country. We both met in a chat site. I call her on phone most time, she told me about her self and I told her mine, the way I hear her voice on phone each time I call her tick... (136 words)

Could I be pregnant, or is it just stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About three weeks ago me and my bf had sex and he wanted to see what it felt like without a condom. So we didn't go all the way but he did go in. Lately I've has extreme nausea, i'm always tired, my boobs are really sensitive, and i pee a lot more and more often. Is it too ... (76 words)

Is this a lost cause or should I give him another week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay Im a bit torn right now cause my boyfriend of 7months said some bad things about me over the phone last night. Let me start from the beginning, everything was good Tuesday night til I went downstairs to get the laundry; I came back in the bedroom and everything changed. ... (272 words)

Any ideas for something special for my girlfriend this Easter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and I'm in love with my girlfriend and i know I'm so young but i know i love her cause every time i seen her my heart starts beating really fast and i just know. anyway we've been going out for 3 years cents yesterday and i just got back from spring break and didn... (145 words)

Why do I keep dreaming about my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven't seen my ex for about 4 years. Well ive seen him about once since then. But that was cus he was out with one of our mates. Well anyway i keep dreaming about him. and in the dream we get back together, and each time its him asking me to get back with him, but in the ... (98 words)

Love and Marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. I have had some jealousy issues with good reason because of infidelity. He plays an online game and chats with the other teammates not even knowing if their a female or male. A few weeks ago I woke up from a nap and and went to ... (415 words)

I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I've EVER seen, she's also the s... (681 words)

Will a girl stop taking care of her body when they get into a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this sounds really shallow, but I'm scared that if I ever get in a serious relationship with a girl she'll stop taking care of her body. And then in a few years she won't look pretty any more she'll just look fat. Is there a way to make sure a girl doesn't do this or to ... (65 words)

The Unforgivable and Most Heinous Act thinkable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years and we have gotten into many arguments over time. Things progressively got worse. He used to throw things and break them, then he started pushing me and I will admit that I used to hit him allot, but I haven't in year... (203 words)

Will the ex ever be gone or should I just walk away now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married almost a year. I am 26 and my husband is 28. We dated for almost 3 and a half years before we got married. We dated the first time while in college. He was still involved with his ex girlfriend (behind my back), so I left him and dated someone else for... (341 words)

Is it alright to not like anyone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey y'all waz up? I jus need to know is it alright to not like anyone? And LOVE not been with anyone? Cause my parents and a lot of other people say that there is something REALLY wrong with me...ex.... So I just need to know is it weird or something!? ... (51 words)

Sad lonely and dying inside

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help I started a new job and this man 11 years older then me started displaying a huge interest in me. I used to go to school with his partner and this is was the common factor in our friendship. I never found him attractive or interesting but I liked the attention as... (1557 words)

Would it be worth it to become friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i need some advice and im hopein you can help see i had this friend and he was awesome. he was there for me and i was there for him no matter what happened. but one night we did things and after that night he barley talked to me.. and i was so confused cuz he was the ... (241 words)

Should I break up? Because she is too afraid to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf of 6 years broke up with me about a year ago this time. That lasted for all of 2 months or so and she returned saying that she was just going through changes and she felt kinda trapped. She has since felt horrible about doing the break and what she put me through for 2 mo... (230 words)

Am I a needy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I know most people define needy girlfriends as being too possessive; which I am not. However, I do try and get him to spend some time with me a lot. Thing is though, it never works. We're both in High School, so we dont have time consuming jobs yet. However, he babysits... (335 words)

Loving sex ..but keeps reverting to my old technique and not satisfying my man. Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age - I thought I was sexually experienced (2 long term partners) but my new man of 6 months doesn't seem to be able to 'come' when I use my various techniques to play with his penis and balls. I asked him to show me how he enjoys me to play and he placed his finger snugly betw... (120 words)

My gf is changing and she is afraid to show me......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - To give background to the situation..Im 27 and my gf is 22. She tends to keep to herself for the most part very kind and loving, somewhat painfully quiet at times. She has been trying to come out of her shell more and thats fine, I want her to. While I myself drink much at all,... (163 words)

We talk most time on phone but yet cant tell her I love her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a very shy boy i dont know what to do about it. I find it too difficult to talk to a girl even a boy that i don't know, the only people i communicate with is my family members, Thats all, i dont just know how to put this shyness off me. Now there is a girl i have been admi... (113 words)

Should I stay with him? This is more emotion that I can process...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17 and have/had a boyfriend before he took a gap year and moved to mexico, we had only been going out 4 months before he left but we had gotten so close that it really was heart breaking, i was a mess for a while and even though we had agreed to break up when he left i ... (697 words)

Why is he suddenly being so difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my new bf for a few months now things were going really well up until he went out on his mates stag weekend since he has come back he has barely seen me. I have hardly had any texts off him and when i do they are quite moody, we were meant to be going out for ... (144 words)

I was an escourt and my b/f of 4 years can't seem to get over it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 10 years ago I worked as an escort. I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and, as soon as the relationship started to get serious, I told him of my past. I wanted to be honest from the outset, and give him an opportunity to walk away. He stayed with me and said that he loved me... (192 words)

Why am I attracted to girls who are similar to my first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - It's interesting that ever since I broke off from my first love a year ago, every girl I was attracted to since shared some similar features to her -- slim, similar figure; tall height; brunette hair -- and a few times, even in shy personality. Why? Is it just the type of... (120 words)

I don't understand his interest in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This co-worker of mine has been making eye contact with me and when we get into a conversation he seems like he wants to stick around. This conversation at first has been about work and work relate topics. Yesterday and today has been completely different, we are know talking ... (381 words)

My fiance is a foreigner, and I have found out he is married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for quite along time now and we have recently engaged he is of foreign nationality. I have recently discovered various things i didn't know about him eg: marriage of possible convenience for status. I don't know what to do all my friends and fami... (116 words)

2 years into the relationship, he still calls me by his ex's name!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend was with a girl for 7yrs,and they split up. a year after splitting up from his ex,he met me. we've been together for over a year now. in the early stages he called me by his ex's name,which i didn't like but i understood,maybe it was too soon.he did it again twic... (143 words)

Do tampons pop your cherry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I started my period when I was 11 years old and I am now 15 and I have also started wearing tampons. My friend told me that it pops your cherry becuase it hurts. It did hurt me when I first started wearing them but they dont anymore. Is this true that it pops your cherry?... (57 words)

Desperate! How do I get over my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have loved my english teacher for ages; though there is a fourteen year age gap between us so I know nothing will happen. I know teacher crushes are common, and the best thing to do is either get over it, or just enjoy it but keep it quiet. My teacher has a stable, happy re... (211 words)

Follow up: My husband's "mysterious" trips to Canada

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A follow-up on my original question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-my-husband-having-business-trips-.html I thought I'd post a follow-up. Apparently my husband had been living a double life - in Canada and over here. I know this because I hired a private detectiv... (165 words)

Is it ok to sleep with him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy (described in http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-it-seem-like-he-is-going-to.html), and he has been respecting my opinions. By respect, I mean he wanted to do things but as soon as I asked him to stop he would. I now won’t let him kiss me because we are not ... (156 words)

Is my marriage dead?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi I have been married for 26 years.We hardly talk ,and sleep in seperate rooms.Last month I asked him to leave we both have slight health problems and I dont think the atmosphere helps either of us.We dont argue .my Daughter contacted him and he told her he does not love me ... (119 words)

Are we too early in the relationship to go for counseling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok dont know where to start.... Have been in an on off relationship for the past 2years,my boyfriend is ten years older then me and basically a complete opposite person to me however by some miracle we clicked!! We have had many bumpy rides in our relationship and... (363 words)

I think I was abused when I was younger. What do I do now? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I was abused when i was younger, and for a while I was OK but nowadays its really been getting me down, I've been crying all night and stuff and I am scared to go to sleep sometimes because of the nightmares, though most of the time I don't really remember them very well. ... (167 words)

I don't get this girl. Is she straight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So there is this girl who I really like and I have been for quite a while. We've know each other for about two years but just started talking this year. Yesterday I told her I wanted to tell her something because it was bugging me. She guessed that I like her and she was righ... (261 words)

I'm in love with two best friends

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my bf (mr x) have been dating for 2 years but we broke up for 2 months and during that period i dated his best friend (mr k) although it was a long distance relationship i was happy, when ever mr x hurt me mr k was there to help keep me sain. mr k is someone i wouldn't m... (271 words)

Please help. I feel so worthless and not wanted!

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, Basically, the background of this story is that my ex-girlfriend dumped me about 7 months ago last August. We've dated each other for 2 years and have known each other for a total of 4 years. I am a junior in college currently graduating in one more year and sh... (1056 words)

Pregnant while taking mini pill?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Could i be pregnant while taking the mini pill? i take the mini pill, i'm on my 5th month now. i do always take the pill within the 3 hour window but have also taken it 5mins out of that window. For the last 2 weeks i have been feeling overly tired with headaches everyday... (230 words)

Should I trust my wife's decisions?

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok where do I start? We are coming up on our 1 year anniversary. Now my wife was raised by men. Her father guy cousins and older brother. She was always more of a tomboy. I understand all this, but my problem there lies within. Her best friends and almost all of her frie... (224 words)

She has a nude picture of her ex in her phone. What do I do?

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has recently been away to visit someone with a friend (You may note the person she went to see is an ex sexual partner). Our relationship has been a bit rocky recently and she said she needed to get away for a few days, which i agreed to. I didn't speak to her ... (186 words)

How Old Is Too Old? Age Difference of 38? Is this right or wrong?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Readers, Please giver your opinion on this, Need Your Help/Advice! How Old Is Too Old? I Am 22..He Is 50..38 years difference? Is it ok for us to be together? Thanks. And, Can women have sex whilst on their menstruation? I have heard people/my friends talking about hav... (97 words)

Fake or real friends or both on face book?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i joined face book i think it was idea for me .because no write to you unless you have television or something. i joined face book a month and no body has added me as friend.there one guy who has been tv he has 191 friends.all because hes been tv thats not fair. how can one pers... (76 words)

He said he liked me now he's ignoring me :-(

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My guy friend told me that he liked me but I wasn't sure if he had a girlfriend or not so even though I happen to like him myself I was friendly to him but nothing more, I still stayed and had a chat and let him have my number too. He was texting me that night most of th... (231 words)

Does it seem like he is going to ask me to be his gf?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like a guy. I have no idea why I like him. We don't have any mutual friends but we chat on msn everyday. Every week, we meet up 2-3 times, have dinner together and watch DVD movies afterwards. This has been going on for 2 weeks. Before this, for a month, we sent each oth... (422 words)

My gosh - struggling under the pressure of HUGE crushes on TWO teachers (& one is female!)

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here's the deal: I'm in year 12 (6th form) at school, and I go to an all-girls college. I am almost 16 years old. Ever since 3rd form I have been crushing on one of the teachers from my school - he's young (27) and a happy, likable person. He's so easygoing and an amazing... (516 words)

Happy Easter!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I thought instead of posting a question on [troubled] relationship [issues], I thought I'd post something more upbeat ;-) So, I just wanted to post a short note to say "Happy Easter" this long weekend (Good Friday, Easter Monday/Bank Holiday, depending on where you are). ... (145 words)

My FWB blurted out the "L" word. Should I just try to forget it or what?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had a FWB relationship going on now for about 8 months. He is aware that I have seen other people...and I know he is too. My problem is that I have extremely intense feelings for him. I know he is aware of my feelings to a point. I have thought about ending this beca... (173 words)

How do I regain control of my life?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just realized my ex was controlling me in basically everything. I'd like to know how do I take control of my life so it doesn't happen again next time I get in a relationship? ... (35 words)

Please help. I cant stand not knowing, does he like me?

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10 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi. Me again. I really have to know if this guy likes me. Sorry if its long. Im 18, hes 25. Hes the youth leader at church. His cuz used to be but he dated and kinda used the gals so he aint anymore and now there is no dating allowed between the youth leader and people at the ... (312 words)

So many differences between him and I. I am confused. What should I do?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi friends, i need your help.i'm very much confused about my relationship with my friend. i'm 18years old. before 9 months i met a boy.we became close friends.i've never talked to any boys before tat. he's the first boy to whom i've talked other than my relatives.he had a l... (148 words)

How can I maintain my dignity and her respect for me in the work place after my failed approach for her?

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there. I was just wondering how a woman would like a man to conduct himself around her in the work place after he has made an approach and been rejected. He was not in the friend-zone at the time he made his approach and does not have very regular business contact. Should... (148 words)

Three star crossed lovers

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so im married and i think i really like my buddy in the marines, he is in iraq and makes it a point to call me almost everyday. my husband and i have had close calls of divorces lately and were trying to work it out. im confused. i grew up with marines boy and we've alwa... (86 words)

Male Teacher, Female Student and a Father-Daughter Relationship

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry for another one of these questions.. My philosophy/religion teacher is middle aged, and a very handsome man; but what has won me over most has been his confidence, down-to-earth demeanor and corky sense of humour. He has led an admirable life and the stories he s... (1077 words)

I don't know anything about having sex really. Can anyone help me?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm 17 about to turn 8 in July. I dated my ex for 4 years and we just broke up in november.. It was really hard on me. I have become depressed and just broken. He hated me for the longest time and didn't talk to me, for reasons.. Well we talk now and he wants to han... (166 words)

Sex related questions. Help please!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod note: updated questions:] 7. i want to do sex with my boyfriend..always..but we both should not marry..this was our deal..but now i want him in my life as my life partner..how to tell him... --------- 6. i want my boy friend to do sex with me al the time...and first... (293 words)

I have no idea how to even begin to get through this. Any advice?

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - 2 years ago, at a party, I met this girl. We totally hit it off, and found out that we were both (randomly) moving to the same city (2000 miles away) for the summer. She was graduating college and moving back to where she grew up to be around her little brothers, and I was just... (554 words)

13, wants to stay virgin for a while, but no access to sex toys

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I want to stay a virgin as long as possible, basically until I get married, but I get way too horny too often and so I masturbate. But lately, I've been having trouble getting off, so does anybody have any new ways than just a standard grip and rub? NOTE: I don't have acc... (70 words)

What kind of friendship is this I'm having with this guy?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend (guy) who after meeting him in person in a meeting, we've been in touch since for 2 years. We email each other, well mostly me. He's military so his time is a bit compromise. Even deployed we emailed. He's stationed in Va. and I'm in LA, so is Long distance. ... (186 words)

Straight? Bi?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im really questioning my sexuality right now. I KNOW i like boys but im not sure if i like girls also. Sometimes i have weird day dreams where I'll be fucking a girl and I'm fine with it. And as weird as it sounds I've even imagined doing intimate things with my best fri... (132 words)

Can he not hear me when I talk?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so here's my problem. tonight i asked my husband if he really listens to me, because sometimes i have to ask him three to four times and eventually just call out his name. he said he listens but doesn't answer because what i said was not important, i told him that he shou... (93 words)

An equal loving relationship between three, where all are involved. Possible, or not?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, the short... I've been married to my husband, who i love from depths i cannot describe, just over a year now. But he has a part of him that i want to understand and support but still sometimes doubt if i am really capable of making work. He loves me and swears he will... (663 words)

I just wish I had someone to love me and make me feel great!!!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help! i don't know what to do!!! i wrote on this before, but i really don't think anyone understands how depressed i am! normally Im a happy girl and i like to enjoy life to the max! but recently i get these pangs where i feel so so sad! I think i know what's caus... (365 words)

Any tips on how to bring up the topic of using condom?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on birth control and he pulls out but am I still running a high risk for pregnancy??? And I was wondering if anybody had some good tips on bringing up the idea of a condom to him...especially because we have been involved sexually many time before this without a condom... (55 words)

I need female and male opinions about this, I really need advice, and badly.

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't wanna write my life story, but here's the deal. I grew up with a single mom who never dated and kept to herself all throughout my childhood. She never wanted to talk to me about guys, and when puberty hit I would try and mention crushes I had, she wouldn't have it. ... (305 words)

I developed fetishes on my stepmom. Is this weird?

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i am 18 and i have a very difficult problem. my dad married this lady who is 36 about 3 years ago and now she's my step-mom. and now i have been having fetishes about having sex with her. is this weird or not? what you think about me actually doing it?... (54 words)

I'm14 and have never been on a date, kissed a guy, or done anything

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 never been on a date,kissed a guy, or done anything i really want a boyfriend or at least go on one date im going into high school for crying out loud! most of my friends have had at least 2 and when i tell them they find it surprising 4 called me a pure child when i t... (96 words)

Now I don't feel the same for him any more. What can I do?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this terrific guy for over two years and have been holding back the urge to tell him that I loved him for a couple months now. (I was holding it back because he doesn't acknowledge me as a girlfriend because he doesn't believe in "labeling" a relationship".) ... (189 words)

I am thinking too much of this?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him. We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq for 7 months and we stil... (179 words)

My husband destroyed my life

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize for the long post. I need some advice on how to move on and how to cope with what I have been through, all I can think about just now is revenge, it is eating away at me. I separated from my husband last September (married 5 year, together 15). I know it wa... (886 words)

I cannot read his mind!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's my dating dilemma: Im 26 and have a bf who is 28. We have been seeing each other for 3.5mths now. At the beginning he used to be very txty to me from his cell, and wanting to see other frequently during the week or over the weekend. Over the past 2 weeks, things ... (399 words)

My girlfriend doesn't seem to want to hang out with me anymore...

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am looking for advice from people that have been or are in long term relationships. I have been going out with this girl for 6 years now. We met in high school, I went away to college and we continued dating long distance, then she moved to the college town I am in now... (308 words)

Help!!!! How do I talk to my mom about sex and birth control?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here is the whole run down. I am 15 going on 16 my boyfriend is 16. We have been together appox. 9 months. I really really do love him. And I know he loves me. I want to be with him for the rest of my life, we have talked about marriage and everything. Neither of us feel ... (276 words)

I just can't figure him out!!!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy I have been dating, but I can't figure him out. He will start calling me all the time and then we will go out. Then he will call me the next day but will go about two or three weeks before he will talk to me again. Then he does the same thing over again. He ... (142 words)

Is it worth starting up a long distance relationship?

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here goes. I met this girl last summer when I went to another city for a work term. She was really nice, we became friends and all but I never did ask her out because we were working together, and because I knew I would have to leave at the end of the summer for school, ... (141 words)

I don't feel ready for another full on committment and aware that I am quite vulnerable at the moment!!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age - hello, I have recently been in contact with an old flame from 20 years ago at the time of our affair he was a family friend and I was married.. and decided to end it before we got caught, as I wanted to make my marriage work. 20 years on he is now married and I am single... he ... (179 words)

Why do women stay with cheating men?

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10 April 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, Why do women stay with cheating men? And does their cheating ways come back to haunt them? This is what happened where I dumped my ex for cheating. I had no idea I was the other woman until I saw pictures of his girlfriend. As far as I can tell, they have been together... (138 words)

Help!!! I need some advice on how to move on and how to cope with what I have been through.

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to move on and how to cope with what I have been through, all I can think about just now is revenge, it is eating away at me. I seperated from my husband last year (married 5 year, together 15). I know it was completely the right thing to do but ... (170 words)

I need your help, I'm so confused!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this guy in med school and I have for a long time but I'm so confused. He's like the perfect guy and when I first saw him years ago I knew he was the one for me. Anyways I didn't think he was interested in me back then and it turns out he really was - in a big ... (628 words)

I just started dating this guy but I am scared of getting my heart broken again.

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started dating this guy but I am scared of getting my heart broken again. He has made a lot of mistakes in his life and it scares me. He just got out of jail for drugs and got divorced like eight months ago. He is a really good person though and I believe that he is ... (146 words)

I can't help thinking there's something she's not telling me...

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, I'll start from the beginning. Me and my girlfriend were happy together, we loved each other etc, she even told me that she wanted to have a family with me in the future and that she'd never leave me and I felt the same way for her. Anyway, she recently left me saying t... (164 words)

I had a bad feeling I ruined the whole evening with this rejection

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in Germany and travelled to Sweden (I travel there every second month because my Dad lives there)3 months ago... there, I met a guy and fell in love. I have been there for 2 weeks, we were seeing each other, doing things that couples do,everyhing was great -but although ... (330 words)

Really erm... distracted and confused!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I joined the university gym about 2 months or so ago, and since I joined I have been going every day at least 6 times a week because my gym closed down. When I was working out one day I saw the most gorgeous guy there, and as weeks have progressed, he seems to be as into ... (814 words)

I hate my life right now and all I want to do is cry...

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I currently hate my life. First my boyfriend of four years breaks up with me and I have to move back home, where my parents who are retired now and are always around. Then the transmission on my car breaks. I can't afford to fix it because my minimum wage job only gives me an ... (231 words)

I am scared of getting hurt again but feel like he is the right person for me.

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy but he lives in another town. I am very unsure of what he wants and I don't think he even knows. He tells me that he wants to move by me to work, but he wants to stay living where he is because that is where his family and kids are. He has been ... (242 words)

Advice about love...

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I love my woman fully and for her to love me back the same?... (16 words)

He later apologized but I have yet to get over the betrayal of the whole evening.

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10 April 2009 (F)

- Last night boyfriend and I were having wine after work at a nice place when a guy my b/f knew sat down next to me and started talking to him. I found him to be completely obnoxious but I tried to join in on their bantering but then the guy asked me if I was a "local girl" I ... (563 words)

Is he just trying to make me jealous?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy since last semester and I started liking him since we joke around, talk and play around together a lot. I think he likes me back by the things he does such as: trying to get my attention all the time when I'm doing my work, he starts smiling as I ... (220 words)

I am 32 and my boyfriend is 21. Is this a healthy age gap?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and my boyfriend is 21, I need some advice for my relationship if this kind of relationship can have future and can be healthy?... (27 words)

Any tips on convincing her I don't wanna marry her just for sex?

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10 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone, I was hoping someone could help me with an issue I seem to have brought into my relationship. I've been dating my GF for nearly 5 months, when the other month after asking her why we hadn't had sex, she told me that she was waiting for marriage. A personal... (136 words)

How can I detoxify myself from him?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Agany aunts and uncles, I am in need of a wake up call before I trip again and fall into failure. I NEED A WAKE UP CALL!!! Why do I continue to hurt and continue to feel a hint of desire for this monster? What is going on with me? I need to stop, please read below, i... (1568 words)

I'd happily spend the rest of my life with him. How do I know if he feels the same way about me?

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I really like, in fact I think I'm falling in love with him. I really want to be with him and spend a lot of time thinking about him, we speak daily over the phone so this is pretty unavoidable. I was really wondering whether I should tell him that I like him ... (129 words)

Can anyone please explain this type of male behavior to me please.

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this man for almost 3 years now (he's almost 40). We broke up so many times but always got back together(I want to believe that he's a nice guy deep down and we have a strong connection). Last time I broke up with him because I was returning to school and I just ... (222 words)

He has a girlfriend but I'm getting mixed signals... Please help!

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10 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy and he has a girlfriend but whenever I talk to him he NEVER says anything about her or even having a girlfriend but when I talk to her, all she talks about is him but when I went to our hangout he was just waving at me, so I waved back. Then he made his friend ... (247 words)