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*andy_Cake_Mush
writes:There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and has straight black hair, and i have long bleach blonde and black hair, a monroe piercing, and wear tight shirts, leggings, tutus and everyone says we look perfect for each other.But hes a huge player.Heres the trouble though, he goes for the popular girls who he has next to nothing in common with. im not trying to hate on them, they're nice people and everything, its just....ah i don't know.He acts very confident and talkative with them.But with me, he seems more serious and stares a lot and seems nervous.Please tell me what you think of this. i'm at a loss. i don't know if i even stand a chance with him or what to do when i'm around him.Thank you ever so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Sorry, i accidently pushed something and got cut off.. but i'll continue now. I just wanna add, that if you do end up with him, be careful. You said he's a player. Don't get yourself hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): I've been really confident and talkative with a lot of guys who I really don't care about, but when I met who is now my husband.. the first few times i suddenly didn't have anything to say. I was shy and nervous and didn't want to make a bad impression so i just kept it zipped. Sometimes people talk less around people whose opnions matter more to them because they don't want to screw anything up or make themselves look retarded. It's easier to talk to people you don't really care about. But on the other hand, not everyone is the same. That's the way I am but he might be like that because he feels akward and uncomfortable around you because he finds you hard to talk to. This is a question that will be hard for anyone to answer for you because we don't know this guy or how he acts when he feels a certain way. You might want to ask him some time if he likes one of those girls. (likes their personality that is, not the way they look).
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Just keep trying to get closer with him. The more you learn about him the more confident you'll feel about him. Maybe you're one of those girls he CAN act serious and be nervous with. Just get to know him. Be yourself around him! That's all you CAN do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Well if he acts differently around you than his normal then he most likely has a crush on you. Maybe you seem more of a challenge because your not the normal girl he goes after, in which case he acts a bit more nervous. I say go for it. Flirt a little bit more...try and hint that you like him and see if he returns the flirting. If so, go for it! Good luck!
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