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writes:My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. But we broke up last week because we just couldn't handle us fighting all the time. We seemed t be fighting about the same stuff over and over. I was going to school and working too much and not spending enough time with her. However we both realized we loved each other and want to do our best to work things out. But she had sex with another guy while we were broken up. I understand that she was lonely and lost without me. But it still hurts that she found another guy so quickly after we broke up. We both love each other but i don't know if i could trust her or him. I'm so lost.
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reader, Matt269 +, writes (14 April 2009):
Matt269 is verified as being by the original poster of the question well i decided to break it off with her. our relationship was affecting both of our lives in a negative way. we just moved too fast and my jugdement was clouded. i feel that we ended it on good terms though which is good. thanks so much for the advice. it helped. hopefully she and i will remain friends out of this. i think we will. but i know we just need some time to get over each other.
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reader, Ck1  +, writes (13 April 2009):
Hello,i recently went through something the same, and me and my partner tried so many times, but you need to be the person who stands up and says yeh i love you, but it isn't enough,when you do this is will hurt for a wile, but you will get over it. Because keeping a relationship like that on is like "dragging a dead horse".I understand how hard it will be, but its for the best. and you seriously need to consider how much she loves you..if shed hop into bed with the next person...be careful and goodluck...x
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