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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I help my girlfriend when she drinks and refuses to talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi people hope some 1 can help me! im with my gf 4 nearley 2 years now and at the moment we r struggling! i tink she is depressed! she gets upset alot and she gets really down! when i try to help her then she jus turns away gets angry at me doesnt want to talk to me tells... (380 words)

My best friend likes my crush too!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I found out that my best friend likes my Crush! I'm really sad because she dosnt know that I like him and she was telling me how much she likes him. and I know she is way prettyer thani am and I love her and I always try to help her get what she wants but th... (106 words)

We're "friends" but he never mentioned his new girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay …. i first met this boy over a year ago and since then due to working in the same company and gettin on really well, we started speaking txting each other on the phone for hours, going out for drinks and to gig’s. i think that we are only just friends due to us speaking... (311 words)

How can I stop thinking about my unavailable crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Why can't i stop thinking about him? I've had a crush on this guy for 2 year but just a few months ago i told him. But then i found out he had a girlfriend so i tried staying away from him. I just see him during nutrition and lunch but all of a sudden i start thinking about ... (112 words)

How do I tell my mom I'm going sky diving without her suffering a stroke?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

- My mom worries a lot...A LOT. She worries the boat will capsize when I go fishing with my buddies! As a result, I tell me mom very little of the risky stuff I do. I don't tell her when I drive a motorcycle. I don't tell her when I go rafting. I don't tell her when I go ... (199 words)

Ex GF not getting the message - Help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age - I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost a bit of weight. I just dumped her again recently and she's angry with me because of the way I did it. I couldnt be bothered to go and see her so after ... (218 words)

I want to start a long distance relationship with an agony aunt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I think i have fallen in love with someone who i met on this site. How do i ask her out? How do i maintain a long distance relationship?... (29 words)

Still Hurting...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you think about a man who went out with his new fling and ex wife, both women confronted each other, he bashed his ex with his new fling, then has the nerve to ask his ex for another sexual encounter? What to advice the ex who still feels hurt?... (51 words)

I think my boyfriend is distant because the sex is bad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys. ive got a really embaresing problem! my bf and i hav bin togetha for 2 yrs. bt we seriously lacking in the intimacy deprtment! the sex isnt good because i neva go on top and we neva change styles plus we've never kisd coz i just simply cant kiss. he has become very ... (90 words)

How can do more for my boyfriend in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ommg i need help. i'm 17 and been with my b/f for about 2 yrs, it's a very good relationship and we both lost our virginity to each other but here's the problem he seems to be doing everything. i feel really guilty but everytime i try something i do it wrong, i tried a handjo... (180 words)

I'm being blamed for a rumor starting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my friend hacked into my freinds account and saw that she was bi becasue she asked questions like i think im bi .....ect well anyways she told me and a few other people that she was bi and the rumor spread and everyone is blaming me saying i started it....what should i do?... (53 words)

Going through love withdrawals..help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After the break up with my exhusband, I read a lot of books to heal and realize that I was a co-dependent and a love addict. I saw the signs and now am aware of why my relationships failed. 7 months ago, I met a man and we instantly connected and were attracted. W... (400 words)

I was dumped by text for asking too many questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i was dumped from a text (bad thing) just for asking too many questions. i only wanted to know how she was doing and how she was feeling. and now my heart has shattered... she's moving soon but i wanted to be with her till the end. i loved her she made my life happy i dont know ... (62 words)

Dont know what I am! Should I come out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, just some general backround info you need to know. 1.I'm a 13 yo. boy 2.I don't know if im straight, gay, or bi. I don't know what my orientation is, because it could be hormones, but I find MEN, not boys to be attractive, I also like girls. I fantasize alot about ha... (93 words)

No wonder guys are "coming out of the closet"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

- Dated this girl. We're both adults. I asked her out a couple of time and she always asked to see me again the next day for a movie or whatever so things were great. She says she digs me so much and I dig her. She kisses me. She says she's not ready for a relationship so... ... (157 words)

They say horrible things about me making me feel totally unloved and unattractive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy. i'm probably being stupid but well i just feel really self- concious and unconfident. well i have a bit of a slutty past and i admit that but a few of my friends constantly call me a whore etc and won't let it drop about my past and who've i've been out with and what hap... (190 words)

Are we just friends? Why do we act the way we do then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I met a guy online about 4 months ago. We chatted and finally met in person. Since then we email each other everyday, the whole day, text everyday when one or the other is out of the country, when he comes into town (he lives faraway) we always meet up for dinner, movies ... (159 words)

I had sex with my married teacher and now I want him to be with me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i posted a question quite a while back saying i tried to kiss my teacher but he rejected me. However last night i was at a nightclub with my friends and because hes only like 26 himself he was there and we started talking and he was saying how he wished he never rejected ... (173 words)

Periods becoming lighter and lighter...could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 nearly 16 and at the end of november my boyfriend entered me. It happend before I knew it he went in for a couple of seconds like twice, he didn't come in me. I knew it was likely i wasn't pregnant i'm normally late anyway. And I was worried but i did come on 6 days ... (125 words)

I'm really confused about my sexual orientation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so, let start off with im a 16 year old girl. problem is, how do i know if im straight, bi or les? like i know what it means to be each one, but im so confused and it freaks me out because there is so much pressure around me to be straight or to just choose. at first, i though... (164 words)

Can all girls get a tampon on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey am 15 and I was wondering if all girls can get a tampon in. I have tried many times and I still cannot fit it in but my bf can fit his finger sort of in. Is this something I should be concerned of. Is this abnormal?... (48 words)

Stretch marks on breast

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have unsightly stretch mark looking things on my breast. I was wondering what it's from? And how can I get rid of these marks? Is it because they're getting "saggy"?... (31 words)

According to guys, if you are raped, do they think of you as "loose"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you get raped does it affect your muscles? In a mans terms does getting raped make you "loose"? ... (19 words)

G/f would black out and wake up with guys..she can't remember what happened!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend recently told me something that I wish she never had. She was going through a tough time, and slept with guys, then woke up with them in her bed, and didnt remember what had happened. She said this happened several times. There was substance abuse during this ... (192 words)

Got involved with ex, wife found out and now wants to end things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - 40 yr old, Married for 15 years - 2 great kids ages 12 and 8. I love my wife very much, always have and always will. I started texting and emailing with my ex after seeking love and compassing that I was not getting at home. My ex was very lovey doevy with me just as always. I ... (158 words)

Still love my first love - but I have a new boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Here is my situation: I am 19. Back in June, I was very very close to taking back my first love We had been together for 3 years, he broke my heart very badly, and it took a year to forgive him. But in this past summer, I felt how much he had changed and how... (538 words)

Confused & friends teasing me about this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy but he's a year younger than me. I dont have a problem with it and i know i shouldnt listen to other people but my friends have been taking the mick. i would really like to have a relationship with him but i'm nervous about it. I dont fancy him or want ... (116 words)

Teacher love story......And Obbsession...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i am only 16...My questions is does it mean anything if your teacher(married) stares at you a lot and tries to talk to you in the hallway and always compliments on everything you do and his always smiling every time he sees you. Like today well i got to class early and he s... (334 words)

How long will it be before I know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I normally have an irregular period and its been that way for awhile. Just before i met my boyfriend it had been skipping just about 2 months then i got it and now for the past three months i havent had it. About a week ago me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. Then the next ... (80 words)

Now I don't exist for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i wanted to know why could it be that he acts ,like he dont care anymore about me we have been dating for 2 m nths in the beginning it was all about me and know it seems i dnt even exsist for him... (45 words)

My chat friend - nice and gorgeous in person - wants to hook up and be friends. But he has a gf already.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There this guy that has been texting me emailing me for over a year now! We've never met just chatted online. Weve never got together cos ive kinda been getting over a relationship.then i was single and he wasn't.he was single i wasn't! Anyway hes been with a girl 5 months but ... (124 words)

Follow up: My 26 yo wife having an affair with a 72 yo man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Thank you for your help with my question I posted at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-cheated-with-a-72-year-old.html Here's some more context on the situation. Someone asked: (original question, with answers in brackets below!) -------- Here's a few suggest... (860 words)

My ex wants to have sex with me on my Birthday, but I am not a cheater. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have a bf but i keep thinking about my ex and is crazy because i love my bf but we have sex issues. the sex has never been good but i didn't leave him because i love him and i didn't want to just tell him and hurt his feelings. but we have spoken about it and we are both... (205 words)

He refuses counseling. What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, I am 28 years old and I've been married to the ove of my life for almost 2 years with a 1 year old son. We've known each other for almost 11 years and he's mostly been a good person. But for the last six months we've been having problems. Little fig... (324 words)

Why can't he ask me to be his girlfriend already? Is he afraid of commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this 23 year old guy for over a month and he still won't ask me to be his girlfriend. In the time that we spend together, he treats me really well, better than I have ever been treated before, but he is always horny and wants to have sex. I asked him if that... (153 words)

Is he bored? He chats on MSN more than with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend haven't been going out for long but i think hes getting bored of me because he always talks to his friends but hardly to me but on msn hes really nice to me and says he misses me all the time but when i actually see him hes acts differently then he does on m... (71 words)

Want out, but don't want to hurt her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok..theres been this issue dwelling on my mind for some time and i've turned to here for some advice. Basically i met this girl about a couple of months back and we really got on well and hit it off. We text and see each other fairly often, but i've been kinda holding ba... (269 words)

I wish there was something I can do to give him a reality check

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - omg.. where to begin.. well im 17, a senior in high school he's 18 and a college freshman. we'll I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months and everything was perfect in the beginning we were together all the time.. we never ever argued.. but when he moved... (379 words)

New mother: just curious when babies start to say their 1st word

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - just a question that im curious about. my son who was 8 weeks early is actually following the developmental charts just fine. when will he speak his first word appx.?? just curious... (32 words)

BF's lies to parents about our relationship. Should I expose everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. We were engaged 11 years ago, but broke up only to get back together 8 years later. I found out he lied to his parents about our breakup to make him out to be the good guy and me the bad. He has to yet to set them stra... (177 words)

Is it wrong for me to feel unappreciated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together a year. I love her very much. Since we have gone out, I have paid for the gas for us to travel (my vehicle ), every date (movies, eating out, etc.) This has never really bothered me, but I also am a college student and (if your in coll... (269 words)

Is he looking out for us or is he just a damn bimbo?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, and i feel i might be pregnant. the problem is that my boyfriend for a year is telling me to get an abortion. i was stunned as he always talked about me having his first child. he's calling me every minute to check up on me but ... (168 words)

I feel really sad about my 25 year long marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) age - I feel really sad about my 25 year long marriage. I feel ,my husband has no love for me,but he says he does. I want to know what is your opinion,on this. This are the things ,I feel ,that he does not love me. -he is not affectionate -he has no sexual desire -he never sa... (161 words)

How do you ask a girl for anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you ask a girl for anal sex? Iv been having "normal" sex for a while now and i find that i really want to just try anal sex with a girl. A lot of girls i know hate the thought of it and wud probably run a mile if you asked. But what is the best way to ask a girl without ... (101 words)

How do I suggest different sex position to my fiance? Or is she just set in her ways?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I love her dearly and wouldn't change her for the world but, unfortunately, I'm getting bored with the sex. It's her on top or me on top. Most of the time it's her. I've tried talking to her about different positi... (172 words)

Unfaithful woman woes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - For seven months, I've been dating a woman who is 10 years older than me. This is the longest relationship I've been in, and I lost my virginity to this woman. She is my everything. She has problems with being unfaithful. She said that is one of her biggest worries ab... (716 words)

I am married and attracted to a woman I have never met in person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married and increasingly attracted to a woman i have never met in person. She is also married. Everything seemed to be going well. I even wanted to meet her and was willing to travel the distance to do so-we live in separate states. I just wanted to get to know her bett... (166 words)

I don't want him back, but I hate falling out with people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex left me with no warning and refused to give me any one good reason why. I was good to him, didn't cheat and didn't give him any cause that I could think of to make him treat me this way. I was very angry about this and was very nasty to him via text on a couple of ... (149 words)

Am I being possesive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. last fall he quit his job and is staying with family now. he calls me everyday and text me sometimes. the problem is he doesn't live that far away now and i only see him once during the week and then on the week... (150 words)

Does he want me back, or just stringing me along?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been broken up with my bf for about 4 months now. We have never not been in contact the whole time and still hook up/hang out sometimes. He has told my sister that he is going to marry me.. called my mom to catch up.. and keeps sending me mixed signals. I want to get ... (138 words)

Should I ask her out or wait awhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known her since grade 9 (grade 11 now) and we've been pretty close friends since then, I started liking her around June last year. She has had a couple bad relationships where the guy would date her for a couple weeks then ask her out again, and treat her badly, not like ... (124 words)

He's made it clear that he won't date me..but I like him!

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i like this guy thats plays the drums in a band at my church. I know that he doesnt like me because he said he would never date a younger girl. and im two years younger than him. but i dont know what to do. he makes it so hard to not like him. hes always smiling at me. and ... (168 words)

My buddy's dating a nut job because the sex is amazing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

- My buddy is dating this really messed up girl. They have some really good highs but some bad lows. It's extremely draining for him and he puts up with a lot and I know why he does: The sex is really good. He's got some particular "preferences" and the fact that she genuine... (408 words)

Is there anyone out there whose spouse DOES NOT look at other men/women??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear People, Isn't there anyone out there whose spouse DOES NOT look at other men/women? All day, i've been searching for someone but every single title i find is all about how their husbands look at other women. Well, my husband DOES NOT look at other women, and he never ha... (255 words)

Was I just a FWB or a Plan B only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - It has been a while since I’ve been here at Cupid asking questions mainly because other than sorting out my life I haven’t been in any sort of relationship to have any issues. Its a bit long... But quite interesting... And there’s quite a bit of background needed: THE ESSEN... (1570 words)

My boyfriend won't stay with me unless I lick him and strip

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is her little sister i am 14 nearly 15. it all started at his 15th birthday party when we got a bit drunk.then i shared a bed with him we keep hugging and kissing. he went under the cover and pulled be pj bottoms down and started touching me there. but i told in not to.i... (99 words)

What if I get horny in the school shower amongst other boys? Will it ruin my reputation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay next year ill be entering the world of high, wich is pretty scary, especially because im going to try out for the footballl team...and if your in gym or an athletic team it's required to take a shower..ad the thing is i get horny when i shower so if i shower at school ... (88 words)

How do you cope with being taken advantage of by your family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age - I have family problems. When I was 15, my brother (whom I'd always been close to) married a woman who in my opinion (and in that of others) is pure evil. She took a dislike to me and over the years (36 of them) has turned my brother against me. They are the greediest people o... (372 words)

When should I break up with him, and how do I do it in the nicest way possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey - please can you help me! I'm 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 5 (nearly 6) months. Recently I've been thinking about breaking up with him - I just don't have the same feelings for him anymore and there are lots of things that he does that really annoy me. The th... (400 words)

Tips on how not to gag when giving BJ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I don't enjoy giving BJ's but my boyfriend (obviously) likes them. I feel bad because he gives me head all the time and for nothing in return, but I know that he wants to get them more... Does anyone have any advice on how to give a really good BJ or at least some a... (84 words)

In love with two women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, Well i'm Scared to admit it I am in love with to girls I have known one for about lets say 7 months and the other about 3-4 maybe 5 months total the first woman lets call her (awkwardkitty) and the one I know less (jynxy) please note these are made up names, I am having i... (299 words)

He doesn't want to have sex

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are both 26, we have successful careers on cruise ships. We have been in a relationship for about 3 years. When we are separated for a few weeks +/- 4-8 weeks at a time, we we get back together we have amazing sex for about two weeks then it stops and goes... (160 words)

I'm very concerned about my flatmate: her boyfriend cheats on her all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, This is sort of on behalf of my flatmate. I'm really worried about her and her relationship. She's 21 and leaving uni this year, and for the past 4 years on and off, has been with her boyfriend who treats her like a doormate. They went to different uni bu... (281 words)

Not good looking enough to get a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - do guys like girls with fat round face and short and heavy because i am short,fat round face and heavy.up on my 30s and i never had boyfriend i would n,t know how to get one.i am sick of liking guys who don,t like me.a guy of nice looks and nice personalty would n,t like me ... (72 words)

Can I lose my virginity through masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am frmo a very closed mined cluture and i am geeting married in a couple of months i used to masturbate when i was young and sometimes till now too...we are not allowed to have sexual intercourse i ned to know if masturnation can cause me to lose my virgintiy it i... (60 words)

I want out of the relationship but she's so depressed I'm afraid to leave!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel more like my girlfriend's mental health carer than her boyfriend. I never relised she would need to go to cousoling and take anti-depressents. I spend most days trying to cheer her up for one reason or another and it's bringing me down. I've been trying to make her feel ... (105 words)

Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

8 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. Now its been little over a week... (110 words)

I left him, after he hit me (and other problems). Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 21year old girl im very confused.my past is very hard, i had a baby 2 years ago with the guy i loved and shortly after my baby was born she passed away due to an illness. since then me and my partner have been helping each other get through this with the odd arguments then ... (425 words)

Every time I start to get feelings about a guy they run away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so pathetic I can't even get a boyfriend. When i finally do, everything always turns bad. I am 19 and have aspergers syndrome so people generally think i'm wierd, although i have no problems talking to guys as friends. My best friend just got married (she's the same age as ... (127 words)

My boyfriend was lovely but now turned abusive. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a massive problem right now, cant sleep at night, cant eat. I don't know what 2 do. Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and for the first few months he was so lovely and so good 2 be with. But now I am so scared of him. He tells me wha... (224 words)

The picture I sent wasn't of me, and now he wants to meet in person!

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8 April 2009 (M) age 30-35 - ok i have a big problem now and i don't know what to do so i'm confused i have been dating someone for two weeks now and he is so serious with me but the problem is that i lied to him about my picture, i sent to him another persons picture without knowing he was serious ... (192 words)

Is Mum right for giving me these lectures and calling me immature?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with my Mum and every now and again we have trivial arguments, which mainly arise when she talks about what life is actually all about and more importantly how I should be living it. She is fairly random and brings it up whenever she feels like to, plus it can last for ... (255 words)

How can I ask him to let go of his ex's "memories" and what I mean to him?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is it. I had to make a call to my mom from my boyfriends phone, my phone is in for repairs, right, so well i was going down the list to find my mom's number i came across a contact called 'sweetheart' allow with his ex-wife details. I was rather hurt by this and aske... (221 words)

Is she happy because she may be seeing another guy?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my gf have been going out for a few months and things are kinda rocky atm. She has been going through some rough family times and was pushing me away till recently. She says that it will take time for things to get back to normal between us but lately she has been... (84 words)

I have lied to him about my age but I love him

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have recently met a guy and we have got off on a really good start the problem is i have lied about my age saying i am 19 when i am really 16. he really likes me too, but him being 10 years my senior i know he wont like me for the following reasons. 1. i am far to young ... (155 words)

Who should I choose? "C" or "R"?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been going out with my bf for just over a year now. my bf ("C") has always known that i have been really close with his brother ("R") but it has only been a friendly jokey type of thing if you no what i mean, its just like hugs and kisses acting as if we are in ... (149 words)

Can't stop crying! Will the pain of our break up ever end?

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8 April 2009 (F)

- So its been a few days since my break of boyfriend of 4 years.. I feel sh*t and awful and can't stop crying..I am gutted it has actually come to this. I loved him so much and I truely thought he felt the same. But he is being so cold to me. It looks like he really wants out of ... (100 words)

Is it in poor taste for my friend to ask for money via a website?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it in poor taste to ask for money via a website? a few days ago, a "mature in age" friend of mine that I have not talked with in about three months sent me and all of his friends one of those collection pages (Fundable.com) asking for money. This money is fund his dream to... (109 words)

He's a great guy.. But Pot is in his life..

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Readers, I recently starting dating somebody. He is a really great guy. I have some strong feelings about him, and he also feels the same about me. I am a " good girl" as you call it. No drugs, no drinking, partying or bars. I am also a mother to a toddler. He smokes Pot. Not ... (163 words)

Am I mad? Do you know how to stop these imaginations?

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8 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm in love with someone but that person doesn't have feelings for me.That's not the problem I'm having now. The problem is I have stupid imagination like I have sex with him and that if he likes me,the things he would do to me. I have this kind of thing since I was ... (104 words)

Yogurt on your vagina?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about using plain yogurt to help with yeast infections. I know you can put it right on your vagina, however I do not know how long you are suppose to do that for, or how many days you should. Does any one know anything about this home remedy? I natuarlly have ... (99 words)

Is 30 years long enough?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age - Dear Cupid - I don't really think you exist, but I'll write you anyway. I met a pretty red-headed girl at a football game during my senior year of high school and fell head over heals for her. The buddy who had arranged for me to... double date... with a friend of hers was ... (402 words)

Once her heart is turned is there a way to unturn it?

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8 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I can't forget her... and its been two years. So we. she and I, were together two years ago.. for only about..6 months. Then we got separated by our jobs. By the time we got separated I was convinced she was wifey type, just that quick. I mean, she was kind, and gentle, an... (933 words)

What kind of relationship is this? What should I do?

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8 April 2009 (M) - When I'm out in public or around her family it like she doesn't like for me to say anything. I talk to her in the stores when we shop but its like it goes through one ear and out the next. Kinda like talking to a brick wall or someone who wants no bother. It like she gets seri... (151 words)

What are the consequences for masturbating too much (for a female)?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love masturbating lol But I do it so much I'm afraid it will make me "looser" or something. What are the consequences of doing it too much?... (28 words)

Does he have feelings for me? All the signs are there!

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophomore in high school and I met a guy when I first moved here and have know him for almost two years. We get along well, but he's always been less social than I am. I've recently started talking to him more again, and I've never been more sure that there's mutual f... (242 words)

If it's platonic, why say that he loves me?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll try to keep this brief and not include every detail of the past three years... I started seeing an older guy at the end of my master's degree. I got a job and moved away. Then when he graduated with his doctorate he moved to the same area. We stayed together through... (458 words)

Whats the game plan here with her?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex of two years split sometime ago, I found out she was seeing someone else. There have been ups and downs between us, and we have never quite had closure. She has played games with me. Anyway she recently has started to show an interest in who I talk to and turning up a... (269 words)

If he likes me then why does he make fun of me?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy in my class but his pretty weird but really cute..he always makes fun of me and idk if that means he likes me..today he was like "hey babe" to me i turned red and i was like "im not ur babe"(smiling) then before the class ended,he said i should shave my face ... (193 words)

Is it me or is there too much attachment with his daughter?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age - I have a great boyfriend, but the problem is he is too attached to his 22 yr. daughter. We've been together for almost 3 yrs. and during the 1st yr of our relationship he did not have his daughter. But somehow a summer stay has turned into forever.(I was told it was temporary... (388 words)

Should I listen to my head or my heart?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, there's a story involved with this one. I like this boy. A couple months ago we started hanging out and things progressed and we did some pretty inappropriate things together (use your imagination here). We never really intended for anything to move as quickly as it di... (374 words)

Feeling drained after masturbation. Is this normal?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - OK, I masturbate 1 time a day or 1 every other, and I was just wondering, after I cum, I'm not really horny anymore, and I feel very physically drained, is this normal?... (33 words)

I'm going to Spain but I am scared of not being accepted.

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what category this fits into, but I guess it's the friends category? I certainly don't mean to be offensive but I'm curious about how people in Spain view Americans? (North Americans, as in people from USA) I've always dreamed of going there and I'm going thi... (360 words)

What should I do to control these urges?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, I'm 13, in the 8th Grade, and I like to fantasize about having group sex and individual sex with about 4+ of my male teachers. I know this will never happen, but I get so aroused by thinking about it. I am very attracted to older hairy men, and it sounds weird, but it's ... (67 words)

Did I give my best friend the right advice?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my best friend is having a Big problem... she likes this guy. She and this other girl were competing for his attention/ being his GF. Anyways it turns out he was deciding between the two of them and before he could the other girl made the first move. Now my BFF is stuc... (175 words)

I have eating disorder, how do I overcome this?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound self-centered, but this is a question about the relationship with myself. When I was twelve to fourteen years old, I had a minor case of anorexia because I was depressed and did not like living where I lived. This was my first case of it and it ultima... (239 words)

Does he just want me me for company and sex? What is in his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My story is a little complicated . I married very early and I am 26 and we separated now. I met a guy last year and became crazy for him in a short time , he is 35 and just broke up with his ex at that time. He said he likes me very much and we hung out for about two and half... (644 words)

Will sex make us closer?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 16, soon to be 17. We've been together for 11 months only. We've done other sexual stuff and it seems after we do that we fall more in love. We've done basically everything except, actual sex lol. But we haven't done anything recently. We ... (105 words)

I feel bad for not listening to my parents about my boyfriend

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 16 years old and im going through a hard time right now..i got caught sneaking my boyfriend into my house at midnight i feel so bad because i had a lot going on with my parents they were telling me a lot. where it got to the point that both of them started crying and ... (225 words)

We live far apart and she wants to tell her parents about us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I met a girl over the internet, and after knowing her for months we fell in love, but we've never met in real life. The problem is, I'm 20 and live in the UK, she's 15 and lives in the US. We want to see each other, but she doesn't know how to tell her parents abou... (118 words)

We're dating and no one knows we're together

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello i am 25 dating a 17 year old girl and i love her with all my heart and would do anything n this world for her happiness.she and i turn 26 before she turns 18 and we r keeping our relationship a secret except to the people we trust.we have not had sex yet so no I'm not ... (123 words)

Does she like me too?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 16-year-old boy and I'm love with the most beautiful girl (In my opinion of course) there's only one problem, she's one of my best friends. She doesn't know I feel this way and I want to tell her and I want her to feel the same way however I know that she doesn't have ... (452 words)

Is my fiance cheating on me?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was told by this woman that her and my fiance were taking off on there lunch hr and having sex. i asked him he said it was a lie. i don't have any proof. what do i do. we all work in the same building too.... (47 words)

Would he notice if I am a virgin?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok every guy i kno thinks im not a virgin but i am. They think im not because the way i act. I hang out with alot of people who arent virgins.They asked me if i was and i said no.I was scared what they would think of me. so i went along with it but like this guy i really like ... (89 words)

Wait for him in Iraq or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been friends with this guy for almost four years now. He is so attractive and has had a power over me from the moment I met him. But due to complicated situations (both being in relationships, college, he joined the army, etc) we have never pursued a relationship. But ... (497 words)

How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boy-trauma situation that I don't quite know how to handle and am hoping someone can help..... A few months ago, I moved in in with a male friend of mine who I've known for about 8 years (we are both in our early 30s). I have always been secretly attracted to him but ... (457 words)

How can I ask her in a special way?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have these unbearable feelings for my close friend. How can i ask her in a special way so it really means something? I want to make it as special as possible, up for anything no matter how much planning, effort or money required! ... (44 words)

Does he like me?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have loved this guy since the 6th grade(even though I had to figure out that I liked him because he's so different then any other guy I’ve liked before) Anyways in the 6th grade(two years ago) him and some of my friends were tight and we were easy to approach each other. In ... (1322 words)

Me and my boyfriend fight a lot

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend fight a lot, but we want to be together and love e/o, were both stubborn but wana make it work we've been together for only 11 months and from the start its been tough. Specially since he never gives in after we argue, he has too much pride. Help :)??... (54 words)

A strong attraction towards a co-worker

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8 April 2009 (F)

age - Let's say you've been working at a place for several years and you've somehow managed to fall in love with a co-worker, and he with you as well, and that you've done this through demonstrations and actions, NOT through verbal communication. Only those of you that this may have ... (288 words)

I really want him to kiss me

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What do i do if my bf says hes going to kiss me but doesn't because he said we weren't alone? There was only 1 person in there but I'm a little shy to. I really want him to kiss me.... (42 words)

Should I make the first move or let him?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 3 months and we have made out with the kissing etc which is great. I can't tell if he wants to have sex because as soon as we get to that point he just stops and that's it. Should I make the first move or let him?... (54 words)

My teacher seems to act flirty different around me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am new on this website Ive been doing research on signs if a teacher likes you or not and I have the same problem right now . It is wrong to like a teacher even if your an adult or a young teenager your still his or her student and the teacher is your teacher thats its ... (381 words)

Growing apart

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when you feel like you and your boyfriend are growing apart but you really don't want the relationship to come to an end? Please help me out :[... (32 words)

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our relationship) We've been having sex now ... (185 words)

Am I Suffering From Hysteria?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was about 11 I tried masterbating for the First Time and It Didn't really do anything. But I noticed Something Strange, ever since....I'm always wet. Sometimes more then other, but my panties are getting wet and it's staining them! I was Watching TV the other night ... (92 words)

Does he only want me for sex?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 5 Day's ago a Friend of mine sent me an honesty Box Comment saying " i would like to make sweet love to you all night long, it'll be so good you wont want me to stop." I figured out that it was one of my perverted Friends, But he's a Nice Guy....Just....Alot of Sexual ... (216 words)

He's trying to control my life

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - He's told me that there are two things that will make him treat me well and one of those things is good sex. I have always let him know that he makes me feel amazing and makes me feel better physically than I ever have (it's true), and I have NEVER once said that s... (382 words)

I am getting fed up with this game playing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused, seriously: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and it hasn't been perfect, but I am at a loss with what is going on now. We talk to eachother everyday, text, msn ect and now it is going on 4 days and nothing. Lately he's been 'pricky' and I have been ... (218 words)

I love her, but I just keep watching her hoping she notice me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, in my first year in college i met a girl that study with me, and i love her. we don't speak to each other or talk about something, i even didn't ask her for some books or such things, i just keep watching her hoping she notice me. i was keep watching her for very long time, ... (170 words)

If me and my ex went out would it work?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex are good friends he likes to joke around with me saying he wants to touch me. We made a bet he said his prize was to have a lil feel of me i said ok but he didn't want to do it at first. i thought he weren't attracted to me. After he told me he just felt bad ... (147 words)

He screamed at me and left out of the house! Now, he's accusing me of being GAY!

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my fiance on and off for 5 years. We have been back together for about two. He used to be the biggest sweetheart, i swear. But now he screams at me and when he's mean I almost immediately cry. I'm 19 so it's not like i'm a baby but I just ... (191 words)

I think he may have pushed her for sex and hurt her..Should I even continue dating this guy?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 6 days ago, A friend of mine asked me out over facebook. But not the way most People would.....He said very bluntly that he wanted to have Sex with me. I thought that he was Just being the crude Joker that his is and I said "Well as Long as this Aint a Joke...". I'm ... (201 words)

Have I made the right decision by leaving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, im a 21year old girl, and im very confused with my life and i need some advise from people. my past is very hard, i had a baby 2 years ago with the guy i loved and shortly after my baby was born she passed away due to an illness. since then me and my partner have been ... (328 words)

I feel bad for seeing an ex's friend..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy for 4 years, we were so in love but in the end grew apart. It didn't end well and we no longer talk to each other. It has been 15 months since the break up and we both seem to have moved on with our lives, he is seeing someone else and has been for a while, while ... (466 words)

I know that I need to leave my wife...but does she really love me?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in the most difficult situation that I have ever been. I am 34 years old, married and have an 8 month old baby girl. About 2 years ago I hired a woman to work for me who was 6 years younger than I was. After about 3 months I knew that I was attracted to this woman. She was ... (582 words)

I was drunk...got the number! She's not that hot...

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. please dont think im shallow or anything, im really not! would like some advice. i met a girl on sunday night. i was drunk, thought she was really good looking. i pulled her and got her number. we've been texting all day yesterday and today. ive asked her when she is out n... (291 words)

Should we stop making out?

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8 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever me and my girlfriend make out, because we're alone, it turns into this big romantic movie montage, we get so caught up in the moment and just loose ourselves...she gets on top of me on the bed/couch and starts feeling me up and i do the same, but the thing is we dont ... (81 words)

He's caused me so much hurt! Why do I love him so much?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm completely lost with my feelings at the moment. I'm still madly in love with my ex even though he broke me and betrayed me on more than one occasion. It's been a month now since we split and i felt completely emotionally drained, i didn't even cry over the end of our 4 yr ... (328 words)

Masterbation question...

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was masturbating earlier and then when i went to the bathroom and noticed one of my vagina lips was bigger than the other, like swollen or something. now its kind of sore. is this normal? will it go away?... (40 words)

No matter what I do...I cant orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i am 17 years old and will be turning 18 in 12 days, i just started having sex with my boyfriend in october of this year. Although we have only been having sex for a couple months we have "done it" many times, (by many i mean at least 3 days a week 3 times a day) now ... (174 words)

What's the deal with the student/ teacher fantasies?

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8 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem a but random, but please bear with me: what's the deal with student/ teacher fantasies? i've been hearing a lot of talk lately about how it's a man's "greatest fantasy" (and how they even go as far as watching porn on the subject) but it's the girls i know who... (106 words)

Should I act now or just leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

8 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in need of some advice. I broke up with my last girlfriend over 4 months ago and have been single since then. It's been OK, but I've never been that enthusiastic about long-term singledom and feel ready to begin a new relationship. At the moment, there's a girl in my ... (101 words)