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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Haven't had sex in nearly a year..said to let him know when I want him to stay over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age - I am sure my b/f still fancies me yet we have not had sex for nearly a year. He said I should let him know when I want him to stay over. I want him to take me out and make it special. It was his birthday last week and I bought concert tickets. He let me down and I went ... (156 words)

Ways to get rid of cellulite?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there girls, can any of you give me any advice on how to get rid of cellulite?? ive recently lost alot of weight and have a good diet. i also try to do an hours exercise 4 or 5 times a week, and drink lots of water. I feel happier with my body, but i just hate the celluli... (113 words)

Need advice about how to handle a situation at work

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5 April 2009 (F)

age - I have been in my new job a year and as I have come to the end of my probation, I am being bullied my my manager and her manager - both trying to make me appear incompetent and using triva to extend my probation. I have also been having problems with my son with social ... (174 words)

But I'm lost as to what to do. I don't wanna get my hopes up and get hurt like her ex. Do I stick around or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together in a long-distance relationship for about 18 months. We've had our fair share of ups and downs. Her moving away for a job during a hard period. My insecurity because of an event that happened with her ex bf. And now, I've finally come clean ... (539 words)

Sleeping with my best friends brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - im sleeping with my best mates brother what shall i do? do you think that i should tell her or not !... (23 words)

Is my co-worker hitting on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - is my coworker he hitting on me? I started working for a new real estate firm. This guy started about 2 months after I did. We agreed to help each other through the real estate business, ideas, motivation, etc. I actually moved desks to be closer to his since we decided to ... (626 words)

I know he cares for me, but at the same time I feel like I'm being used.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, so its been two months since me and my ex of about two years have broken up. Our breakup was kinda big with me thinking he cheated on me, to me beating him up for it. To him basically dating the girl later that he cheated on me with. It was a huge thing because we ... (422 words)

Music fans question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys... A music question here! This is going to sound really silly lol, but... My first relationship went really wrong, i was emotionally abused and the guy i was with told me things like no guy would ever love me etc... and along with that i have been bullied ever... (230 words)

I don't know how to cum during sex, the intense feelings scare me and stress me out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex for the past 2 years and as far as I can tell I think I've only came once or twice. The other night he was fingering me and it felt nice for a bit, then it seemed to get a bit intense and I couldn't tell if it was hurting me or not and I just felt kind of ... (272 words)

How do I turn my sex buddy into my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sort of seeing this guy at the moment, it started out as a 1 night stand back in January but recently we seem to be making a habit of meeting in the pub for a few drinks and then going back to his house. I guess you could call us 'sex buddies'. Recently my feelings for ... (204 words)

I feel that she loves me but isn't physically attracted to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - We have been going out for almost three months, she tells me she loves me and we spend a ton of time together, talk every day and send each other messages constantly. We don't have a sex life, she always seems to stop things when we are about to have sex... We have no problems ... (87 words)

I don't know if our relationship is going anywhere, I feel so alone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for over 3 years and you'd think by now we'd stop fighting but it's just getting worse. I hate it when he drinks because he's just stupid and I can't talk to him, not to mention, our first new years together i woke up to find him sleeping next to another ... (227 words)

Thoroughly confused! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is thoroughly confused again more to my question and in regards to the answer we did have a big problem that made my ex distant and that was that I was listening to very bad advice from a very insecure friend of mine and I started being very insecure which is not how I ... (241 words)

15 and addicted to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help with my porn addiction, I have been looking at it for I don't know how long. I have tried to stop but I can't, I am Addicted. I need any help I can get.... (37 words)

How can I lose weight fast without losing my boobs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! How can I lose weight fast without losing my boobs? Hi I'm 13 and a size 10 dress size, I'm 8.4 stone im a 36DD and I'm happy with my boobs so I don't want to make them any smaller. I feel self-conscious about my weight, im not massivly overweight and have a curvy ... (89 words)

Did my aunt's boyfriend rape me or did I betray her trust?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just over 2 months ago I was at a party at my aunt's house. Everyone had left before 1 o'clock in the morning but I was sleeping over. My little cousin was asleep upstairs and my auntie had been drinking so she went to her bed and left me and her booyfriend downstairs. I had ... (430 words)

Is it weird to stick something in my anus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old male and I have heard that when you masturbate and stick your finger or something up your anus that is acts as a G spot for men. Is this true? And will this hurt my anus or prostate. And can this even cause Prostate Cancer? My question really is, is it safe ... (89 words)

Does her grabbing me mean that she wants sex from me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfreind were in the basement on the couch snuggled under a blanket watching a movie... later on she started making out with - I really liked it... but five minutes into the tongue action, she grabbed and felt on my penis.. I kinda pulled back and was really freaked ... (150 words)

He only came to watch telly!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been out with a few dates with an old flame and on the third date we ended up kissing and we ended up sleeping together. A couple of days after this I went on holiday for a week. When I got back he came round for the evening and we watched tele and chatted about my holiday ... (188 words)

Opinions please. Do I stand a chance with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'll try n keep this short! Basically there's this girl that i like, and im trying to work out if maybe she feels the same. She knows im a lesbian. When we have sleepovers we cuddle up like a normal couple wuld, like 'spooning' and falling asleep cuddling up n stuff. We ... (145 words)

I'm always just seen as "one of the guys"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would appreciate some outside advice. When I started 6th form there were some new people start too and one of these was a boy who is also one of my best friends closest friends (she also started school with me this year) so this boy and i became friends quickly, partly ... (250 words)

Should I even try to win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Let's start at the beginning: I met a guy on the first day of university, and we started going out shortly afterwards. We were together 18 months, then we got engaged (pretty young i know!). We have lived together for two years, and been engaged pretty much the whole time. ... (404 words)

My girlfriend's sexual activities are killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so this isn't your usual "omg her sexual history.." type thing. More so, how do you get past or over, a loved one's sexual, choices I'd say? I'm with the same woman for what we'd call a while now, both madly in love, plans to marry, have kids, etc the whole American d... (434 words)

We chat online all the time but why doesn't he ask me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I became friends with this guy in facebook, we chatted online every day, we are not completely strangers, more or less have the same circle of friends. We went out once, we had a great time and kissed. For the next three weeks, we chatted every day online, some ... (269 words)

Why can't he let the ex go and why would he want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dating a man for a couple of months. He told me things like love at first sight, my family will love you, I can see you in my home, could you see yourself living where I live etc. "joe" was in a relationship for 5 years with "Sally". She had maintained contact with her... (180 words)

What can I do to make her happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm just gonna get straight into it. Someone who I have liked for a couple of months now has been going through some really bad times, and I kinda knew half-heartedly about them before but now they seem to be gettng more serious. Her parents practically hate each other (her ... (200 words)

What do guys prefer...?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys only go for gorgeous looking girls and not plain looking girls?... (13 words)

Advice needed. Does he love me or is he just wanting to get inside my knickers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know if he really loves me and doesn't just want to get in my pants. After he fingered me and I gave him a hand-job he wants to do a little more. So do you think he really loves me or not. Hope you can help... (49 words)

Can giving head cause a throat infection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm really sick, I have a throat infection and I gave my boyfriend head this week. Is it possible that giving head can cause a throat infection. I know he's clean for std's, but I'm not sure since urine passes through there, it might cause a throat infection.... (48 words)

Foreign girls verses the local girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Where I live the guys mostly like foreign girls and not the local girls. Where does that leave the local girls? If guys only want the foreign girls.... (29 words)

I have a boyfriend but I'm attracted to girls too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was younger I used to kiss my friend in the toilets.(yes a girl!). I know this may seem like 'oh she's young and confused' but I'm not. But I am confused about what I am meant to do. I still have some feelings for girls and find girls more attractive then my boyfrien... (115 words)

I'm too intense when he's around. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I love a boy, we go to the same school but we don't know each other and we've never talked before. I saw him staring at me many many times and even my friends did. One of my friends is in his class and when he sees me with her he comes to us and pretends he's asking her ... (129 words)

My girlfriend flirted with this guy in a way I thought was disrespectful. I'm not sure what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A couple of nights ago we went to a party. My girlfriend got a little drunk and was a little flirty with some other guys. That didn't bother me at all really, but what did is that there was this one guy, she had just met, she was extra talkative to. A few minutes later, she ... (395 words)

I feel so ugly and annoying that I can't even think about ever dating another man again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up like an hour ago via messenger. We've broken up before and he always comes back. He is usually the one to break up with me. He doesn't trust me, because of my past. I've never cheated on him (or anyone), but he thinks I've been too easy in my life to trust. ... (506 words)

Any suggestions on getting rid of spots on my back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is about my body. I don't get too many spots on my face, however i find i get loaadss on my back, and it looks disgusting. My boyfriend hasn't seen it yet, and im hoping he will not be turned of by it?:/ Even if it doesn't bother him, i'd still like some advi... (82 words)

Any suggestion on tattoos and poems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

- Hi, im looking to get a tattoo in memory of my brother and sister who were stillborn. i want a poem but cant seem to find any.. does anyone know of any good ones?! x x x x x x thank you... (62 words)

My ex b/f lost his virginity just after we broke up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I Broke up with my Boyfriend a few months ago. I'm not sure if i still have feelings for him. But he lost his virginity right after we broke up. So does that mean he's lying or he had no feelings for me. I don't know whether im hurt he done it so soon or that he did it. ... (84 words)

How can I tell if this guy likes me so I can ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy i like.he is the nicest, quietest, guy in class and i think i should ask him out.but i don't want to be teased about asking him out if he doesn't like me back.how can i tell if he likes me so i can ask?... (47 words)

What do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Oh man!!- im still in shock!! what do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay??? Well that's what happened do me, i knew "D" since kindergarten, so it's been 8 years-we're really close friends and now all of a sudden he tells me he'... (113 words)

I dumped him. Does he feel hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you dump a man who has just been using you, does the man feel any hurt or will he just be relieved if he never loved you in the first place? I have been seeing this man on and off for about 6 months but he never loved me and was still seeing his ex so now I feel very low... (77 words)

I was 18 weeks pregnant at the age of 15 !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i was 18 weeks pregnant i decided to have a abortion because i was scared to tell my mom and was scared of what people at school would say to me if i kept the baby but now im am so sad because i took a life :'( and i keep thinking about it that it could have ha... (117 words)

I'm 14 and wants to know how to "snog"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi umm, im 14 and i just got a bf and i love him to bits, and he wants to snog me, but im really scared because i don't know how to , please help me? x... (41 words)

What should we do to let my bf's mother to agree for him to come over without her getting mad at him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other every single weekend since the end of January. He lives about 45 minutes away. Anyway, Well, he was supposed to come over today, I asked my parents and they said yes and we could go pick him up and take him home tonight. Last nigh... (189 words)

He is not ready for engagement!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i met my boyfriend through a friend nearly two years ago. he had been in a carnival in America a yr prior to me meeting him and had married an American girl with a 2 yr old son. they married in court and he then moved in with her he knew her 3 months before they married.he left... (175 words)

I found my soul mate. Should I tell him or just leave it at that for now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found my soul mate, but he is leaving my program for good. I won't see him anymore. I was thinking of telling him, but I'm afraid it will change things. Oh by the way, I'm 26 years old and he is 20 years old. Tomorrow will be the last time I will see him. Should I just l... (118 words)

Could my boyfriend cause my periods problems and abnormal smears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi this may seem like a strange question but.. i was with my b/f for 10 yrs and it was a really bad relationship i had very irregular periods i could go 3 months without one and had regular abnormal smears, we broke up for about two years and hey ho i had a period every 5 week... (91 words)

B/f wants to have threesome

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship and my boyfriend is 10 years older then I am! So he's experienced a lot! just about every girl that he has been with he has had a threesome.. and it hurts my heart knowing that he wants to bring this type of stuff in our relationship because it i... (204 words)

Should we take frequent short breaks from each other, or perhaps ... a break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone ..i have messed up my life....! i had a one year relationship with my girlfriend who was damn caring and loved me more than anyone this this world! she was the most responsible sensible and mature girl i have every come across in my life...but because of some ... (415 words)

How do I initiate him "going down" on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half now, and I've had some amazing times with him, at first, I was really uncomfortable about my body, which he respected and didn't rush me into anything, yet because he learned I didn't like him being anywhere near my ... (175 words)

He gives me gifts. Should I feel guilty dating others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I should not be asking this question at my age..so but in any case this is the least of my worries.. I am divorced, awaiting unemployment, my son is grown, I am mostly college educated, totally at a crossroads of my life..so other than not having my bearings about myself..... (407 words)

14 yo in LDR. What's going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey um i'm 14 and i've been dating a 15 yr old. For about a few week's now but this is the 2nd time we've dated, it's a long distance relationship and we never get to see each other, but i don't know what's going on with my boyfriend. We're kinda've loosing communication, i ... (101 words)

Do we have to wait 2 more weeks before we find out if she is pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf and I had sex a couple of times without protection in the last couple of days.. i didnt cum in her ...i withdrew and cummed outside...that im sure off... but i know i should have used a condom but now im kinda scared! she is gona take the night after pill which i know ... (108 words)

We are considering a structured open relationship. Good or bad idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I just broke up because I can't see him sexually and have no sexual attraction to him. After a few days of being miserable, we talked and he said he was willing to consider a structured open relationship, which is what I was leaning towards but he ... (348 words)

Next step: how do I give him a BJ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... well me and my boyfriend we are ready for the next step. he has already fingered me and i have given him a hand-job. we have talked about me giving him a blow job and i need to know how to do it.... (44 words)

19 yo F and feel inexperienced. Do men like hair or no hair down there?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and in a new-ish relationship. We're getting more serious and i really like him a lot, so want to go further sexually with him. I'd like some advice on what to do with my pubic hair. What do you guys prefer? I am afraid to ask him, because i am a shy person and do... (112 words)

I think my family stole my money. How do I handle the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - about 2 months ago i had 60 pounds go missing from my room, the only person who new where it was was my younger brother. he and my dad were the only ones who had been in the house apart from me and my mum as we were at work. Now i have had another 40 pound stolen an its the ... (140 words)

PORN raises its ugly head again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found porn on my boyfriends computer and it made me feel really betrayed and uncomfortable, I don't usually have a problem with that kind of thing, but he told me he doesn't watch it now. I don't know if I'm just being over dramatic which he says I am but I can't help how I ... (67 words)

One night stand problems!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound really really bad, but I really need some advice. I go to college and the other week Ii had a one night stand with this guy. I always thought he was good looking, but never really liked him, but I was really really drunk and it just happened. Before t... (280 words)

It's all such a mess of secrets, I need your opinions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I could really use your help, I don't know how to feel at the moment. In December I started a sort of friends with benifits situation with my best friend A, and it was all secret because he had a girlfriend at the time (wrong I know and I feel very guilty about that). T... (514 words)

Career choices..not sure what to do but need money!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I guess I need career decision help. Ok here it goes.. back in September I fell ill and was hospitalized for a week and went thru numerous tests and such..turned to try and find out what happended to me. I became unemployed due to they amount of time out I was out of work and ... (592 words)

We are "together" without the titles!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was set up with a guy (by my dad of all people) and we hit it off immediately. Now, 8 months later we are still "together without the titles" and he always says he is not looking for anything serious. However, we have sex. I feel like we're just friends with benefits but he ... (136 words)

Sleeping with someone else even though you still care for another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think and it is totally in people's right to sleep with someone else when you've broken up from someone after 6 months and they've tried and tried contacting you to sort things out but you've ignored them cos you had to sort yourself out. And now you are thinking of ... (90 words)

I'm 30, he's 60..problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my boyfriend (Greg) for 2 years, whom I loved very much, although because he was in the process of a divorce and had 2 kids, I did not see him as often as I liked and that hurt me. But, I wanted to wait it out until he was available. During my relationship with him, ... (230 words)

Questions about eating and diet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently been doing a health promotion campaign on body image, which focuses on anorexia, bulimia and obesity. I have mainly focused on bulimia and have researched a lot about it. I have been on a diet since the end of xmas and have lost 2 stone so far. From doing w... (297 words)

Getting rid of yellow teeth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old, 16 in July, and my teeth are naturally yellow. Is there anyway I can get rid of the yellowness? When I was baby I put on antibiotics and medication for a kidney condidtion which kind of wrecked my teeth. @__@ Not only are they yellow, they're weak and... (93 words)

What is happening with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Hi, i'll try to be short but would appreciate advice. About a month ago i began seeing a girl, she's new in the city so didn't have many friends, we went out a few times had afew kisses but not much else. She broke up with her ex about 3 months ago after 4 years so i understood ... (321 words)

We're close one minute then there's tension the next! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been on weird terms lately and I've had some trust issues recently and I'm trying to open up, but this other day I was in her room and there used to be this picture of us and now it's just gone. A little strange. Anyway, so the past few times we've been ... (212 words)

Advice on how to do Phone sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I just currently turned 14 and my boyfriend's about a year and 5 month's older than me. We have a very long distance relationship, but we've gotten to the stage of phone sex. And for some reason I won't do it with him, I feel bad because I talk about it with him and I'm ... (118 words)

Text cheating husband and the drama continues

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age - Me AGAIN with the text cheating husband. New developments......we have had a horrible weekend. He has always refused to show me June/July's phone bill to 'clear' his name but I said if we've ANY chance of trying again he must bring them home from work where they are delivered ... (847 words)

Should I wait around for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay guys so i need your advice. Me and my boyfriend have just broken up for the second time after getting back together a few months ago. It was because we don't have enough time to see each other as much as we would like due to work commitments. He has told me that once it ... (172 words)

Brilliant first date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

- Hi there, I have been chatting to this girl on the internet, she is 25, and i am 34. We have been sending emails back and forth to each other, then we sent pictures of ourselves, then after about 4 weeks we started chatting on the phone. We got along so well, we talked for ho... (385 words)

I'm the back up plan

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I met this guy, lets call him "Bert", through my group of friends. It was at my friends 16th birthday and we got on really well straight away. Not in the "Love at first sight" way, more like friends - so we swapped MSN addresses and phone numbers. Through the ne... (390 words)

Am I right to dump my long term partner?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - do you think i am right for dumping my long term partner over this? i hardly get to speak to friends as this guy is very paranoid and constantly thinks im up to something so i did everything to make him happy. once i done this we lived together without arguments and life was ... (220 words)

Oral sex, pregnancy, fingering ??

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can u get preganant thru fingering because we have had oral sex me n me bf but not sex and i am 15 days late on my period? Please tell me the truth I am so scared am 15I don't want to be pregnant spesh when my bf is 17 and I don't want him to be arrested.... (58 words)

Woman says they've been having sex! Believe him or her?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy 4 a few yrs. hes alot older,we have 2 kids together, we were talkin marriage. 1 day this woman said they had been having sex.should i beleive her. he says it didnt happen... (39 words)

Really like him but not in love with him!

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5 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok the shortest way i can put this is that i think i really like my boyfriend but im not yet in love with him. i dont know what it is but it seems that when i am not with him i want him so bad and i feel that i really wanna be with him. but then when im next to him its like i ... (136 words)

Friendship and heartbreak

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i wouldn't say my problem is all that different from a lot of other girls' out there.. i was dating this guy 5 years back.. we met in a club.. really hit it off.. n i had a big crush on him.. he asked me out the next morning.. i was in boarding school back the... (531 words)

Will they still operate?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having an operation tomorrow, and i'm feeling really ill. my temperature is 39 degrees celcius, i'm feverish and achy, will i still be able to go ahead with it or will the doctors refuse to operate, how can i make myself better... (43 words)

$30.00 too much?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - just a quick question. its one of my friends birthdays in a couple of days, i don't see him very often but speak to him every day so i'm going to send him his present. i've got him a book and some silly things for his car and was going to send him some money. i was going to ... (75 words)

Will he ever make contact? Or too nasty tests put him offf

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend and continued sleeping with him, that is all done now due to a lot of nasty texts messages sent by me whilst drunk i did this because he wouldnt take me back but still acted like we were together so i was confused, i said a lot of unforgivable ... (138 words)

Have we all met "the one" yet?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi people. i just want to know and i really need to know for sure. in life each and everyone of us meets ¨the one¨. the one is who were to be with and love forever. how do we know if we have met the one or not? because if we miss our chance at the one then will we remain lonely ... (73 words)

No one seems to take an interest in my studies and it upsets me!

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am doing a degree in social sciences, all my family and my partner have all taken medical related degrees. None of my partner or my family show any interest in my studies at all, or what i want to do with it. in fact a lot of the time I get the impression they think what i'm ... (138 words)

This is my first time. How do I give a handjob?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy, im 19 and am going to give my boyfriend a hand job for the first time, but im not sure what im doing. I've heard you have to pull back the foreskin, do you have to do this? And also, when you move your hand up and down, do you move the foreskin with the hand? or does th... (68 words)

How do I prove that I didn't spread rumours about him?

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5 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok so me any my ex are at the same college. we were only together for about a month but we were friends before that for about three months. since we broke up we don't talk in college anymore and we never say hello to each other but recently he told me that he wants to try ... (319 words)

Older woman younger guy...good idea? Bad idea?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age - Started seeing a guy 10 years younger than me. He says he likes older women and age isn't an issue. Still at the early stages but don't want to get hurt. Am I silly to even contemplate this is as a long term relationship. As I am an older Mum, his child is only one year... (95 words)

I love her but haven't told her

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls help me! I have a girl friend who i love but have not told. I dont know if she loves me but last few days she was asking me if i have a girlfriend,if i wanted to marry in the university(we are going to the same university),why i loved my former girlfriend,if my former ... (77 words)

Fiance breaks up, gets back together, breaks up again!

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me plz. My fiance well rather just bf because he broke up with me and we weren't engaged anymore. He then took me back and we were fine for a few days but now he ended it again. It really really hurts. He was my first everything. How do I get over this? I'm really hurting.... (57 words)

How much zinc to kill body odor?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age - I am a 15 year old girl who is pretty fit and healthy, but my body odour can get kind of bad sometimes. I shower everyday, use soap, shave, use anti-perspirant blah blah blah, but I heard that zinc can help a lot in reducing B.O. so we got some zinc tablets and I was just ... (108 words)

I'm a married woman with a huge crush on my married boss

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a married woman who has a huge crush on my boss who is also married I know its wrong but I can't stop I think about him all day now im even picturing him while im "with" my husband I feel like if I tell him I will get it off my chest and get over it maybe stop obsessing so m... (81 words)

I would like to get my ex back

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Id been in a relationship with a girl for about a year, a week ago out of the blue she told me that her feelings werent the same as they used to be and she was going to take the risk and end things, she said just wanted to build a really good friendship with me. I think... (154 words)

Older women dating younger guys

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - its high insight question.is there something with girl of 31 years old going out with 29 year old guy? Is there anything wrong with this? ... (26 words)

14 yo girl and no access to sex toys.

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, my name is B and i'm 14. :) recently i have been very horny and sexual :P i have been playing with myself and fantasizing but it hasn't been getting me off properly :( i was just wondering how i could masturbate and make myself cum? i have no access to toys. any adv... (67 words)

My teacher winks at me. Does it mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am kind of confused when it comes to men, so I don't really know what the case is with this. I'm in art school, and I had this teacher in one class last semester who recommended that I take another one he was teaching this year. So I did. I had done a really terrific... (332 words)

I think my [Indian] b/f is secretly in love with his cousin

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello to all! this question goes to Indians.either living in land or abroad.-For us being Spaniards.-a girl who is daughter of your grandmother's sister son.Is a close related cousin and we don't marry them.-yes,there have been cases,specially in older times but is not that ... (146 words)

Two important questions on contraceptive

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5 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hey i was wondering, i have never opened the morning after pill packet, and its two years expired. is it still effective? secondly, how do you know if the condom broke? cause i after the "quickie" i changed underwear and there was white secretion, but it could be just of ... (64 words)

My g/f now says she likes this guy, but she still likes me.

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, but her mom doesn't want her with me. She thinks we don't talk anymore, and she's set her up with some other guy. She is now confused and says she likes this guy, but still likes me. I'm hurt over this, what shou... (59 words)

What do I do on a Prom date? What should I expect?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help!!! I just asked a girl to prom (she said yes) and I don't know what to do now. Is it weird to go to prom on a single date? Because it seems like everyone group dates for prom. My date and I are both sophomores and I couldn't find any other sophies to group with... (167 words)

Follow up: Aspiring drama actor .. what do I do now?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I did it with her..we were rehearings after the show..guess what she is happy to have done it with me? What do I do now? read my previous post below to get a view of her? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/an-aspiring-drama-actor-in-an-awkward-scene.html hello aunty,I am an ... (208 words)

Why does he keep staring at me?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. There's this guy at school that i have a crush on. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend so i haven't been able to ask him out. So i try to avoid him as much as possible like instead of going one way ... (190 words)

She's torn between two lovers. Should I walk away?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a girl and I honestly believe she is also in love with me. There is no doubt. The way she looks at me, the way she touches me, and how we kiss tell me everything. We lose control when we are around each other. The problem is that she already has a boyfriend.... (266 words)

Split Love, what to do?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need advice!! i have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now, since 9th grade. It was going strong all along, head over heels in love. recently, i hung out with an old flame, we hit it off. turns out we both still have feelings for each other. he is with a long term girl... (664 words)

Does he love me? I waited 3 years for this

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hay i am tia and i know over and over u have heard about loveing your teacher but i am deeply in love with mine it started off as a crush and this crush went for like 1 year and now for another year it has gotten to be love he is my science teacher and i think he might o... (464 words)

How do I make her see that she should get over her exes?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im 13 and my girlfriend is bi, and she has had a lot of gf and bf, i think being bi is only for nymphos personally by the way. she always looks at her exes weird and shes friends with half of them, it pisses me off. i love her and she said she loved me like our first week of g... (127 words)

How do I find a partner with similar sexual interests?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is a description of my current situation. I am 25 year old male with an almost insatiable sex drive and am very experimental/adventurous (for example, I am into BDSM, fetishes, etc). In my past relationships I felt connected to my partner in all ways except sexuality. We'd ... (354 words)

Boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A""

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One morning(7:30), my boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A". I had a major HUGE test (3 hours) that day and it will determine if I'd graduate from high school that day. It totally threw me off. Anyways, I didn't know what to do... so I said "ohkay......" Th... (542 words)

If I'm not orgasming what are some ways that I might be able to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! I need some advice,I hope somebody can offer some assistance.My problem is simple,but very aggravating. For some reason,I am unable to reach orgasm through both sex,and oral sex.If I masturbate I have absolutely no problem whatsoever.So I know im not UNABLE to have an o... (229 words)

I'm getting frustrated! I want to move on, but is he not over me?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend dumped me and moved out of our apartment 4 months ago. He told me he didn't see a future with me and said he didn't think he was completely over his ex-wife (they have been separated for 3 years, married for 2, and have a son together, the reason they aren't ... (312 words)

I am thoroughly confused! How do I win him back?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still in love with my ex and we are still friends but definitely not as close as we used to be when we were together we talk every once in a while he calls and we have hung out a couple of times and he has told me before that he still has feelings for me but he was drun... (194 words)

Is she worth the pain? Should I trust her?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has lied to me and has to me that she will never hurt me again. She hung out with other guys while was at home in bed and she said that she didn't want to do anything for the evening and she got really drunk with them. She also lied to me about the number of guys ... (111 words)

His wife won't divorce him!

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so 3 years ago, the summer of 2006 I fell for this guy. He was a junior while I was a mear freshman. I was 15 at the time, and I wasn't ready to commit myself to someone yet. So I told him goodbye and we stopped talking. Then I dated this guy for 2 years and he told me I ... (281 words)

Dating woes ... is it always awkward or do you "click" right off the bat?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm inexperienced dating but I met this guy online (2nd time) a couple days ago. He's nice, smart, reasonably attractive and he likes a lot of the things I do. But it was *so* difficult conversationally and I felt like I had to do a lot of talking. When I didn't say much, he w... (117 words)

He proposed to me, but is it too early for marriage?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met nine months ago at my freshman orientation. He was a volunteer going into his sophomore year in college. We started dating a day after that and he proposed yesterday. I told him I would have to think about it for a couple days to see where I stand with ... (131 words)

Told him to delete my number. Did I do the right thing?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If my bf said he needed a break, but the ext day i see him with another girl, so i tell him to delete my # of his fone... was that the rite thing to do?... (36 words)

How is a marriage supposed to feel after the wedding is over?

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5 April 2009 (F)

- I'm about to get married in August. I'm 22, he's 26 and we've been together for 3.5 years. He's my very best friend, he's going to be a great father to my future babies and he makes me very happy. Not to mention, he's great in the sack! Okay, TMI there but.... Anyhow, what ... (181 words)

I'm interested but he seems 'clueless'! How can I make this clearer, without being obvious? Suggestions?

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so l just told my best friend that l am quote, "interested" in him, but he's completely clueless, and doesn't understand what l'm trying to tell him. l have heard that he's bi, so that's not a problem. l have to be obvious, but not too obvious, suggestions?... (49 words)

I thinks she still likes me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

5 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello all, im just writing about this little story and i want you to answer me... there was a girl in school who were attracted to me and liked me so i started to talk with her and getting to know her, But someday she said suddenly through the net that i dont like y... (211 words)

Possesive or Protective?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if my taurus friend is being somewhat possessive or jealous with me. We used to date but now we're just reallllly great friends. The reason we broke up in the first place was because he's not the type to balance his personal life/business and a relationship. He ... (172 words)

He isnt acting like just a teacher

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello there. Thank you so much for deciding to help me! Sometimes I actually think I like this guy, do you think he likes me??? First of all, I am in eighth grade. The teacher, we will refer to him as {}, is 46 years old, married, and has two children, one is my age,... (1038 words)

I'm lost without love

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5 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had been with my girlfriend for over 6 years. I believe she is my soulmate, and she is a awesome person for anyone too know. She had just broken up with me after a year of not acting like the same person I knew and loved. She still texts and talks to me everyday and the end ... (175 words)

When will I start?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, Im 13 soon to be 14. Mainly for girls to answer, but I haven't gotten my period yet and im worried that theres a reason for it. Is there? Or does it just come slower for some people?... (39 words)

Confused, Tired, and Scared

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. If you are familiar with 'shades of blue', I am his wife. Bear with me-I'm new at this. So I have been married for 12 yrs. I have 5 kids that I stay home with. I always wanted lots of kids and to be just a mommy. I adore my children and cannot imagine life without them. ... (304 words)

Does he? why? what should I do?

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am practically in love with this boy. He's funny, has a great personality and makes me smile a lot!!! I know this boy through a friend who lives next to him and he goes round her house everyday because my friends brother is best friends with this boy and my friend is to so ... (314 words)

Pregnant and tired...He thinks I am lazy

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5 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone... I just need some advice. I'm 7 months pregnant and over the past two weeks or so I feel extremely fatigued. I also just recently moved into an apartment with my boyfriend. I'm a full time student and he works to support the both of us. Lately, he has c... (199 words)