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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I've been with this guy for around 6 months now. We had a great first 4 months, then I had to move to another part of the country. We've taken things long distance for the last 2. What confuses me now is that I'm back for a few weeks, and he hasn't made any effort to see me since I've been back. I assumed we would see each other first thing (considering we texted saying we missed each other etc.) but it's been 4 days and he hasn't even organised a meet-up. I've left it up to him. I decided not to pressure him and allow him to organise something when he's ready.Secretly though I'm feeling a bit rejected and I'm wondering if I should bother wasting my time/emotions on someone who doesn't even want to see me. We text normal, chatty things throughout the day, but I wonder why he doesn't want to talk in person?Do you guys think I should continue waiting for him, or break it off?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): maybe u shud tell him how u feel, that seems like the normal thing to do, otherwise how is he ment to know what to do? think about it! Dont give up so easily on love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Simple, he is nothing short of happy because your out the picture and he can go around with who he wants and when he wants to. This is his way of saying we had our time and i was just looking for an excuse to break up with you but still keep you on the sidelines for whenever i may need you. Get over him and find someone closer to you to have a relationship with. Please don't waste your time!!! He doesn't make the effort bcuz he doesn't want to.
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