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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After hateful texts messages, she wants to be "friends"...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My former best friend, turned girlfriend of 3 months dumped me two months ago. Since then we haven't spoken and have just engaged in nasty text message arguments saying we hate each other. Now she seems to want to be my friend again. I quite miss her. What should I do?... (51 words)

I'm not going to let her push me away without a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok... I wrote a while ago and things have pretty much remained the same. We've talked a bit more and she told me that she's never felt this strongly about someone this quickly before....but she is pushing me away even more now. I don't call her, I hardly text her or email her... (299 words)

I don't know who I like more or who I have a better chance with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm very confused about this guy called Will! I used to be so certain that Luke was the one i loved but things have changed a bit and Will and I have been talking so much more! All of our conversations are so sexual and funny and odd and he makes me laugh so much. We have loads ... (162 words)

Am I just getting played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16. He is 18. Back in december we dated for 2 months (febuary) I was completly heartbroken ect. Then about the 3rd week of march we went back out but this time, after about a week, I broke up with him because the relationship wasn't as personal as I wanted it to be and as ... (247 words)

Is she confused about her sexuality and too afraid to tell me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I just don't understand this girl. I really thought she liked me, I mean this time I was almost positive. I was wrong though, she doesn't. I am a girl and so is she by the way. I thought maybe she liked me because she didn't mind me getting close to her or touching her hands or ... (258 words)

3rd time's a charm - Did anyone get a third chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Are there any guys (or girls) out there who have broken up with the SAME partner twice and still successfuly gotten him/her back for a third try? (ideally within a relatively short time period - not the 15 year split times then trying again far later, but more like date a... (173 words)

Could we ever be more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was friends with a man for several years. We pretty much knew each other as married and considered ourselves co-worker/friends. I hadn't seen him for awhile until we both joined a work sports league. We got to know each other and found we were both single. He was ... (602 words)

Lacking self confidence and belief due to ginger hair

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, I have just turned 19, I am male, around 6"1 and finishing my first year at uni. Almost every day, since I was about 13, I am self concious about my appearance due to my ginger hair. Usually when I'm with my friends I just forget about it and have a good time. It's great... (322 words)

I have a very high sex drive, but now she's rejecting me. Should I cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a good man!..with a extremly high sex drive!..lately,..my girl started rejecting me,..making me feel unwanted/rejected!...I don't want 2 step outside the relationship,..but I know another woman would love 2 hav her work load!..its driving our household 2 pieces!...also,..I ... (82 words)

My shyness criples me. How do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a boy of 18, I finished secondary school education last year, now am a 100 level in engineering. My problem is shyness, I need a girlfriend but it would not allow me. I opportunities of having but this shyness does not allow. Please tell me what do i do. How do wear this ... (111 words)

I want to liven it up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm 13 and currently in a relationship for about for months, i love her and she loves me. is there anyway to move my relationship on or liven it up??? as it has got a bit boring, btw she is a bit shy but mostly not. look forward to your feedback... (55 words)

My husband shows me no interest, I feel so lonely what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33 and my husband of nearly 2 years is 42. We met in Nov 06 and married in July 07. I moved 1 hour away from freinds and family to live with him. When we first met it was unlike anything i'd ever experienced before he was so attentive and wanted to spend all his time with ... (463 words)

If he's going to see other people maybe we shouldnt be in a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm currently in a long-distance-relationship. On Friday, my bf went out to lunch with a single, female colleague. Then they ended up spending the rest of the day together, going to a local museum and getting dinner. He told me about having lunch with her in advance and I ... (320 words)

I am still young and don't want to waste my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband cheated on me 2.5 years ago with someone he worked with and we almost got divorced, but we ended up trying to work it out. We have kids. Well, since then, he had made some sexual inuedos to some girl that was an ex of his friend via text abt a year ago in which I was ... (401 words)

I am confused. I need advice for me to move on.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids, I am confused. I need advices for me to move on. I’ve seeing this guy for almost 2 months. He never told me he liked me, but he kept calling me “hon” and he was nice to me, and always wanted to hang out with me. For the past 3 days, we spend evenings together... (633 words)

Dating 3rd cousins?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at a wedding the other day, and I caught eye with this boy who is also my age. As soon as i saw him I fell in love. I was too nervous to talk to him properly, but we said hi to each other when we were introduced. All day we were making eye contact and smiling often, it ... (148 words)

I got way too rough, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I got too rough in bed, and I'm not sure what to expect from her now. Well, one day when I was having sex with my partner, she asked me to go rough, and I did, because she said she liked rough sex.But after 20 minutes, she wasn't having as many orgasms as before, so I went a ... (148 words)

Should I wait a couple of days to stand my ground and show her that I'm not needy or clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok....i have been seeing this girl, everything seems fine but the re is one problem, HER EX, she still has feelings for him it seems (he is a really needy dude who will make up any excuse to speak to her including lying about me) i told her through a text to take some time to r... (370 words)

What does it mean when some one said "He has a good way with people"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what does it mean when some one said some one has a good way with people. what does that mean... (20 words)

I have been feeling insecure about his past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and i really love him and he me but recently i have been feeling a bit insecure about his past. When we are out with his mates on nights outs like most guys the conversation turns to sex which doesnt bother me it is whe... (173 words)

She said she doesn't want me in her life. What did she mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I recently began to talk a little bit after we broke up about 4 months ago. She broke up with me with "its just not working", we were going out for about a year and half. We both were very much in love for a long time and guess just fell out of love. Recently thou... (234 words)

What does this guy want from me? Why does he act this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My Ex went to Spain a week ago. When he was about to leave to board his flight,he text me to say that he was on his way to Spain. When he returned he called me asking if he could meet out in the area where I live. He said that he had bought some gifts back for me, a bracelet ... (761 words)

I love her ...But she doesn't love me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Iam in love with this gul ! every time i see her i just want to hug and kiss her. ive told her how i feel but she doesn't believe me. i just want to show her how much i love her.. but she doesn't want to cause she is seeing this other guy.. but i think its just she doesn't want ... (74 words)

Can a grandmother claim benefits for grandson as dependent in the UK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am currently living at home with my mum and my son and i am thinking of moving in with my girlfriend, but my son wants to live with my mum still, does anybody know if my mum can claim benefits for my son or what legal processes i would have to go through? Any advice wou... (63 words)

Am I obsessive and invading my bf privacy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have so much doubt and mistrust going with my ex,yes,i am still going out with my ex just like we are still together,we sleep together,we talked a lot.I asked him many times that i don't us to be just friends,but he always answer me that he is happy what we have now. Ev... (294 words)

I'm 15, He's 22 But I want him Bad...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and afew weeks ago one of my aunties friends started talking to me on bebo. He was shocked to find out my real age cause he thought i was older but he chatted away to me anyway. Hes really nice and friendly and i loved talking to him. One day he sent me private mail, sayi... (374 words)

How do I give her the bad boy attitude without going too far and running her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl for 6 months. She recently told me I was too nice and smothered her. I only call her so much because she cheated on me for a month with her ex. She is pregnant with my child. How do I give her the bad boy attitude without going too far and running her ... (60 words)

I've really screwed my life up. Does anyone know how I can sort any of it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologise in advance for this being so long, and so confused. I'll try to do my best to explain it clearly, but I doubt I'll do too well... I'm in love with this female teacher at my school. I know I'll never be with her, and I've accepted this. Yet no matter how I try, I c... (1026 words)

It's been nearly two years, but I still feel guilty for cutting off my ex. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Tonight I've reflected on the break up of my first relationship, which was a long distance relationship which lasted for 2 years, ending in June 2007. I know it's a long time to still be reflecting on it, but let me run you through it. Just over 2 weeks be... (444 words)

What do I do in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I really really am depressed right now, i dont know what to do with my life. Im more and more lonely, I barely have any friends left, and none of them cares. I am in a relationship for 10 months now. I always have great support in my girlfriend, when im dep... (240 words)

Should I tell her how I feel? Her ex is a best friend and I don't want to lose him because of this either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so I've known him for 4 years now. her for 2 maybe. I actually met her because of him. they've been going out since then but broke up just recently. all through those 2 years I think I may had some small on and off feelings for her. now that they're not together, I spen... (218 words)

I think I made a mistake in marrying him. What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im having a bit of a hard time atm....i have been with my husband for 8 years but married for not even 1 and i think i made a mistake marrying him i know its to late to change anything but since we got married he has become rude and very lazy! He doesn't work cause ... (181 words)

What do I have to do? I love him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i'm 15 and have a boyfriend and he is 20 he is nice,cute,understanding,stupid,and very important to me but my parents knows about this and they really don't like him so what i'm going to do?... (36 words)

I'm trying not to chase him..how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am so tired of dating. I have been out on multiple dates however I have had no luck. I finally found someone I really like. He is all that I was looking for. I am a go getter, so when I see something I like am not afraid to go get it. He told me he was a ... (301 words)

Do I have issues, or am I just "boycrazy"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - honestly this is kinda stupid. i like bout 8 guys right now. but like 2 of them i like the most. but they will switch. i will like one guy the most then the next. ugh do i have issues or am i just boycrazy? help?!?!?!?!... (49 words)

Forgive my outporing here, but I need advice on our situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really struggling with what to do. I have been in a relationship now for 8 1/2 years. We love each other however we are both unhappy. We have always had a volatile relationship however sometimes it ends up going too far. This isn't really the main reason I'm not sure we ... (347 words)

I cant work out if this girl is his older sister or a new gf. Help here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So ive been best mates with this guy and recently he's been flirting alot and then he asked me who ide rather go out with out of all his friends and i said probably him because i know him best and i asked him the same and he said me and then when we were messing around in clas... (395 words)

Someone cheer me up please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex-girlfriend have been on and off for the past 6 months but we are very much into each other...too many disagreements and problems with trust have ruined things. I decided to give it one last go instead of giving up on it but i didn't really want to. After a week... (272 words)

2 months pregnant and boyfriend wants nothing to do with it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all.i found my boyfriend texting and ringing girls behind my back i've been with him over 7 months, he's polish, i'm not and he's been living here 5 years and i've recently found out that i'm pregnant. it was a big shock but his reaction shocked me even more, he has no p... (209 words)

Should I back off a bit and wait for him to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy I've known forever and we've recently started talking on-line again. i always seem to be the one who starts the conversation but when we get talking we'll talk for hours, should i back off a bit and wait for him to talk to me? ... (48 words)

It's been 3 months and I still am not over him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i cannot take this any more. me and my ex broke up at the end of January. he has a girlfriend now and i am talking to someone. When he found out i was talking to someone he said something to me and said he's still in love with me. he said he doesn't even like his girl... (185 words)

I want to move to where my g/f will be studying, 300 miles away. How do I go about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 18 and life in Northwest England i currently work in a bar and have recently finished an IT course, my Girlfriend wants to go to uni this September in Plymouth which is something like 200-300 miles away and i fear that we wont be able to stay together due to ... (80 words)

I have tried my best and now feel I am just being taken for an idiot

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Before i start this post I would like to just say that i dont actually have problem with potential partners having children etc when you meet them but the problem is this.. when i met my partner he told me he had a child.. the mother of the child is not someone he was i... (1623 words)

I need ideas for a sexy surprise for my boyfriend. :-)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice from the guys (and the girls!) out there. My bf of 3 yrs has been away for 2 weeks with work. I want to show him how much I've missed him by giving him a sexy surprise, but am stuck for ideas...has anyone got any suggestions? We live apart, and ... (85 words)

She isnt altering her ways, what should I do?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in bits and need your help.... I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now and in January, we got engaged (she is 24). We have arguments like everybody else which is healthy but the problem is, she never admits when she's in the wrong, she doesn’t seem to ... (205 words)

Now I cant connect with people on a personal level. How do I overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey... I just finished my first relationship. And it went for two years. I know, thats reaaally long for a first relationship apparently. Well, for the whole relationship, i never yelled at her, any arguments we had it was pretty much her yelling at me about nothing lol, and... (320 words)

Why wont my ex help me get a bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why wont my ex help me get a bf, he recently set one of his new gfs mates up with a guy from the pub, then when i was talking 2 this guy down the pub first the other week, he got him to go and talk 2 my mate, i think he knew i liked him, anyway when this guy left he gave me ... (164 words)

I'm 14. Should or shouldn't have sex at this age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy since i was about 9 im 14 turning 15 now. i no that's young but yeah. Lately i've been really wanting to know what sex feels like. After a few years we have started talking again and i want to loose my virginity to him. hes already had sex and we've talk... (96 words)

3 questions on my being a bi :-)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i recently found out that im bi and like gurls and i have a girlfriend and we really like each other but she still classifies her self straight but yet she says really like me now the problem is she wants to please me all the time she has gave me full body massage ... (156 words)

Is my Mum getting weird on us? She gets angry with me a lot now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum always gets really angry at me when she thinks I'm answering back, when I'm not-I just answer her 'rhetorical questions', and also, when I look away, she says I'm rolling my eyes, when I'm really not! This makes me so annoyed, but I don't hate her or anything- I thin... (217 words)

Suddenly she is not satisfied with our sex life. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have had a really healthy sexual relationship up until this week. I was sick for the first half then Thursday we got in a fight about her having to work until 930 at night. Some questions arose about why she has been working so late more often lately. We ... (92 words)

Am I wasting my time thinking about him? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts I am a 24 year old girl, had not been in a relationship before. In fact, my encounters with guys are limited, so much so that I don't really know how to handle them. Anyways, I met this guy (same age as me) a few months ago. He lives like 6 hours away but h... (379 words)

I won't come/release orally or during intercourse... please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've read about this question in another topic but then it was a female who asked what she was doing wrong. I'm 22 and currently seeing my first girl, she's really amazing but when it comes to sex... well i won't come. I can make her come both orally and in intercours... (496 words)

Sex with my wife is only once a month now. Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a male 28 yrs old and my wife is 26 we have a great son that is 3 the problems i have is that r sex life really suck well is not there hardly any more i would love to stay in this relationship but i can not take the once a mouth sex what should i do im on the edge ... (65 words)

Adopted son caught wanking, now he's acting up around the house

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, i have been through the adoption process with my 13 year old son and we are not fully sorted and happy father/son relationship, but recently i walked into the bathroom to find him masturbating. Which is fine, we all do it, but not he isnt talking to me. He was sat ... (131 words)

What should change when you become girlfriend/boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When you have "the talk" and are now girlfriend and boyfriend - exclusively, what should change between the two of you from when it was just 'dating' I know there is the obvious - no dating other people etc and commitment to that person but i mean number of times you see ea... (98 words)

Is he trying to make me jealous and see how far he can go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me im so confused right now,im still mates with my ex bf, who sometimes i lv him and sometimes i hate him, he has a gf which he says he loves and she could be the one, But basically he tells me about it and also how shes going 2 buy him a car and how she bought h... (251 words)

If I'm not pregnant what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ok I might sound crazy and everything but I know it's kinda late and stuff but I haven't had my period since August 25, 2008 and I've been taking some home pregnancy tests and they all come back negative. I had headaches, wanting to vommit at nights but I don't and kinda ... (127 words)

Please guide me as to whether she loves me or not and shall I continue relationship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 35 years old married person with one 7 years old child. I am very much dissatisfied with my wife's behaviour. I don't have any friends. So I started online chatting. I am chatting with a married girl of 25 years old with one 2 year old baby. We both like chatting ... (157 words)

I'm gay but don't want people to know! How do I convince people that I'm not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and A guy in my class told people that i am gay (wich i am) but i REALLY dont want anyone to know, for now everyone doesnt know forshure but how can i convince them ( lie) im not?...i dont want to be the outcast of my school! ... (50 words)

She said that if I really want her back it shouldn't matter how many people she has slept with. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 17 and i was with my girl friend for 2 years but we have been friends for about 6 or more years since primary school. this is the girls that i had the little crush on back in primary school and that continued till high school were she had a bf for a little over 2 years ... (680 words)

Commitment phobia? Breaking up? Can this be fixed? Is there hope? HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 7 months ago, I left everything and moved to Spain to start a new life with my Spanish fiance....so I thought anyway. Things have not been easy for me (no family, no friends, no knowledge of the language, paperwork difficulties, etc) but they have started getting better....or ... (738 words)

Does she still want to be friends or is she giving me the cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close mates) and she's being not as tal... (256 words)

I feel sick after having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To my agony aunts and uncles, thanks for taking the time to read this. So here's the deal, every time my bf and i have sex i feel sick the next day- cough, fever, fatigue. We've only had sex a few times (we used a condom every time) and i was a virgin before. What could be... (77 words)

Mature and frustrated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age - This is my first post. I have been in a stable relationship for 10 years. My sex life is nil at the moment and seems unlikely to improve. My partner went off sex during her menopause. She won't talk about problems and defers answering any direct questions. I haven't had sex ... (158 words)

Why the sudden change in tone towards me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

12 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I work in the same offices as my ex of sometime ago, she cheated on me and I found out by chance, but I held my head high and worked away with my dignity, without any fuss though I was very hurt. Ever since that time, she seemed to make every effort to be distance from me... (438 words)

What is "set head"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically the guy I'm seeing was telling me how his ex would only pull (French kiss) when they were going out for 8 months and then the other day she set head. What is set head? I think it's like blow job or sucking off... But I'm not sure lol x ... (51 words)

I like this guy, but he just wants to be friends and mess around only :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - here goes, i met some guy off a site a few months ago and we've been talking for like 5 to 6 months now and we just met recently and he was affectionate towards me and we clicked like crazy and even showed me where he works and treated me to a nice place, anyways he told me r... (247 words)

Its only been a year. How can he be so uninterested already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i met while working with each other and still currently do. We have been together for a little over a year now. We are both 21 years old and this is the longest relationship we have both ever been in. I think that our relationship is awesome and we plan on ... (242 words)

My sister's b/f is super jealous. What should she do?

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12 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - This is for my sister. Her boyfriend and her got into a fight. He doesn't want her to talk to his best friend cuz he is jealous. She wants to still talk but now he gets super mad. He cries on the phone to make her feel bad, but she really wants to stay with him. She apolo... (96 words)

Is this a friendly gesture?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When your talking to a guy and he puts his arm around your shoulders and pull you closer to him (so that your head is resting on his shoulder) or when he pats you on the shoulder ... Is that a friendly gesture?... (43 words)

Masturbate with friends? Should we? Where? How?

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12 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 13, and I want to masturbate with one of my friends. I don't know if he masturbates or not, and I kinda want to masturbate/suck him off. I don't know when we could, I could easily find a place to do it though, but any thoughts? Should I ask him/ if so how? Any ide... (82 words)

WTH happened? Did I get dumped?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are guys so confusing? This guy that I have been dating for over a month and last night, we were laying in my bed together. We haven't done anything sexual yet but he started kissing me and asked "When are you going to stop teasing me?" and I said "When am I going to be y... (226 words)

Getting rid of acne

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so this has nothing to do with sex or relationships or anything but i have a question. how do i get rid of acne? I dont have alot just a few pimples in my chin and forehead. im light skinned and my pimples are very noticeable coz they look super red., ive tried everything ... (63 words)

She said she wanted to back off

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12 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, yes I have had another problem in my relationship and would like to know peoples thoughts. After my previous posts.. We got back together this time I stood back and tried not to think to much into things that may bother me (ie photos) Things were going really wel... (272 words)

He was crazy for sex before we married and now he masturbates all the time

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys. can any one tell me what can i do with this man,he is driving me crazy. before we get married he was giving me headache to have sex and i made him wait,and now when we got married he is careless.not as before. i thought i have a higher sex drive than him but i kno... (234 words)

I'm 19, he's 15..we want to be together but its not legal for another 2 years

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12 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I am 19yrs old and this person I want to be with is 15yrs old. The law is what's keeping us apart. We have known eachother for 11yrs or so and have had a connection for 5yrs. I have always thought I was sick in the head for feeling this way about someone so young but I finally ... (228 words)

Why is my interest in men so strange?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, there's a guy at school, and he's my best friend. He sees me as nothing more than a buddy, but I see him as the most amazing, funny, and hottest guy in the whole school. Were really close and were always there for each other, but everyone tells me we're too close as ... (276 words)

We're moving in together soon but I don't trust him!

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12 April 2009 (F)

- I can't trust my LD bf as much as I try. Is it me? or the relationship? The problem arrived when I caught him lying to me on several occasions. The most recent was a girl with whom he was flirting with and exchanging txt messages. I saw the picture of her on a bikini that ... (145 words)

Gave b/f bj then got cold sore..is he infected?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave my bf a bj and then a few hrs later I started getting a cold sore...is he infected? did I infect him?... (24 words)

We're getting married in May but people don't think we should marry!

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm suppose to be getting married on the 8th of May. It won't be a big wedding. Just a lil something at city hall. The thing is, my mother and my big sister haven't met him yet. I don't really care about him not meeting my mother. Its my sister I'm worried about. But my sis ... (156 words)

I want him to be happy with ME not HER

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the love of my life now loves my bestfriend and she loves him back. i've went through hell and back for him and i don't know how to get him to like me because i want him so bad as mine. i feel really selfish for wanting him to be happy but just not with her. What should i do??... (60 words)

Signs of your ex still cares for you, anyone?

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12 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know what some of the signs are that your ex still really cares and loves you, but is not ready for a commitment? ... (28 words)

He needs space, can't control what he's feeling

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years. Had a baby about a month ago. This is our second child. We've had problems before just like any other couple. But he had some self esteem and insecurities too. But he was never open about it and just kept it to himself. He has been cold with me ... (144 words)

Help me get over my boyfriend's past!

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've seen a lot of questions on here about boys who can't seem to get over their girlfriend's past, but I can't get over my boyfriend's! First off, we have been dating for a little over 2 years. We started dating a little before I turned 18 and he had just turned 24, but w... (678 words)

Protected sex but signs of pregnancy?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy. Just wondering if anyone has any advice... Im 15 years old, my boyfriend is about to be 16, we have been together for 9 months and i think i might be pregnant. I missed my period, and have alot of pregnancy symptoms. We did have PROTECTED sex but still think somethin... (121 words)

Can a relationship work with someone who is unstable?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can a relationship work with someone who is unstable? ... (9 words)

I found him downloading porn dealing with animals

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 and a half years now. I love him with all my heart, but I dont know what to do anymore. Long story short, when we first got together, anytime I asked him anything [about his past, about what he was doing.. etc] his answer ... (706 words)

Should I tell him I want a relationship or should I just keep being friends with him?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I am really good friends with this guy, but he now lives two hours away. We have been friends for like four months and have hung out like five times. I met him at work but about a week after he had to move back home. Then he tried to move back but ended up going to jail ... (298 words)

Saw my husband's profile on a porn dating site!!

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in dire need of an answer so I thought I would ask here. My husband loves to be fisted and he's wanted me to buy a strap on forever... just yesterday I sat at his desk and he had left up his history... I found he has an account with adultfriendfinder... says he's attached ... (213 words)

I want this other girl out of the picture!!!!

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this really sweet guy and we had sex already. I'm 13 and I lost my virginity to him and he lost his to me. I really like him. He is 16 and is very hot. He will always come over and talk to me plus he does anything sexual I want but I guess I do too. It's fun ... (130 words)

I turned him down when he asked me out, now I regret it. Is it too late?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy, he's funny, cheeky, upfront, loud and just great fun to be around. Lately we've become best mates and I noticed he'd been sniffing around me for a few weeks but I'd never really thought about him like that. Recently he split up with his gf and 3 days later, ... (148 words)

I was just wondering generally do MOST men cheat?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering generally do MOST men cheat? I blame my male friends for making me have this opinion because as lovely as they all are and as much as they love their gfs, they have all cheated at some point and don't seem to think that it is such a bad thing. This ... (114 words)

Is this a red flag?

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a committed relationship with a man for almost 7 months. We have been trying not to put too much pressure on the relationship, however, we both made it very clear to each other that we our in love with one another and can see a future together. We spoke about ... (416 words)

Girls flirt with my boyfriend - but he doesn't tell them to stop.

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 years and 2 months. Things have been rocky lately but were starting to get back on track. But there's one thing that still bothers me. My bf has 2 friends who are both girls. One girl flirted with my bf through ... (275 words)

Does my ex girlfriend want me back or is she just keeping me hanging on?

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12 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my ex girlfriend split up about 10 days ago after a 3 year relationship. It started about a month ago when she told me that she needed some time apart to spend with her college friends (as she has just started college). Although i was hurt by this I let her have her ... (623 words)

I feel he tricked me into having an abortion and now I feel so guilty about it!

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, could you give me advice on getting back my ex please? Our relationship ended really badly. I was pregnant and we made the decision together that it was best to have an abortion because we thought we weren't ready and that our relationship would be better without a baby. ... (278 words)

Electric toothbrush as a sex toy!!

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has an old electric toothbrush and she likes to use it as a vibrator on me sometimes. Is it alright for the bristles to be on it while being on my clitoris? ... (36 words)

I keep losing women...

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12 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had a relationship when I was 18 to 20 of which I was so happy but took it for granted. I kept wanting to split up to be single, then get back and then one time I did it and I lost her for good. I was devastated for over a year and blamed myself for what had happened. ... (400 words)

My husband makes me sick!!!

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12 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently discovered my husband had texts to a sms sex site on his mobile. He was trying to meet up with a female till he realised it wasn't real. I am so hurt by this and he is not who I thought he was and I have went right off him so much that I want out. He now makes me ... (82 words)