A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:When I was 17 I was living a wild life, drinking, drugs and lots of sex. After my parents kicked me out I moved in with my uncle, got into a good drug program and joined a church group and took a purity pledge. I have dated girls since but never intercourse. I would always be up front with the girls I dated telling them I was waiting for marriage. (I would engage in oral sex)Long story short I have had a crush on my best friend for almost 4 years now and finally told her my feelings, we started dating and ended up having sex over the weekend. Now she says she feels guilty because she feels like it is her fault I broke my pledge and thinks we should take a break so I am not tempted again. But I love her and want to be sexually with her. How can I make her understand that?
View related questions:
a break, best friend, crush, drugs, moved in, oral sex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, RichardJames +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Make her feel beautiful make her feel special. Explain to her that its not necessarily marriage but more of the commitment that comes with marriage. Let her know that you hold sex sacred and with the right person you would love to explore it. IF you feel it brother dont give up no matter what. Life will pass you bye if you dont jump in.
|
