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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It's like a bad dream and I can't seem to find any way to sort this out or get the truth!

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26 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I don't understand. I like this lad more than anything have done for ages! Thing is from everything thats happened and been said in the past it seemed he really liked me and then when he did from what was heard he told some people. After this a certain person got jealous and ... (497 words)

Irish spice!

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Me and my girlfriend have been together around 3 years now. We met in Spain while she was studying and I was working. At the time I was earning really good money, the best I have ever earned and she was earning nothing just money from her mother, she was about 20 at the ... (706 words)

Troubled relationships...

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having trouble with my relationship. we hopped into a love relationship but are laking the friendship. she thinks friends and lovers are not the same. We both have abandonment issues and improper upbringing....(bad parents)....I really need advice and help... (43 words)

How can I maintain a relationship?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm kinda frigid with girls. I've had 2 relationships so far, and they have both been awkward. Can anyone give me any help please, as I'm kind of getting sick of my relationships fucking up after a week or to. How can I maintain it. Aunts please help! :'(... (52 words)

Do you think I should make a move?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Theres this girl i Like in my class, and i'm ok friends with her. We talk quite a bit in class, but not really out of school. I really like her, and I want to ask her to be my gf, but i don't know when to, and I don't know if I should wait a bit. If it helps, theres a ... (96 words)

I'm depressed, she doesn't seem to care..

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Ive been in this relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months now. But very often im crying, and she does not seem to care, she just keeps hurting my feelings. I must add that I am depressed right now, im trying to seek professional help. Anyway, I cried beca... (194 words)

Broke up and I just don't know what to do..

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... Sorry this is so long. The boy i posted about on 30th March, he broke up with me about three weeks ago, and when i asked why i got this reply: ------------------------------------------------------- Him: riiiighht.. look tasha, i've been thinking, you shouldn't be ... (795 words)

I love her I think she's still the girl

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i love her,but she loves the girl until now,,,,,dont get mistaken,yes same sex,same girl,also in a serious way,what can i do,please help me,give some advice, thanks ... (26 words)

How do I stay true?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ther is this guy he is.. wel he was my boyfriend. we dated for 5mounts an3 weeks.. we can call him boo wel see we are the type of people we have lost of friends of the oppisite sex and we both get flirted with alot but the thing is that boo dont flirt back me on the other ... (145 words)

I hate my body makes me feel bad about having sex

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26 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hello. I feel so stupid. I hate my body, and my looks. Let's just say I've never been the pretty one. No men ever flirt with or hit on me. This has caused me several self image issues. I hate porn and media images, etc. I feel so ugly when I see them because I know I'm uglie... (740 words)

Should I have sex ?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a 15 yo virgin and i want to have sex by two reasons 1. most of my friends say that sex feels very awesome and it's wasting time if i'm a virgin 2. one day i will have a girlfriend but if i find out that she lost her virginity when she was 15. it's clearly that i will brea... (104 words)

This guy sent me a text message saying he wants me. Should I confront him next time or leave it as it is?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy is a player...I met as a customer who helped me close a deal. He has a GF and he's GI also. I know he doesn't like me and although he's cute, he's not my type. He went out w/ some buddies and I got a message last night from his cell saying he wants me so bad. I rep... (134 words)

Is it my personality they are attracted to?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello all, well i will have to explain first before my quesiton so please follow :), okay im 18 guys with normal face and a nice body (178 cm,75kg). there are many girls in school who are attracted to me and not to anyone of my group or friends!!! though there are so... (189 words)

How can I split up with him?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in what I know is a bad relationship that is going on 9 years but I feel trapped. I have two children from a previous marriage and one with my boyfriend. I have had a well paying, flexible job working for an older couple that I feel a great amount of responsibility and ... (285 words)

My boyfriend's penis is too small so I never orgasm help!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay here's the deal, me and my boyfriend have recently decided to take our relationship further and sleep together. At first I thought it was normal that it would be uncomfortable and unenjoyable, but after many tries it just gets tiring to have to try and fake an orgasm. I ... (70 words)

How can I tell my family that I want to have sex?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 years old. and my boyfriend is 15 and i love him and loves me too.and i want to have sex with him but im scared that my family will think that i am a hoe. what should i do? i really want to have sex with him because i love him how should i tell the people i love? h... (67 words)

Who can advise him how to leave his wife and children for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a married man with children. We want to be together but he is finding it very difficult to foresee a way he can leave his children. Is there any advise as to who would be the right person to talk to to help him achieve what he wants with as little ... (60 words)

What can I do now to make him see that its me he should have?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I went to a really great party last night and I ended up liking this boy, my age but short. We went for a little walk down the fields because the party was in the countryside and we were laughing and dancing to music on his ipod. And at that moment, where everything was ... (127 words)

Do I tell Bob my feelings regardless of how he MIGHT feel something for Mary?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's a guy in my class that's been my close friend for almost 4 years (let's call him Bob). I'm starting to see Bob more as a friend, but I don't think I love him yet. Quite a few of my classmates think Bob likes this other girl (let's call her Mary). Bob likes hangin... (157 words)

Are these the signs that he fancies you?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If a boy gives you these signs does that mean they FANCY you: • Staring at me in to my eyes • Makes me laugh • Comes out and knocks on my door too see me NOT my brother once asked where I was. • Sometimes stays out in my garden to wait till I come out. • Both like eac... (288 words)

Torn apart by my emotions and the love for my best friend.

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in need of some serious advice!! First of all, I'm gay and I'm in love with my best friend... I've wanted to tell him how I feel for months now and it's seriously affected my emotions. Just the other night our school held our 8th Grade Dance and I had a good time, but I was ... (164 words)

I think our marriage may be over...

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - please help i think my marriage is over i am a man of 43 my wife is 42 my wife never talks to me never shares problems but she tells her friends all our persnal stuff shaers jokes emails scandal just about anthing but cant say a word to me. i try to talk to her ... (145 words)

Advice needed... How do you get over your first love?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over your first love? I realized I still have feelings for my first boyfriend (for more details check my other question, please), who I dated for about 3 years. I want to forget about him because he is in a relationship and I would never try to get him back lik... (130 words)

I feel our relationship is going down hill because he always has his daughter.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey just need some advice. ive been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs know. at the beginning of the relationship everything was perfect i loved being around him there as nothing i was to complain about,the only thing was his daughter he has a know 3 yr old daughter but when i ... (329 words)

My husband's parents favor his kids more than my oldest child.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband's parents favor his kids more than my oldest child. I got with him 2 days after i found out i was pregnant with my son (3 years old) he sees my son as his own. He has a daughter that is 8 and we have a 2 week old daughter together. the problam is his parents do more ... (111 words)

STD tests.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out my bf never got tested for STD's, so i told him he has to - since we are a little -active- and we are going together, i have no idea how these tests go or how it is done i mean do they take blood ! or just examination or what !! and where to get it done ?... (63 words)

Developing a roving eye, help!

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been married to my wife for almost 3 years, together for about 6. We are both in our late twenties. When I met her she was the most lovely, charming, sexy woman I'd ever met and we're were deeply in love within days of our first date. Besides having a bunch of fun t... (440 words)

I like him, I think he likes me too but we're both so shy...

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 15 and I wanna ask you about my situation especially boys because you know each other well!!! I got a crush and even love 'wb'. We go to the same school but we don't know each other, we've never talked before! He's always staring at me and walking my way in the hall ... (144 words)

I feel as if my marriage is falling apart...

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - More than a question I need advice. I feel like my marriage is falling apart!.. I dont know if its because of the birth control I use. I recently read other womens reviews on the same birth control and most suffered some of the symptons I have, such as being moody, depression, ... (256 words)

She loves him but she's not sure he loves her back, help!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 15 and i my bff 'a' is a little bit confused so i wanna ask u for her. She loves a boy n he loves her too n im sure about that cause he's my lab mate n we're pretty close n he told me that he can imagine her in his futur n he truly deeply loves her he asked her out n ... (158 words)

Help! I'm in a no win situation...

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26 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I've been with my lad for 10 monthish. I left a guy(x) I was happy with to go out with this guy (y)because my mum convinced me that he would be better for me. (x)his imperfections but i didn't want to end it. she didn't like him but i gave it a shot because mums know best r... (356 words)

My ex beat up the guy I made out with... how can I make him stop this?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and my ex is 17. I recently dumped him, like 2 weeks ago, after 5 months. We both agreed that the relationship was coming to a halt and there wasn't any way to save it. And we've both been getting on fine since then, he's my best friend. Every week, me and a group of... (186 words)

My boyfriend is in prison, and I missed his calls!

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26 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - HELP!! - My boyfriend has just been recalled to prison and both times he has tried to phone me I have been out and missed his calls!! - What shall I do? - I want him to know I'm there for him and not deserted him!! - Help! - The whole situation is terrible!!... (54 words)

I want to move on, but he wants to stay friends and date

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had a rocky last few weeks and finally broke up but the thing is either of us cant live without each other. He is in denial of love while I am in love with him. After a week of not being together we agreed on being just friends and see what happens. He still wants ... (132 words)

Is he just being completely selfish?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is the deal. Me and my boyfriend are in our early twenties and we've been dating for two years. We are each others best friends, but lately something’s changed. We used to work together but he didn't make a lot of money soo.. He's gotten a new job so we can move in ... (239 words)

I want to ask a guy out but I'm afraid

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay i really like this guy, his name is Eric and well i like him but i think he likes some one else and well... i want to ask him out and i scared in case he says no and im also scared in case he does like some one else.... (52 words)

Is he breaking up with me?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I find out my boyfriend breaking up with me in Aug. when the lease is up I'm not on it. And he said no but found a text in his phone saying 'she's going bye bye' and he says that's a joke. Why wait? Why if he is going to do it then why is he saying no. If he is why wont he just ... (70 words)

My 14 y/o daughter wants to have sex with her b/f

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26 April 2009 (F)

age - My 14 year old daughter has just told me she wants to have a sexual relationship with her 15year old boyfriend. What should i do?... (25 words)

Why doesn't he want sex with me anymore?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I’m new to this site and I’m in need of help. I’m 18 and I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and three months. I was a virgin before I met him and I made him wait for a good 7 months and he was fine with that. When we finally had sex it was great he couldn’t keep his... (190 words)

I think I'm in love with this married man

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m in a relationship with a married man for the past 2 years. I have been pregnant by this man 2 times but had abortions. He tells me he’s in love with me but I don’t think he truly is. I believe that he does have feelings for me the reason why I say that is because I ... (172 words)

He blocks my emails and keeps his distance -- what's up?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age - Here's my dilemma, I met a guy a few years back, we hit it off immediately. In the beginning we spoke on the phone all the time chatted on line also. We met in person 4 times. Everytime we met in person, he blocked my e-mails and kept his distance. He never really explained ... (183 words)

He hasn't told his daughter that I'm pregnant

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am five months pregnant and my boyfriend has told everyone except his nine year old daughter should I feel offended because I do......... (24 words)

In a 3+ year relationship with an older man, but no sex!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 32 and my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yr now 51 but young at heart and very attractive have a good relation but when it comes to sex well its just not there. We have maybe 3 times in the time we have been together and I need any and all help we talk about it and he just says "I’ve ... (142 words)

Broke up four years ago, text all the time. Does he still like me?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ok so I have an ex who I have been friendly with since we broke up 4 years ago we are practically always in contact at least once a week/fortnight but in November he had a baby with his girlfriend (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/just-found-out-my-ex-is-going-to.html) and ... (204 words)

What is Tantric sex?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - TANTRIC SEX Hi all! This is my first time on any kind of forum and its feels nice to be here. i'm wondering if any of you out there can tell me what tantric or tantra sex is? embarrasing i know, but i've not got a clue!. thanks bye!... (67 words)

How do I tell him I don't want him anymore with him harming himself and emotonally blackmailing me?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been living with my fiance of two years and all we seem to do is make up and break up. iv had enough of it. when i decided to move back in with my mum he broke up with me. then he wanted me back and said he will move in the area that am living just to be with me but the ... (138 words)

Is there actually any clues to what a guy will be like 2 weeks into the relationship?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I haven't been out with loads of guys. But all the guys I have been out with were total idiots. But they were all like really nice and sweet when they first asked me out. This is why I would go out with them, but then they would turn out to be horrible. I was just wondering, ... (124 words)

My family is against our relationship.

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and he can't come home to me and I ... (91 words)

I want to love him but I don't know how...

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married but I dont love my husband. I dont like his physical appearance thats why I cant accept him physically..But I still married him for 2 years because I was afraid of being single. I thought I will fall in love with him once we get married but until now I dont love ... (109 words)

My husband is converting to Islam and wants ME to convert too!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was shocked by what I found around the house when I woke up this morning. There were a lot of prayer books and a copy of the Koran (is that how you spell it??) lying around, plus some other Islamic literature. I asked my husband why there was Islamic literature in ou... (194 words)

Porn - I want to be the only woman!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this has to be a common complaint, but i found porn on my boyfriend's computer. I wasn't even looking for it...just came up when i was typing in a website. Well i checked his history then, and found porn were all the top sites. The problem is that he told he himself ... (316 words)

He told me he had feelings for me... to keep his friends off his back!!!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, i got told by the boy i love that he had a feeling for me but i found on friday night that he only said it to keep his friends off his back. I was so upset but yesterday we were both at a little social gathering and he got a bit drunk and he ended up kissing me. I'm ... (78 words)

I don't feel the right things but I can't break up with him!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! The situation im in dosent make much sense to me so im sorry if its slightly confusing for you guys... ive been with my boyfriend for nearly ten months and it had been !Amazing! we feel so strongly for each other and tell each other absolutly everything. So its been rea... (329 words)

I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the best he can ...i have been ... (162 words)

I'm so attached to him... should I break it off or tough it out?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Just to make things clear, I'm 15 and he's 20 (Yes, I know this is illegal). We met online and eventually met up in person. I currently live on the east coast, and he lives on the west coast. I go to see him on ... (1611 words)

Does he like me? How can I regain his trust again?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: This is NOT written like its coming from an 18 year old... right well, my boyfriend dumped me and we were quite close? so he told me loads of stuff, and i went and told everyone our conversation:(. and he went and dumped me. but see on thursday, sean the boy i U... (155 words)

I was wrong, she won't forgive!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex best friend was being really mean and saying that she was sleeping with my boyfriend. So I asked someone for her password and hacked into her Facebook account and messed about with it. I KNOW IT WAS WRONG!! But it was fun at the time I guess. I'd like to know the right ... (77 words)

Afraid exs family will cause problems for my family

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i am in a predicament as i have not seen my kids for nearly 3 years and i am getting to the stage that i want to see them again,my new partner has her reservations regarding me seeing the kids and not a selfish level but on a level that we used to look after the kids but there ... (181 words)

What would YOU do?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So. Here's a wee situation for you. You see someone you have really strong feelings for every weekday, and you're pretty close to them. You know you'll only ever be friends, you understand that. You know that you're going to leave, and that if you do nothing you'll never see ... (150 words)

Do I go home and live my life without him or stay with him and be unhappy?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, i have an issue that has been bothering me for some time and i dont know what to do and how to deal with it. The problem i have is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and at first everything was ok, a bit hard because of my mum resenting the fact i left ... (270 words)

I feel he's getting too friendly with this girl...

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I'm new at this so I dont really know how to write what I want to so I'm just going to give it a go. In November my boyfriend of two years left to go travelling around the world for a few months and he will now be back in four weeks. I didnt go as I want to complete the ... (140 words)

To listen or not to listen? Is he really as bad as everyone says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, a few weeks ago I went to this party and saw a lad that I already knew but never really spent any time with, well we really hit it off and now spend an awful lot of time together, but every one of our friends is warning us from each other. He has got a bit of a b... (162 words)

I need your advice... How can I ever trust him again?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked a question here at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/his-comment-to-the-porn-and-dvds-i.html (however, I lost the password to the account, and can't remember the email address I signed up with, so please delete my old account!) Gina suggested I try questioning him, w... (343 words)

Mental illness/trust issues

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for advice on what to do about a relationship which seems to have become very complicated due to mental illness/trust issues. The main thing is that I love him a lot and it would have been 8 years together this year and to me it seems a terrible waste. We bro... (666 words)

Why would he leave me to be with women that treat him like crap?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am so confused. My ex and I were together for 7 years and our relationship wasn't a bad one although it was rocky towards the end. What I want to know is why he left me to be with women who treat him like crap. I was faithful and I loved him yet the women that he has been ... (158 words)

I'm falling for a guy that my sister used to fancy! What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have started dating a guy I really like and things are going really well. He is really into me too and it would seem I have nothing to worry about at all. We have a sexual relationship and things are great in that department too. The problem is that my sister used to be ... (151 words)

Men!!! Strange creatures!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why wud a guy u been seein 5 wks suddenly change and go off with sum1 else out of the blue and then constantly watch for ur reaction all the evening? And be jealous if someone even as much talks 2 u? ... (42 words)

I'm in my fifties and he's keeping me on hold

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

26 April 2009 (F)

age - Although I've answered many questions on this site I now have one of my own. I'm 56 and I went out with a man 7 years ago for just 5 weeks until his ex partner intervened and claimed him back! It hurt me very deeply at the time. He has now asked me out again but expects to ... (189 words)

Started dating my ex gf's friend but now she wants me back! I want heer back too,, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

26 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. Please help! I'm 21 years old and in a relationship which is seemingly going no-where. It all started 4 years ago when i dated a girl, who i was madly in love with. I lost my virginity to her and everything seemed perfect. Then one day, out of the blue, she told me tha... (273 words)

Air keeps going in and out of my vagina! My bf doesn'y mind but I'm so embarrased by it!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi again, please help me I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years . We enjoy making love we do it almost everyday. But recently I started to notice that when we makelove there is air coming in and out of my vigina. It is so embarrasing as I dont know why , its ... (74 words)

He's my first boyfriend, and I don't know how far I want to go

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started dating, and I've been dating this boy for a little over a month, we broke up briefly but now we are together and happy. Its always been a huge goal of mine to wait until i graduate to have sex, but other things are okay...i think. im a very shy girl and i alread... (184 words)

I want to sleep with my sister.

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My sister 6 year elder then me see is marred and see live her husband and see have a 6 year old baby. She only come my home only when her baby school close during summer. But see is so beautiful my question is I want to sex with my sister But only when see approved me doing ... (84 words)

Advice on cleaning up the bikini line?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age - I just wanted some advice on removing hair from the bikini line, cause its really affecting my self confidence at pools and stuff. Ive tried shaving my bikini line but it gets red and bumpy where i have shaved. Going to a professional place isn't really an option, I'm just loo... (82 words)

I'm in love with my b/f's uncle!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , well here's my situation ... I'm 14 years old, and I'm completely in love with a 24 year old. Believe it or not, I know its not an infatuation. If you, yourself, are in love- then you KNOW you are in love, you don't question it. Now, this is the worse part- he is my... (334 words)

I feel like he doesn't love me anymore.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years. We lived together for 4 years before we got married. He has a job were he travels alot. A month ago he came home from a trip with a very bad attitude. He did not want me to touch him in any sexual way and was just plain mean to ... (232 words)

Who's baby could it be?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Got a situation.Met a girl who is married but seperated from her old man because he is in prison for beating on her.She just had a baby a few months back, he is like five months now.She got an order of protection..etc..I was his buddy long before he went.The night he went to ... (180 words)

Just looking for some good advice.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this just seems like another one of those cliche stories about a student liking a teacher, but that's the way I feel and I can't help that. I'm 18 and I think I have a crush on a teacher who is single and roughly 9 years older. I know that asking him to do anything would ... (150 words)

Playing games with my heart

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i hav a problem with my ex. We were together for 6yrs and we have a child together. Our relationship was a bit rocky towards the end but i never thought ov being without him tho he thought differently. He started going out a lot and staying out late. I could tell that ... (241 words)

Why does my crush's friend act this way around me?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush on this guy all year. I've never told anyone and I'm to shy to try and drop hints. He has this friend that I don't even know. Whenever I walk past him in the hallway he will look at me and he watches me walk down the hallway. If I'm walking behind him he looks ... (167 words)

A boy at school makes lewd expressions at me

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am extremely scared because this boy at my school keeps sending me looks like, he licks his lips whenever I look his way we used to be best buds like 3rd thru 8th grade grade and now I am in eleventh and he had changed school districts and came back 3-4 years later an... (98 words)

Flashbacks of my stepbrother who raped me !

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26 April 2009 (F)

age - I'm 19 even if my age says I'm way older.I have flashbacks about the time when i was raped. Heres how the story goes. I was about 13 and a half. My step brother Brendan who was 18 always babysat me. I know him since I was 11 but he didn't do anything then. One day I was reading ... (210 words)

What is this guy's deal and should I respond?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll make this quick. I was seeing this guy from October last year to middle of January this year. Then we kind of just stopped talking. In February he attempted to contact me via phone but I let it go to voicemail. I texted him later, he text me back, then I sent another text ... (165 words)

Does he like me? Or am I just going out on a limb.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm really into Drama. I do it all the time. I love the stage. In the middle of August of 2008 I auditioned for a show. That's when I meet this guy. We made a little bit of eye contact and I told him I really liked his tee-shirt. I'm pretty sure he kept glancing at my and I ... (366 words)

Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, and I worry I'll drive people ... (142 words)

My boyfriend is not allowed to see my kids! I think this is so unfair.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex boyfriend and i have 2 kids together however i have a new boyfriend and its court ordered that my new boyfriend not have contact with our two kids i want to know how he can dictate this and also why he has a new girlfriend and baby and shes around the kids, spends the ... (119 words)

Infatuated with my teacher... but she's female same as me!

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26 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - She is a teacher, my french teacher. I stare at her whenever I get the opportunity. She's got gorgeous blonde hair, it goes down to her shoulders. I think about her; like every minute of the day. I'm infatuated. I don't want to have sex with her. I don't want to see her, you ... (368 words)

I love my teacher who now lives on the other side of the world, what do I do?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I'm 15 years of age and I'm in year 10, just for your information. Before I mustered the courage to research teacher and student relationships, I had no idea how common it was for a student to fall for a teacher and vice versa. I felt isolated, alone, pathetic... (1511 words)

Does this guy want my girl?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm the jealous type and my girl has a close freind who is a male, its not that i dont trust her i want to know what the hell they be talking about, and it seems like ever since me and her has been together ive seen his name all over her "AIM" icon, what the hell if not her I ... (95 words)

Nicknames!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I really need help what is a good nickname for "Amy Marie" Please help I REALLY need one thanks.... (20 words)

My married boss wants to take me to dinner and to his beach house.

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my married boss likes me. He wants to take me to dinner and to his beach house. I would normally think this is wierd and way wrong but he has also said his intentions were just to be friends but he also said I cant tell anyone that we are friends. Im so confused.... (56 words)

I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do love her very much as a ... (165 words)

Did I bleed because I'm on birth control?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started taking birth control pills about 2 weeks ago. I had my period the first week and ended after about 5 days. But today when I went to the bathroom, there was some blood. Not heavy, but light blood. Could this be because of the birth control? Does my body still have to ... (110 words)

I hate my mother!

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I HATE MY MOTHER she plays favorites my older brother being her favorite; she would always say we dont have enough money to get ME this but...she even bought him a CAR I ALWAYS wished i was born to a different family one where they would actually acknowledge my existence and ... (62 words)

Even although she smokes pot, I still like her. Should I ask her out?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know i've posted other questions involving a girl, but now there is a new one. We both have known each other for about a year now. we both work as lifeguards and we have training this weekend. i think i told her that i liked her last year in a text message. she smokes pot and ... (87 words)

Is the vagina really wet during sex or is it just a little moist?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Anyways, I'm a 16 year old virgin and have a couple questions about sex. Is the vagina real slippery and tight; gooey and wet while having sex, or is it just a bit wet and pretty loose? Thanks in advance.... (40 words)

My girlfriend's best buddy is the guy she lost her virginity to?!

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend, who is 25, and I are in a serious relationship. My problem is that out of her two best friends, one is her ex boyfriend. On top of that, it's the guy she lost her virginity to when she was 20. They dated about a year, and then a year later started becoming close ... (146 words)

I just got married but already lusting after our men

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i just recently married. He is away for a year(legal reasons) and i am lusting for another man. i want to pursue but i love my husband. i dont think i can go a year without sex. would it be so terrible to pursue an affair? what do i do?? how can i get through this?... (56 words)

Should I really have my phone attached to my hip and check it every five minutes?

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is very impatient and has a short temper. I'd also like to mention he has never been abusive to me physically, mentally, or emotionally the past three years we've been together. I wish I could say the same for inanimate object. But... he goes apesh*t if I don't answer m... (202 words)

I cheated, tried to fix it, now he's planning a secret tryst...

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated about 7 months ago. I had been unhappy for years, tried to tell my husband but he brushed me off. Not that he's bad, he's great, just oblivious. He told me he always thought that the fact that he loved me so much was enough, he didn't understand why I was unhappy. H... (452 words)

Does anyone have any ideas what she could think about me?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a bit confused about a girl I met this year, and whether she is actually interested in me or not. Basically I met her last autumn, we hit it off great and had loads in common. I was really excited after meeting her as it was the first time I'd met someone I clicked ... (296 words)

Multiple orgasms

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26 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, odd question here. For the last month or so I have been having multiple orgasms a lot closer together than before. I would always have more than one every time we would make love, but as I said for the last month or so, I have been having several orgasms in every sexual ... (108 words)

Does she like me more than I can tell?

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26 April 2009 (M)

age - Hello again Occasionally I see a woman I quite like and would like to get to know her a little bit better.I hadn't seen her for about 3 months and chatted briefly with her a few days ago. Today I'm sitting in a local cafe and she comes running up to the window with a ... (127 words)

Adult dating site dilemma!

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26 April 2009 (M)

age - Hello People, Here is the story:- About 3 years ago I joined an adult dating site. Mainly as a way to see if I could have sex, just recreationally with no strings. Like minded people looking for the same thing. Anyway after much searching of adverts, profiles and many e-... (343 words)

I'm feeling so so guilty, please help.

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26 April 2009 (F) - Hi, im in a little strife lol. in a nutshell... I recently confessed to my longtime bf i pecked another guy on the lips (i was drunk, i thought he was gay based on what a friend a while ago had said turns out he's not, he's not my friend anymore we havent spoken for months, we ... (233 words)