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30-35,
*xInItForLovexx
writes:Okay so I was just informed from a guy I work with that he told my supervisor whose a guy that im gay.the guy supervisor all hurt and I need to have a conversation with him. moving on... though I think the supervisor told the rest of my supervisors cause Ive had 3 of them crack onto me all of a sudden and they r all female.One of the supervisors Ive mentioned in my other question i like her but i dont know whether shes staring at me cause shes freaked out or cause she genuinely likes me.the guy from work not the supervisor is also is trying to convince me that im bi and should go out with the guy manager so now im confused.Hes really sweet but I feel i dont like guys and Im all sad and starting to want to crawl up into a dark hole and never look at light again.my friend who ive been flirty with is coming over again tomorrow and i just wanna cuddle up in her lap and have a good cry but im usually the one that holds her while she cries so it wud be so weird.Im not really sure what to do cause i feel like I wanna cry but the tears just wont come.Sometimes I think i should just go up and kiss her but I don't wanna rec our friendship.I Need Help Now Please!!My questions are the following:how do i approach my guy supervisor about this whole thing and i need to ask him whether he likes em or not2.how do i know whether my girl supervisor likes me3.i need some kind of emotional release,help?Thanks,,xxInItForLovexx
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reader, xxInItForLovexx +, writes (15 April 2009):
xxInItForLovexx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks I think I was a tad melodramatic at the time.I hate being patient lol Ive decided I want the girl from work I dont want my friend or anyone else.so now Im in the process of finding out about her.She not in charge of me so even if it ends badly there is no way I can get fired from work so yeah all good :D I still need an emotional release cause i just cant cry even when im physically hurt i dont cry.it sucks i would trade someone anyday.
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xxInItForLovexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Look, First off and I dont want to sound patronising but take a real deep breath. Its obvious that you are a wtrong willed person and you know what you do and dont like. If that means you dont like guys then so be it.I cant stress this enough , keep business and pleasure seperate, on both counts, male and female co-workers should respect that. Of course you want to have fun but dont go down the road of getting involbed with a workmate, it rarely ends well.As far as just going up and kissing her, a part of you knows that that isnt how you would want that to happen, surely you would want her to kiss you back.Relax and give yourself some time , you dont have to have all the answers now, Elpigaro
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