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writes:i like this guy whose girlfriend is most likely cheating on him he asked me advice but ive known the girl for 2 yrs she's never stayed in a relationship for long should i tell him or just stay out of it I really don't want him hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): If you don't have proof, don't bring it up with him. He has to end it with her on his terms or that girl will have to end it herself. With my ex, I had the proof he was cheating and I was surprised that I turned out to be the other woman. I found pictures of him and his girlfriend together so I did tell the girlfriend about him and me. So really you need to have proof, before you say anything. I understand when you tell someone that they are cheating, it is hard to believe because there can be strong feelings for the person. That person may think you are jealous of the person or trying to steal your boyfriend, etc. However, when the person opens their eyes to the possibility their boyfriend or girlfriend is not being honest with them, only then they'll accept what you have to tell them. But things have to run its course, and time will tell on how whether their relationship lasts.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 you say most likely cheating, so if there is no evidence then dont even bring that up. Dont fabricate the truth because you like him. Its not your place to suggest he break up with her, he has to go with his heart.
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