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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wont come back to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bofriend and I had been together for 2 and a half yrs. 3weeks ago he left I am in love with him but I now question how he felt and it is killing me I have ask him to come home a number of times and he want. He just says once he has had it he is finished. Its killing me I ... (87 words)

Ending up alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - life is very depressing having no freinds and no body eles to talk beside my mother.i am going 30 yaers old and i never had a boyfreind i am very shy.there is no where to go .guys i like always hurt my feelings and insult me.what can i do.i am going end up alone.its always ... (66 words)

I love them both

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with this guy for over six months and i love him loads but at the same time i've fallen in love with this guy that's a year younger than me, i don't care about the age difference i just don't know what to do because i love them both. ... (53 words)

How to I encourage him to come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. well long story short i love my bf to pieces (yeah im gay if ur wonderin lol) and well im out and people r totally fine wiv it, but he's not and its really putting strain on our relationship. I mean i cant even look at him in a way which even a normal friend wud look at ... (212 words)

I think I may have OCD

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I may just be dramaticizing this but i think i have OCD, i think this because i always pay attention to the smallest most pointless things such as writing the date for a lesson i write in pencil which i may rub out continuosly untill i decide it looks okk. If i write i pen i ... (337 words)

Has he been using me this whole time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have asked lots of undetailed questions before on this site but now im going to really go into detail cuz i havent gotten help yet. Thanks to whoever answers! So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a long time now. And in the begginging everything was perfect and we w... (408 words)

Trouble going into me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having sex for awhile now, but my guy's penis won't go inside of me. I'm not sure if he's even inside as I don't feel anything. Do you know what's the problem? Am I too tight? Could it be something else? ... (49 words)

Do women brag about their sexual experiences too?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women brag about their sexual experiences the same way guys do?... (12 words)

Am I shy or what?

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3 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hey everyone. The thing is i have a boyfriend. We fooled around and all. He went down on me twice and i kind of liked how it felt but i don't know why i pull him back up. Any thoughts? Second is i would like to return the favor but i am shy and i never did this before so don't... (133 words)

I don't want to live life with regrets

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ... I was wondering if this is normal. I'm 14 and I like this guy who is 12. I'm in Grade 8 and he's in Grade 6. This September, he would be in middle school and I'll be in high school. He is considerably shorter than me but he has started growing taller. He's now... (506 words)

I have razor rash! How can I avoid this when shaving?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i shave my public hair and now i have gt little red dotes all over .. lots . wtf !! i cant shave now cause it iwll get worse and they will get caught in the razor and i dont think they will go away !! help !! is this common ????? what can i do ??... (57 words)

Could going on birth control make her depressed for a week?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

- I've been seeing this girl for about 3 months. Everything was wonderful up until about a week ago. She stopped texting me and whenever I see her she seems unhappy at the fact that I'm around and she doesn't show any affection to me at all. But when I tried to talk to her ... (178 words)

Love with a professor. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im an college student and have been attending college for about 2 years now. This semester is the 1st time i actually attented full time and made alot of friends and met a lot of people. The question i wanted to ask is: Theres this professor in my college, she very beautif... (289 words)

Met someone new and better than my boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been on and off with my boyfriend of almost two years. I feel like our relationship has gone through a very rough patch. It is not easy, even though we loved each other. All these times I have been working hard to make the relationship to work, i have tried to open lines ... (635 words)

My husband has left me for a man, what do I do? How do I tell the kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age - Hi there. I'm Tania, and I've got a grown-up son who's 22, and a daughter who's 23. Both are doing well in their jobs, my 22-year-old son a freelance website designer, and my 23-year-old daughter who is a motor mechanic. After 16 years of marriage, my husband left me - and wh... (289 words)

Depressed and I can't move on....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so unhappy.to the point were i am on anti depressant cry everyday and im so lonely. I have a 4 year old child and i just dont enjoy life. It all because i have suffered 3 years of mental abuse from my ex. Hes made me feel like i dont matter .from the jokes.hurtful comments ... (185 words)

How do I get out of being naked at a sauna on a second date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just started seeing this guy and for our second date he wants us to go for a sauna. I have never been before and I am a little worried what do you wear, he says he wears nothing, I am not up for that on a second date, I am not that confident woth my body, I always cover ... (79 words)

Have I messed this up for good? How do I win back his heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with a guy for almost 3 years. We lived together for one and planned a life-changing 3 month trip around the world together, before we planned on settling down. Two months before the trip, a past love of mine came back into my life and I got confused. I couldn't really ... (598 words)

Confused about my sexuality...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

3 April 2009 (?) - So I am a 17 year old female. And i'm completely straight. And i've never even been remotely attracted to any female...until now. There is a girl at my school, who is a lesbian and has a crush on me, and i think i may have one on her too. But like, its only her. I'm not ... (102 words)

Slept with my teacher and his gf found out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some advice. first off i'm 16, almost 17 and im in my last year at high school. im really sporty and a few months ago i started getting friendlier with my male teacher. we always have a joke and a laugh and he pays me alot of attention. hes 24, and one day wh... (267 words)

How can you tell for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am interested in a guy at work he says he likes me but I am unsure if he seriously likes me or if he is playing me. How can you tell for sure? How can I ask him in without him knowing?... (44 words)

Do good looking guys have problems getting gf's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Are good looking guys always able to get girlfriends?... (9 words)

How should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of months back, I went to New Orleans with a group of friends. I met this girl, and we hit it off. We kept in touch, and even met half way between where she lives and where I live last weekend. Anyway, the last couple of days have been weird. We usually talk all ... (171 words)

His family wont leave the x out of family functions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age - The guy I am with is 17 yrs younger. But we had at times a great relationship. He is very reliable and I believe he loves me. but we have a huge problem. He had a bad childhood,(dad married his girlfriend when he was 16, helf sister had control of him and I do not know why, ... (306 words)

I cant be with anyone but him!

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im not with my ex about 5 months now and i started dating a guy at work but told him i didnt want anything serious as i was with my ex for over 6 years ii recently told this guy that i didnt want to date him anymore as i found it too hard too move on even though i was the one ... (182 words)

How do I get closer to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i would like some help i want to get closer with my boyfriend, we have been dating for a year and a half and we havent really got very close any ideas on how i can get closer to him.?... (41 words)

Why did we need to take a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello people ...i just had a breakup with my gf ..she was extremely loving and one of a kind..a very mature and responsible girl by her age...she really loved me from her true heart but my feelings for her changed and this was truly heart wrenching for her that we broke off ... (282 words)

He wants me to dominate him in bed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is trying to get me to be dominant. But i hate that. I like being controlled in bed, and even outside of bed. He want's me to be on top. But i have a lot of self consious issues, and i really don't want to. But i want to make him as happy as i can, so what i am ... (82 words)

Dating 3 women, want to cut it down to 1...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I'm in a pretty desperate situation at the moment. You see, I've been dating three women simultaneously for the past 3 years and now I want to cut that number down to to one. The first girl I'm with, Clara, I got with shortly after my... (309 words)

What's your take on Manscaping?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, What's your take on Manscaping? Do you think a man should keep his pubic region trimmed, natural, shaved? I see lots of girls ask about this but I think it is becoming more common for men as well. I know it is personal preference, and I know what I like, I w... (76 words)

How do I start up a conversation with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i finally go out with the boy i like, about a week ago he asked me out and i said yes. but we dont speak or that, and he thinks i ignore him and avoiding him and i think the same about him. he's not usually quoet but when he's with me he goes all red and goes shy. i don't know ... (83 words)

How do I be more affectionate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im in love with the most beautiful girl ever. I admitt that we have had many problems but we resolved everyone of them! She asks that I be more affectionate, how do I do that? I am way affectionate now so how do I expand this territory for her? I lover her to daeth and will ... (71 words)

My teacher who I fancy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i fancy my teacher. he is older than me by quite a margin. i am confused and dont know what to do. he found out i fancied him on a school trip abroud last year from my friends. he smiles at me in the corridors now. he also now notices me more. like before in year 7 he never ... (273 words)

I cant help my self to be so insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiance and i have been together for almost three year now.. there is a 7 yr age difference between us.. at the begining of our relationship (about 3-5 months into the realtionship) i caught him a couple of times looking a his ex's page (his first love) this created a b... (373 words)

Does he want me to break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP - What is happening here? - I am confused! - I have been seeing this guy who is quite unreliable - eg he says he will ring then doesn't - he says he will meet then can't... etc etc. As well as this I am sure he still sees his ex too! I have him asked if he wants me to ... (144 words)

I don't like his kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my problem is that i hate my boyfriend's kids.. he wants to bring them from chicago to live in our apartment in dallas! and the worst part is that its not only one kid, he has three (13, 10 and 8 years old)!!!!!!!! we have been living together for over two years and i really l... (116 words)

Did I ruin everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy and we had this stupid fight. We stopped talking to each other for a while and I just heard from people that he had a gf. But then I catch him staring/glancing (even before he had a gf) at me with those sparkles in his eyes. And he always try to show-off around ... (158 words)

I am at my wits end with my girlfriend and her antics.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok bear with me here because this is a bit of a long story. I love my girlfriend and we have been living together for 6 months. The entire time we have been going out, she has never cared how I feel about anything. About 10 months ago, I expressed to her that I didn't want ... (457 words)

She doent want to post our pics

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - what kind of relationship do we have if we have sex go on dates but she dont want our pics on myspace?... (23 words)

My bf is drinking and driving, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has just passed his driving test but he keeps having a few beers before driving. He says it wont affect him but im worried hes going to get pulled over by the police. what can i say to him without sounding like a nagging wife?... (47 words)

Is this a guy problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 5 months now. We dont' have it very often, but when we do most of the time he lasts pretty long. Recently though he has been cumming a lot quicker than before and he's starting to worry that there is something wrong with him. Is ... (68 words)

It seems like she can't make up her mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This feels like a roller coaster ride. The girl of my dreams, my girlfriend of over a year broke up with me about 6 months ago. Both at different colleges and she decided she did not want a boyfriend. I was crushed. I was, and still am, truly in love with her. Over the ... (634 words)

Unwanted but eager to be in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Anyone out there is having the same problem as mine? I'm terribly depressed dat i'm still single.Frankly i am really yearning to be in a relationship so much.Well,i'm still very young i know(i'm just a teenage girl),but my friends around me are involving themselves in relation... (287 words)

Should I just do something he's "forbidden" me to do so he'll break up with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend over a year. We do everything together. I'm not in love with him and never was. I'm not attracted to him at all, and there's no sex to speak of anymore. I love him as a friend, though, and we met through mutual friends that I don't want to lose ... (240 words)

If he was interested, wouldn't he ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure if this guy is interested or not. We have known each other for about a year, we work together, we chat all the time, he always asks how I am and seems to be showing an interest, he has my telephone number and send me messages now and again, we kissed a couple of ... (192 words)

My friends say use him for some fun, but I'm afraid I'll get attached

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortuanetly at work, he has my mobile number... (255 words)

We're not on the same level of comittment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. we got into a huge arguement over several issues the other night. he told me flat out that he does not want marry me anytime in the near future. toward the end of this i told him that i didn't think he loved me. he ... (116 words)

Is it ok to tell her that I'm sexually frustrated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I want to ask one question; Is it disrespectfull to tell your girlfriend that you are sexually frustrated? Well I am 17 years old, and my girlfriend is 16. We are dating for like 10 months now. I haven't ever foreced her to have sex with me, to do things she is... (178 words)

After 23 years of marriage my husband just walks out saying he doesn't want to be married anymore!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age - Hello I would really appreciate some help. I've been married for 23 years to a man I really love. I had a couple of serious relationships before him but he is the love of my life and we got married when i was 22 and he was 23. We have two daughters age 21 and 17, both doi... (604 words)

Anyone else ever experience this? One of my fallopian tubes is blocked and I wish to become pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was tested a couple of years ago and I was informed that one of my fallopian tubes are blocked. I am 32 in a relationship with a wonderful man and wish to get pregnant. I really wanted to go the natural route as oppose to invitro or tubular surgery. Does anyone have any ... (73 words)

Should I leave him? Or continue in my unhappy married life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not really sure where I should start so, I going to start at the beginning but try to make it as short as possible. I have been with my husband for 22 years. But, we have only been married for 8 of those years. The last 5 years have been the unhappiest year of my life. The ... (754 words)

Am I just having trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got back with my ex. We had broken up before because he cheated on me, and it has taken us a long time to get to a good place to start over. However, the girl that he cheated with is still in our lives. We hang around all the same groups, and she is now with another ... (201 words)

What is the best way to say that I don't think of him as a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well , the story is that from about 1 month felt tht i like some guy in the college and i thought he liked me 2 coz he couldn't stop lookin at me wherever i go .. and from a week exactly we set down together and just talked and talked he liked me and i did 2 then we became ... (272 words)

Boyfriend betrayed my trust..not sure how to deal with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years in a few more months. Recently i found out he has been keeping a secret msn/email and i found some of his conversations on his computer by accident saying things to other girls like "hey beautiful", "hey sexc", "if i come ... (433 words)

I'm craving the life I had, but not to get back with my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a realtionship for five years from the age of 15. I ended it about five months ago, I felt we'd grown apart but also had feelings for a boy who was also my friend. Things didn't work out with that, and I felt so hurt and let down. I recently started dating again but ... (161 words)

Where is this going? Do I still have a chance to make this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone give me an advice on what to do? I have met this man in 1999; in 2001 I gave birth to his child a baby boy. I always loved him and I still have feelings for this man. I love him so much and never stop thinking about him, it has been so many years and I never ... (385 words)

Why do I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man ?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age - Why do I want to watch my wife have sex with a man, our sex life is very good, but when a man came on to her I encouraged her and it led to full sex with me watching and I got so turned on and would loved to see her take a lover. I don't understand why I get so much pleasure... (70 words)

Surely this is what relationships are meant to be like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend makes me feel so unhappy with myself. With his comments. I feel so low and have low self esteem and wonder who will want me if we spilt as I'm the kind of person who needs to feel loved and secure. But I'm not with him and it's an emotional rollercoaster! He say... (347 words)

I don't have low self esteem so why do I continue this affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Aunts please help me... I still haven't left this guy alone that I'm being the other woman to... and the sad part is I would like to but haven't been strong enough to just leave him alone, because he's obviously not going to leave me alone. The thing is all I here you all say... (287 words)

How can he go from hot to cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy for 4 months. Everything was going so great. Just a couple of weeks ago he was talking about where things were headed, meaning a relationship. He talked about being in love and things were going that way very fast, etc. He also has mentioned he is a ... (137 words)

How can I end this friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Afternoon all. I need some advice with how to end a friendship. I met my friend 10 years ago..when we worked together and we always kept in touch after i left..her doing most of the chasing and phoning. Shortly after she got pregnant and asked me to be Godmother..i... (262 words)

Even after a year I still miss her..should I contact her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i miss my ex very much ....she was 14 and i am 21...she was my cousin and it was a long distance relationship....we started everything from texting chatting and met a couple of times when i went to her place ....we always had something special between us and were attracted to ... (300 words)

Should I just end things now before we get too involved again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i hope some one can help me through this....... i got with my boyfriend aug just gone- we were together for 6 months , and just after valentines day - we split up - he finished with me - an it really hurt me - but i didnt go chasing after him- i just left it to see how i... (370 words)

Am I misinterpreting him? his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i'm with this guy from college for 4 years not exactly into relationship or anything. i feel on part of me likes him but the part wants me to be away from him.he criticizes about the way i think and has given me points to improve about myself which were definitely ... (203 words)

I don't think I have a future with him... am I right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I don't know if I like this guy?? He is a friend I guess we are close, we've known each other for 3 years yet I just feel I don't know him. I feel he's desperate for sex or whatever, he always speaks to me about gals and how hot they are and he says I'm hot too. We just ... (123 words)

After 33 years of marriage I am so hurt and now don't know what to think...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for 33 years and a couple of years ago when I was doing the laundry his underwear was full of c--- and I know that it wasn't from us at that moment in time, so I confronted him and he just kept saying I don't know and at different times thereafter I would ... (220 words)

Is her mind mature enough to deal with the breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my 16 year old girlfriend today saying my feelings have changed and it has no future basically and we are wasting our time in it...she truly loves me and wanted me in her life by hook or by crook! so after frustrating arguments ,crying and sobbing we decided to ... (275 words)

Why are my stretch marks itching?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 17 and im a mother to a 18 month old and i have stretch marks on my lower stomach and for some reason they have been itching for the past week or so and their turning red and its only like three of them thats doing it, i tried looking it up and all i could find was, they ... (85 words)

My new boyfriend wants me to get an abortion, should I marry my ex and tell him the baby is his?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

3 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am pregnant by my new boyfriend of three months. I we always used condoms except on one occassion. I have another child out of wedlock. When I told him, he told me to terminate it, but am not sure if I want to do that. I sugested we get married and he refused, saying he has ... (208 words)

I'm young but fall for older boys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, im im still a teen, and i tend to only fall for older guys. k im 16, and a perfects age to me would be 17 to 23. i always fall for older men, and obviously they all eventually come to the conclusion that im too young, but it always takes time for them to decide because i ... (117 words)

Married but have feelings for the ex who hurt me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Cannot forget my ex. Long story. I was abused when I was young. Grew up in a big family and was always the black sheep. At 18 met Mr H and fell in love, thought finally I had found happiness. He broke my heart left me for another woman and married her and I managed to survive ... (262 words)

Period Cramp Advice Please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to all cupids out there. Ok i need any tips or tricks of the trade for this question. Ive been getting really bad period pains/stomach cramps and wondered if anyone had any good tips they could give me on how to reduce the uncomfortable feeling and pain. Ive tried heat p... (71 words)

What's going on? He says he's over but he's still on my sofa!

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3 April 2009 (F)

- I have a major boy friend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was over. He said fine. I didn't mean and I tried to tell him that but he won't ... (426 words)

Mutual attraction between my married friend and I...

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very good friends with a male friend whom I've known since the last 15 years and is an important part of my life. My male friend and I are very close and have had feelings for each other but never got around to voicing them. We both have been emotional supports to each ... (298 words)

How do I solve this on-again off-again stressfull relationship with an ex?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers, so I'm back again! My partner and I split up in March last year (he left and at the time I was unwell, which was really hurtful). Since then we've been sort of 'on/off' and were rebuilding a nic... (790 words)

She wants me to stop smoking. Should I change for her?

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3 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a dilemma. Me and my girl have been going out for 7 months now. About everything is wonderful, but like every couple we have our issues. (not sure if the post is allowed, but it is a serious relationship problem i need help with) Plain and simple, I smoke pot. My ... (348 words)

How do I tell a classmate I have a crush on her?

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3 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm obsessed about a girl. I don't know her that well because I can't keep a conversation for very long. I gaze into her big warm eyes and I loose what I was going to say next or I say something stupid. I often think and pray about her and become depressed for some ... (263 words)

How do I interpret her flirting on the phone?

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3 April 2009 (M)

age - Whenever she speaks to me on phone she keeeps on laughing and shows much interest in me as if she is responding me, but when I flirt her with soft love quotes she says plz dont misunderstand me what does it mean how do I make move to have her and what are her intentions I ... (65 words)

What does a casual relationship mean?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i would just like to know if someone says they what a causal relationship, what do they mean by this?... (21 words)

Haven't broken up but he wants freedom to travel and sleep around

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very upset and conflicted as to what to do and I need some advice and was hoping you could help. Yesterday my boyfriend left for a year of travelling around the world after completing his degree. We have been dating for a year and it has been amazing, we have such a grea... (1245 words)

Broken, torn up and in a dilemma

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3 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i had a breakup because of some problem...she was one of a kind smart decent responsible polite extremely caring inshort a unique personality and a GREAT GURL! but our relationship had to end one day because i didnt feel for her that way! she was kinda very serious about ... (328 words)

Guys input..would you find me attractive?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This question goes mainly to any guy. Would you find me attractive? I'm smart, responsible, tall, a little fat, and i have a nice smile. I'm also very pretty and i'm also very nice. I think what take most of the guys back is that i'm a little fat, i'm not that fat maybe 20 ... (70 words)

I'm stuck with a man that takes advantage of my weakness

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 38yr. old mother of 6, 4 of my children from my present boyfriend. We have been together almost 9 yrs. Ever since I can remember, my boyfriend has cheated on me, at least with 2 or 3 or more women for every yr we've been together. You're probably wondering why are you ... (254 words)

Am I supposed to shave down there?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a virgin and I've never been fingered or anything. This is really embarrassing but am I supposed to shave down there and if so how much? all?... (28 words)

My boyfriend hides things from me

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm now at the point where I just want to know if I am overreacting or not. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. Throughout the relationship there's been trust issues; I cheated on him with a girl early on in the relationship but we moved on. Since then I have ... (184 words)

Involved with 2, trying to figure out how to get to see #2 without telling #1

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A few months ago I got out of a 12-year relationship. Two or three months ago I started seeing a guy from work. We've been intimate, had sex, a really good time. We talk easily, laugh easily, and all that good stuff. He too recently got out of a 14-year relationship. I made it ... (268 words)

Caught up with his X, but why did he act the way he did to me?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, its a long story.. i met this man online. i live in another country where i work and study, while he is an expact working in my homeland. I visit my homeland every 2 to 3 months. and when i met him online i was already going to visit home in 3 weeks. he sent me an ... (960 words)

He cheated, confessed, apologized..but I can't let go

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now. he tells me he loves me and that i'm the most important thing in his life. well, two days ago, had a very serious discussion, and i found out that two months ago he cheated on me twice with two different women. i ... (223 words)

My marriage sucks

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so this might be a long post but i have a lot on my mind right now. Pretty much the gist of my issue is my husband and myself. I am 20 and he is 23, so yea we got got married pretty young (actually when I was 18 and he was 21 but anyways) which may contribute to our issues. ... (708 words)

We're crazy about each other but she doesn't want to be with me!

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3 April 2009 (M)

- I'm heartbroken. I've been interested in this girl for years. She's always been interested in me. She told me quite frankly how her world turns upside down when she's with me. We have a wonderful time when we go out... but she says she's not ready for a relationship ("that ... (229 words)

Why do good things always have to end?

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3 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, well i was wondering and i don't think there is a right answer to this but how come a majority of good things end? Like everything will be going great and then all the sudden everything goes bad.... (39 words)

Nothing I do is good enough for him!

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please helpe me...I'm 23 and my husband 25. We've been married for almost 4yrs. He works from 7 to 3 mon.-fri.and I'm a stay @ home mom for our almost 3 year old son.and we have been living on our own house he bout for a year now. It sounds good so far right? Well we've been ... (320 words)

How do I go about dating 2 people at once?

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3 April 2009 (F)

- Hi, I'm 27 and just recently got out of a 3 year relationship and I seem to be over it because it just wasn't working and I knew it wasn't and had been waiting to end it for a while. Now, the thing is that I've recently started working (my first real job :D ) at this pl... (515 words)

I lost my fiancee AND my best friend

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Two days ago was my wedding day. I had been with my supposed-to-be husband for a year and two months but there was a conflict. You see, my best guy friend of nearly a decade stood up from his seat in the third row at my wedding and called out, 'I object!' He gave me a look of ... (253 words)

He isnt showing his love to me

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my boy friend of 41/2 years which is my first of everything is not showing actions for the things he say. for example: he say he loves me but he show other. he dont take my feelings in consideration, when he know the problem or the reason im upset or the reason why ... (362 words)

Wish I could get her to stop talking about her bf

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I'm just getting over a breakup with a guy I dated for almost 8 months. My best friend is in love with a guy she's been dating for 2 months. She's always telling me how they want to get married (when and where in a few years) and pretty much everything about their ... (163 words)

I want to enjoy sex with my bf...But it hurts!

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - got a sex problem. Not a long one, kinda simple really, but it kinda prooving to be a bit of a big problem. Have been going out with a new guy and we've started having sex. I really like him. The foreplay is really good and I get really turned on, and he does ... (337 words)

How do I know if he is into me?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles, I have a question about the behavior of a guy that I think might like me. I'm usually pretty perceptive about these things, but I just want a second (or third, or forth!) opinion. I often find him looking at me, and when I look back at him he smiles an... (156 words)

Two questions in one

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. I have two questions in one and i need advice! Q.1 I have been thinking about telling my best friend that I like her. And yes I am bisexual but I'm asking a serious question here. I've liked her so much and she's really nice. I'm atheist and i do not believe in god s... (147 words)

Am I to blame for his 'condition'?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I recently tried having sex. We had sex about 2 years ago when i first met him, but we never mentioned it again since it was in a drunken haze. Sorry for the graphic content: This time around he was hard in the beginning but as soon as we tried getting it in, he g... (174 words)

How do I make him mine?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy and i really like him we have only got to hang out once in person, but he text me and IMs me we have great conversations. he ask me what i wanted and in a relationship and told me he didn't have alot of time right now because of his job. i told him i would be ... (194 words)

Boyfriend wants to go flying...But I think I am pregnant!

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants me to go out with him and experience a demo flying lesson this weekend! Plus, we're both volenteering at a church fair and of course we'll be going up and down on all the rides. The thing is..I think I might be pregnant. It's only been a few days that I'... (107 words)

Boyfriend treats me bad but I love him...What do I do?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone im 16 years old and iv been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years on and off. we have so much going on and so many problems. wheb we first started to go out in july of 07 everything was perfect. then towards september of 07 things got bad it was fighting and ... (448 words)

Is sex all he's after with me?

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3 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi. Just to jump straight into it. I recently got involved with a guy. We met a few times in unrelated circumstances and after I admitted I had feelings towards him. To my suprise he reciprocated. Our 'relationship' since has purely been online as we have been unable to meet ... (200 words)

He has some big issues and I feel I can't go on like this for another 20 years! Help!

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3 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I'm afraid I have to leave... I don't know what is with him. He says he loves me, but I don't feel it. He is not looking at me nice, and he never wants me in bed. He is impotent, but not sick. He can have night erections. He says I should trust him... But , I can't... I really ... (167 words)

Will I ever be able to get over the fact I had an abortion?

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3 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I also have another question. And thank you all who answer! I was pregnant about a month ago. I wanted to keep my baby but everyone around me kinda brainwashed me into thinking it was best to get an abortion. My mom told me it was too hard and said me and my boyfriend are ... (185 words)