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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I feel so so dirty! A man on here helped me with one of my problems and we got chatting and he said he'd help me with any other problems. Anyway he started talking sexually and I did too cos I was so unbelievably horny but now I feel so dirty and used and just eurgh, I'm completely disgusted with myself. I feel like a sinner and I don't know what to do!
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reader, RON_499  +, writes (21 April 2009):
 well its completely natural at this age...but i would recommend that u don't do it anymore...there's nothing to feel sinful about k...its completely natural...i know i'm repeating this but seriously DO NOT FEEL GUILTY!!!!!we learn from our mistakes...and well the thing is a mistake is truly one if u repeat it...so dont sweat it k......do this only when u have a serious boyfriend k....take care!!!:-]
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reader, natasia +, writes (13 April 2009):
 for Andrew's email address, click on 'About us' at the top of the questions!
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reader, natasia +, writes (13 April 2009):
You have to do three things:
1) Report this person to Andrew, who runs this site - his email is [email address blocked]
2) Stop feeling guilty - you were drawn into something completely inappropriate by a man who should never have been on this site, and who has behaved appallingly. It wasn't your fault. You aren't dirty - he is.
3) Give it time. You will eventually forget about this, I promise you. And remember you didn't actually do anything - words are just words, and very easily deleted. All you did was write something. Now forget you ever did that.
nx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (13 April 2009):
 OK if you have a Dear Cupid Account you got sent an Email from Andrew (Dear Cupid guy) It will be your very first email in your in box, I suggest you email him and tell him what happened and he can take the appropriate steps in removing this FAKE aunt!
This is not a site for people to Groom innocent children and most of us are here to protect you guys from just that kind of thing. This is not your fault at all!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (13 April 2009):
 I'm sorry this happened to you and I would be happy to help you out. I'm one of the senior moderators. If you want to send me an email with more details then please feel free to do so and I'll check this guy out. You can also email the boss if you'd prefer who goes under the name of DearCupid.
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah. how do i report it? i'm quite new to this site
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reader, Helpful_In_Ohio  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 we all make mistakes.I have made my share, I can tell you that.
The thing is not to beat yourself up over it. You did it and its over, and you did it for a reason. ( Looking back on it now it was not a good reason for you ) but like I said its not as bad as you think.
I have done so much worse in my recent life. I am not proud of it nor will I beat myself up about it. I have to forgive myself no matter if anyone else forgives me. Its what you do to learn from your mistakes.
I have yet to get forgiveness for what I have done, but I look into the future and hope it will be better .
So what I say is just relax its not a mortal sin and you are not going to hell for it. Just learn from it and make yourself better.
I hope I have helped and hope things get better for you you need more help feel free to Private message me or just anser me here your choice i am always willing to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): for starters do not chat privately, only use the public forums.
is he one of the regular advice givers?
you can also report him to the moderators. this site is not for perverts and should not be used as a smokescreen for adults wanting to further their own agendas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): I would report it to the site manager, you are a child...he is a man.. what he did was worng and not your fault.
I wish old pervs would stay away from sites like this. Most people here are only trying to help not prey on poor innocent children.
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