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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He will be my step-brother in August and we are in love...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok - I understand that the general consensus is that is ok to date and even possibly marry your step-brother. But please here is my situation - and help me out. I am 21 - he is 23 - he is in the Navy and came home on leave for two weeks - and this is the first time I hav... (302 words)

I don't know how to "take it slow" and tend to fall hard and fast.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a guy I REALLY like. When we are together I feel great, and when we are apart I feel happy about the times we spent together. Because of this I want to really take it slow with him and allow both of us to really get to know each other well. So, my problem is, that... (126 words)

I need help on being a better girlfriend and not so jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I have been dating this guy on and off for almost 3 years. He says he loves me but I'm so jealous because he used to cheat on me so much. He has changed so much and he treats me so much better. I need help on being a better gf and not so jealous.... (57 words)

I just found out my boyfriend has his own pornsite and sells viagra over the net.

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I work as a accountant and have just found out my boyfriend has his own pornsite and sells viagra over the net. He also films and recruits women from a local chat site. Hes making millions but im scared becuase we work for the same company. His site is uncensored! What can i ... (70 words)

I want to go slow but I don't want to scare him off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I contacted a guy on a popular website for friends on the weekend, and he immediately added me. I never do these kind of things but I have been single for too long. I could see he changed his mood status from stressed to adventurous, right after we made contact. So we ... (297 words)

I have no idea what to think about this girl! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Guys I need a big help! I want you to please tolerate reading the following paragraphs, then only u'll be able to help me. ... I fell into love first time and now I m hurt seriously. ... She was in my colg for 3 years. We never talked to each other for intial 2 years. T... (692 words)

She's hot...then cold and I want to avoid getting hurt again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Yeah im confused right now...so there is this girl who i used to date 3 months ago and i really liked her but the last time i saw her was on our last date back in january. Since then she hasn't been so close anymore she would text every once in a while and i have no clue what ... (152 words)

How compatible are we, judging by the signs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female pisces/aries cusp (34 years old) ,dating a male virgo/libra cusp (28 years old). How compatible are we? Because both our signs are on a cusp there is alot of conflicting information. I would appreciate any insight.... (40 words)

It's my Birthday today, so I can lie to my parents. Right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today was my birthday and my parents went out of town and so this guy that my parents hate, went out to his friends old abdoned house out in the country to celebrate it and we kind of got drunk and we went into the house to have sex and in the middle of it the sherrif and his ... (153 words)

Is he Cheating and how do I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am with a man with whom I have been living for three years, recently I have been noticing signs of cheating.About two months ago we were home one night naked when someone knocked at the door. After he recognised the person he went outside for about two minutes,I got up and ... (180 words)

My boyfriend has Erectile Dysfunction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been sleeping together for about 3 months now and recently we've been having some problems. We've always used condoms and he's never had any trouble getting an erection before. However, last time I stayed at his he lost it just before sex. It's easy ... (301 words)

He admitted to a bi-sexual experience on our anniversary!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I could be here all day writing...But I'll try to sum it up a little. My husband and I were celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary the other night and we got to talking pretty deeply. We are always very open with eachother(so I thought) and always have a lot of sexual talk. ... (345 words)

Condom split, could I get pregnant?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had sex using a condom and he came, about 45 mins later we had sex again and the condom split, the top ripped off the condom, could i get pregnant from the pre-come or the come from the 1st time?? ... (47 words)

How can I gain more energy to become more fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been the sort of person who keeps themselves to themselves, but it's really starting to effect me. I never have any energy to make the effort with people because I'm in a sort of fixed routine, and it's not because I'm lazy it's because my body always feels ... (194 words)

What are the signs that a man is enjoying fellatio?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the signs that a guy is enjoying oral sex? vocal? shaking thigh?... (14 words)

I think my dad self-harms, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well I'm 18 and recently I caught a glimpse of my dads arms while he was playing with my younger sister and I saw self-harm marks. I know that they're self inflicted because I used to self-harm when I was younger and they look the same as mine, but very prominent and his ... (161 words)

I sent him nice photos of me but I worry he will not like me in reality!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

- ok so where do i start?? i am 20, nearly 21. When i was 13 i met this boy who was 14 on a chatroom. we used to text all the time and really really liked eachother. for just over 7 years we have kept i contact on and off. i hadnt heard from him for about a year and about 2 ... (222 words)

All I wanted was to be loved and so I let him use me, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive stupidly let my ex boyfriend use me for the last six months! Ive being so silly and and fool. Ive been so in love with him ive let him do whatever he wanted so i was afraid of losing him. We spilt cos he wouldnt give me commitment. We were together 3 years on / off only ... (333 words)

Does he like me and is he just shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in one of my classes. Some days it seems like he really likes me and then some days he acts like he doesn't even notice me. He does the whole staring at me and then looking away really fast thing. If were waling in the hallway he walks with his head down or he ... (174 words)

Friends or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and this have been friends for a really long time. and when we first had sex it was in Nov. of 07 and we didnt sleep together again until jan. of this year than we had sex again in march. and i threw a party for his birthday the 18 of this month and he gave me earrings ... (182 words)

Her friends say nasty things about us being together and mainly about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been together for around a year and 4 months. We have had 3 breakups during that time but never longer than a week. Her friends keep giving her grief over what has happened and say she should leave me. My gf herself has forgiven for what i have done and ... (88 words)

I need help please, what does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been togeather for over a month now and last night he said to me "we will see if this goes well between us because only god knows what is going to happen and some times i feel scared to say i want you forever but i'm happy and feeling good with ... (60 words)

He is one of the coolest guys in school, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you know if a 10th grade boy likes a 7th grade girl?for example,he usually smiles in a very sweet way at her,looks with dreamy eyes at her,brushes his arm against hers(this happened twice).he is one of the hottest guys in school and you barely see him staying with ... (81 words)

I think my Dad is cheating, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my dad having an affair. I was doing my parents taxes and found a receipt of condoms, my parents don’t use them. I know it can be a lot things but I have had many suspicions! I’ve always been a straight forward person so I confronted him. He quickly denied it and ... (140 words)

How can I come out to my parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i first realised i was gay when i was 17. i had a brother who was gay as well who lived in london but died of aids in 1995. which made it difficult for me to come out to my parents, subsequently i have never come out to them as they blamed themselves for his death and are both ... (98 words)

I'm scared that my friends will hate me if I date him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am really in love with this guy, and he really loves me. but we're not together because i am scared. he split up with his girlfriend (one of my best friends) a few months ago, and i am scared all my other friends will judge me if we start seeing each other. although his ex ... (79 words)

Should I date the guy that used to use me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy, who used to use me but now i believe he has feelings for me. . . I still have feelings for him. But he hurt me so much last time, i dont want it to happen again What should i do? Go with me head? or my heart? ... (66 words)

Why won't this serial cheater marry me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello...im trying to figure out why is it that my boyfriend of 15yrs (he's 40 and im 39) first off will not marry me and make a formal commitment and second of all will not leave this other woman alone? i've forgiven him for having a baby on me 10yrs ago (because after m... (173 words)

Half penetration sex, am I still a Virgin?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My BF's penis went in me about half way, the head was fully in and we did this a few times. He didnt push all the way because I want to keep my virginity but i cant help but think have I already lost it from what we wer doing. We tested it out and let the penis g... (117 words)

Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby. I was just wondering how high of possibility that when I take a test next week if I will be bfp. I sort of had a period that lasted 3 days then spotted one day and completely stopped. I had a sip of coffee in morning and bolted t... (133 words)

Do I love him or am I crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel totally nutts, Ok here goes sorry if this don’t make sense I’m confused, BIG STYLE. 9 years ago I met a guy I worked with and fell for in a big way we slept together a few times but he was going through a divorce and well I was a young. We kept in touch in general... (523 words)

Was I too harsh to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We got along great but I wasn’t in love with her. I broke the news without warning and she is devastated. She doesn’t have many friends locally and her family lives a state away. She feels she doesn’t have anyone to talk to and she need... (306 words)

Abusive, violent, jailbird boyfriend and I think it's my fault!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need some advice. I am so confused I dont really seem to know wrong from right anymore. So have been with my bf for like 10 years now, and we are planning to get married next year. The problem is he has hit me in the past - alot. He has stopped that now but inst... (434 words)

Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me? Well I feel if some one loves me as much as he say he does, he should respect that I don't feel right taking those kind of pictures. So he tells me not to call him unle... (79 words)

I'm 14, should I spilt up with my 19 year old boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a 19 year old boyfriend who loves me a lot but i am only 14. my parents will be so angry with me if they find out. this is putting a lot of stress on me and it is affecting our relationship. should i end the relationship?... (49 words)

Should I risk our friendship and hope that he wouldn't just use me for sex etc?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this lad for a very long time, since primary school and we're currently in Year 11 now. The both of us have always had a soft spot for each other, and in Year 9 we became best friends. This fizzled out slightly, but we're still very close. We flirt a lot, and... (162 words)

Fed up of my cheating boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my current boyfriend have been through a lot. We've been together for a year and a half and during that time hes cheated on me 3 times, but I never let him go because I'm head over heels in love with him. Lately he's been showing less and less interest in me and even ... (245 words)

Should I talk to my girlfriend about my World of Warcraft friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question. My girlfriend and I have lived together for a while now and we have a great relationship. Since we have been living together, I haven't really played World of Warcraft like a I used to. I just started playing again and some of my old friends (from about 8 ... (314 words)

Another Porn, LDR question

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I see him every three months or so. I just got back from visiting him. I spent 8 days with him. We hardly made love. Maybe 4 times. Four days before I was about to leave, I was asleep and he was watching a p... (189 words)

I really like a girl, how do I get her attention without being too forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like a girl, how do i get her attention without being too forward... (15 words)

My life story, what the hell should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I need help on what I should do; this is sorta driving me nuts. Story goes like this- in 2005 I met a girl who I really liked, after a while we were dating and in love. Everything was great. At the time I was inexperienced in relationships as this was my first and so... (559 words)

Which boy do I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and I like a boy that is a year younger than me. I go to an all girls school and he goes to an all boys school. I am not really that popular and I am afraid that people will make fun of me if I went out with him. There is also another one!! He is a year older ... (119 words)

Which make up would suit my skin type?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - From the age of about 13 i've had trouble keeping my skin clear and it's been really bad for my confidence.But lately my skin is doing quite well for once it's mainly just marks where they've been.but i'm finding it quite hard to find makeup or something equally as good to have ... (115 words)

Should I feel annoyed that my boyfriend did not call to see if I arrived home safely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I feel annoyed that my boyfriend did not call to see if I arrived home safely? He moved to another state because of a job so I drive to visit him every other weekend because i have a more flexible schedule. It's a 4 hour drive there and 4 hour drive back....I arrived ... (67 words)

Good Relationship, Bad Teeth.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here's my problem. I love my girlfriend to death, but I can't stand her teeth. Well, her front teeth. One crosses over the other one like... A LOT. Now I don't want to hurt her feelings, and she has a self esteem problem, but she wants to get married in the future and I ... (156 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to go to jail...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for five months now - since about a week before he and his ex broke up. They were together for two years and I'll admit, he was not the nicest guy towards his ex. For two years, he emotionally and physically abused her and then cheated on ... (263 words)

Braces???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There seems to be a new system in the UK whereby children needing braces have to achieve a certain degree of severity to be able to have treatment on the NHS. both of my daughters require braces but their teeth aren't as bad as other children so they do not qualify for free ... (184 words)

Career questions.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and i have no idea about what i should be doing with my life. when i was at school the advisor was telling me that baised on her impression of me office work would be the ideal way to go.But i just think that it would drive me crazy and bore me to sleep.I just want to ... (150 words)

Breast pain...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I have a REALLY bad pain in my breasts. I have had it for 2 weeks. The nipples are really sore, and if I havent got a bra on the pain is just terrible. Any advice? Does anybody know what it could be? Thanks x... (54 words)

Should I have a sex change and become a man...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend had a sex change recently, but I am still in love with him!!! Now that he is a woman, I feel like I am a lesbian, although I have never felt this way about a girl before. Should I have a sex change and become a man, and therefore theoretically become straight ... (61 words)

Help! My wife is having an affair and I want to make my marriage work. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A month ago, my wife admitted to me that she was having an emotional affair with another "man". We are 33/34 and have been married for almost ten years. I was, and still am, absolutely devastated. She is my best friend and I never thought that she could do something like ... (719 words)

I just don't know how to go about this...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone who's reading this. Hope you can help me with somethng.Well, the main thing that i need help with is this guy.Iv'e liked him for ages and i'm really shy when i'm with him more than usual which is saying something because i'm normally quite shy around most people.I ... (172 words)

How can I get over this shyness as it is ruining my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a new job and i am finding it difficult to make new friends. I started off fine when i first started this new job, i didnt know anyone and was polite and getting to know people. Six months later i still dont really know anyone and i have no close friends at work. 3 ... (192 words)

Boyfriend had male sex 15 yrs ago. Will this affect our mariage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we are planning to get married and have a baby. We love each other. He's been recently unwell, he had a little secret that was tormenting him so he told me eventually that when he was 16 he had sex with a male colleague. He was curi... (219 words)

Is my friend going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am good friends with this girl I met back in sixth form. We live close to each other and used to meet up all the time, especially since she passed her driving test. We enjoy each other's company a lot and when we couldn't meet, we chatted online at night. Lately, however, we ... (157 words)

Is he just interested in me physically or is there more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just started dating this guy and it's been about 2 weeks. We're both in our late 20s. Our first date lasted over 10 hours, and each one after that last quite long but I end them because I need to go home or whatever. Anyway, first date he gave me a hug, second date he ... (304 words)

Should I date this older guy who has a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just met this guy and i like him so much and he feels the same way but the 2 problems i have with him is that i am 3years older than him and he has girlfiend but in another state and they hardly see each other except to talk on the phone which he has been complaining about, ... (82 words)

Should I worry about my girlfriend's guy friend in our long distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel like my girlfriend is drifting away, shes away at college and i come see her a couple times a week, i do everything and anything she asks, i even help her with her homework in which i never took the classes for, so i read her text book and do the problems, you name it i ... (262 words)

Smear test hurt. Will it hurt when having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i had a smear test not so long ago and it really hurt i nearly cried. does this mean it will really hurt when i have sex? also the nurse told me that my hymen is broken i've not yet had sex obviously other activities have caused this but i just wondered whether it will ... (88 words)

My long distance girl wont commit to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

28 April 2009 (?) age 36-40 - help! my long distance girl wont commit to me, we act and do everything a couple do in a long distance relationship but she wont take that extra step and put a label on us! Her reasons are...shes scared of heartbreak and she does not want me to make a fool out of her! :( the ... (123 words)

LDR girlfriend doesn't know if she can move for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys... Well I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 6 months - in which time we have seen each other for 10 weeks and she is due to move over here in 4 weeks. She was my best mate for 3 years before this. My problems are though that as time has... (303 words)

I hate my sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help. i think i hate my sister! she always gets me so angry and encourages me to do the wrong things. she dropped out of college, shes failed half of her GCSE's and i know shes on the pill and has a fake ID. shes recenly got cuaght in topshop for stealing necklaces and i ... (179 words)

His search shows him online friend finders

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance who I have been with for 5 years, we have a 2 yr. old and my two children from previous marr. I have been finding under his history search for online friend finders. I am mad, he says Im ridiculous?... (42 words)

Does he just want me around when its convenient for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and i broke up 6 months ago. But since then we keep seein each other.but we arent together! I love him and want more. He says he loves me i know he real him and yet we spend a nice evening together. We talk. Cuddle. Make love.not just sex its like we really connect!go out ... (289 words)

Do married men stop thinking about the other woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When an affair ends, does the married man ever stop thinking about the other woman? Are they easily forgotten? Do men ever feel hurt when an affair ends or are they relieved thats it's over? Do they hide their emotions? Married men, please let me know you're thoughts... I... (57 words)

Does she want me to be a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, ive just moved in with my girlfreind into a flat, and all my clothes were in the suitcases as we just got there and i went to the shop and got talking to one of my mates and when i got back she was staring in my suitcase and there was thongs in and no boxers in there and ... (137 words)

Was I too nice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

28 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a wonderful girl on the internet, and after only sending eachother a couple of e-mails, she gave me her mobile number. We started texting eachother frequently and we got on great, then when we spoke on the phone and things got even better. We would speak every night and ... (690 words)

Help getting over work affair that I ended..

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 years old and married man is 28 (without kids). About six months ago I began an affair with a married man that I work with. What began as harmless flirting turned into a full blown affair where we were staying back at work alone for several hours in the evenings, so... (375 words)

Not much action at 22 with my b/f of 4 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years! Im 22 he is 26 he is a great bloke and is loving and caring, but we hardly have sex, maybe once every two weeks, he never makes me feel sexually attractive, he doesnt make me feel like i turn him on. I have told him this so ... (252 words)

I'm scared to tell her that I'm going out with someone 12 years older

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22, my bf is 34, and we love each other. My mother is 45 and yesterday she told me a guy who was 38 asked her to be his gf. (My mom has an amazing bf who is also 45 so obviously she won't date that guy.) My mom doesn't know about my relationship because I am scared to tel... (127 words)

Should I tell her how I feel? Will we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 April 2009 (?) age 26-29 - I broke things off with my girlfriend about 2 and a half years ago. and the thing that came to mind, a week or so later is that i still loved her, and didnt know why i would ever end things. And all over the last couple years i've loved her, and never let her know. im still ... (124 words)

Sex CAN be beautiful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have made love with 3 of my ex-boyfirneds and my current bf. I was amazed by how romantic and gentle and beautiful sex could be. all my exbfs were virgins and sex with them was boring, tiring (I had to move from the beginning to the end and I am not sexually experien... (320 words)

I think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex.

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a few pieces of information before I delve any further into my question. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, whereas he was in a relationship with his last girlfriend for over 2 years. When we met they'd been broken up a few months and he was still hurting from it. ... (289 words)

He keeps staring at me! What's going on in his mind?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I think this guy likes me. We have never talked before but he always looks at me constantly. Whenever I walk past he will just stare at me until i look at him, and then he'll look away. He doesn't do it to any other girls except me. He tries to be cool around me but he ... (104 words)

Starting to hate my sister!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, heres the thing i know it's harsh but i am really starting to hate my sister. she has become so spiteful! this isn't just your typical sisterly thing oh no! way deeper than that. she basically has an eating problem but doesn't see it. she never ta... (674 words)

What is this milky liquid? Is this normal?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm married since a year. we have great sex and love life. My question is.... while Im in climax though my breast some milky liquid comes out. Is it normal or what?? we do not have children yet and Im not pregnant. Please advise thanks.... (49 words)

I know I don't love him but I can't seem to break away from him.

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I am so confused. I got with this boy in March 2008, been with him over a year now. Thing is I really dont love him but there is something stopping me from dumping him. We have had a really bad relationship he really pisses me off and we dont have sex. He has physical... (229 words)

Ideas on how to make more friends?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to make some more friends because most of my friedns are working away at the moment and the only entertaining thing left for me seems to be families and watching movies as well as working at home. Any ideas would be welcomed ... (48 words)

He was caught with drugs that were not his.....now he thinks he doesn't deserve to be with me!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I met a really nice guy. He makes me feel almost invincible it seems. Treats me better than anyone could dream of. But before we met he got in a little bit of trouble on his birthday. He was caught with some pills that weren't his.. I met him before he was convicte... (573 words)

He says he only cheated for sex...can this be true?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age - My question is can a man (or woman)who cheats on their partner with the same woman and says it was only for sex nothing more over seveval years can it be true? He would go to her house for coffee and sex,and have gropes in the car if he gave her a lift home from work no gifts... (115 words)

My ex boyfriend told everyone I'm not a virgin anymore!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i do?,my ex-boyfriend told to his friends that there something happen between us,that im not virgin anymore. my mother did not know about it..i made NAME in our place our family, so im afraid that if people in our place know about it, it would change everythi... (60 words)

Feelings for my step-nephew!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - well this a real good one and its driving me crazy, my brother has two stepsons from a previous marriage and we had post ouch for near hand 20 years, my oldest step nephew and i began talking a lot and realised we had so much in common, there was a lot of sexual tension and in ... (140 words)

Having a child with a man who doesn't know what his sexual preference is!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer was I have 2 jobs which was ... (354 words)

He begged me to be his girlfriend but now I'm not what he is looking for!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey you guys, Just a week ago, I went on a date with a guy that I had met on a dating website. He convinced me to meet him a Saturday evening (9:30 pm- which is quite late for me normally). Anyway, I made it safely and we met. We hung out with his friends at a bar for a whil... (588 words)

My daughter is dating a great guy but I feel sad. Is that normal?

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I'm a divorced dad with three great kids. Well my oldest is 17 and she has just started dating a 23 year old man. She has known him for a long time and he's ok. The thing is I feel really happy for her but I feel really sad as well and I don't know why. Is this ... (64 words)

Attracted to older women... is that a good idea?

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 21 year old guy, who's attracted to older women. My past relationships never worked out since I was dating chicks my age. So at this point of time I'm thinking of going for women older than me. Is this a wise choice to make? MOD NOTE: USER ALSO SUBMITTED A SECOND QUEST... (65 words)

Best friend love, or something more?

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a female best friend she means the world to me. She the only person that can make me feel ashamed of the things I do. When I'm away from her I hurt in side and miss her so m uch I know I love her to a point but i like to think of it as a big brother lil'sister kinda ... (224 words)

Been having sex for months, still tearing/bleeding, I don't know what to do, please help!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm nearly 21 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We are in love and are more than ready to have sex. A few months ago we tried to have sex for the first time (I was a virgin). The problem is that it hurt so much. I know that the first time will ... (279 words)

She's become mean and selfish after becoming pregnant and I can't take it much longer!!

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've moved in w/my fianc'e, but, after only living together for just over a month, I'm not sure if I want to be with her anymore? She has changed dramatically! She is very mean, she seems to be very selfish now, and she doesn't seem like her old happy self (like before we moved ... (120 words)

Any advice on new sexual things to try?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i want a more adventurous sexual expiences w/ my husband but we dont have a lot of tricks up pur sleeves, and i can only cum when i ride him, i want to try new things but i have no idea what to suggest. im pretty flexible when it comes to advice, anything will do. we have tried ... (73 words)

What do you think of my now separated husband? Am I right not to take him back?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in this situation and i'm not sure how to handle in. Here goes, my husband and i recently seperated after being married for 10 yrs.he continues to blame me for everything that lead to the seperation.I believe that i'm a good women i did everything that was required of me as ... (344 words)

We only had sex 5 times that week and then he put porn on when I was sleeping!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I see him every two months or so. I just got back from visiting him. I spent 7 days with him. We hardly made love. Maybe 5 times. Four days before I was about to leave, I was asleep and he was watching a porn ... (150 words)

Guy A or Guy B, I've called off the wedding to B but I need to chose once and for all.

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my situation is a tough one and a little confusing but here goes! Theres a guy (guy a) that was my high school sweetheart. We were crazy inlove but didn't work out because he had some growing up to do. We continued to talk every so often to stay close friends even when ... (465 words)

Could you forgive a friend like this? Is every thing ruined?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If your friend were very angry with you, this particular friend said some very angry words to you, could you ever forgive him or her? Suppose this friend was just angry, and just lashing out in pain. I said some very angry words to him. Could you be friends with someone ... (203 words)

Would I be a bad parent for moving in with this guy?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my situation is that I use to talk to this guy my freshmen year of college and we were "dating" and we were pretty serious, but it was understood between the both of us that it couldn't go any further because he was going to soon be deployed to Iraq. Well he went to Iraq ... (295 words)

He loves his daughter, but not her mother.

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy who truly loves his 4 year old daughter and doesn't want to do anything to ruin his relationship with her, but he doesn't love the mother. Is there any way he can still be in the daughter’s life without being in the mother's? Here's the thing he still lives ... (117 words)

What does "Friends with Benefits" mean?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i was talking to my ex-boyfriend, and he said we can be friends. im fine with that.He also said we could be friends with benifits. What did he mean? thank you.... (33 words)

He tries to please me, but nothing happens. Is something wrong?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and my boyfriend and I are ready to have sex. I have been with other guys, and experimented with myself and I have never been able to find pleasure out of anything. I get really aroused and then nothing. My boyfriend wants to please me, and I'm really tired of faking it ... (74 words)

If we're just friends, then why is he jealous?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always seem to be in this situation! This time it’s a guy I work with. He has a girlfriend who he’s been with for 3 years now... but always seems to complain about her, they always seem to be on the verge of breaking up. At work he flirts with me, he gets jealous when I talk ... (314 words)

I want to play the field

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 yr old boy and I do not have trouble getting/attractive women. not to toot my own horn ,but i am good looking. my problem is commitment to girls my age. i find myself "looking at the big picture" and think it's a waste of time because i'm not gonna have a serious ... (100 words)

I've told him no more female friends

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for almost 15 years, we were both quite young when we men 18/20. I was his first sexual partner. All couples have ups and downs, we have managed to get through most problems. Of course the usual things bother me although I am open minded, have tri... (392 words)

We've broken up; how do I care for my son as I move on?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been through a seperation. I have done a lot of soul searching in the time since we seperated (1/half). I still have feelings for my ex and realise that I probably always will as we were together for some time and have a child together. I feel I failed. I can’t ... (256 words)

How do I stop driving him away from me?

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28 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey-- Lately theres been a lot of drama between me and my bf, and that's not the norm for us. Were in love, thats not the issue. After examination, all the drama was entirely my fault. I am starting to think that I cause the most drama with him when I 'want' him most. Obviousl... (81 words)

Am I being emotionally and physically abused here?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to be 19 in a couple days and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have frequent amount of arguments every other day. Our most recent one was about me getting a tattoo of my youngest sisters' name for my birthday. He doesn't agree with me getting one. ... (220 words)

My bf is very jealous of my guy pal! What can I do?

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28 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I am 21 and my boy friend is 23. We have been dating for 18 months and we have a great relationship except for one thing. He is so jealous of my best friend Matt. Matt and I have been best friends since we were 16. My boyfriend has been complaining to me about spending time ... (177 words)

My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. Huh??

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. He also then said to me, "I want you to know you are the only girl I have ever had love for." These two lines hurt. How can he not know what it means; we've been together for almost three years. Also, why has ... (109 words)

Do I meet him... or do I say no and stay with my husband?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married and have 2 kids. I have been with my husband for 5 years and married for 3. We have been haveing a lot of arguments and even got close to being physical with each other. So in all this i started chatting to other people. There was this one guy that I talked to a ... (253 words)

I feel hurt, unwanted and useless...

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months ago me and a girl hooked up and decided to become friends with benefits. All was well for a while - we had fun and we bonded and became pretty close friends in addition to the FWB deal. We had our differences, but nothing too extreme. I liked to tease her about ... (637 words)

Brewer's droop!

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - bit of an embarrassing issue but need some advice. Met a girl, went to have sex with her after I had been drinking and I couldnt get an erection. I was so embarrassed. We said that we'd have another go in the morning but I couldnt really sleep and when the morning came I w... (339 words)

Way too many guys ask me out but they only want to use me. What should I do?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm christina im 13 yrs old and boys walk all over me i got rapped cause i said no to be some boy's girlfriend and when we were together he used me to be popular in school and to make it worse he told people we had sex when we didnt and cause of that i lost some really good ... (99 words)

Wife has a low sex drive and mine is high! What can I do?

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem i love my wife but the problem is she has a low sex drive while me on the other hand i can go more than three times everyday what can i do?Pliz help... (37 words)

Will a shy guy's friend's pressure him into asking a girl out?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy likes a girl, but he is really shy and can't bring himself to talk to her and his friends know that he likes her. Will his friends start to pressure him into asking her out?... (38 words)

He blames me for cheating! Does he not want me?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do if my boyfriend is always blameing me 4 cheatin but I'm really not??? Do it mean he don't wanna be with me or just what.... ... (36 words)

Was I stupid to email him on Facebook?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, this guy at my church has been checking me out in church for months. for example all through the service he looks back at me and sits two seats in front of me. I have been trying to introduce my to him for a long time but he always ccomes late and leaves as soon as church ... (130 words)

He can't cum!

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have started having sex. He will not come. we have had sex like 10 times but he will not come. I can feel his penis pumping, i have tried oral sex. He says it feels good, but he just want come. We had sex for 2 hours last night -nothing-...My self asteem is ... (60 words)

Anyone have any good excuses?

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey u guys I actually need help with some excuses it's not for anything bad so don't judge me yet but this summer my parents will be going camping and there will be times that I can't go cuz of work so I figured that I could have my girlfriend over to spend the night we won't ... (152 words)

Need to know what to do next!!!!

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28 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hiya, I need help. I need to know what to do to her next. We're madly in love! I want her sooooooooo bad, but don't know just how to make my next move. Like today held her in my arms and kissed her and had my hands all over her back. It made me really ...... needy. ... (114 words)

Is he nervous/unsure or are we just friends?

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28 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started talking to a guy online that I met through a dating website. We talk almost every day (he contacts me through IM or email), but he talks to me like I'm just a friend. I have flirted with him a bit, but he doesn't respond at all to my flirtatious comments. Is h... (65 words)