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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Your insight is needed here thanks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 26 year old male guy currently staying in the US, trying to get a job. While working as a student worker at the University where I graduated form(for the past few months), i had the chance to work with this Korean girl who is new in America and the university, and in ... (832 words)

Pink spotting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend (which we've been doing for awhile) but a few days after sex I had some cramping which has never happened for is there a chance I could be pregnant? Same thing this morning.. Also, I used the restroom at his place the other ... (126 words)

How can I tell him how I truly feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this best friend that I've known for my entire life, he's a boy and he's also like my brother. I tell him every little secret of mine. But every time he sleeps over or I sleep over his house he always puts his hand around me. I keep on getting this feelings for him I ... (168 words)

I want to lose 40 pounds safely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) age - I want to lose 40 pounds safely. I don't want to get sick, but I have really hard time so far. I tried exercising but didn't lose any weight at all. I also eat less, but it looks like I need some more ideas, because it seems really hard. I'm 5,8, and 182 ponds. I 48 years old. ... (101 words)

Lost my faith in guys - have I been used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a nice guy for about 7 weeks. Was very romantic, kind and seemed to be very in to me. I went on another date with him again at the weekend - the date went well and I invited him back to mine. We ended up sleeping together. He is the second guy I have slept with ... (134 words)

I've liked him for so long, maybe it's God's plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy forever and let's just leave it at that. I've barely talked to him. I've tried to get over him, I really have. I'm involved in a band and I've tried to take my mind off him. But when my mind isn't consumed with my daily activies, it's always on him, I've ... (140 words)

Family problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The past couple of weeks has been hard for my family. My sister and I are constantly biting each others heads off at the slightest wee things and I'm just wondering does she really hate me or is it just a stage of life everyone goes through? I am suffering a lot of stress ... (75 words)

Is it dandruff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know why but for some reason, all of a sudden today all these little flakes have been falling out of my hair.. it's probly dandruff, why would it start today??? I've never had it before, I tried to brush the flakes out but there were a whole lot and it was like a never ... (80 words)

I need your opinions here...Just friends???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - If you have been in a relationship with a girl for quite along time and they say after a while that they only see you as a friend and don't have any desire to be intimate with you, what are the possible reasons for this? Is there any chance that if you just be good friends ... (71 words)

One day at a time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My first day passed of no smoking! And I feel great! Few times in the day I craved it a little but overall it's been ok. I'm just hoping tomorrow, the craving does not get worse! I did a cold turkey one, no nicotine patches etc, I think willpower will be enough hopefull... (67 words)

I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father figure to her child.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Life is complicated a lot! My best friend told me today that she likes me. I used to be in love with her but never said anything. The problem is that she recently had a baby and I'm not sure if she wants me for me or somebody to be a father figure to her child. She's bee... (120 words)

How do I ask him if we're "officially dating"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 week and a half now.. And I don't know if it is offical yet. How do I ask him without looking stupid?... (33 words)

We met up but how do I know if he really likes me or not?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started talking to this guy like a week ago. We talked on the phone for a few days then met up. I really like him and he seems to like me too. But how do I know if he does or not???... (44 words)

I'm starting to worry that this is a more one sided relationship, or maybe he's just got too much in his life for room for me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help and I really don't have anyone to turn to :( I have been suffering from some horrible symptons recently and to cut a long story short I'm having tests to find out what's wrong. The doctor thinks it's endometriosis. I know what the implications are... (352 words)

He always makes me feel second best...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so miserable. My boyfriend loves me but always makes me feel second best compared to his ex. They were together for about 2 years and says now it was all just superficial. He makes me feel bad by rubbing in the superficial part. He says she was rich, beautiful, popular, ... (154 words)

I don't feel like I'm following my heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing this guy and his friend and me have a spark between us. He's been texting me even though he has a girlfriend, who he's said he'll finish with to be with me when the timing is right. I like both of them but I like the guy with the girlfriend more. I just feel a ... (87 words)

Normal to be jealous or am I paranoid? This guy flirts a lot ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm jealous of this situation - am I being unreasonable? How do I deal with it? I'm at college and I like a guy in my class who's a good friend. We're in a drama group and there is another girl who is pretty who he flirts with - touching her tits, holding her waist, putting h... (521 words)

He wants to give me a squirting orgasm, any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I would like to spice our sex life up. He wants to learn how to make me have a squirting orgasm any tips?... (26 words)

Periods... or lack of them!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I am 14 years old and I will be 15 in August. I haven't had my period since June 2008. I don't know what's going on... it's almost been a year since I havent had my period. What's wrong?!?... (39 words)

My friend is married but he's hinted he wants more than friendship from me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really confused and upset, partly because someone I thought was a male friend has hinted he wants more (and he is married). I do have a conscience, but I do get on very well with him though he is lot older than me. He gave me his mobile number and asked for mine. I am afr... (68 words)

Counselling problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been raped and physically attacked twice in less than 6 months. I am currently undergoing counselling but don't think I can go back as I'm really embarrassed about it all. Is it my fault why me? ... (38 words)

My parents don't even know I'm dating and I might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had protected sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my pariod. I can't tell my parents or ... (128 words)

Is he faithful and masturbating or cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend of six years has cheated on me once. He said it lasted for about a year, was purely physical, and ended around August last year. Last December I noticed he seemed distant, he was on his laptop a lot. I felt our relationship and friendship suffering. I looked on our ... (431 words)

Do you think we'll get back together in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone help me plz. I don't know what to do. I've been with this guy for 11 months almost a year and he broke up with me last week and kicked me out but then he got back with me saying he doesn't want to be without me. Then like a week later because I kept bugging him abou... (351 words)

Advice please. My daughter is living and in love with her pimp :-(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm lost! Recently found out my daughter is dancing for money and is living with her pimp. She won't leave him because she feels she safe and that she is in love with him. Is there anything I can do to save my daughter from this? Is there anyone else out there who has or is ... (65 words)

Will he contact me? Or do I just forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was seeing this guy for 6 months and I'm crazy about him. he finished with me about a month ago but we kept on sleeping together. this is all over with now but because i was so angry and confused by his actions i got drunk and sent a lot of unforgivable texts. i have kept... (163 words)

First time sex. Next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, heres the story, me and boyfriend of 7 months have decided to sleep together and I am a virgin, he isn't, my question is once you know we have slept together, what do you do, my mate says you should go to the toilet, why? I just thought hugged.... (51 words)

26 yo and I feel like I am missing out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortunately at work, he has my mobile number... (254 words)

My bf is making me feel like crap sexually :-(

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of just over one year has been telling me for months that he thinks I am cheating on him because my "p*ssy feels different and stretched out like I have been f*cking n***ers". He has also then become upset with me when I become more reluctant to try new things with ... (249 words)

Is it a sign that our friendship isn't as strong as I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with a girl from school for about a year now and things have been going pretty well. Right now, I am a student whilst she is in full time work. Our age gap is very close and we often meet for a catch up as we live close to each other too. She often has prob... (215 words)

Do I hang in there, or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do u think this is unreasonable. Me and my boyfriend haven't seen it other much recently due to the fact i always feel that he is too busy to see me. And i get so lonely and upset cos im in love with him so much and i don't think he feels the same.even though he says he ... (246 words)

How to get into a reltionship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy. Ive been cinema with him before. We hardly see each other in real life because i rarely often bump into him at the bus stop. But we regularly speak online and texting. And hes normally fine and flirty. I really don't know were i stand. Also we had been spea... (209 words)

I'm freaking out! My best mate grabbed my penis at the urinals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay this was a really awkward moment,and im totaly freaked out!! okay me and my best bud "M" went to the movies and it was kool... after the movie was done we both had to take a piss so we went to the mens room, and we were using the urinals-he was right next to me th... (116 words)

Should I marry him, knowing how badly he wants to abort our child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. I recently found out I am pregnant. My 26 year old boyfriend, who already has a 3 year old son, wants me to have an abortion. He is an amazing father but says we should wait to have a baby until we are ready, do it right, get married first and be more fina... (159 words)

I need advice on sole custody of my daughter please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Parent's Please help. My daughter is 5 years old and my ex boyfriend and I have joint custody of her (one week with him, one week with me) But lately when she's with him he's been making excuses for her to come home (to me). I could care less about this jerk, but I don'... (188 words)

He still has porn in his computer. I feel like I cant trust him anymore

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was looking through my husbands computer and i found some porn movies i was shocked because i thought he stopped watching long time ago what should i do ? i will talk to him about , but how can i make sure that he doesn't watch again ? i feel like i cant trust him anymore ? ... (72 words)

Would this be too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I wanted to hang out with him ... (267 words)

He wants his space?!? But he is always coming over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Boys and girls, I need your help, I have been in long term relationships before, and they ended. I think I am partly responsible, because I lack confidence in myself sometimes. Here it is, my boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now. When we started ... (200 words)

How do I make my hubby feel appreciated without spending the big bucks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just had a baby 3 months ago, im in college and unemployed. My hubby works full time and takes care of the both of us. How do I make him feel like he is appreciated without spending the big bucks. What can I do in this relationship to spark things up a little.... (55 words)

Who should it be? A, B, or C?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well.. I have been single for years because I chose it to be that way. See, I'm too much of my own person and love to be 'free'. But now I am thinking of giving it a shot. Here's the dilemma... One guy, (A), I have known for almost two years. we met online and he ... (348 words)

I'm in love with my college professor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old catholic girl living in England, which means i can't have sex before marriage and nor should i agree with extra marital affairs. Usually i would stick to this because i am quite devout, but i have found myself falling for my Politics lecturer at college. He's... (221 words)

Boyfriend wants to watch me with other men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple years. We are crazy about each other. We get along really well and are very open with our communication. We share practically everything. For the past year my boyfriend has become consumed with a fetish. He wants to see me have... (368 words)

Texting while Sexing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday when my friend and I were having sex, he got a text message. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one while I was giving him head. I stopped. He got it, and was answering it, and looked at me and told me to keep... (122 words)

To Trust or Not To Trust? HELP!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the situation: I've been dating this wonderful girl for the past 3 months and they've been great! We have a lot in common and love being around one another :) The only problem is the relationship I was in previously was a devastating one where this girl I truly lov... (244 words)

What should I expect in going to a Psychiatrist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I wanted to know if anyone has ever been to a psychiatrist before and whats your experience with the process. My doctor is referring me to an outpatient psychiatry place and I am a bit nervous and weirded out about it. I mean, I've been to counseling as a child/teen but this is ... (112 words)

I'm scared of telling her how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm so frustrated with myself....!!! i have a really close female friend and i love her to pieces, but i've yet told her how i feel...im such a wuss--im scared of telling her... it's sooo hard being around her with her not knowing, and her always telling me the n... (101 words)

Tough time getting over co-worker breakup!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - long story short, my ex and I still work together, broke up 10 months ago. recently we did the FWB thing and things (for me anyways) were AMAZING. she mentioned during our mutual breakup that shed be "open-minded" to us potentially re-dating down the road. Friday, she ca... (345 words)

Could the 2nd time around be better? I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 15 I was in a relationship with an 18 year old boy (I'll call him "J"), he was my first in every way and we were great friends as well as a couple. My parents were great friends with J's older brother and sister-in-law but my dad was not happy about me being in a re... (376 words)

There's no hope for her, but maybe there is hope for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a moment of weakness this past weekend. My ex gf that I broke up with the week before (for abusing me) phoned me at 3am. I was just about to leave to go home from a club. I had lost my friends in the crowd and was ready to jump in a cab and call it a night. I answered. We ... (374 words)

Am I wrong in wanting to go out with a friend even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me get to the point, Am I wrong for wanting to go out with this guy I call a friend; even if I do have a boyfriend? I like this guy (friend) physically and he has a good personality, but I don't want to be doing anything wrong that can affect my relationship with my ... (198 words)

How do I grow taller? I want to be a model!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a major major problem.. i am 20 years old n i am bout 5 feet 6 inches..i want to grow taller atleast one inch or two..what could i do to grow taller other than operating..please let me know its very important since a very prestigious modeling agency approached me,th... (87 words)

Does it matter if the pill is taken in the morning or at night?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Ive been on the pill for over a year now and Ive taken it the same time everyday everytime I start a new pack. I was wondering would it make a difference if I started taking the new pack in the morning rather than in the evening? ... (48 words)

How do I help and support my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a good friend who is going through some medical problems so she's drinking a lot lately. She's not an overly affectionate person when sober - but when she's drunk she is very affectionate and more relaxed to her friends, often hugging and holding hands, even kissing ... (158 words)

Will he be freaked out by "down there"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Will my boyfriend be freaked out by my vagina? There is loaadss of hair, i know i can get rid of that, but the rest of it looks disgusting to me.. The inner labia are really dark compared to my skin, and are all shrivelled and wierd:/ Also, one of the labia is a LOT longer tha... (87 words)

My bf is not a bad guy but his laid back attitude is ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi everyone i have an increasingly growing problem, please bear with me. im 18 i go to college full time but i was kicked out of my house at 16 so i live in a council flat and am on income support until i finish my college course. i work full time (non-paid)in a b... (274 words)

I don't want a BJ. How do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a new gf and she wants to give me a blow job but i dont want her to because i think it is to degrading. How do i tell her?... (32 words)

I am in love with my english teacher.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my english teacher. There is a fourteen year age gap between us, so I know honestly that nothing can ever happen. I've felt like this for so long, and sometimes I just want to get over it, but othertimes it feels like I don't want to lose him (even though I ha... (514 words)

13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will be put off by all the bloo... (64 words)

What does an open relationship mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what does an open relationship mean? my boyfriends facebook status is in a open relationship... (16 words)

I am a terrible flirt! Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well, recently, I split up with my girlfriend of about three years. This has happened before in the past with us, but this time It's most likely for good, which is alright. However, I work with another girl who I really like and have sort of been talking to at work some... (158 words)

How do I break through to her and make her mine..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl, we've been sort of seeing each other. I thought she liked me coz she was giving me signs. but to my surprise just before i told her how i realy feal , she said we can only be friends. Reason being that past guys have been letting her down. I really like this girl ... (70 words)

My friend likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best mate likes my boyfriend and i really don't know what to do about it.I can't say anything to her in case she falls out with me.I have told my boyfriend about this and he says he doesn't like her and i am worried because in the past i have been with the same person and he ... (134 words)

I don't know whats going on with me and my bf. Should I just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't no whats going on with me and my bf we've been together 5 years ok we had a big row a couple of months ago and sai not nice things and broke up but now we are back together. He hasn't said i love since Christmas he always used to say before row everyday. He will say ... (154 words)

Am I pleasing him? How can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It's me again... Got another question about me and my friend. He's the first man I ever been with,so there's still things I haven't figured out. I don't know how to really "read" men...well read him anyway. I mean how do I know I'm pleasing him? My theory has always been ... (283 words)

How do I tell her how I feel? I love her so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I love my girlfriend more than anything! (We've been together a year.) She says she had a "bad experience" while back, and hates giving oral. I didn't really mind. She does, however, LOVE for me to give her oral. As of late, she wants me to give her oral, but doesn't ... (186 words)

I know that for someone to love her as much as I do is virtually impossible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi...I'm in a complicated situation with my girlfriend. We have been going out for two years. In the first year we broke up for a period of three weeks due to arguing and my jealousy. We got back before I went to University..I spent my whole first year of Uni missing her and ... (972 words)

What should be used to shave "down there"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey how do u shave down there i mean can i use a guys shaving razor??if not how else can i shave down there(pubic hair)please let me know... (29 words)

Shall I bother to resolve this deadlock?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

6 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out my ex (of 2 years) was seeing someone else only by chance, I challenge her at first as any person would, but I don’t ask any questions. I say good luck and walk away. I say no more. We all work in the same building, this was nearly 15 months ago which to me seems a ... (530 words)

How can I educate my friends on my disorder? How can I help myself overcome it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i need help, im a 15 year old girl with social phobia, generalized anxiety disorder and Avoidant Personaltiy Disorder (SP, GAD and AvPD). The thing is non of my friends understand, they just think im being rude when i don't go to sleepovers or parties, canceling at las... (459 words)

Has my boyfriend gone all cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.... Well here it is, my boyfriend has gone all cold...... He is not like he use to be 7 months ago. He does not say he misses me like he use to, randomly in the day he send a text message like, i miss you my angel.. Or he would phone just to say hi... We use to go out ... (161 words)

My mother does not like the engagement ring I chose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a long distance relation ship for the past 5 years and my boyfriend has finally proposed....but without a ring..he didn't want to choose it for me as i have quite particular taste so he has given me £2000 to spend on a ring i choose. 1st problem....my mu... (238 words)

Absent attraction driving me mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. I was with my boyfriend for five years from the age of 15, we broke up five months, I liked a guy friend of mine a lot, but nothing came of it and he let me down. I dated recently and the guy seemed nice but basically used ... (146 words)

Was involved with 2 boys who are cousins. Now what?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was dating two cousins (T and S) when T found out he confronted me and ordered me to choose between the two of them, because i love T, i chose him and end things with S but i did'nt let him(S) know it was over so he kept on telling people that we were still dating until it r... (389 words)

My parents are causing alot of problems regarding our wedding plans..how can I talk to them?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend of 5 years just proposed to me last week. I said yes, as it seemed perfectly natural and right. No problems there. The problem is that we are both young, and currently students (postgraduate) so our parents have agreed to split the cost for the... (332 words)

How do I get things back to how they were?

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Since i have been at uni i have been really good friends with this girl. For the past 3 months she has been really flirty with me, hugging me every chance she can, sleeping in my bed etc which i really liked. I knew she liked me but i never acted on it because i was taken and i ... (206 words)

A mother's concern on daughter's new bf who has a history of abusive behaviour

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6 April 2009 (F)

age - My 23 year old daughter has started a new relationship with a man from our small town who has a past history of violence. His ex girlfriend left him because he was abusive. He has been in jail for assault and has been in drug rehab for a cocaine addiction. I know that he ... (98 words)

Is my ex bf just playing games with me?

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6 April 2009 (F)

- Is my ex bf just playing games with me? I broke up with him about a month ago because he was treating me really badly and showed no respect for me what so ever. It took me a few attempts to go through with it (as he would always change my mind) but I eventually stood... (337 words)

What should I do to be his friend? I have a crush on him!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy that was once my friend, but we never really talked then. Now we're like strangers, and we fell out several times. He can be really mean but also very nice.For 4 years, i think i talked to him for about 10 sentences. If i start approaching now, I'm ... (84 words)

Avoiding seeing girls in bikinis!

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm freaking out everytime when i see girls in the bikini !! I could be embrassing me but the reaction of what my ex gf did to me is that im freaking out everytime when i see girls in bikini even on TV. I dont know if im overreacting but i have a lot of things to avoid ... (185 words)

2 questions: 1 on my LD boyfriend and 1 on my boy friend.

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so this is complicated and there's two parts to this question. I've had this boyfriend for 2 years and I'm in college 2 states away and he's my first love but we broke up because of the distance and he agreed for me to come home and see him this weekend, and yeah there's ... (336 words)

How do I get rid of the blue vein marks on my chest?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Eww help, i can see blue veins under the surface of my skin on my shoulders and boobs, what makes these so visable and what can i do to make them less visible/ dissapear completely? and no im not on pills or sexually active (apparently that makes veins appear?)... (49 words)

I'm 21 and want to be living life to the fullest

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6 April 2009 (F)

Should I tell my parents? I think I have pinworms :-(

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! I think i have pin worms :O, i saw little white worms in my poo and im starting to get constant vaginal discharge, is there anyway i can get rid of them without treatment? Im too embarrassed to tell my parents, its soo disgusting. What would happen if left untreated for ... (59 words)

Do I come across desperate?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age - I was physically abused by my step mother when I was growing but between the ages of 9 - 11. I always found it hard to make friends as I felt people thought I was weird. Even my half brothers and sisters made fun out of me and found ways to make me feel bad even to this day. ... (387 words)

Should I tell his girlfriend that I am pregnant by him?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was having sex with a man, for a year, that was and still is in a relationship. I am now 7 months pregnant. He keeps telling his girlfriend that we never slept together, therefore denying my child. The girlfriend asked me and I told her no. Should I come clean or not? ... (53 words)

Parents don't approve of online boyfriend....

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known a guy online for a couple years, but we've been talking intensively and fallen for each other in the past couple months. In character, he seems to be everything I ever wanted, and I've also seen and heard him online. There is an age difference between us, as well... (782 words)

14 yo and wants to know how to masturbate

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and I want to no how to mastervat! please help ... (15 words)

Is sex the only thing that connects us?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend connected only for sex. after a year my boyfriend get boared. what to do to continue my relationship. ... (22 words)

She says "Everything is fine" but I have a feeling it's not. What should I do?

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for over two years now and at the beginning she would want to have sex regularly this then decreased but i wasn't worried i thought that was normal but now we don't have sex for weeks and the worst part is she has never orgasmed and prefers to o... (150 words)

My husband has left me for another man!!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has left me and is living with a man!!! He and his mom has told me they are together and I just need to deal with it!! Im trying to be strong but don't know how!! Can anyone help me??... (42 words)

How do I get him back to being a little more sensitive like he used to be?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is amazing and I love him to death. We've been dating for about 6 months now and I am madly in love with him. I know you're thinking I'm too young and don't know what love feels like and 6 months isn't that long but I am serious. I'm for sure that I love this guy.... (191 words)

Jealous? Or normal?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have bee dating someone for just under a year now and the more I fall for him the more it truly pains me knowing that he has had so many sexual partners. He has not blatantly said as much, but he is gorgeous, with the 100/100 libido and I can do the "math"! My question is h... (128 words)

Please help me in my love situation!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have recently broken up. it's been barely over a week and i miss him greatly. first things first, we started dating as soon as we met, no matter how you put it to be honest. it just, was. we have had our fair share of problems, between mis-communic... (265 words)

What should I do about this other person?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been really confused recently. I am 20 years old and engaged to a wonderful person that treats me great. But, before we got together or even hung out I was sorta on and off with this one guy for a couple years. we were never official but he would leave me thinking and so ... (297 words)

He does not forgive my past...

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6 April 2009 (F)

- I think that my relationship is about to end. After, 5 years of being there for my bf, going back and forth to visit him, and opened my heart to him; it has finally reached an end... or so I think... The problem is that he does not forgive my past. He tells me that I was too ... (158 words)

Am I unlovable or just doing everything wrong?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so alone. I've never had a boyfriend and I feel like I may be unlovable. All my friends are currently in relationships and today it finally hit me that I have no one. I feel completely worthless and feel as if I've tried everything to lift my spirits: buying new ... (134 words)

On one hand, I judge her for it . On the other, it turns me on...

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6 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, i am very confused about my GF's somewhat slutty past because on 1 hand it makes me angry, disgusted, i judge her for it and dont want to be with her but on the other hand it turns me on that she has been a slut in the past! She has slept with about 15 guys before me but t... (241 words)

Libra women attract a Virgo man

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can a Libra women attract a Virgo man, or how to know whether he likes her or not????????????... (19 words)

Please tell me how to find what is in his heart

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Am megna women who is like by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over hills in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At first he told me that he is surp... (215 words)

Did I open an unwanted door?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well hi, this is my story.. The man i'm dating now has been married, i had a feeling he might be but thought it was possible. Working for a family business i found a lot information out from my boss, his this man i'm dating's brother-in-law his sisters husbands brother. The gu... (348 words)

Does this sound fishy?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need everyones opinion here to just to see if I'm completely out of line and off base. Me and my boyfriend just had a fight on Friday, and now its a Sunday. I worked this evening, and he texted me asking me when I started. I told him, and then he asked when I would be comin... (330 words)

Want more than a casual relationship

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Morning, my question seems normal in todays times, yet i don't understand. See, i'm not in a relationship, relationship with this guy, some call it a casual relationship or friends with benefits,his reason for not wanting a serious relationship just yet is, he does not want to ... (406 words)

Can l repair the damage l caused?

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - l told my best friend outright that l liked him, he was SUPPOSEDLY bi, but apparently l was wrong? l still don't know for sure. l had to tell him over facebook, as we were short on time. He reacted to me as if l had turned into a giant frog, almost as if he found it strange. l ... (105 words)

How to tell my husband

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About 6 months ago me and my husband were having problems with money and we have a daughter 9 months old. He works long hours working, I was feeling lonley one night as my daughter woulnd't stop crying so I contacted my ex just for company he made me an ofer if i slept with him ... (103 words)

I still love him madly

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i hope you can help me i was dating 2 and half years ago and during this period we broke up 2 times with no good reason but he kept on talking to me and telling me how much he cares for me and that i am someone special suddenly and for the third time he told me we ... (421 words)

Will he expect more?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have been seeing each other for a little over a month. We are both in college, I am 19 and he is 23 and neither of us is a virgin. We havent done anything sexual yet (even thoough he is dying to lol) and Im ready for the next level. I want to give him a handjob ... (129 words)

Why did everything change after he became ill?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just admitted to myself that I like this guy who lives about 12 hours away from me... (for obvious reasons it would be kind of hard to admit... he lives pretty far.) I consider us to very close, we tell each other everything. and I mean EVERYTHING...to the point that we're ... (199 words)

Ex hates my guts, wishes I was dead

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice. Me and my ex recently broke up, and im still in love with him. The problem is he absolutly hates my guts, and wishes I was dead. Yesterday I told him that when we were together, my good guy friend kissed me...And now my ex keeps calling me a who... (113 words)

I'd like to see him again but not sure how to go about it

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6 April 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm confused about a guy i like.I saw him tonight,i hadnt seen him for about a year,as i havent been to the place where i used to see him regularly that much.I saw him in a pub at first tonight.We looked at each other and smiled,but we didnt talk to each other.He left to go to ... (414 words)

Will you know when he's going to propose?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know when the love of your life is thinking about proposing?? Does he act a certain way?? what should i expect?... (24 words)

Should I continue on taking the pill after I have been so sick?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex on a Monday, Tuesday, and the Friday (we don't use condoms but I am on the pill. Problem. I took the pill everyday this week except the Saturday because I forgot. On the Sunday morning I took 2 pills and then 10 hours later I took another 2 before bed - (just lik... (123 words)

Depression meds gave my husband E.D.

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year married woman I have a daughter and she is 3 years old now I want to have my second baby but the problem with this is when I was 5month pregnant with my first daughter my husband suffered with depression and his doctor given him a medicine having side effect of ... (135 words)

How do I prove Id' make a devoted boyfriend

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well, heres my story, i really like this girl and i dont quite know what to do she always refers to me as her big brother and its upsetting because i want to be more than that if any girl or guy out there can give me some advice on how to win her over or prove id make the good... (69 words)

Help me propose!

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am about to propose to my Girlfriend and i am scared to death, i have no clue how to ask her? Any ideas? i want it to be romantic.... (30 words)

I HATE SEX!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married to him for 11 years, we have 4 children. we own 2 businesses. at the end of the day i want to go to bed and he wants intimacy and/or sex. i HATE sex! I dont like being held, i want my space. i love him, we have built a life together. he wants things to be ... (163 words)

Is my "well" running dry?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend and I have been sharing relations with each other for almost two years. This is the first man I've ever been sexually involved with. The sex is great, however, my vagina dosen't "show" how it makes me feel. For some reason I don't get wet enough. I love what he does ... (108 words)

I don't want to lose her to someone else...

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright there's this girl that i like alot and we've known each other for a while and i dont think she's knows that i like her but im trying my best to let her know how i feel. she just moved back from virginia after breakin up with her bf and i dont wanna rush things because i ... (85 words)

Did I do something to make him a softy?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old. I lost my virginity almost 2 years ago with a friend I've known for a number of years, and we've met up for occasional sex ever since. I became a member of this site to get some advice. Here's my situation: When we recently had sex, I started him off b... (222 words)

I really need affection!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i really need affection. i am quite desperate for it and i cant get it from my boyfriend. weve talked about and hes not a cuddly type of guy but i really need affection. for example, if some one just hugs me i want to cry because i feel so much emotion and passion. i need ... (101 words)

He is making it impossible to fix anything!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What should one do when their husband just won't listen? I have recently remarried, and the first year was a mess, Domestic violence issues. Now we live apart but still want to remain married. Back to my question. I have a problem with how every time I communicate my feelings ... (89 words)

How can I show my family that this guy has changed?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating my curent boyfriend about 5 months ago and my family hates him. I have known him since high school and I will admit he has had a troubled past. He has been charge with assault 3 times (from fights that stated at bar when he was drunk) and was accused but never ... (146 words)

With an age difference of 31 years why would he be interested in me?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for an older man 52 to love a younger woman 21. Why would a older gentleman be interested in having a family with someone this age instead of an older experienced woman who would have her priorities together like him. ... (43 words)

I'm 56 and searching for the right answers!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age - i was married 27 yrs, divorced, regret it. remarried, a man that is an alcoholic and smokes about 3 packs a day. he shows no interest in me but that i bring home my paycheck and he has someone to keep the house from feeling lonely when he comes home. am i doomed to never be ... (82 words)

He has no time for me! Should I change him or try to improve without changing him?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have boyfriend who has become uninterested in me, made prerogative on his job and he has no time for me. advese me something how should i behave about it, should i ignore him or his acts?! should i change him or try to improve our relationship not changing him and if so ... (54 words)

What is cute? How do I melt her heart?

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, whats the best way to ask you out and melt your heart? I like my female friend, we are very close, we have made out too but insisted it was mistake. What do ladies consider cute? What could i buy etc?... (42 words)

I think he's too egotistical!

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sometimes i think that my boyfriend is too egoistic and allways thinks first of all about himself, about his problems, his feelings, job and friends...i want somehow to change him in my way do you think will it be right or should i except him the way he is?! ... (49 words)

How can I move on with grace?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age - I have been seeing a straight women for over 1 year. she worries about what others think. her kids hate me. yet I cannot do enough for her. she just wants to be friends. I want more. I know I should let it be. I miss her. please give me advise for letting go. this e... (83 words)

When his new friends are around..he acts weird...

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. We were together for 4 years and lived together for almost 2. We have been talking every day now for a couple weeks and he tells me everything. I am the only one he tells everything to. None of his family or friends know it all. ... (208 words)

Will I get charged for taking hotel towels if I send them back?

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6 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have just come back from holiday and have realised i have packed 2 of the hotels towels. do you think they will charge for this? if so do you think they waver this charge if i get in contact with them and post them back?... (49 words)

No boyfriend! Because I'm too skinny?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 years old and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I think maybe it cause im not that skinny or not that pretty. Some people laugh at me cause I've never had a bf. All my friends have had one. I just don't no what to think. ... (49 words)

I keep dreaming of him

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We broke up w my ex nearly 7months ago .. I loved that man w my whole heart and soul .. and I know he loved me too .. we had wonderful relationship but it ended due to family issues. Anyway ... we are not in contact the whole 7 months. I moved away and changed job and ... (246 words)

Is it worth being in this relationship with him?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my child's father for a year and he is a nice person he wants to buy us a home. I am 21 and he is 52 years old. He has been married twice to a puerto rican woman and I hear him always talk about people of that race. I feel like because I'm not that, that he ... (111 words)

We have a son together and he's been in contact with his ex girlfriend all along...

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Late 2007 I met this guy, we were both getting over our relationships, started hanging out a lot, comforting each other from our loss and one thing led to another but we both had an understanding that it wasn't anything too serious. About 5 months after we met I became pregnant ... (519 words)

Why is sex with my current boyfriend so painful when it wasn't with my ex?

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6 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right well basically, I'm 16, (17 in 3 weeks) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months, he's 20, so he's almost 4 years older than me, but that's irrelevant. :) I was 14 when I got my first real boyfriend, and we were together for 14 months we were both 15 when he ... (239 words)