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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a massive crush on a work colleague which I seriously need to get over.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a massive crush on a work colleague which I seriously need to get over. I've liked him for 18 months, I almost feel as though I am in a fantasy world with it because whenever he even remotely turns him head in my direction I'm tthinking he's interested in me. Reality is ... (185 words)

Where is this relationship going, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating an older (divorced) man for a year now and we still don't have sex. We are very sexually active in other ways (by masterbating with each other, foreplay...) but he says that sex means alot to him if it's in a relationship. He always tells me how much he ... (220 words)

Could it be pregnancy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone knew what it could be rather than telling me to go to a doctor, or if anyone else has experienced this: I had sex around 8 weeks ago so I don't think I'm pregnant and, what I think has been my period has come twice during that time, at the t... (125 words)

Can anyone give me some advice on the symptoms I am having?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i have weird symptoms like unusual light period,tender breast and drops every now and then of brown blood what do these symptoms indicates. ... (25 words)

First time help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all I'm a girl not a guy and so I've been with my gf 8 months now and it's a online realtionship, well right now I'm going in 33 days to go be with her.... I'm so in love with her, she's my everything... we talk about sex all the time and I'm not gonna lie, I'm a ... (132 words)

I dreamed of kissing my ex.. but it was weird

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - So the dream starts with me looking in the mirror and my reflection tells me, "You will be very lonely when you are 32"... I sort of scoff at the mirror and go into my bedroom, and my Ex gf is laying on the bed in lingerie! We say nothing, I just crawl over to her and we start ... (232 words)

Should I look for a girlfriend at the moment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, don't know if this is the right place to ask this. Seeing a therapist due to neediness issues. Only thing is I'm still quite lonely and wondering if it's worth trying to get a girlfriend at the moment. Therapy could take a while to end and I'm sick of being single but then ... (94 words)

I need advice, I'm pregnant after being raped!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 14 and pregant i got pregant cause i was raped i dont know what to do i am scared please give me adivice i beg u ... (29 words)

He's enthusiastic but doesn't orgasm. Where am I going wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We're really close and love each other intensely. However, even though we've made love countless times, he still hasn't yet had an orgasm. What am I doing wrong? He really gets into sex with me and is really enthusias... (77 words)

Lack of oral sex in a relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl for 2 years now, and we never have oral sex. She doesn't want me to do it for her, but I do want her to do it to me. I'm not selfish though, I'd go down on her 7 days a week if she'd let me. I love giving oral to women. She said "when the time is r... (266 words)

Is it just because I'm a teenager?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it just because I'm a teenager? I'm 15 and I feel very bad about myself. I'm chubby and hate my face, I've been told I am ugly and fat by boys and just started believing them... should I? My mom always tells me to ignore them but I just can't. Any advice on feeling better ... (61 words)

Please help me, I don't wanna lose him, I love himm to death but I feel so guilty!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope you can help me, I'm a married woman age 21 years and I also have a 4 year old son! My problem is whenever my husband and myself are having sex I don't feel like it, but he never noticed it because I never let him see that, I know he loves me to death and I do love him ... (147 words)

My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me. I told my friend I don't mind if she asks him out. He said yes, but it was only to not really hurt her. So that's not really the problem, it's just that that lead to him not talking to me or her. However - ... (131 words)

How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or find a way to make my boyfriend cum faster???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very sensitive when it comes to having sex and find that I cum very easily... my boyfriend is the opposite and takes time to come... I get very frustrated and feel as if I'm not doing enough to please my boyfriend... How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or ... (63 words)

It's been 27 years now and they still don't seem to be able to work their marriage out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in my first year university, I am 20 and yes I still live with my parents. Now I am finding it really hard to cope as my parents keep fighting and arguing all the time. My dad hits my mom too. I don't really talk to my dad, we are not close at all but my mom is like my ... (139 words)

I don't know what to do when "doing a blowjob"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this boy have been talking and we want to move to oral sex! Well I really don't know what to do when doing a blowjob. Can anyone tell me how because I don't wanna look like a complete fool and not know what I'm doing. Please help!... (52 words)

What on earth do you think he's up to? It sounds very dodgy to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is really weird. The other week I had a fight with my boyfriend, afterwards we made up and he made out he wasn't still mad, but he made this phone call in front of me just before I left his house. He mentioned a "sick plan" and some man - let's call him X and gave me ... (435 words)

I told my friend how I feel but nothing has changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, So my best friend and I are both in our early 30's, and I have fallen for him. It was a gradual thing, he is very affectionate and attentive and after a year of feeling this way I told him I liked him as "more than a friend" a few months ago. He says he isn't in the rig... (191 words)

Is he just using me for sex and company?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old, and was dating a boy who has turned 19 for 4 months. He dumped me on the night of a party I was hosting claiming that I acted like "a drunk hoe". I really wasn't acting that bad, he just didn't like that I paid more attention to other male guests than him and ... (236 words)

Loveless...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, To cut a long story short, and without going into personal detail or circumstance. Is there anybody whom has lived apart from their partners for years on end and only get together may be 8 days a year... A phone call once a day to discuss the children. No atten... (292 words)

I'm constantly worried about what my man is up to when I'm not around.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm constantly worried about what my man is up to when I'm not around. It's not like he does anything particularly major which makes me feel really silly and pathetic. I know it's not healthy in a relationship. There's so much that's right with him and I love him to bits, but ... (191 words)

Foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Foreplay. Do men like foreplay on a woman - or are there men who just don't want to get messy before sex - or are they just not interested in sex or possibly the woman?... (35 words)

Breast problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I am a collage student and I am having a big problem. I noticed that my left boob is a whole cup size bigger then my right one and it's never been this way until the last couple of months. What should I do? ... (45 words)

What is this cum like discharge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I'm 14 years old, coming up to 15 next month and I started my period a year and a half ago and recently I have been getting a type of thick cum like substance sometimes when I wake up. I thought it was my hygiene but bath every day so I'm a bit confused. Is it my ... (110 words)

What do I do about all the trouble and insecurity I have in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my mate of 8 years are always arguing about everything and anything.he has trust issues with me and i have trust issues about him ever since i found porno flicks and a female video of him taping her ass and commenting on how her ass is big which i felt very disrespected ... (108 words)

My parents hate my b/f, they think he's terrible..how to sway them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 15 and MY boyfriend is 18. He's sweet, kind, caring, and I feel really.. protected when I'm around him. Adressing the age gap, I forget about it all the time. I'm free to be myself around him, and vice versa. I'm also very mature for my age, I've been mistaken to be 17 ... (285 words)

Why does he staring at me and says he likes me only as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have this good acquaintance of mine that kept on staring at me. Rumor has it that he has a gf. If not a gf, a girl he's crushing on. I know for a fact that that girl isn't me. So one day, my best friend decided to take matters on her own hands and ask him what the dea... (270 words)

He pushes me away now..says he's just too tired

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiance and I have been together for almost 3 yrs.. i am 21 and he is 28. lately he doesnt kiss me and doesnt want sex as much.. we use to have sex about 3-5 times a week and are now down to 1 a week if im lucky! i understand that he is sometimes tired as so am I.. we bo... (208 words)

Reddish color in cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female who notived this redish color on my cum!!Its is a mixture of blood and water color. Im a little worried, is it normal for the cum to have a bloody color??? ... (38 words)

I feel betrayed and disgusted by my wife's actions

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My marriage is suffering due to some recent goings on... My wife has been working on a massage course for a while now and I totally understood what the course entailed when she started it. One day, after going to a massage open day, where she was massaged herself by a tr... (448 words)

Teacher has hots for me? or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: I don't believe the poster is the age stated... can someone plz tell me if this person has the hots for me or not. well there is this teacher, and my frineds and i think that she has the hots for me. u see everymorning we see each other in school and i stand with my ... (264 words)

Do woman like oral sex better than sex itself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Do women like to receive oral sex.I like giving oral sex better then sex itself.I can't get enough of it is there some real good ways to do it, so I can drive my wife crazy wanting more of it... (40 words)

I love my ex but would like to date this other guy too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old female and I have never been so confused in my life. A few months ago, I dated a guy online, a friend of a friend that goes to school here. The problem was that it was a long distance relationship. He broke up with me about a month into the relationship ... (339 words)

Should I go out with someone that I don't have alot of feelings for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really want a boyfriend atm, theres the prom coming up and im just really lonely theres a few guys that i think are interested in me but i just dont feel that much for them do you think i should just go out with one of them anyway? surely its a mistake to go out with s... (95 words)

No sex in marriage for years..why won't he come out with his "secret"??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My biggest fear,that my husband will come up with a secret ,one day. He stopped having sex with me years ago, and I know, something is ''not ok with him'', but, I don't know what, as he knows very well how to hide his feelings. First he worked 24/7. Than he became impote... (223 words)

Asking me out? How can I get him to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at the recently, a friend of a friend, and we just clicked. nothing happened, but he added me on fb and msn. he told his friend that hed met a really nice girl - me. so theres a chance he likes me, right? thing is, hes not in my group of friends so i cant li... (187 words)

How and how often do women masturbate?

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16 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - How often do women masturbate and is easy to do.do you need to look at pictures or something.plz give some details I'd love to do this with my wife but I don't know if she ever does.and is there ways I can tell she. has. thx... (46 words)

Is this kissing cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, just want some advice. My boyfriend of two years is a lovely boyfriend. I think he can be a bit neieve around other girls though.im hes first girlfriend. But on two ocassions two girls have kissed him and he has stood there and done nothing. I just dont understand why he ... (112 words)

Friendship with teacher when I leave school

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anybody could help me? Basically, I've had this great teacher for 2 years now and she is a really great person and teacher of course! But I am leaving in 4 weeks time and I really want to let her know how much of a help she has been for me, I've never leant... (323 words)

Wife was raped, will it affect her reproductive system?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife was once rape or just a little insertion of penis when she was in 1 standard with a boy who is 5 yrs senior to her and she is now 20 yrs old. I would like to know whether this incident would effect her reproductive system in future or not. What should i do it hurts me ... (74 words)

I want to be worthy of life, how do I do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know what to ask per se. im 25, i have no job, and no friends. my boyfriend barely notices me when he is around. what friends i do have are either wrapped up in their boyfriends, they have parents who pay their way, so they can afford to go out w/o a job. im not mad, it ... (274 words)

Want to make the 6 months celebration memorable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - It's mine and my boyfriend's 6 months since we started being an 'official' couple so to speak in a few weeks. I want to make it special and surprise him. However, I'm slightly stuck as to what we can do to make it special. I want to make it memorable and show him just h... (111 words)

How can we make this work without losing each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year. We first dated in grade nine for about a month, then he dumped me because he said he wasn't ready to be in a serious relationship and didn't want to hurt me. Almost immediately he started dating one of my friends, but I de... (819 words)

I know he's busy but when I text him he doesn't reply

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay.... I've had this crush on this guy for about 3 yrs. and I never told him. Well, about 2 weeks ago I finally get the nerve to text him and ask him if he wants to have some drinks. He's interested so we go out after I get out of school one evening and have a blast. He ... (203 words)

Does the ex want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Need help determining if my ex wants me back. We have been broken up for 3 yrs but still interact.we talk for at least 2 hrs a day, sometimes more. He calls me every morning and at night too. We see each other intimately once a week and he comes to have lunch with me once a ... (213 words)

Appropriate behavior to retain regular contact with ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all. With this question I am just trying to get a sense of what most people find to be appropriate behavior in a relationship re: communication with an ex. With all of my previous girlfriends there was just a kind of unspoken rule that contact with exes would be ... (315 words)

What do I do after swallowing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im going to be giving my bf a head for the first time. i know what to do and everything but im not to sure about afterwards people tell me itsa bit of a put off running sraight to the loo after swallowing to clean your teeth. do guys mind it if you kiss the afterwards? please ... (60 words)

Weird situation-help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - about 2 weeks ago my boyfriend hit me several times during an argument, although I decided to forgive him this time, he's been acting really paranoid that I will report him- then the other day, I noticed a group of young men following me across town, and last night , I was on... (211 words)

What would you do in this case?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, What would you if your boyfriend cheated on you with his ex? The ex confronts you and tells things you never knew (not even that your boyfriend was seeing her behind your back), and all this time you his was over with his ex? What would a rational woman do in this case... (56 words)

Can you tell me what he is thinking?!?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this friend of mine. I have told him this and he states he just wants to be friends. I am very confused as after he started wanting to hang out more and all my friends notice his body language and his additude show he wants something more than a friendship. One... (121 words)

I love him but it is suffocating me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im an indian girl, i always have been one of a kind girl. i have a problem in my relationship which may sound dumb to u ,but it means alot to me.im dating a guy, who is too perfect to be true. he is honest loving,caring,too calculated and very sorted out.everyone in my fa... (137 words)

Follow up: Whats going On?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (this is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-just-flirting-with-me-or-does.html sorry but just got the clues) Lately I been going crazy about this boy named "HR" his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Last week On Monday I saw him when I ... (658 words)

My b/f never stops talking about "hot" women it's making me feel uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The problem I have is that my boyfriend constantly - and I mean it - talks about other women as being "hot" and that he'd "do" them. It makes me uncomfortable, as he knows I don't have the greatest self-image of myself. It makes me wonder what he sees in me, because I look ... (351 words)

Why won't I let myself cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi when i masterbate rub the clit to stimulate myself it's really good and really gets me going but what i find difficult is that i won't cum like i'll get really uberly wet but then i feel i have to go to the toilet and i am not sure whether i've ever cummed whilst orgasming... (120 words)

Do girls like to suck "it"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Do all girls like to suck "IT" ? you know..(the man's thing)...and wut position do they like? cuz am trying to make my GF happy...... (25 words)

He says he loves me, but only texts and calls me when I contact him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a problem with the father of my kid.we been together for 4 years now but he says he loves me but the problem is he doesn call or sms me,he only cals wen i sms him first or give a miscal.we don't stay together, this is actualy a distance relationship but when i go to his ... (148 words)

Should I give the one-millionth and one chance or should I just finally accept it is hopeless

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) age 51-59 - O.k. Where to start? I have been married for 15 years and I know I want separation, but unsure if I want a Divorce. We have done the marriage counseling for the first time in January after my final ultimatum he finally agreed to go. Always refused to go in the past. My final ... (669 words)

How do I get over a broken heart? I love him and want him back although he is not worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Two nights ago my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss, I was and still am completely in love with him. I had noticed he had been a bit off with me around other people but when we were alone it was fine he was just... (737 words)

What is an acceptable age to conceive a child??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im just wondering on everyone's opinion, looking at this site you see a lot of young girls with pregnancy problems but what in your own opinion is an acceptable age to conceive a child?? i am 19 and me and my boyfriend want to start a family (fingers crossed! but onl... (73 words)

How can I get her to give me that chance and start building her trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I'm worried that i've lost the girl of my dreams forever. We were together for 4 years and in the last few months i didn't realise how distant i had become. We broke up in November because of this but we both missed each other so much that we got back together after a week ... (376 words)

How to control "it" when masturbating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When I masturbate for a few mins,like 1 or 2 mins..I cum..and sometimes my cum is few..but when I stop masturbating for like 1 month..I cum alot..why does this happen? and how can I control "IT" to not cum fast after 1 or 2 mins?... (45 words)

Am torn between 2 guys..my bf and my best friend!! what to do?!?! confused!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 20 and m with a guy for d last 3 yrs. this guy, my bf was gud...very sweet at first...but as time passed he has changed a lot...not as a person but surely his habits have changed. now he drinks ..smokes..gambles...n is alwayz out busy with his friends, partying or ... (321 words)

Should I take her back someday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my ex recently ask me to break up,because she needs time to deal with some legal issues and also she wants to figure out what to do with her life but she wants us to remain friends and for me to continue with my life. she is in the process of divorcing her ex.now that she is a... (266 words)

Is it the drinks and party atmosphere, or should I pursue this further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I celebrated my birthday last night at my local bar, and a girl who works there was also celebrating hers (though she wasn't working that night, just partying). I had talked to this girl a few times before, and even given her a ride home once, but I always thought it was more ... (266 words)

Can you have an orgasm in your sleep?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can u have a orgasm in your sleep? I think ive had this experience and it was lovely .but im not sure!... (22 words)

5 years on and off - what's going on with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my friend he's been on and off with his girlfriend for 5 years! they again recently split up because she said he doesn't make her happy. he said he still loves her and she wants to still be friends he said he can't do it. but they met up again last night both arr... (193 words)

My best friend is HIV+ but I don't know how to be close to her now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, so i just need some advice i recently found out one of my closest friend who i knew since we were in kindergarden and now attend to the same college..is HIV positive =[ she was always my best friend and we shared everything and we were very close... but iam... (155 words)

10 years of a loveless marriage, but met an interesting and loving guy online. Advice please.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys i am in a desperate need for some help. About myself in general....I am a 30 year old asian married woman with a child. I have been married for good 10 yrs now....i was married early (arranged marriage due to our culture). My husband is a very good man, gentle, cari... (710 words)

My husband answered an online question by a girl. Should I approach him on it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having trouble with my trust issues with my husband and now I found that he answered a question that was asked online by a girl is this really something to be mad over and should I approach him about it? I'm really upset about this!... (48 words)

Do you think I can have sex in the future, with my problem right now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if I had a problem. I try to use tampons instead of pads, but I can't seem to fit them in. I have a light flow for about 4 days,every 5 weeks. I thought that may be the problem, but I'm not sure. All of my friends use tampons and I feel inadequate. I think I ha... (117 words)

Terrible Guilt for my husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. im going through a terrible time. I have a 1 year old and a husband who I am divorcing. We have been married nearly 3 years but have been on and off for 9 years - he is very emotionally unstable when it comes to love and relationships. When we were dating i used to alwa... (740 words)

Do young people between 25 and 30 have huge egos?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - do young guys fancy themselves?and have big egos when they win something on tv.and he hear loads of girls like him. DO THEY GET HUGE EGOS ... (29 words)

I am really baffled by this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married a year together for two.. When we got together his oldest daughters were moved out and it was just his son.. Well his oldest daughter was living with her boyfriend and his parents. Neither one of them had a job but they decided to have... (253 words)

I think love means sacrifice am I right?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question! Do you think that if a man loves a woman (and wants to be with that woman) that he should do whatever he needs to do to be with her Even if he has a lot like three business and lots of properties! i mean you only have one life to live right so shouldn't yo... (76 words)

I had sex with my best friend and guess what? I'm now I'm in love with her.... so am I a lesbian?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 17years old and i have a problem... and recently found that i have begun to have odd feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl. shes unbelievably pretty, smart, funny and i melt when she speaks to me, which is quite often as i see her daily. we recently ha... (160 words)

Falling for a guy in the Army- tips on how to make this work?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, i missed my first few classes to do this... so im really hoping i will get some responses and feed back. Here is my story. So my cousin is in the national guard and he went off onto that 16 week training after boot camp. There he met a guy who practices the same reli... (521 words)

Ideas for pregnancies for a web page please

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - after seeing the amount of questions coming into dc regarding pregnancy, abortion, adoption etc i have decided to make a web page showing info about all the above. Im also going to put stories from women that have been in any of those situations so if anybody can help with ... (83 words)

Double standards?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how come if a women has slept with lots of men people see her as a slapper but if a man has slept with lots of women everyone sees him as 'cool'?... (32 words)

I'm having an affair and my husband is bipolar

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Before starting, let me state that this is not your "typical" issue - at least I hope other people are not in similar situations. I'm a professional woman in my 40's with 2 grown children and a great career. I've been married for 24 years and it's had it's up and downs (mor... (696 words)

My bf makes me upset when he talks about our relationship, almost 'failing'

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my bf for a while now 6-7 months. When he gets depressed I get really upset, like last night he said to me on the phone that everyday he is with me he feels its another one off. I asked him this morning if he is happy and he said he is but like he doesnt seem it. I d... (198 words)

Is my girlfriend too young for me, do you think?

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16 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a much younger girl for 6 months now (im coming on 27,she is 17) She is a great girl,she is understanding and caring. My problem is,she has met most of my family and friends on a number of occasions and each time she will just sit and say nothing,even whe... (140 words)

Should I risk asking her out? Or just leave things?

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16 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay. First of all, I have a friend, shes a girl. We arn't exactly the closest friends in the world but I think we get on quite well. So, I have exams next week and some people and I decided to get together for a whole revision session and my friend was there. And the revision ... (365 words)

I love her but she's sleeping with alot of men, do I stay or go?

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16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. im 19 and have a problem. in the short time I've been on this earth I've lived quite a long life. I've seen and lived thru the worst of the worst (and I mean like dad put in jail mom hates you and sister is psycho) I've been poor all my life and have always lived paycheck ... (547 words)

He wanted to be single so I broke up with him but now he's uncertain

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not getting over my ex and I dont really want to either. My boyfriend of 3 years revealed to me he wanted us to go on a break as he never had a single life, he was busy doing other things and didnt get toghether with many girls at all. He is going to college in sept as a ... (302 words)

Oh my, they like me, and I already have a boyfriend ... what do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - okay, so I have quite i big problem at the moment, but i think that i should explain something first i am a bisexual male, so, i recently found out that this guy i know has a crush on me and so does my bes friend who is a girl, but.... the big problem is, I also have a ... (82 words)

Trusting my girlfriend's mates

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16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my girlfriend for about a month now. We had been close before, but it was never 'official'. I love her alot, I put her infront of myself every time I can. The only problem is, im finding it hard to trust her. Its not so much her I don't trust, its her frie... (140 words)

15 and never been kissed by a boy!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, ok i have a problem with myself. i am really slim but my mom is really slim aswell so it kind of runs in the family. no i am not anorexic and i don't have a eating disorder, i eat like a pig infact and just comfort eat but i dont know where it all goes! i have turned 15 y... (163 words)

I'm always on the receiving end. What can I do to be the giver too?

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16 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - my b/f is really good in making out and in bed , he has experience , while me on the other hand i just find myself on the receiving side , he kisses me all over , licks , sucks , plays .. all but i dont know what to do where to kiss him beside the face .. i feel self cons... (102 words)

What to do for anniversary

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i need some suggestions.It will be first year anniversary for me and my boyfriend and i have no idea what to do .what i know is that i want to do something special for both of us.... (39 words)

Am I being unreasonable in asking my partner not to let her ex stay overnight??

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16 April 2009 (M)

age - my partner is from abroad. She has a child and when she goes back to her country to visit her parents she also allows her child to see her father. Her parents have a large two bed apartment outside of town and she stays their alone with her daughter for much of the time. She ... (172 words)

Recovering Alcoholics don't keep drinking after right?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm sorry but theres a guy who is CLEARLY lying to me. if you were an alcoholic you wouldn't be drinking still would you? like going out getting bladdered things like that? because this guy i was dating told me he was an alcoholic and that he was going out drinking a... (143 words)

Am pregnant, confused and my boyfriend tells me he needs a break, what should I do?

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16 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have this man I have known for about four months. I am a month pregnant by him. When I told him, he asked me to terminate. I was against the idea and I suggested marriage. He said he was not ready, but could support the child. Out of frustration I told him that he should n... (260 words)

How do I show that I love & appreciate him?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now.I am a shy person and i cant tell my boyfriend how i feel about him. I really love him so much and im scared that im gonna loose him pls help me to find a way to show ... (115 words)

Is she scared it'll ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i like my friends cousin i've been talking to him recently and we get on so well i took my friend to his house other day as she wanted to see them and he come over to my car and took my car keys out the ignition and was like Ha you got to come in now to get them but any... (407 words)

My b/f has a very high sex drive and I can't keep up. What should we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. my problem involves my boyfriends sex drive. im 19 and he is 22, been going out a few months. He has an extremely high sex drive, and we have just talked about it and he told me that he has lost all his past girlfriends because of it, and lost potential girlfrie... (215 words)

Am I too short, as a male?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I went on two really great dates recently with a girl I met at my college through a friend. It seemed as those we connected in every way. After the second date things seemed to fizzle out. I wonder why until a friend on mine told me that he had ran into her. I asked him if she ... (192 words)

Is he over his wife or are the feelings still lingering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My man and I age difference is 31 years apart. He has 3 grown kids plus my son. I love him and he says he loves me but every time we have a conversation he has to bring up his ex wife who cheated. Does he still love her or miss her. Although he says he doesn't want anyt... (69 words)

People feel bad after swallow my semen. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi...I have a curious question and i really dont know how or where start to search about it..the problem is: Everybody man/woman who swallow my cum/sperm/semen or when I blow inside tha anus(anal sex without condom) feels bad after a few minutes..like when u eat something that ... (115 words)

I feel really bad and guilty for not being there for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am 16 years old and I have dated this girl on and off for about 6 years I love her with all of my heart. About 6 months ago she told me that she was raped and I just comforted her for awhile, later she came out and told me who did it. It was two guys that I had know... (204 words)

I'm just wondering :)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ookay.So i was just wondering how you get std and all that other kind of contagious stuff that you can get from sexual contact. Thank you.... (29 words)

A couple questions about masturbation.. *girls*

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when i'm on my period and have a tampon in while i watch porn, i still come! how can this be if a tampon is in me... no blood comes out, just come? also, is it normal to orgasm continuously? i mean, if i was to count how many orgasms i have in 20 minutes.. it would be closs... (84 words)

High risk for std?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with another guy and got some of his sperm on my penis. Does that carry any sort of high risk for std/sti?... (24 words)

Anxious to have sex but scared too

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well hello.I know im young,but i havent actually had sex.i can wait:). Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, about 4 months ago we've been having sexual urges...yeea.He has fingered me a few times,and i've played with him.Im a very small girl, and since i am wouldnt i be ... (104 words)

When do the birth control pills start working?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started taking birth control pills today(Wednesday) and I'm going to be at my boyfriends house on Saturday. My Question(s) are: -Will the birth control pills start actually..working by then? -If I'm on Birth Control and he still DOES Use a condom, is it more safe than j... (81 words)

Why can't I have an orgasm?

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - plz help! Me and my boyfriend just started having sex a little while ago, and he was my first. and the first time we did it, he had an orgasm in a good 45-60 minz! but we've had sex multiple times and i just cant seem to get one?? he may have been my first, but i was still very... (89 words)

Does this girl have a thing for me?

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16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I recently met, and I'm finding it very hard to read her. I won't say her name, nor mine, well I'll say mine. My name is Alex. I met this girl at work and I can't tell if she has an interest in me, because she seems to be playing head games with me, or maybe ... (311 words)

Should I Break the Cycle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Seven months ago I met a very handsome man while hanging out with friends. A month into "dating" him, I found out that he was a professional athlete, something he did not want me to know. We continued as usual. After a while, he started to travel for work, so I would only see ... (337 words)

She said it is too late now, and I am shattered

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, im a guy that is 16 years old. i have relationship issues with my girlfriend and im seeking a lot of advice... we've been dating for 3 years and 2 months now. during the 2nd year she cheated on me for another guy. they met, hugged and kissed behind my back. she told me that... (361 words)

How you would feel about going with a girl 3 or 4 years younger?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im fourteen and i hang about with people 3 years older than me , i dont know why i suppose ive always just got on with older people better. ive only had one boyfriend before.. no boys ever like me, any i like back,. im quite a picky person and basically i need help coz ... (168 words)

Just curious...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it really (honestly) normal for completely straight, heterosexual women to be turned on by lesbian porn? ...even more so then regular porn? If so, why?... (26 words)

What should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyyy..... i need to know what i should do... Im 15 and my boyfriend is also 15, we have been together for 9 months. We had PROTECTED sex on March 14 and i missed my period and i got alot of pregnancy signs. I took one preg. test Tuesday morning and it was NEGATIVE then i t... (177 words)

Confused about how to make this work

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16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so this past weekend i met a really cute boy at a party.. and we didnt kiss or anything but we hung out the whole night. he got my number at the end of the night and the next day he texted me. we texted the whole day. we added eachtoher on myspace and as i was looking at his ... (138 words)

How can I tell if she even cares about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hovering around the same subject as my last two posts: the girl who i think i love, who is also my bestfriends ex. i still am holding off on the whole telling her how i feel idea, but today i might have realized something.. ok, so last week, i left a few things in her ca... (214 words)

Abusive BF making life hell do I try to sort it out or cut my losses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I really need some advice about my partner. We've been together for about 5 years during which time he was going through a divorce from his estranged wife. Over the years I noticed more and more that he can be verbally abusive. He said that during this time he had a ... (642 words)

Can a guy be good in bed if he's not a great kisser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly have no idea, just want to know if it's a good indicator, but I doubt it somehow!... (19 words)

I turned down 3 serious dates and now he no longer pursues me

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16 April 2009 (F)

age - after turning down 3 serious dates from a guy he no longer seem to pursue me. we both express that we are attracted to each other.i however would like to take things slower(at my pace).when we cross paths now he acknowledges me and promises to visit but never does.i dont ... (67 words)

Does inexperience turn a guy on or off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does inexperience turn a guy on or off? I recently started seeing a new guy, and things have gotten pretty intimate really fast.. though this is a first for me. Any ideas? Much appreciated.... (34 words)

Do you think it's a bad idea for a girl to let her man go to a bar without her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to go to a bar Friday night with some of his buddies. His friends have a band and are performing that night. My friends are all like "your letting him go by himself?" I'd never let my man do that!" He's never given me a reason not to trust him but I don't ... (90 words)

Taken but regretting it...

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16 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've wanted a girlfriend for more than a year now and recently I started dating my friend. She's amazing but I found out I really miss being single. Like I've had this huge need to flirt with other girls and talk with my friends about how hot they are. We've barely been ... (88 words)

Can someone help me define this for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

16 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 1.Ok, should I be upset because my ex does not see my son any more? 2. A man (my ex) who had issues with a gay man who used to write love letters to him at work, used to hang out with some fruity guys at college, and whose mom also had a concern with a stay over with this g... (380 words)

I will always love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

16 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - We were classmates in highschool, at first I didn't like her much but after a year or two I got a crush on her. Unfortunately she was already in love with other classmate and soon after, she got married and had a kid with him. Seven years have passed after our graduation, she ... (283 words)