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51-59,
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writes:No foreplay and no condoms!I have just started to sleep with my guy - but he seems reluctant to give me any foreplay! Also he says that when we do have sex he doesn't like using condoms!! - I am confused with what to do - as I love him but am unsure if he loves me as he seems a little selfish!
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (13 April 2009):
 I think you should stop dating teenagers ;-)
But honestly if he doesn't know what he's doing, immature and selfish you should dump him, how many other women has he not used protection with.
Seriously do not let his penis anywhere near you till you are turned on and he is wearing a condom, there is no excuse any more there are so many condoms on the market and it is good fun trying them out to find the one you both like!
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (13 April 2009):
 A little selfish? He sounds very selfish to me!!Tell him, no foreplay and no condoms = no sex!It's not right for him not to give you any foreplay, without it you may most likely not get aroused enough and it will hurt when he enters you. Now although it is understandable that he doesn't like using condoms because every one is different, but if you want him to use one that he has to respect that.Sit down with him and talk to him about this issue, if he doesn't respect your feeling and your wishes I say get rid of him. I know you say you love him and it would be hard, but if he's going to be like this then you deserve someone who'll respect you.Good luck xx
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reader, XxDefineMexX  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Tell him that you NEED to be sexually stimulated beforehand or it will hurt you. Also if he refuses to use a condom you need to make sure your on birth control that you feel comfortable with. Or if you don't want to tell him you're not ready to be a parent and you refuse to have sex without a condom.Be safe and make sure you use some form of protectionHope i helped=]
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