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female
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41-50,
*elen uhl
writes: Iam a female i have a good friend female we have kissed on lots of occasions my feelings are getting strong for her lately we have a few fights. We went to Thailand together and things happened there. I think im in love with her I don't want to be a lesbian. help
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reader, helen uhl +, writes (4 May 2009):
helen uhl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont know if i should tell her how i feel will it ruin our friendship its really eating at me.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (13 April 2009):
Just because you are in-love with her doesn't mean you have to pin a big badge saying "I'm a Lezzer" on your chest, start wearing dungarees and cut your hair short!
What is it about people wanting to pin labels on to their sexuality? You are not a confused teenager who is going through a phase, you are a grown up who understands love.
My point is you should have relationships with whomever makes you happy, no matter what sex or sexuality you both are, it's 2009 and it really doesn't matter any more!
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