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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I fight off all this male attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am getting so fed up with the male attention i just can't seem to shunt. After breaking up with my longterm boyfriend i accidently jumped straight back into another relationship. As soon as i began feeling overwhelmed i told him i didn't want anything serious. He said it was ... (381 words)

I told my teacher I have a crush on him, what's gonna happen?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really have a huge crush on my teacher... I've had it for a while and it was bothering me a lot. I really wanted to tell him. So last night I wrote a letter about how much I admire him and that I couldn't keep it in anymore... and I was stupid and gave it to him after extra ... (119 words)

Can you be with someone who does not communicate fully with you and put you first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I would love an objective view of my relationship so some advice would be great. I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. He is a great guy and is perfect for me in everyway. I honestly do not feel I could find anyone better when it comes to all the stuff that matters. ... (360 words)

What advice can you give to a guy who has never dated, has suffered a long struggle with depression, and is in his 20s?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 20 year old male, who is suffering from both depression and social anxiety disorder. Both of these conditions have lasted for years, many of them undiagnosed, and have left me without so much as a wink from the opposite sex. Naturally, I am unhappy about mi... (130 words)

Do you think he is having an affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so confused right now as I think my 35yr old bf is giving me mixed messages. We have been with each for 2 yrs in a LDR. We got a bit upset with each other the other week when we went out for the day. I took a phone call from a male friend and my bf wanted to know who ... (572 words)

I love him so much and he says he loves me and wants to marry me, but he's a cheat. What should I do?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend 2 months into our relationship. i didnt find out for 5 months and then out of the blue his ex girlfriend phoned me after obtaining my number from a mutal friend... the funny thing is they slept ... (355 words)

Help! Can anyone give me tips on how to open up and have the ability to interact better with people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story short, I started University in September 2006, and went with the hope of opening up, meeting like-minded people and enjoying myself...and it didn't work. I've always been shy; I'm just really awkward around people. I don't know how to act or what to say; I'm not ... (278 words)

How can I confront her in order to make things better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry in advance that this is so long. Here's something I'd like some advice on. I've been thinking about this a bit, and it's just been something on my mind the last few days and something I'd like answered. I started talking to this girl the Thursday before easter. I... (1586 words)

How come guys always change when you get too close to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How come guys always change when you get too close to them? This guy that I know at school always trys to make me laugh and when I'm sitting with my best friend and he's trying to talk to me he will try to dodge her head to talk to me face to face. Is this because he likes me? ... (125 words)

Unjust dismissal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started at a new job, my boss made it clear he was interested in me and wanted sexual things from me. When I denied, he then has always treated me differently than the rest of the employees, and has always looked for reasons to fire me. Now 3.5 years later he has found ... (68 words)

Does this seem weird to anyone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello! I have not been in many serious relationships, but I need advice. I have been dating a girl now for 4 months. I like her a lot and our relationship has moving quite nicely. I recently found out though that she still talks to an ex boyfriend that she dated for 3 yea... (360 words)

He smelled awful!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts, I really need some advice, I've been going out with a boy for a while and tonight for the first time we discovered a little more about each other and when he pulled down his boxers a horrible smell came, it was so ghastly that I wanted to get out of his car, it's not ... (99 words)

Worlds apart but too close for comfort

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. However, I have known this other man for 6 years over the internet. We've met up before and it was amazing, although nothing happened, I feel like I've betrayed my boyfriend. I always flirt with this oth... (287 words)

Do I need to see my GP or nurse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had periods for 4 years and I've always had them regularly every month and I stay on my period for 5 days. I recently gone on the mini pill because I don't want to get preganent but since going on the pill I've been coming on my period every few days, is this normal? Do I ... (76 words)

My boyfriend cheated... should I forgive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so here is my dilemma... I have been dating my boyfriend now for about 3 1/2 years. He cheated on me once when we first started dating with a girl he has always had a crush on but never got the chance to see if it would work with her. All he did was kiss her and sai... (272 words)

I'm enjoying the best of both worlds...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm cheating on my husband with his best friend and I don't want to stop. I love him very much and our sex life is great... but I enjoy sex with his friend too. What should I do?... (40 words)

I feel physically and mentally put off him now as I feel pressured into having sex with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm curently with a boy who I like, we have been together for a good 8 months now and he claims he loves me... and yes we have our ups and downs however we always pull through the other end. He started to suggest to me that we should have sex, however I'm worried beca... (195 words)

Help!!! Who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm in love with a guy who I've just met and all my friends like him as a friend and think he's "Mr. Right." I'm kinda thinking that too and I know he likes me too and then there's this other guy that I've known and never thought I'd ever like him as more than a ... (120 words)

Who is Jasmine???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this person writing to me on myspace.. annonymous.. and I don't know who it is.. they have no pictures of them only of supposed family and they have said their name is Jasmine. I don't know anyone named Jasmine. Soo does anyone know how to maybe track who it could be ... (63 words)

Since he said he likes me he's been in minimum contact with me. Did he mean what he said?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have had this crush on this guy since I first met him in September and I have made some mistakes since I first told him I liked him. I have said that I'm in love with him and also that he is the ONE. Every time someone asks him if he likes me, he has denied i... (119 words)

Why is he continuing to pursue me... if I'm just a fling, or the "other woman"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been messing with an attached guy (not married) that I've tried to end it with, but haven't done it yet. I informed his gf... but she forgave him, and told me I wasn't the first. He still continues to call... I ignored him for 2 weeks (calls) and he left messages the who... (271 words)

The girl with "chubby cheeks!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hola, I was just wondering why people (mostly guys) perceive me as a "cute" person and compare me to a baby or something. Whenever I smile I get these huge cheeks suddenly appearing from nowhere and it really annoys me. I get people poking them all the time and I get the ... (135 words)

How can I help my girlfriend with her self esteem problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has really low self esteem that I think stems from lack of parenting in early childhood and some abuse. I can't stand her being so hateful towards her beautiful body. What are some ways to help her overcome these issues?... (42 words)

Lesbian cheats on girlfriend with boy

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a really big problem and I am so upset by it I think I'm going to therapy. On Sunday I got at 5:52 a.m. a call from my girlfriend. She was sobbing and screaming and saying something that I couldn't understand. I thought she was saying she was scared of the rain but ... (315 words)

How can I get rid of this shyness that I think will destroy the hope of being his friend at least?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 15 and I wanna ask you about my situation especially boys because you know each other well!!! I got a crush and even love 'wb'. We go to the same school but we don't know each other, we've never talked before! He's always staring at me and walking my way in the hall... (137 words)

She's best friends with her ex and even told me she has feelings for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has been hanging around her ex-boyfriend a lot more then usual. She goes to see him a lot when he is practicing sports. She tells me that they are best friends and would want nothing more then that. But, today she admitted that she has gotten feelings for him ... (159 words)

Is she trying to break us up or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well recently my gal cheated on me! when she told me what happened she told me she had asked her sister for advice and the sister adviced her to cheat on me! my girl and i are still together but recently i was contacted by her sister who has never done so in a while! she told ... (117 words)

He said we had to be secret then asked out my friend and she said yes! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy from school but he wanted to keep it secret from everyone because he doesnt like people knowing his business. We've had lots of problems including when he asked my friend out on a date whilst i was supposed to be dating him. She agreed aswell e... (262 words)

Do we take things "further?" he's 13, I'm 17 and we fight all the time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 17 yr old girl and my boyfriend is just 13 .. we are 2gether for 8 months...at first the age worried me a bit but now i really do love him ... but we do fight alot, i have lost interest in school work since ive been with him because when we fight hes all i can think ... (99 words)

Devestated and Confused.........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age - Devestated or Relieved: Dated this man 45, i am 45 for the past 4 years, we are both divorced. Things have been fine with little obstacles along the way, but we seemed to overcome them. He is quiet and stubborn and I am the nurturer but want things done accordingly. He liv... (499 words)

Should I take him getting back to me as a good sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll try not to ramble, there's a guy, i've known him for yrs, but not really closely, and we know plenty of mutual people. Recently we started casually talking, 1st time we hung out we where drinking and we hooked up. In previous conversations things may of gotten a little s... (179 words)

Is he using shy as an excuse to not take things further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy at school and I have been exchanging some pretty heavy flirty emails over the last few days (I've known him about a year). I wasn't sure what to think of it all and caught off guard by it. At class yesterday, I decided to tell him that I am attracted to him and not ... (121 words)

He is scared to meet my dad, how do I introduce them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am recently separated..about 8 months and my boyfriends is divorced. I am 36 and he is 42. I have met his parents, but he has not met my dad. (mom passed away several years ago) I have tried to arrange meeting times, but something always comes up and our plans get cancelled. ... (137 words)

My Ex-iGrlfriend broke up with me. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, my name is Thomas and i am from Germany. I have been in a relationship with an american girl for about 2,5 years. We had a few issues but i always took care of anything she needed, never refused a favour or wish. I really love her! And i tried to work on the iss... (614 words)

What are these noises during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi recently when my boyfriend and i make love there are funny noises in my vagina ,like air and its so embarrassing . It never use to happen we have been together for two years now.Please help.... (37 words)

How can I dominate him without spanking him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there I'm 25 my bf is 29 and wants me to dominate him in the bedroom please help me. he doesn't want to be spanked but I'm unsure what to do please ideas? I want to shock him.... (39 words)

Its all the same but we're not in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Question. My bf of about 4 months broke it off about a month ago. He said he was feeling guilty about not always being there and he felt he wasn't doing his duties as a bf. He was having a hard time balancing his personal life/business and a relationship. He told me that he ... (115 words)

Why won't she get rid of the love letters from their affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A couple of months ago my wife had a very serious and deceitful love affair. So serious that they were planning on getting married. He even lived at my house for a couple months I told him he could since he had no where to stay. Of course this was more my wifes idea. He however ... (188 words)

I tell her sweet things but she doesn't believe me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - my girlfriend if very shy, i can kiss her and stuff but she isnt very confiedent about any thing. and when i tell her she is great or fine at it she doesnt believe me. what can i do to boost her confiedence?? please help... (50 words)

Is my brother sleeping with our deceased brothers wife?? Dark secrets in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have two brothers. One brother took his own life approximately six months ago and since then my other brother has formed a very close relationship with my decesaed brothers wife. So close that he spends everyweekend with her and sleeps at her house. He denies any sexual ... (150 words)

Dated 3 weeks, he dumped me and now he hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend went out for 3 weeks and then he dumped me. today he said he hates me. and he said the reason is when i seen him in the three weeks i only seen him for like 5 minutes but i actually seen him for 30minutes, but we were on holiday so we couldnt see each other ... (141 words)

Girl breaks up the relationship suddenly, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girl breaks off our relationship. Completely caught me by surprise. the night before we had a romantic dinner in my apartment, candles and flowers and all the trimmings. Next day she texts me "I don't want to hurt you, but I don't want to be in this relationship, I want to ... (106 words)

Only 3 days to prove to him that I love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay here it goes i will have three days to prove to him that i love him and want to be with him and to make him see that we can be happy together!! Tell me what to do ! please! WE will also be around other people so help me please just give me the best advice you can think ... (81 words)

He doesn't know how to show he loves me!

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - realy need ugent response pls.met my husband at the university,dated for six years,got married last year,he used to be very caring in school,alot f people were jelouse,some say im the luckiest person,but after marriage i discovered alot. he dosent care about sex,he dosent ki... (258 words)

I'm an emotional abuser! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone please help me resolve this? I have emotionally abused my bf for 4 months. He went through some hard times and was depressed and I still haven't forgiven him for everything that went on and held the grudges. He apologized. I know he's sick of me. How do I apologize ... (60 words)

How do you tell if a guy really likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hmm could you explain to me...wen a lad likes someone how do they act and can you sense it in the atmosphere. I don't just mean they look at you or something but can you tell sometimes just by being with them, how they act and the way they talk? I know not all lads are mega con... (95 words)

I think I am bi but I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been struggling with this for a while, since about 7th grade when I started noticing how pretty girls are but just ignored it. and when I got older I started getting more and more atrracted to girls but I always just denied and thought I was a freak but wouldn't let myself ... (172 words)

In love with my best friends man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my fiance for about 3 years and i love him a lot but i also have feelings for my best friends bloke. We have been meeting up a few times a week and its been great to get out and have some fun, but the other week he told me that he loves me and ... (191 words)

Advice on my husband moving out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My and my husband are having some really tough issues lately. We are in the process of moving him out of the house, and it is so hard to do. I keep wanting to go back and tell him just to stay here, but I really think him going right now it the best thing. But i keep telling ... (238 words)

We're both married to others, work together and sometimes the flames of passion force one of us to leave work early so there is no cheating! What should I do?

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I will keep this short and to the point...I am married with kids. I work with a woman who is married with one child as well. We have worked together for several years and have harmlessly flirted in the past. Recently it got to the point where we opened up and even talked ... (206 words)

I'm falling love, should I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi so the sitch here is that im falling in love with a guy and i don't think he knows! how does that even happen? i wanta tell him soo bad but i dont want to make him feel awkward. in general, im not a very jealous person but when there are girls around flirting with hi... (124 words)

Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 pregnancy tests (all positive). ... (146 words)

I love her but no sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend does not want to have sex with me and i love her. what should i do? Is there anything I can do or say to make her change her mind?... (32 words)

Pregnancy from this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ... (15 words)

How do I get over a painful breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've lived with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. During this time, he was going through a painful divorce. He started drinking and using drugs. He became verbally and physically violent towards me. He didn't work and I struggled to pay the mortgage. I supported him emotionally and ... (139 words)

How can I apologise to my wife for the blunder I made 10 years ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help to stop this major fighting I'm having with my wife. We're married over 10 years, and I did something stupid over 10 years ago when we were first married (no I didn't cheat). One of my stupid friends who's known us since before we were married, was drunk and a few ... (501 words)

'Sweetie' said by younger girl to older guy. What does it mean? How should I respond?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've sort of made contact with this girl online via youtube (I watched her videos and made a couple of video responses which she seemed to like). She recently used the word 'sweetie' in a message though, and it's gotten me all confused... What should I make of that? She's a ... (406 words)

Does anyone believe in fortune tellers?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is quite short, I'm wondering if anyone believes in Fortune Tellers? xx... (14 words)

My mate is about to start dating the girl I like! Please reply as soon as possible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I need some help (lots of replies)! I really, really like this girl, I have for about a year and never been able to tell her but I've dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was at a party which she really wante... (164 words)

He wants to put our baby plans on hold for another year and I'm so upset about this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 37 years old, I have always dedicated my life to a successful career. For the last 6 years I have been prepared to travel the world and live in a suitcase. This may seem glamorous, but I always felt alone. Even though I had a busy life, my life felt empty. Over the ... (771 words)

What to do for the best? He says he wants to marry me but he's ALREADY married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for nearly 5 years, but the problem is that he is already married and he says he wants to marry me but I don't want to because I can't share him with anyone but he is not trying to understand. He has been married for over 6 years ... (220 words)

Girlfriend wants space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for the last 6 years. Recently she has been having a tough time with work and family situations (parents on the verge of seperating). She has been acting "off" the last few weeks and when I tried to talk to her about it she'd say "I ... (247 words)

Second child is on the way and I am worried about the consequences "down there"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok,i am going to have my 2nd child in 2 months time and am worried about what"damage" this may have"down below".My partner says that after the birth of our 1st child he felt no difference,but i'm not so sure as i can feel with my fingers that there is a big difference....though ... (99 words)

I've broken up with him one too many times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - *Sigh* It's been a month shy of 2 years, and my ex doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. It's really weird but I want to be with him again so badly...despite the many breakups we've gone through. I broke up with him about a week ago over something pretty stupid, a... (216 words)

How do I win her back when she is going through such a hard time at the moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was seeing this girl called Emma we get on good together we argued once but it was my fault as I was tired and angry as my baby died that week one yr ago and I said sorry, we have split up 4 times with the first time was a month and 2 weeks ago as some girl said untrue stuff ... (389 words)

How do you know when you are experiencing an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible that I can't orgasm? I know its really hard to describe what it feels like to climax, but I don't know that I've ever reached that point. At first I thought it was the guy's fault because he was thinking about his needs over mine, but I know its not the guy.... (99 words)

Sex life is great but she doesn't like foreplay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend have an issue, i wouldnt call i a problem as we still haev an active and enjoyable sex life. the problem is foreplay when we are kissing sometimes i like to play with her tits and maybe even finger her pussy to get her turned on, but she will not play wi... (108 words)

He cheated but says he loves me so he will change. Should I believe him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

22 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hi, I wrote earlier about playing mind games with my boyfriend who cheated on me. Two nights ago, he confronted me why I don't hug him anymore nor kiss him. I said to him I am losing interest for a fact that while he is with me, he may be thinking of this other girl too. He ... (324 words)

He wont give up the other women in his life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend, for 2 years but some time back i found photos of his girls from his workplace i deleted them but he insisted and put them again.And he seem to be having many girls around him.iam planning to leave him since he doesnt want to listen.advise me ... (53 words)

My best friend is about to start dating the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, i need some help! i really, really like this girl, i have for about a year and never been able to tell her but ive dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was at a party which she really wanted me to go to, so i... (158 words)

He always tries to kiss me! Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

22 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im desi and I need help getting mixed up signals fro m this guy I like he has a girlfriend but he always flirts with me and he knows I like him he is always trying to make me laugh or at least be happy. He always tries to kiss me (the way you say hi) as many times posible ... (80 words)

Loving them both, and can't risk losing them both!

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been on and off with my girlfriend for 4 years. Each time we break up feels like the end of the world. 6 months ago I met a woman that has taken my breath away in every way. Now I find myself loving two women. I can not take losing them both, which is inevitable if I ... (83 words)

Secret gay friends in school

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've been in a relationship with another boy for a year now, he is nearly 13. We keep it secret (well that's obvious!), not least of all because we are at the same school but in different years. We meet outside of school and spend time together away from the area, or ... (226 words)

This is the relationship I was trying to avoid! I want it over!

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice badly. I've been in a "relationship" with this guy for almost 3 months. And I need to get out asap, but he won't leave me alone. At first everything was fine. Then I stopped seeing him. And when I tried to leave he went pyscho. calling and texting me none stop ... (250 words)

I have to see my g/f secretly as her controlling mum dislikes me, any help?

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is 22 and i am 23 and she is totally dominated by her mum, she has her own car and she has her own job but her mum controls her like mad. my Gf cannot go out without her mum's permission and it seems the only time her mum will allow her to go out is if its either ... (381 words)

Blank emotion?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - yes, i'm dating a guy and he says he feels blank when i'm around and he has no feelings for me, but he has feelings for a woman who abused him, please tell me what this means and the meaning of a blank emotion... (46 words)

Should I pursue my ex who I love? I need my new g/f for money matters.

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i am unemployed and live with my gf of 2 years almost and been thinking. And i have come up with the conclusion that i am in love with my ex she is who i dated when i was 17-18 and i now 20 and she i still heart broke over me and i have not seen her in person in 2 yrs we ... (325 words)

Am I being stupidly hopeful?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy I work with that I have liked for several months now. One night a few months ago, we had been drinking and we ended up kissing. A few days later, I decided to tell him that I liked him, but he said that he only saw me as a friend. Stupidly, I co... (327 words)

How do I handle having been molested as a child? Do I just block out the memories?

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, is it easier to psychologicaly handle being molested as a child and always remember where, when and who did. or to have blocked it out and start remembering as an adult.(figured it out a couple of days ago) it happened when i was around 5 years old i think, im 21 now. i ... (162 words)

My bf of a year and a half seems to be to busy for me!

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of a year and ahalf seems to be busy all the time now. he does not want me to sleep over anymore and he does not invite me. he doesnt call me much anymore too. and i always have to ASK him if he could hang out, which he sometimes cancels on the last minute, whether ... (89 words)

Signal or No Signal?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm in a sexual friendship with this guy friend of mine and we're both the same age. I've developed feelings for him, very strong ones, and of course I express them because I want to be honest and open with him. Though I do respect his desires so I keep the intensity ... (308 words)

He wants sex and I won't do it without a commitment! Break up with him?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been "seeing" this guy for a couple months. He refuses to call himself my boyfriend yet he keeps pushing for sex. He parties a lot but I know for a fact that he doesnt sleep around (we were friends before) which is what I dont understand. If he wants easy sex, why cant ... (261 words)

Catholic girlfriend denying me sex!

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've got quite a dilema. I don't even know where to begin. I'm atheist (24 years old) and I have a uber conservative Cathlolic girlfriend (20 years old). We've been going out for 8 months. I love her and she loves me but there's a major problem that's driving me insan... (340 words)

I'm attracted to fat women

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I know this might sound a bit weird but I'm a butch lesbian who is attracted to fat women. I've never met another lesbian who has a fetish for this only guys but I'm wondering what I should do about this situation. Is it bad if I get really turned on by - Girls eating ... (236 words)

Do men marry and stay with women who are not their ideal?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men marry or stay with women that are not their ideal "type"? ... (20 words)

He flirts with me even though he has a g/f -- does he like me?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I've been getting mixed signals about this guy I really like. He has a girlfriend but he is always flirting with me. He knows I like him, and he still tortures me with illusions. He always tries to say hi or to kiss me on the cheek as many times possible and I really think ... (65 words)

Sad and depressed and can't cope with problems

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22 April 2009 (F) - I just can't seem to deal with all these problems. My car broke down about 2 months ago. My life is so much more difficult now without a car. I'm very sure I got an STD and scared of not being able to get pregnant because of it. Just everything seems to be going wrong in my ... (198 words)

When does looking go from appreciated to creepy?

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm sure this is a silly question, but I've read some answers on this site about how women like to be made to feel attractive, and that a man "looking" at a woman's body in a certain way can help make them feel sexy and attractive. Yet I get the impression that when I try ... (96 words)

He hooked up with a stranger the same night we broke up

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with this man for 5 yrs, living with him for the last 2 1/2. We got engaged a yr ago, and we broke off the engagement due to a huge argument. We've been trying to work things out the last few months but have had lots of ups and downs. Several weeks ago he told me ... (309 words)

I'm unreasonably afraid that she's cheating

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend cheated on me with another guy for a long time before I found out, and I was crushed and felt played with for months, i could never trust her again. ( this was a year ago) Now i am with a girl i absolutely love, she is amazing to say the least and she ha... (165 words)

Is razorburn better than bush?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf says he prefers the shaved look, but my hair is kind of coarse and grows back fast. do guys think it's gross/uncomfortable feeling when a girl has pubic stubble? or do they think it looks gross if there's a rash/ingrown hairs/general irritation? because i pretty much have ... (113 words)

He used me in a lie to dump his g/f

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is kind of stupid but I don't know how to handle this one... My 17 year old soon-to-be brother in law has made up a big lie involving me to dump his girlfriend of a year after he has cheated on her numerous times! He used the reason he can't see her anymore saying that ... (128 words)

Best bikini wax?

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22 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - what's the best waxing product to use on the pubic area? also, is depilatory cream safe to use down there? and if so, would it still be safe to use it in the lower parts more by the genitals/butt? cause that seems potentially dangerous.... (44 words)

He says he finds other girls attractive, and he's feeling confined

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I'm happily in love with a very sweet guy and we've been dating for 6 months. I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him, and there's nothing that I want more than that. Despite all of the good times we have, there is this one massive problem that we can't se... (303 words)

Are we better off alone?

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Reading some of the questions on here and contemplating my own relationship experiences (or inexperience), I keep thinking to myself what's the point. The average man is seeking egotistical sexual desires with other women while the average woman is seeking some egotistical... (362 words)

Am I imagining it... or does he like me?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does he like me or am I imagining it? I've had the same tutor for a couple of years and there seems to be some serious chemistry between us (I think??). In my first year, he complimented me on my looks a lot and praised me for my work and is notorious for being mean to ot... (400 words)

An honest woman's opinion needed.

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm encountering some problems that I see more and more of lately. Now I'm not a bad looking guy (so I've been told) and I like to weight train. Now here's the catch, the bigger I'm getting the more defensive I feel that women are acting around me, now I don't think I'm ... (139 words)

Help! Am I pregnant?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex then some blood came three days after lasting for four days and my period usually came for a full seven days. My period was really due 9 days before I saw this blood. I'm feeling really sick lately, urinating often etc. Am I pregnant? Is this blood ... (53 words)

2 years of an abusive relationship

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old girl who feels like I'm trapped in a helpless marriage. On my 17th birthday, the cutest sweetest most sensitve (at the time) guy who I met through mutual friends asked me out. He was my first real boyfriend ever, and has been (on and off) for over 2 years. I ... (415 words)

What IF??????

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Here are the facts - Man's natural lube (aka precum) may contain traces of sperm if he ejaculated previously. Me and my boyfriend get VERY intimate without having actual intercourse. We let our bits touch - his penis sliding on top of my lady bits without entering... (127 words)

Needy boyfriend, need advice!!

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 9 months now. I love him, and he loves me, and we plan to have a future together. But, there's just one thing.. He's really really needy. I can't go on the computer for longer than an hour, or else he gets really moody and ... (145 words)

On the brink of divorce

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband are getting a Divorce after almost 5 years. I still love him very very much. I just don't know how much more I can take. We are not getting a divorce because we don't love each other at least he says he still loves me. More you could say I am sick of fighting ... (590 words)

I want to end this for good, but I can't.

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I am 16 and totally in love with this boy. He abuses me. Hits me, as well as emotionally. He constantly puts me down and calls me names. We go to a vocational school so when we're on the bus, it's for an hour and a half at a time. We sit with each other ... (251 words)

Do guys definitely mean it's over, when it's over?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy friend of mine who I considered my best mate has suddenly broken off our friendship via email. He emailed me an angry email saying I made up lies about a girl he knows and now he wants me out of his life as if I don't exist and he doesn't want to see me again etc or hea... (1164 words)

Turning a friend into more ?

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering how to tell if a friendship can turn into more. I'm 99.9% oblivious to flirting or any signs women give to people they like. I have a friend that I'm close to and I like her, A LOT. Are there any signs that can help me guage where I stand or if there are subtle... (154 words)

How often is normal to text/call your other half during the day?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! This is more of a survey, rather than a true problem. I was just wondering how often is normal to text/call your other half during the day? Do people text every day? Multiple times? Or do they just chat once every few days? Is it different for men/women? I ... (74 words)

I am fearful that I will end up alone later in life. Am I the only one?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I have gone on dates and kissed a couple of guys but nothing more than that. It makes me sad and depressed knowing that all of my friends have/have had boyfriends and have been in serious relationships and I haven't. I fe... (112 words)

How can I make her stop hating me?

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22 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I like this girl a lot, but the problem is she hates me, plain and simple. What can I do to make her not hate me. I'm not that bad of a person, I'm kind and considerate, I even write poetry about her, I haven't shown her my work and I really don't plan on doing so. ... (127 words)

Do I tell my friend her boyfriend tried it on with me?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was staying at a friend's house after a long night of drinking, she went to bed and passed out leaving me and her boyfriend together. We were casually talking and all of a sudden he tries to kiss me. I had bruises up my arms where he was holding them and scratches on my ... (132 words)

What's going on???!! Why am I treated so differently?

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right can you try and help me figure out what's going on. There's a lad I've liked for some time and we are pretty good friends but for some reason he's so different with me. It's hard to explain so I'm just gonna list different situations to show you how he is with me. ... (909 words)

He joked about not seeing me again because he got what he wanted!

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im looking for honest opinions please.. I met this boy in a bar about 5 weeks ago. We get on so well and speak almost everyday. Lately weve been hanging out a lot. Weve met eachothers parents and have stayed at eachothers houses (mostly without sex except recently) We have ... (206 words)

If I leave her I would have peace of mind and relief to live my life my way.

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22 April 2009 (M)

age - I am new on here so thank you all, I have a multi-sectioned problem for you, I'm 48 (and have a disability, but no-one would ever know by looking at me and it does not effect my life apart from the following) and my partners 49, we have been together for 20 years and have two ... (492 words)

Not for me... for my sister! I'm worried about her.

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I know this is nothing to do with relationships, it's about health, well, my sister's health. She started her period when she was about 14/15, she's now 17. Since then, she has had VERY irregular periods and rarely ever comes on. She's not been on now since las... (116 words)

The damage is done and I cant make heads or tails of it!

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22 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Boy oh boy please dont judge me... I been in my relationship for over 13 years to be judged. You can't help who you love. I loved him since the day I met him in 3/1989. He was married with two kids, very handsome but he went with a lot of women. I knew a few years later wh... (1687 words)