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writes:I have currently developed feelings for this guy that I've known for around four years. Things have started to develop with us but we haven't had intercourse with him. Even though we both want to do things, afterwards I feel like he's given me the silent treatment for a few weeks and then he comes back. Whenever I ask him what's happening he doesn't know and can't give me a straight answer. What am I to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, ninetoes  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Be straight up with him...it's not fair that you are starting to feel for him about physical things that are happening and that he's ignoring you. If he shrugs it off again, forget about him.
It's apparent that you guys aren't that close anyway and he wont' be much of a loss to you! Especially if he doesn't talk to you for a few weeks...that is straight up guy language for, "I want your body, not you!" Remember, actions speak louder than words!
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY +, writes (13 April 2009):
 well unless he was in a committed relationship with you i wouldnt be having sex with him... why should you have sex with him when for all you know he will fire off the next day and you wont see him for weeks. He is coming and going as he pleases so i dont think you owe him anything. Ask him out on a date and see what happens, you are in charge of your life not him.. grab the bull by the horns and you decide what is happening, instead of him dithering.. if he continues this way i would give it up as a bad job, as much as you like him if he is like this now what would he be like as a husband or father???
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