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writes:i met this guy online and we have been best friends for about a year now and we talk everyday and i really mean everyday and im super happy when i talk to him and im my normal self but when we arent talking my friends and family think im depressed and i havent noticed it until recently my question is is it him making me depressed and what should i do i dont want to stop talking to him but i dont want to be depressed so please help me!
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reader, ciara rain  +, writes (13 April 2009):
well you met him online! if by talking to him it had improved your life, i would say fair enough, but the fact that its making you depressed when your not talking to him is not good, if you have never met in person maybe your leaving on a fantasy, maybe you should really consider not speaking to him anymore. theres so much out there for you to experience and achieve, you will go out i find that special guy xxc
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): You know this guy only online? or do you know him in person as well? I was and still kinda am in a similar situation. I got chatting to this guy online, after about 5 or 6 months of countless hours talking. I realised I liked him more than a friend, i knew I had to go out of the situation because being more than online buddys wasn't an option. This is what i'm trying to do and as I don't talk to him that much now it's easier, but we still keep in contact .It's great that you get on well but you need to drag yourself away and spend less time on the internet. .You may not fancy him at all, but you do need to distance yourself from him. With all that said, if you know him in person aswell, figure out in what way you like him, if you like him more than a friend then think about telling him, if you want to take the risk of losing this guys friendship.
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