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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Saturday night and I'm sitting in!!! Why don't I have any close friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help trying to understand why I don't have any friends. Here it, is a Saturday and I'm at home with nothing to do... I'm not sure why this is... I've had friends in the past, but every since I changed my life (no smoking weed, drinking, clubbing, etc)... no one seems to ... (135 words)

My boyfriend seems to have trouble with his writing, should I broach the subject with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have noticed that my 35 year old boyfriend writes very slowly using an awful lot of concentration. He only writes in capital letters and I haven't seen him use joined up writing. He doesn't get letters the wrong way around so I don't think it is dyslexia. He sometimes ... (158 words)

Confused about bad guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having an issue with a guy who flirted with me like crazy. He would call me sexy and hot and cute and he would make me feel really good about myself even though I knew that this guy uses girls he talks to, I kept flirting back. He did this to one of my friends and she ... (391 words)

Could I be pregnant if he came in my anus (due to condom splitting)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend wanted to try new things so I agreed because I felt I trusted him. He wanted to try anal sex so I let him try it telling him to use a condom. The problem is the condom split and "came" up there. I'm a week late for my period, could I ... (79 words)

Swollen up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have masturbated for the past few months, just one finger and played with my clit but last night I tried inserting a finger which I liked, I inserted two and I loved it... but a few hours later I've swollen up down below, and 24 hours later I'm still slightly swollen, it has ... (112 words)

I am 38, she is my 20 year old student

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

- I(38) was having a drink in a bar in late November of last year. At around 12, a young lady enters wearing decorative antlers (Christmas was in the air) on her head. Very pretty (Veronica, 20) and she seemed to be good friends with the waitress. During the course of the even... (378 words)

What kind of signs does a guy give out to a girl to show he's interested in her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How does a guy show a girl he's interested? I mean like signs.. eye contact, smiling. ect. ... (17 words)

How do I focus more attention on her without being too obvious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having a bit of difficulty. It's a really silly issue really, but I'd appreciate some advice from someone more experienced in relationships. Basically, I'm interested in this girl in my class who's several years younger than me. The problem is that she is almost always ha... (186 words)

My Ex's Words are killing me

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My Ex-girlfriend said that I'm not good enough to have new girlfriend and after she started telling me how many guys asking her out after she broke up with me. She said that she can have any boyfriends anytime she wants. Why did she tell me how cool she is ?.... I'm a stupid ... (310 words)

Should I do another and was the first period my real period?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had 2 periods last month. The first period lasted 11 days completley normal flow. I then had sex 3 days after this period. I then got another period just 5 days after the last period, this lasted 3 days and quite light. I am on the mini pill, I've been on it for 5 months and ... (120 words)

Engaged to be married .. but now having second thoughts. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm engaged to a woman who I've dated for a combined total of 1.5 years (with a four year break-up). I love spending time with her and although we don't have too many shared interests, we always find ways to entertain ourselves for hours on end. But recently I've felt less ... (324 words)

How to get her feet up again? I am at lost here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have known her for more than a year. Three or four months ago she broke off with her bf and she felt very sad. Now she looks like back to normal self but she seemed change in her behaviour. Nowadays she often looks for new guys to go out and meet. Guys known from inte... (280 words)

How do I know he fancies me? Help! Before I make a complete fool of myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i v met this guy but at the moment were just friends, he lives in Ireland and me in the u.k . he came over to with a football a few months ago and we met o a night out had a laugh together etc. anyway he emailed to say he was trying to get last min tickets and if i wait... (191 words)

I still love him but what do I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just over 3 years ago i found out i was pregnant. I assumed the father was the guy i was sleeping with and not my husband. I left my husband to be with my new man. In this time i suffered with depression and was seeing a counsellor, i ended up pushing the father away and... (149 words)

Signs when someone is gay??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my friend could be gay. What are the signs that he is?... (14 words)

I like "M" but I think he likes "J". I feel betrayed. Ask or move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Everybody, First of all thank you for your consideration and for the time you'll spend reading and answering my questions. I like a classmate, well it's more than just liking him ! His name is "M". Last week we spent 2 nights together (Monday n Tuesday), we didn't ha... (303 words)

Any information on lambskin as contraception? I don't like condoms

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife needs to go off the pill because it is messing with her mental state. She has told me that in the past she has had this type of reaction to the pill and never wants to go on it again. Not interested in any hormone thing at all (e.g. IUD or injections). We have... (138 words)

My long distance boyfriend... or this new guy? Should I get intimate with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in along distance relationship for 2 years but since this year started we have been fighting a lot. January this year I met a man we have been chatting. My problem is my boyfriend has changed, he's so distant he barely texts me. He calls me once a day and rare... (120 words)

Lost, hurt and anxious to move on, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so lost. My boyfriend and I have almost been together for four years now and I have been in and out of depression for the last year. Last year, around this time I confronted him about why he was having reservations about marriage. When he finally answered me, he said... (731 words)

I am always worried about people commenting on my weight. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex-family in law used to publicly mock me about my bodyweight (that I am too thin, anorexic, look terrible etc etc) and it used to really upset me - in fact it was relentless. Fact is I have been 5'6 and 8 stone 10 for as long as I can remember - my weight has not changed ... (250 words)

My husband is an alcoholic. I need to get out of this, but I have nowhere to go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! I am 33 years old and have been married for nearly 7 years. My husband is an alcoholic and has been throughout out marriage. We have no children although granted this is due to my husband being incapable of lovemaking most of the time due to alcohol. We have... (253 words)

How do I change to be the girl that he wants to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I recently broke up. Well we broke up yesterday. He said it was because my parents refused to let me go away with him and his family for the weekend. But I know that that was not the only reason. We had a lot of problems. In the beginning we both spoke about our exs ... (691 words)

Her black leggings are way H-O-T, should I tell my wife

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have always had a thing for girls in leggings, especially black leggings. Not talking about the shiny stuff talking about what you'd wear to the gym. I just think they're totally hot and love dry humping my wife when she's wearing them. Better than actual pene... (178 words)

Soo many questions. I just want to be happy again. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My name is "LS", and I have a couple of questions that I'd like you all to shed some light on. So here is the background story. In 2007 I met this really wonderful person in London and we really hit it off and dated for 4 months. Then I had to leave for the states. We... (889 words)

I'm a social misfit with no friends. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how do make friends.because i have no friends.people can be snobby to me.i don,t know how to have fun either.i never had a friends in school or collage or at sport.i don,t have great appearance either. 28 years old and i can,t fit in with people i don,t feel at ease with peo... (96 words)

Help! I am so lost with this one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was with my ex for years and we just recently split. i think it was mostly my fault because i changed after i was raped by a man i used to work with. my ex didn't know about the attack and i didn't tell him till after we split up but i wont tell him the name of the man ... (143 words)

Do you think he wants her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with this guy for 9 months and i love him so much his everything to me..but every time i try to let go i cant... he has messed up several times and i have forgived him he was going out with me and another girl at the same time and i caught him and i forgave him he ... (114 words)

Help!!! ...when it came to it I was like a rabbit in headlights!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and I didn't really respond),I ... (219 words)

My b/f of 2 years keeps cheating on me! Help me! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out 6 months ago that my boyfriend of two years is cheating on me. He denied it all the way but recently admitted it when we were arguing. He later tried to deny it after he realised what he said. I would be able to forgive him if he stopped the texting. He texts her ... (116 words)

Are we allowed to go out seeing as I'm only 13?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Am 13 and I want to date a 15 year old girl named Sarah, are we allowed to go out? I know she loves me and she knows I love her. Please help me? Are we allowed to go out???... (43 words)

Should I do it... or wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy on the internet a few months back. We emailed back and forth for a few weeks then finally exchanged numbers. Let me just point out that he is quite possibly everything I have ever wanted in a man, yet never really believed I would find it until I met him. I never ... (623 words)

I mean if he was that interested he would have asked me out by now, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, Last year he told me we wanted different things when he... (284 words)

Is this a break? Or his way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up... or took a break... or something in between? We were together for 2 years. well recently things had become really bad with fighting and crap so we decided to like not talk for a week to sorta clear our minds. He recently (exactly the ... (1137 words)

What tips can I give him to de-stress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice, this amazing guy keeps texting me (flirting) which is great, however, he has recently sent me one saying that he needs to de-stress and have I got any ideas to help him out!!! I am quite shy and I am not sure how to reply, I mean, does he want me to ... (61 words)

I'm torn between them both and don't know who to choose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Help again please! I have said before I turned 16 two weeks ago and I lost my gf to another lad and I was crushed. I think I rebounded onto a mate of hers and one1 week down the line I am with her friend, it was ok at first but like I said before, I keep thinking about my ex ... (184 words)

Do you think he's met some other girl and doesn't want to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't figure out if this guy likes me or not. It is long distance but he used to call me all of the time. We have only hung out like five times in the last four months. He had me meet his family and once he was texting me and said that I love you. Then I went to see him and ... (180 words)

Whereever I go, whatever I do, I always seem to get bullied.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age - Where every I go, what ever I do, I always seem to get bullied. Every job that I have every had has involved someone trying to make my working conditions difficult. I can remember as far back as when I was 18 in my first job. I am very smart and intelligent. I am now... (180 words)

Move on or get back together? How long can I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me. She said she didn't love me any more, didn't want to be in a relationship and lost that "spark." This was 3 weeks ago and at first I was fine with it but then reality really hit me hard. What hurt the most was during this time I wasn... (463 words)

My Egyptain guy - should I visit him again?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently went on holiday and met a bloke 14 years younger than myself. We did sleep together (safe sex of course) and since returning home he has continued to text me. I miss him terribly and he is always on my mind. I was even thinking of going back to see him soon (if i ca... (162 words)

I'm worried about my friend. He may be depressed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend. We are in fact very close. Lately he's been stressed and apparently his first year of college isn't going too great. But he's turn to pain killers to make it all better. I looked up the ones he told me he was taking and the red flag for me was that one of the ... (171 words)

We told each other we're soul mates but we aren't together and now there's someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to be really long sorry!!! Im in love with my best friend,lets call him Dan.. we live together and a few months back when we were both 'under the influence' we admitted that we loved each other and think we're soul mates...However, we both wanted to wait until at... (361 words)

He doesn't do anything sweet anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. I am 22 and he is 26. He used to be so sweet and affectionate towards me before we started dating, he used to call me 6-7 times in a day and he always wanted to spend time with me. But he is so different now. He doesnt want to ... (177 words)

26 year age gap.. he led me to bedroom.. was it a one off??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basically i have had a crush on my fitness instructor for over a year now.. + we r really good mates, we watch films together, have a laugh + love meeting up for coffee.. but today we were just chilling on sofa like normal.. when he kissed me soo passionately i couldn't believe ... (202 words)

Should I write him a note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! So there's this boy, he's only a year older than me (or so..) and I met him in my art class at the beginning of the semester. He now sits at my table with my two good friends and we have a lot of fun as a group. I like him, a lot, but the thing is, I'm not really... (317 words)

Who should I choose? T, L, or W?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm really confused about my feelings: there are 3 guys: "T"- amazing and such a lovely guy he's helped me through a lot and is hot as! but he's 17 "L" - he's 16 and is such a good mate i felt like i loved him but we've changed he's still amazing and funny and good looking ... (147 words)

His rebound relationship bothers me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I recently got back together officially. We broke up 5 months ago, and then started dating again 2 months after it. My problem is that during those two months in which we did not talk to each other, he slept with one of his exes that he had before me, w... (310 words)

I need backbone not jelly!

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11 April 2009 (F)

age - My bf keeps hinting that he wants to sleep over with me. We have not had sex for nearly a year. I am not happy with him as our relationship is not moving on. I have three kids. His is the youngests. He has been a fairly good dad to them all but I always feel so lonely. I ... (225 words)

My husband won't communicate with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for seven years. He isn't much of a talker. For example, at dinner, I'll ask him a question and his answer is very short and concise. When he comes home from work, he very rarely tells me what happens during the day. Also, when we're ... (277 words)

My husband is calling it quits, and I am at a very vulnerable spot right now. Any advice?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My marriage of 15 years has been in trouble for the last 5. I have moved area twice in that time following my husbands career and have become increasingly isolated from family and friends and other support networks as a result. Each time whilst my husband has thrown hims... (370 words)

Do I tell him that it's better to go our separate ways, or tag along and feel guilty?

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Help, I am 23 and I am bi,I met a guy older than me 37 through a local chat site, and on his profile it said looking for fun, so i thought that would be ok, because nothing would materialize thru this and that nothing would happen, eventually we had a friendship growing between ... (482 words)

I don't want to leave my wife, but I don't love her anymore. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been married for 5 years. Periodically throughout our marriage, my wife and I have agreed that we make better friends than spouses. Over the past few years I've grown increasingly less sexually attracted to my wife. I'd say that at this moment I'm almost entirely sex... (235 words)

Weight problems affecting my love life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im struggling with my love life because im overweight but im dieting and so far I've lost 2 stone i now weigh 14 stone. and all my friends starve themselves and i wanna know if i should try and if i should how can i do it? x... (48 words)

To call/write or not to call/write

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I feel to old to be asking a question like this, but here goes... On Wednesday evening I was at an exhibition opening in my home city (in Italy), I have recently broken up with my boyfriend and this particular evening I was finally feeling relaxed and good about mysel... (353 words)

2 questions: 1 on my best friend on her b/f and 1 on my b/f

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so this is kind of two questions in one. to start off with my best friend and her bf have been together for about 4 or 5 months now, and they're getting quite serious. they've not had sex yet but she's been asking me and my other friend to get protection for her. she's only ... (249 words)

Is he cheating?? He texts her 40+ times a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age - I have been married 22 years. As of Feb, I discovered my husband was texting a woman at work up to 40 times a day and more. They text back and forth but they work in the same building. I asked him about it and he said they were just friends. He also told me they have coff... (284 words)

Does she still feel anything for me? Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Ok. I've been very persistent with this girl that I feel I love and I sort of did her wrong a long time ago. But I've held out the hope that she will eventually forgive me and care enough to get with me. I send her letters every now and then. And just try to stress how much I ... (346 words)

Hypothetical question: What happens if the guy wears two condoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i was just wondering what happens if the guy wears two condoms??? i'm not at all planing to have sex im just wondering .. but wouldn't one just slip off or wouldn't they just break due to the fact that they're both rubber and wouldn't the friction just make them break .. ... (68 words)

Any chance for the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with this girl and her boy friend now for at least 8yrs they broke up and 2 month's later were now having sex and spending a lot of time together. I find my self starting to want more but she wants to be single now which i understand but when she say she ... (112 words)

Why would he need time and why does he ignore me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya i met this guy through facebook and we just started off as friends known each other for nearly 2 months. but its been hectic 2 months we tried going out twice and ended up breaking up one reason because my ex 2nd reason because it all got too much as he got a new job and ... (375 words)

We're just still in the friendly zone but he keeps on hinting at things.... so what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

- There's been a lot of misunderstanding between me and this guy I like... and I don't know if I should leave things to him now. Around a month ago, we were close and I just seemed to click with him. He flirted, I flirted back blahblah.. it seemed as if everything was g... (330 words)

How to make him realise what hes lost if he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy I've known for about 4 months, we've been cinema, he came to my party and we kissed and cuddled for ages, and we've bumped into each other at the bus stop sometimes but hardly ever. We get on so well, but all we ever do is speak on-line and text. He never se... (169 words)

Was this a female orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 17 and i masturbate but havent been doing it for long. i get to urge to pee and then my feet start to tingle and i have small contractions around the stomach and every time i touch my clit it is very sensitive after this. by the way i am masturbating through my clit. Is ... (78 words)

Was he thinking of me when he made the move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months. He had already applied for an Australian visa when I met him or so I thought - but actually made the final part of his application during our relationship without telling me. Now his vis approval has come through and he want... (245 words)

I want her, but does she want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im confused.I work at a pretty big supermarket and Ive always stared at someone I work with,problem is shes turning 25 and im not turning 16 till the end of the year.I think there is something there cause she always stares at me and when we talk she goes all nervous,pink and ... (232 words)

Is he using me when he's bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So Heres The Thing... im 15 I liked this guy 4 nearly 8 months lets called him Mr X i had tried to talk to him but was never successful never new what to say so it would just be hows you wot have you been up to on msn sort of thing. I soon realised that i new his best mate... (616 words)

I'm too pissed at my boy friend/best friend. Please just help me out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - its too long but please please help me out!!ill but soo thankful..!! hey its being too ridiculous for me now-a-days.. it goes this way..im 20 yrs n doing my engineering. i have a classmate who never talks with any gal.but since ma 2nd year he started talking to me.we... (244 words)

She's back to the online cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, It's been 11 days since our first anniversary. Last week, my wife had pledged to me that she would halt any communications with her ex completely becuase (1) She made a new profile and page and he found her again and (2) She discovered that even when they were "dating", ... (362 words)

Why did he go to all the trouble to get me back and then flirt right in front of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I took my ex back last week after a year of being apart from him . I took him back because i could see a change in him and i was certain he wasnt the cheater he was, however, last night we went for a meal with some friends and he didnt even sit with me ! Instead him and his ... (138 words)

Being forced to do things on a webcam

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are long distance. he asks me to do things on webcam that i feel uncomfortable doing but i think if i dont then i'll loose him. i still dont do it. but idk what to do. if i had the confidence yeah i would. but i dont and when i dont do it he cuts. any advice ... (68 words)

Did he cheat or was he just incredibly naieve?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I live in separate countries due to work committments, we have no kids. About 6 months ago a woman called my house (in the UK) to ask for my husband. I asked who her she was and she claimed she was having an affair with my husband for 2 years and had recently... (556 words)

I just can't figure out if he likes her or me..or what?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He used to flirt with me last year but not so much this year. I'm not sure if he still likes me cause he still stares. If not staring, frequent glances. But he's quite close with this new girl and he waits for her bus and walks her to her class. He doesn't seem close with ... (255 words)

How do you make friends when you don't fit it?

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11 April 2009 (F)

He says he wants to settle down and marry..but I'm not sure about all of this!

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im really unsure bout something life-changing... A guy i knwo lives in Act, australia and i live in Sydney. we met on the internet bout 7 months ago and still kinda talk whenever he is on. he has always liked me from the start n i just wanted to be friends coz i just recen... (231 words)

Scared of masturbating, but I want to take it to the next level

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 13year old female and i'm scared of masturbating because I think i will hurt myself. I cum easily by watching lesbian porn but I want to take it to the next level, what should I do? ... (38 words)

5 days late ... could I be pregnant?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I kind of had some sexual activity with mu boyfriend. He had protection and he didn't really "go in". I was suppose to get my period 5 days ago and still nothing! is it possible that im pregnant?... (38 words)

Why do we pee after getting off?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I have been pondering this for a little while. I have noticed, that after my guy and I get each other off, we both have to pee. Whether it be the, "I need to piss like a race horse", or the whole, "I feel like I have to go, but I not that bad." What's up?... (57 words)

A chronic cheating spouse

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just checked my husbands phone records and he has been texting this female co worker. Normally i can make sense of his excessive texting to her, but he has been out of town for that last couple weeks, and since he has been gone he has texted her 10 times more times then he h... (131 words)

I need some help with my strange love

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy who i really like but i don't know what to do we don't spend much time together and he don't always text back we have been together for about 3 weeks and i have only seen him face to face 2 times for about 2 hours each time he told me when i met him ... (205 words)

How can I find out if my gf masturbates?

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I am 14 and I masturbate usually once a day or every other day. I have a girlfriend who I am crazy about. And I want to know if she masturbates. How can I find out?... (37 words)

I'm 15 and really pickkyy

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 15 and really pickkyy.i flirt wit guys its no big deal but the minute i find out that they like me in my mind i'm always like (beep beep beep backing up) and i don't know why...i never had a boyfriend i dont want to tell anyone that because they will think somethin... (82 words)

I cant figure him out. Is he a player?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 15 and im a sophmore in hs.. i like this guy in my class i think he likes me too but idk why he acts so weird around me..i dont get him so my only solution is this..please dont say i'm too young cuz i'm sick of that crapp.. this guy in my class always flirts wit me at th... (271 words)

Feeling stuck in a relationship....Is it time to get out?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi - I am a 24 year old female who has been in a relationship with the same man for almost 5 years. He was my first intimate partner and we have been through a lot of ups and downs. We are like best friends, but the relationship lacks serious romance and respect. It takes s... (269 words)

Is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two questions. One is is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple? Cause my ex said I had unconditional twisted. Isn't it where no matter what ur partner does ull always love them and stay with them? Also how can I prevent these trust issues from hurt... (93 words)

Should I continue to do nothing and wait for him? Or has he already moved on?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for 4 months. There was a strong attraction from the beginning. We started talking everyday... and kept in contact constantly 24/7 via text, IM, phone, email. He thought I was the perfect girl for him and I felt the same too. He was the sweetest guy and also... (1390 words)

Do guys behave like this when they want more than friendship or just friendship ?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy flirted with me non verbal... but I did not give in right away. after some days he became my friend. but I would not speak to him. because he too would just look not talk to me. i then eventually backed off. certain days he would brush against me. look at me when I loo... (177 words)

How do you prevent a woman from losing interest in you?

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you keep a woman interested and not get bored of you? Seems like every relationship i've ever had they've lost interest in me. i'm a nice guy, i give them space when they need it so why does this happen? I just need some advice on the matter because i'm scared that ... (63 words)

Abusive bf? Or too loving?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...so ill start off saying im 17 and my bf is 20. so I'm not sure what this is considered...but ive been dating this guy for 10months off and on. and i know im not the peachiest person...but ok maybe last night i had this coming. we broke up(again) and i ripped his shir... (292 words)

Question on G-spot and fingering

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay my boyfriend is kinda self-conscious about his eh, performance when he fingers me. and he does very good but he never hits my G-Spot and has never expressed an interest to do so. But i really want him to because when i finger myself if feels really really good when i h... (75 words)

I am pregnant by my FWB, and my lovely ex-husband is now cancer free. What to do?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend-with-benefits is seventeen years my senior and we each have kids from our previous marriages. He has four and I have one. After having known each other for three months, I found out I was pregnant a month ago. I know that sounds as if I'm a whore because I got ... (197 words)

I feel I'm just a splat of paint in a white house. Everybody else is gorgeous but me!

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OMG, im soo insecure...i hate my self im soo depressed and it sucks!! yeh i have alot of friends, but the thing is, all of my guy friends are so much better looking than me...they're ruggedly handsome, heck they're freaking gorgeous!! why do i even try??? and i fee... (111 words)

Should I tell him what I like? Or will that make me weird and slutty?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is kind of a weird question, but here goes. I'm about to have sex with my guy for the first time. I'm a virgin, but I've masturbated before, and I know exactly how to make myself have an orgasm. I want my first time to be pleasurable, like I don't just want to lay ... (204 words)

Can love happen quickly?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So im just asking if i'm crazy. But i thinki found the perfect guy!!! he's silly, goofy, great with kids, has absolute loads of patience and when i'm around him i smile because i fancy him so. :) even my mother notices a different look in my eyes when he's around. all the ... (147 words)

I broke things off but I'd like to see her again now

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About three months ago I ended things with a girl I was involved with. It wasn't a relationship and we were just getting to know each other. Unfortunately, I had a lot of pressure on me from school so I didn't get to know her as well as I would have liked to. Realizing I ... (149 words)

Is he just not ready for a relationship but has lingering feelings?

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my bf, a month ago... He broke it up with me as I was not prepared to end it at all. The break up was hard and still is hard on me. He told me that he felt he was not really ready for a realationship at the moment and that he although about to turn 4... (353 words)

I just don't want this to be a FWB kind of thing!

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11 April 2009 (F)

Will he chose her over me because she is closer?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really good friends with this guy but it is long distance. I know he really likes me but he also likes this girl who lives by him. I really feel like I am supposed to be in his life for some reason and want to have a relationship with him. I am just afraid he is going to ... (148 words)

Being in love versus having a crush!

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I have someone tell me the difference between being in love and having a crush?... (16 words)

Am I being silly? Is he leading me on?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started a new job about 6 months ago, which is when I noticed a guy that caught my eye. I'm very fussy so was surprised that I actually liked him. I then found out that he had a girl friend. But having spoke to several others who I work with, he isn't in a happy relation... (349 words)

My fiance may be in love with a 16 year old?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Back in Nov. My fiance and I had some issues. We play an online game. The game is mostly populated by young teens. Well he started to spend alot of time in game with a girl who I found out was 15. He was spending so much time with her that he was beginning to ignore me and our ... (877 words)

I get pushed out of the picture so she can be with her girlfriends

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11 April 2009 (M)

- I'm so freaking sick of my girlfriend pushing me off to do something else with her friend. What makes it lousy is her "friend" isn't much of one and uses her constantly. My girlfriend even knows that herself. Yet she still crawls up her butt everytime. I havent seen her in ... (208 words)

Should I get the mole removed?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy!! This question has nothing to do with sex/relationships/love, but I'm sure someone could help me! I have a mole on my face and it's really obvious. I'm 14 and for my birthday next month my parents are letting me get it removed if I want. However, I don't know w... (120 words)

Virginity, boys, love, lust and lost!

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I feel like I can't get someone. People say I'm pretty but I'm not and I know and they know. I don't know what to do because I feel like burying my head. I'm still a virgin at 17 and my ex already lost his. I feel like it's a competition but he's gotten over me soo ... (83 words)

He's going away to school..we're breaking up and I hurt so much!

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years. two days ago, he recieved a letter of acceptance for an english teaching course is barcelona which he applied for almost a year ago, thinking he would not get it anyway. he will be gone atleast a year, and as i am still ... (128 words)

He left me and went back to his ex

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 3yearsi paid for his car and help him financially and his exgirlfriend call and said she want him back n he went back to her. she doesnt even know about me. but i still love him n cant get over him what should i do. he was my first ... (78 words)

Can't sleep thinking of my ex's!

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I can't seem to sleep tonight, and for some reason I keep thinking about my ex girlfriends. I keep thinking about my latest ex. She was potentially the worst girlfriend I've ever had, but a part of me still seems to be dwelling on the fact that it didn't work out. She br... (423 words)

I look better in pictures! What if he doesn't like me?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - met someone online. weve talked way too much and i like the sound of him, but im worried about meeting in real life. what if i dont like him. and more importantly, what if he doesnt like me? i look much better in pictures lol. what should i do?... (50 words)

Is being in love a good thing?

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is it a good thing to be in love? and i know there is going to be different answers but i wanna hear all your opinions on this.... (28 words)

In love..but he's 300 miles away!

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and i am in love. No doubt about it, no1 can say im not coz i am. He loves me too, He is the sweetest guy ever to me, does aot for me, he tries to boost my confidence, and its really workin he has such a positive effect on me, BUT theres a catch he lives like ... (94 words)

Hormones hijacking my life

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me! i feel like my hormones are hyjacking my life! to start off, i'm a late bloomer. i had friends who wanted it in 5th grade, but i had my first sexual urges only a few monthes ago (i'm 17). they're very distracting! i was playing badmiton in gym, and thi... (181 words)

We are having bad communication problems and I want to work things out

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a relationship for 4 years and i love this person very much and we have been through so many ups and downs. I was sick for almost a year he has been battling a drug problem which is a very big issue and i know that. my problem is we have huge communic... (266 words)

Problems with sex, could I get some advice?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend of 5 months decided to have sex. we were both virgin and i am on the pill so we didn't use a condom. we had a couple problems the first time. first he wasnt getting hard enough, does he have a problem? once he got a bit harder he couldnt get it in me. it ... (115 words)

How do I move on from my 1st love, my best friend?

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11 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long but i think i need to tell every aspect for you to really understand. My ex boyfriend and I were together for nearly seven months, we fought a hell of a lot but there were the good times and the good times were perfect. As with every new relationship, we were ... (761 words)

2 girls--I like them both but if I go into a relationship with one, will I lose the other?

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11 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There are 2 girls i really like one lives local and one lives 200 miles away. The one who lives 200 miles away i get on with so well and were both really good friends but I'm also really good friends with the girl who lives local now i don't want to seem like I'm playing them ... (95 words)