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writes:my now ex boyfriend violated parole months ago. he doesn't live with me, btw i live in bronx new york. officers keep coming here, they just left a few minutes ago. its now 600 am, they got here at 445 am. i have repeatedly told them the same information i know, but they keep insisting i know where he is. they have threatened to take away my aunts s.s.d., i live with her. can they legally take my aunts s.s.d.? is there anything i can do to make them stop harassing us?[SSD: Social Security Disability]
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): thanks cat for your help- i didnt realize how many options i had.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 Have you tried contacting a legal aid organization? Call these lines, and ask if they can help you, or if they can't, perhaps they can give you a number to call that can help you with your aunt's SSD issue:Civil Practice * Bronx Neighborhood Office. 953 Southern Blvd, Bronx, NY 10459. Tel.: (718) 991-4600 * Bronx Housing Court Office. 1118 Grand Concourse (at 166th Street), Bronx, NY 10451. Tel.: (718) 681-8712According to their website, this office also have an advocacy program on Disability Benefit. http://www.legal-aid.org/en/ineedhelp/civilproblem/disabilityadvocacy.aspxAs for the police harassing you, it would appear that it would be a bit more difficult to address, other than you filing a complaint against these harassment yourself. Women are often easy targets for intimidation. Seeing two pillows alone should not be an indication of your ex having been there. However, the only "fault" you had was "guilty by association" since they knew that you were his girlfriend [though, as you said, he is now an ex]. The only thing you can do, I suppose, is to continue to cooperate with the police. But, hopefully, after you filed your complaint, the harassment will stop. Good luck, and I hope all goes well with your aunt.Cat
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): also, i do let them in, i have cooperated, and when he initially violated i was the one who reported it to his parole officer. but tonight they told me because i have two pillows on my bed that im probably holding back on them.
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