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I'm 17 and I'm a sex addict

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Question - (13 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *he vampire lestat writes:

ok im gana get down to the question i love having sex i just do its a part of me but am i over doing it i mean i wana have sex 24/7 im an addict i need a woman's oppinion how do i stop cuz i wana have sex 24/7 with my fiance all the time and im only 17 yes i have a fiance @17 so what lol anyways i need help how do i control it ?

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A male reader, the vampire lestat United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

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the vampire lestat agony auntwell she's not unhappy she loves having sex with me but i think i just think i wana have sex all the time so ill just wait a week or two then have sex 3-4 times that same day yea that'll work

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A female reader, jaime90 Australia +, writes (13 April 2009):

jaime90 agony auntjust think, you want to spend the rest of your life with her, you dont want to burn out by 18 and be over making love to her. Making love is a special thing and i think lots of people take it for granted. Plus i think its better when u wait maybe a week then have one explosive night u crave it so much and it makes it so good rather then doing it everyday it isnt special anymore

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (13 April 2009):

jessica04 agony auntIs she unhappy with the 24/7 sex?

Honestly, I've been there and done that. Had a fiance in HS, we had sex all the time, got married, and now divorced....

But on to a lighter subject. You aren't an addict, you're just 17. You have raging hormones and a girl by your side willing to fulfill those needs any time you want. And she probably wants to have sex just as much.

just know when it's appropriate and when it's not. You don't need to be having sex every day to make your relationship work. Assuming you both live at home still, you're probably just having as much sex as you can when you can get it. there's nothing wrong with that, but try to define your relationship on other personal levels.

If you think you're an addict, then make day dates in public places where you can't have sex. Go to the mall, go to the park, do volunteer work at an animal shelter together. These things will help bring you closer together on a more personal level, not just physical.

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (13 April 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt you need to try theropy bro....

do it, it'll help and it'll benefit you and your fiance's life together

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