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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do next to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) age 26-29 - hey I am 13. Well, u see i have this girlfriend and i've kissed her, held her hand, ect. I was wondering what i should do next without seeming like a pervert. I really love her and don't want to lose her. She has touched a place in my heart I didn't know existed............ (59 words)

Should I stay quiet as he does his own thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont understand, should i shut my mouthand stop talking about him going out and ido think he is talking to other girls. last month i been talking about it and hes tired of hearing it. are there guys that do there own thing and say anything to there women? he says hes not ... (62 words)

I'm a disaster when it comes to relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I need some help to figure out my feelings. I'm a disaster when it comes to relationships. I like some guy and then I always end up dating him seriously without really falling in love with him...So, yeah, my relationships have all been doomed since the beggining. ... (407 words)

How can I make him really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heyy .. im gunna make this short because i feel stupid asking random people i dont know for help! I must be desperate! :P Well i like this boy, iv been out with him before but with a few mates too but he phones me everyday when he can in work and texts. I know theres no w... (157 words)

I'm in love with my ex but I need to move on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I‘m 14, the problem is there’s this boy and I’m completely in love with him. He is everything I want and have wanted for so long, we have been with each other about four times now and the last time ended about a month ago. We're always together for a long time, the first ... (308 words)

Last chance for my marriage if I don't learn to control my emotional blow-ups!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice at controlling my emotional blow ups, it is tearing my family apart. My husband wont deal with me bc i am so emotional and i don't know how to control it. Today i flipped out on him for no real reason. I just freaked! For the most part i am happy in my rela... (107 words)

Am I immature and difficult or just another common misunderstanding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Well, my boyfriend and I are filling in applications for college, and since he's been putting off doing his personal statement for a few weeks now, I offered to do it for him... I looked up some things that might be important to mention and asked him about the things I needed ... (168 words)

I want to thank you all for helping me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was on here several times in the past not knowing what to do or how to break away from a husband that was so mentally abusive to me that I can now look back and easily say I was being tourchered and the life was being drained from me on a daily basis. I had to quit my job, ... (240 words)

Has anyone ever gotten over a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I find that I learn best by example. I've was married at a young age and divorced quickly. I then fell in love again with my best friend, but while we were dating he secretly he got engaged to someone else. Finally, I found a true, blue love (so I thought!) He ended up havi... (142 words)

My husband takes it out on me and contradicts himself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a little help, my husband is the one who works in our relationship and I'm a housewife, but he's always throwing up the fact he's the only one who works, and every time I say that he's throwing it in my face or mention getting a job he loses his cool. He says that I ... (105 words)

Does is feel it or does he not know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I posted a question a few days ago and everyone who responded was sooo sweet. So I want to ask something else about the same guy...like I said we have been friends for about 3 months...we decided not to date but that we wanted to have sex, so the other day he came over to do ... (182 words)

Self conscious and wondering about the boy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m a 17 year old girl in secondary school. I have never had a boyfriend in my life and i kinda get upset about it so i,m very self concious. But now I really like a guy who is two years below me. He,s 15 he,s really sweet and friendly.Recently we went on a school trip for a ... (121 words)

A book about lesbians, but I am clueless

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a writer and I want to write a book about lesbians, but I'm not one, so I need a little help. What are they like? What do they do? Are they anything like we see in movies? Help, please. ... (40 words)

He has hurt me once and now I feel like I want to hurt him too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend cheated on me last year, and looking back over things i feel as though i have been the biggest fool. At the time of finding out i was devastated and just could not imagine living without him, so i ran after him and talked him into staying (i know ...) I ... (392 words)

I'm uncomfortable talking dirty to my attractive friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ahh please help. Im 16 and my friend is turning 17 in a few months, hes really attractive and says he thinks i am too. We talk alot and i really like him, but lately he was messing around online and talked dirty to me and then asked me too, just to make him happy i did and ... (133 words)

Reminded of the other guy when I'm with a new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so i have a boyfriend we hav been going out for about 4weeks we've hugged and held hands but not kissed, when I started going out with him I really liked him and I still do but there's a complication. Last week I was at the park with 2 mates and I heard someone say my n... (170 words)

My partner raped me when I was pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 21 yrs old and uptill a few months ago had blocked out being raped twice by my partner while i was pregnant, to be honest throughout the pregnancy i was num so didnt really know how to eel but now i'm getting stronger and my confidence is comming back i cant forget nor ... (226 words)

Are all these obvious signs a sign that he really likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i really love this boy he lives next door to me. i have already been out with him seceretly and we both loved it but i had to tell people now hes upset and dosent really want to do it again. but he says he might, he allways teases me and he allways says we are really good mates ... (168 words)

He loves me. He loves me not...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, i was wondering if anyone could help me with some advice. please when you give me advice not to be unhurtful or unhelpful? ok........ (im 14 btw i just lie about my age on my profie) welll i went out with my boyfriend then he dumped me he says he doesnt... (199 words)

Does this teacher fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i am in love with this teacher at school,and you are probably all thinking its just a crush,no it isnt i have had crushes on teachers before and got over them in about a week.Im confused if he likes me back.He constantly stares at me and we are always looking in each others ... (102 words)

Traumatized that my girl had sex with another guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm cutting this really short. Basically my girlfriend got very drunk and let a guy have sex with her. She didn't say no but she wasn't exactly saying yes and the cops say it isn't rape. I can't stop playing what happened through my head constantly. It upsets me very much and... (111 words)

I get majorly sore from sex

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have a great sex life, and honestly, we both like it a little rough. Nothing like whipping or biting or the like. Just HARD. Sometimes after a good romp, he will want to go again later in the day or the next day. In most cases I find mys... (170 words)

My man fancies someone on the big screen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I be concerned that my partner fancies a woman in a film? As in, gets hard over her and finds her asthetically pleasing? I worry he won't find me attractive anymore, and will think of her when we have sex... We've been together three years and are engaged to be marr... (68 words)

Am I expecting too much or is he giving too little?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy awhile ago. Very early on, he talked about wanting to be in an exclusive relationship, if that's what I wanted. I told him I wanted us to date first so that we didn't skip all the good parts. However, a week after we met we immediately had to take a geographic ... (408 words)

Will my family be displeased about spending mother's day separately?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day, My husband and I have been married for two years and this is our second mothers day togther. Our son is 14 months. Recently we've had some problems which resulted in us seperating for 4 days. Things are ok now. My question is: I am close to my family but we also li... (135 words)

Does my husband have anger issues?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i actualy have two questions, me and my husband love eachother very much i have no doubt of that but my 1st question is he has an anger problem not physicas but he gets so angry so easily and blows up at me, before him i was in a very abusive relationship so im scared a... (144 words)

Still bleeding after smear test!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii im 20 today i had my smear test. i was really worried about it. i'm still bleeding down there is that normal? i am starting to worry about it. someone please help and give me advice i am really worried. Thanks :)... (50 words)

Have other women ever fancied a gay man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hello.I have recently made friends with a gay man,and I feel like i have a crush on him !.he looks alot like the actor,Tom Felton,from the Harry Potter films ,who i also have a crush on.He could be his identical twin !!. I know it's probably not worth mentioning this ... (121 words)

Advice on barrier method birth control

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am interested in advice concerning barrier method birth control, namely the sponge or diaphragm. Are they uncomfortable? Do they interfere with enjoyment of sex? Are they difficult to use? If anyone is using them, I would appreciate whatever comments you have on these ... (147 words)

Can a 10th grade boy like a 7th grade girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - can a 10th grade boy like a 7th grade girl?he is very hot.i never see him with girls,i just saw him once or twice with 2 of his girl mates,they were just talking.whenever we meet on the hallways of my school he looks deeply in my eyes and stares into them for a few seconds.he ... (299 words)

I just want this horrible pain gone and my friend back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends hates me! It started yesterday, after we had athletics, and he was taking the mickey out of my running. I got really annoyed so I lightly kicked him. He was laughing at the time, but I was still really annoyed. Then, after lunch, one of his friends ... (264 words)

Love is still not happening for me! Is my personality not that attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - it really annoys me that who i am is holding me back in life! i really just want to find someone to enjoy life with. I am a bit overweight, and have already lost just over a stone. and i will continue to loose weight... but love is still not happening for me! i think my... (121 words)

I have stomach pains and dark blood, after my b/f fingered me as I was just coming off my period, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i wonder if you can help meee.. im 16 and my boyfriend is 17. yesterday he fingered me, and i was just coming off my period. there was some blood (ewww) and today ive been getting shooting pains in my stomach and dark blood, but im not sure if its just because im coming off ... (73 words)

Friendship of many years is starting to cross the line - but he's married! Is this worth it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently seperated from my husband of 20 years. I have confided in lots of friends through this seperation for support and comfort. One of those friends happens to be male. He is married and I am also friendly with his wife, although I've known him for nearly 18 years ... (284 words)

Please help me and tell me: am I in love, stupid or confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in love, stupid or confused? 2 years ago i joined my firm, and we have a very beatifull secretary who i got attracted to the first day i saw her. Then i thought it was a typical reaction so i figured i will get over it. It has been two years and my feeliing towards... (175 words)

Is he an idiot? Or messing about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, So my friend made me talk to this guy who lives about 6 hours away. Hes becoming a teacher jsut like me. We have been talking online this whole week. Hes def cool, i think he's a typical guy: zombies, aliens, video games, fighting, and super heroes (and hes ... (257 words)

Has anyone dealt with Relate in the UK?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age - Has anybody had experience with Relate marriage guidence {England}dealing with relationship problems.Are they heplful? ... (16 words)

Muslim girl confused about giving oral sex.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've known my boyfriend for 4years now, recently been going out, we've been together for a year and a half. recently he asked me for oral sex, which i did promise him but only because i was going away on holiday and i didnt want him to cheat. now that he has asked for it, i ... (112 words)

My mum is not helping my anxiety disorders.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, i have an odd problem with my mum which i hope to get some advice on. Over the years i have had to deal with alot of anxiety issues and panic attacks. For a while i became almost recluse and all my mum did was nag and told me to get over it and be more independant ... (253 words)

My ex is still nice to me. What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex has me as one of his top friends on myspace he usually compliments on my pics but in one of the compliments he said I looked very sexy and we still talk over the phone...my question is what are his intentions and what he really meant about the compliment...confused!... (51 words)

Most women want what they can't have, is that true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 28 Y.O man and I've noticed ( and a lot of men notice it too) when I'm in a relationship, some women wanna come and talk to you, even flirt, I see their eyes and they're stripping me naked. When I'm single, I have a hard time for them to notice me, some roll their ... (87 words)

I'm a man and I get really wet. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Before I start, apologies if this question has already been asked, but I couldn't find it. I've recently turned 20 and I'm not a very sexually active person. I've only ever had sex once, when I was a lot younger, so I didn't really think about this. I've been pleasured ... (197 words)

He likes me on top...but how do I get him to do me in other positions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - During sex, my boyfriend seems to like it when I'm on top when we have sex. But I'd like to try other positions too, and I want him to shag my brains out. I don't feel like doing all the work. How can I get him to do me in other positions as well?... (54 words)

He is addicted to drugs but I still fancy him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have posted a similar question asking for advice but this is what has been happening lately. Please feel free to read and tell me what your honest advice is because I am stuck and soon I don’t know what to do. Thank you. How can I make the one I really f... (511 words)

Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how does it work? does it then mean ... (91 words)

No model but not that bad looking either....where am I going wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, as I don't know where I am going wrong. I am 24 (Female) and I can't ever seem to get a boyfriend, I work with a mix of males and females, mostly males, and a lot of them comment on my looks, but no one ever asks me out. Anyway, there is a guy who I h... (331 words)

Pregnancy test came back negative but still showing some symptoms!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im really confused. in march i saw my period on the 3rd but had unprotecetd sex on the 13th for the first time in my life and on the 15th. my period came in on the 2nd of april immediately after i took the urine pregnancy test which came out negative. later that day 2nd of ... (106 words)

I like my son's former teacher! Should I ask this guy out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am getting divorced and young! 42 actually, free and single. I have for the last six months liked my son's form teacher who is 44. I have chatted to him and on quite a few occasions talked to him about personal, his extended family , his life outside school (which I am 99% ... (183 words)

Unusual armpit fetish!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - About 9 months ago when I woke up in the morning my face was buried in my wifes armpit.I loved it since then I do it everyday.why do I do it or is this normal... (35 words)

Not giving up the "goods" too soon - does this still apply in mid-life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age - This may seem like a strange question, but, curiosity has the best of me. Studies have shown that at certain points in our life, sexual desires are higher than others for both men and women. However, studies have also shown that men appear to want sex no matter what age and ... (165 words)

Struggling financially with hospital bills and now my wife is going to Las Vegas without me!

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Do not Understand whats behind the Las Vegas Trip My wife and I have been marrid 10 years and have always worked together as a team. With children we agreed to go down to 1 income so she could stay at home. . . now being on 1 income money is tight. At the start of this... (654 words)

Please help me undertand this boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, ok well i really like this lad at my school. its a long story but cut short, i used to fancy him and asked him out but he said no because he wasnt ready so i left it and decided just to be friends and now we have come back from our easter break and he seems really keen? ... (338 words)

She said she feels trapped..and now I'm worried about her making poor decisions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Alright so I've been with my girlfriend for a year now. We live together and love each other. I have a 11 month old son and she doesn't have any kids. The problem is that I get him twice a week. Once during the week and once during the weekend. The one day during the weekend ... (331 words)

He said he was "flat out"..why are guys so confusing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I liked this guy not long ago and i finally told him, i couldnt believe how rude he was with the response " im flat out" its not like i said i wanna be with you. I just said you might know this already or you might not but im gonna tell u I like you. He did seem suprised and ... (124 words)

Is he hiding me for the reasons he says or is there something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (?) age 36-40 - i met a man at work whom was married, despite my beliefs we began to hang out after work with other people and it was instant attraction. this went on for about a month talking, nothing physical.one night we went to a friends house after work and were alone for the first time. ... (320 words)

I'm worried about what others think and I don't have strong feelings for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Around 2 months ago i got in touch with an old friend from university. When we were younger i knew that he had a massive crush on me, but i never felt the same way about him so we stayed friends. At first we would just text message each other, then we had long conversa... (339 words)

He's just talking the "tall talk" isn't he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I do not get this situation someone give me some advice its driving me mad! I was with my boyfriend two years on/off we broke up mainly cos he cant give me the commitment dont live in the same town he put his mates first is selfish and he dont consider my feelings at all! I was ... (330 words)

He says he loves only himself??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend we are very close if there is a problem he would call me. i started haveing feelings for him but i did not tell him for a while after a period of time i could not take it any more so i told him, he then informed me that he has feelings for me as well but cant ... (142 words)

Funk on the chunk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm supposed to go down on my boyfriend tonight and I don't want to. The first and only time I did it, I decided it should be the last. I've had other boyfriends and had no problem doing it, actually I liked it. But my boyfriend is uncut and there is a FOUL odor even after he ... (139 words)

Does he really love me or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 32yr old out gay male, I am married that happened before I could admit that I was gay, she knows we are together for the kids, my problem is that I have fallen in love with this guy i work with he is 18 and straight. He knows how I feel and the other night he invited me ... (165 words)

We watched sister & boyfriend having sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - last week my girlfriend and i returned home after a night of heavy drinking to walk in on my sister and her husband having sex in the living room ( i live with my sister). because of the awkwardness my girlfriend made a little joke about joining in, they didnt seem phase... (202 words)

Falling for my friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm falling for my friend but do not know how he feels about me. I dreamt about him last night, it seemed so vivid, should I tell him about my dream or would that be too forward? Also should I tell him how I feel about him, how would guys in that situation respond? (I ... (70 words)

"Boys don't work like that!!!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time snuggling and we haven't seen each other for the last week so I asked him if he was missing our cuddles and he said boys don't work like that. Is that right or am I overthinking things and being worried for no reason?... (53 words)

Is he protecting his wallet in fear she will take all he has or does he not want her to find out about us again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here it goes: I met a man with whom I worked with. We both started having feelings for each other. He was married. We went to a friend's house one nite after work and kissed... that's it. He goes home that night and tells his wife that he's having feelings for me. They ... (169 words)

Relationship truth opens up world of upset.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This problem is so hard for me right now, but it doesn't just effect myself. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years, engadged for 1.25 years and love her so very much. It is a long distance relationship that goes from UK to the US so we dont get to see each other much. ... (1054 words)

Alone too long...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a middle aged man who has let his sexual life become none existent. It has been ten years since I even considered getting close to someone. How long is too long without any personal physical contact or a relationship?... (43 words)

How do I handle this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy... we lived in same apartment... first... he acted very very nice to me...i have never been treated that nice before... we became friends... he talked to me everyday... it was fun. but things went out of control... he started making me doing stuffs with him... at ... (217 words)

How does one classify romance/lust verses friends with benefits verses the friend zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello! I wonder if someone would kindly tell me once and for all whether there are two distinct states of relationship i.e. romance/lust vs the friend zone and can one move from one into the other and vice versa. A hybrid version of this is of coure the 'friends with benefits... (318 words)

Concerned about partner's nephew's feelings towards me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here's the thing a couple of days ago I spoke about my concerns over my partners nephew, well I have noticed that in the last 3 months he has visited our town 7 times when ordinarilly he normally visit once every so many years. I do try to avoid situations where I will be ... (579 words)

Met a guy online, he said he was 21 but he's really 17!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 19 and from the UK, and i met this guy from Canada on a game. to play the game you have to be 18 and he said he was 21. we've spent every night tongether for the past 4 month talking for a minimum of 5 hours per night and over this time we've both fell in love with each ... (172 words)

In love with my boyfriend but so lonely in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend almost a year ago. We worked at he same company but not necessarily on the same "team" or "job". We never crossed paths until a group of co-workers all went out to a new bar opening and we finally met. I am 32. He is 52. He was married at the time we met ... (562 words)

Weight! should I drop it or him?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid; I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and lately our relationship is very rocky. We just recently got the internet, and since then, our communication has virtually come to a hault. I work at night and he works during the day so we already very rar... (190 words)

He wants me to "worship" him! What does this mean???

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24 April 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My Boyfreind wants me to worship him and i realy want to but i dont know what to do or say when doing it. Like he wants me to worship is dick but how. When i worship is dick what do i do. What kind of things should i say to him and should i tease him or just get him right off. ... (79 words)

Is he really bi-sexual? or just confused?

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24 April 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi my question is can i young teenage guy THINK he is bisexual but really is confused? i no teens tend to "experiment" with these kinds of things so is it possible he will..grow out of it? (for want of a better term)... (43 words)

Should I leave my abusive and demanding man? He says he'll leave me as soon as the sex stops anyway.

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - "I have been living with a man that I am very much in love with for almost 4 years now. We are both nurses and he is 52 and I am 39. I have had some problems with drug addiction but have gotten help and continue to go to meetings and have a sponsor. I have been clean for almo... (744 words)

What's the nicest way to turn someone down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been getting to know this guy for a month or so now, I really like him, and I know he likes me back. But last night my best friend told me how one of friends (who we have hung out with recently) fancies me. I don't like him, only as a friend, but heres the problem. No ... (102 words)

Can't let go of my married man because he's good in bed.

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 and i am seeing an 21 year old guy who i really like and care for but the problem is he is married i tried leaving him before but always go back to him i dont expect him to leave her and im happy with him am i doing the wrong thing he also is beng the only guy i have ... (77 words)

Is it wrong or what? I'm 20 and she's 14 but it's online only.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, long story short. I'm 20 and met a girl online 3 months ago. She told me she was 16 and we got along great! We laughed with each other, flirted, you know, things like that. Eventually I developed feelings for her. I couldn't help it because she was so sweet and flirtatious ... (198 words)

How can I come faster the second time?

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Sometimes I cum very fast. I do not know why, but after that it takes me a long time to be ready for a second orgasm. Why does this happen and does any one have any suggestions on how I can speed up? [re written by moderator.]... (49 words)

How can I hide a relationship from my parents?

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - how can i hide a relationship from my parents?... (9 words)

I feel so betrayed that he watches porn instead of having sex with me!

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend told me since he's been with me he hardly ever watches porn. i was fine with it at first, but now it really eats me up. when i look on the computer and find out he's been looking at it, i fell like i'm not enough, i mean i do everything that a pornstar would, he ... (154 words)

He wants to use her for sex. Am I right?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend has been seeing this guy for a couple of months. He wont call her his girl because he says that they should just be with each other for now. He cant even say they are exclusive because he is "not ready for that yet" and he hates making promises he cant keep. ... (233 words)

If you have almost dried semen on your fingers and you touch a girl... ?

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My question is this, if you have semen on your fingers..(but its pretty much dry) and then finger a girl can she get pregnant? I didnt put my fingers inside her at all though, just touched the outside. any help would be great thanks... (49 words)

The thought of sex really worries me now because I was scared to say no to my former boyfriends! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i am not a virgin. I lost my viginity at 13 (young i know). I have had sexual partners and i felt alot of pressure when it came to sex. My first sexual partner wasn't my B/F he was just a friend. We was going to have sex but i said no and he got realy annoyed an... (254 words)

Is this how it is at the nude beach???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

24 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm just your average guy and i am lucky enough to have an awesomely hot girlfriend. She is 23, a bit younger than me and we have been together for 18 months. Just recently we decided to go to the nude beach together. It was really beautiful and it was the first time we ... (238 words)

In need of help with a friends with benefits situation!

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been in an FWB relationship with a guy for four months. we first dated but then he deicded he didn't want a real relationship, so i agreed on friends with benefits so i could keep him around. every time we're together, we spend the night at each other's place. we get t... (187 words)

I like him, he doesn't like me, but can I get him anyway?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy that i've had feelings for for about a year. in a nut shell this is our history: meet at party, and flirt alot. i develope feelings. he tells a friend of mine (without him knowing we were friends) that he has feelings for me. i confess feelings, he say... (358 words)

Wishful thinking or the Real thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

24 April 2009 (F)

age - Is it possible to feel a connection to someone you have never met but have conversed with via e-mail, IM and phone for the past 6 months? Has anyone had this happen before? Also, what are the chances upon an initial meeting that there will be no chemistry whatsoever even though ... (88 words)

I think my boyfriend has a phobia with going down on women!

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend has a phobia with going down on women. he has tried a few times but has never went down on any woman and he is 30 years old. i have questioned him about this and he says he doesn't know why he can't do it and says his problem doesn't have anything to do ... (75 words)

I discovered he lied and used me, I'm afraid he will leave me alone with our child, any advice?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating a 25 year old guy. He was really sweet. We spent almost every day with each other. I even introduced him to my son. He explained to me that his ex girlfriend had robbed him and denied him the right to see his child. I saw that it still bothered him but I didnt ... (396 words)

What can I tell or write to my ex wife's parents to make things less awkward after the separation?

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question I would like to hear any feedback on. I am currently separated and not in love with the mother of my kids. I can get into details but I will just say that I am not willing to go on pretending that I want to be with this woman. Although I have thought ... (365 words)

Did I do something wrong by sending him this email?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There´s a guy I´ve been having an email friendship for a long time. We are long distance and he is in the military. We are friends and like to exchange jokes, thoughts, and check on each other pretty often. I send him an email b/c I regularly visit the base he was making a ... (143 words)

I like a boy at my school, but I'm sure my parents will not approve

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay... Here's my isue: there is this guy in my some of my classe that is attracted to me.... He's black but he is really nice be smart.... I'm not sure if I like him but one of my friends who sits at my lunch table told be that he like me buy idk if I can beleive her cause she ... (135 words)

Is he bi or straight?

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - there is this guy,he is a gym freak,very concerned about his body, but at the same time he always looks at videos of Arnold flexing and other stars who r well built. He gave me some strange looks, given me some hugs, pinched my butt twice. He was so close to me. He has shown ... (115 words)

We like each other and I want to tell her how I really feel about her. Any advice?

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My name is Chris and there is this girl i like. i dont think i've ever felt this way about any other girl before. We've know each other for about a year and we're really good friends and i'm ready to become more than friends. But i sometimes get the feeling that she doesn't ... (154 words)

Fight for his heart of move on?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One year ago I went on a date with a guy and we ALMOST slept together the first time we met, but didn't went all the way... he asked me out like once in a week for 2 months but things came between so we never met. Then he started acting cold and I found out later he had ... (763 words)

I'm young, inexperienced and wish to be more gentle sexually

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - umm hi im 13 (young i think). i have a 3 1/2 penis and i think its short for my gf. my gf says she wants it to be pleasurable for the first time but i dont wanna hurt her. will there be anyway to be more gentle? im also afraid that i cant last for very long time will that u... (68 words)

I cannot build the courage to give her my all

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - This is tough without a little history. I met this girl as a friend while online. We talked a few times and I discovered she was from England. I've known her since 2005 and after a couple years talking we starting texting.... taking it slow. On valentines day she called me in ... (320 words)

Please help! I am getting bullied by this mean Asian girl!

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I get bullied at school by this very mean Asian girl. Her name is Amen and she is so mean she calls me a fag, stupid, retarded, but mosty she calls me ugly and I don't know what do to =[ What should I do?... (47 words)

The cheating distance factor...

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lives in Illinois, and I live in California. We've been dating for a while now, without seeing each other, once. So it's officially long distance, without meeting in person :( And recently I found out he was cheating on me. I love him so much, but I really don't ... (117 words)

All the signs says yes, but I could be wrong

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He talked to me first on Myspace and we did that the whole week of spring break. We've been flirting at school like nonstop when we see each other. If we pass and see each other in the hall, we'll keep looking at each other and he tries to kick me. He jokes around and says I ... (174 words)

Could I be pregnant?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok So Here It Goes My Boyfriend Finger Me So I Returned The Favor and he wiped his thing off then he fingerd me could i be pregnant i never slept last night thinking about it im sick to my stomach please help me im flipping out... (47 words)

Is he trying to play mind games with me?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago and is currently in a class teaching much to my surprise, he put himself there because he knew from the school list I was in that class. He is always looking at me and sometimes he says hi. But the other day he signaled to talk to ... (224 words)

I have the worst luck with men

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have the worst luck with men. All my relationships that mattered has been when I don't look and all of a sudden it comes. I get swept off my feet, fall head over heals for the man, never expecting anything from it all in the beginning. It's hard for me to become convinced ... (303 words)

He's financially stressed out and I have higher expectations

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just started dating a guy that I've known for about 5 years. I've been mates with his older brother and a family friend for approx 10 years. I'm 2 years older than him, and although I initially had an issue with this I've allowed him to take the lead. However things a... (292 words)

With all these questions, are they signs that he's cheating on me?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 8 years have asked me following questions recently( in last month or so not all of them at the same time but in b/w conversations) which have no connection with me personally: 1. What is an IUD 2. why do women douche 3. what causes yeast infections I was... (132 words)

Her parents are very protective and get in the way of our relationship

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24 April 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am fifteen and so is my girlfriend, we are both about to turn 16 in a few months, and we have been dating for a few weeks. the problem is that her parents are very protective: ie. we went to a movie and her dad had to stay in the theater, and we were going to a resturaunt ... (92 words)

Why would an ex tell me about his new life?

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24 April 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone else feel like their life sucks after looking at friend's facebook? I received an email from an ex that I hadn't talked to in years. He went on to tell me that he was engaged to a girl that I had met when we were dating (she was a friend of some mutual friend's of ... (134 words)

Big argument prior to moving in together

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24 April 2009 (M)

- Hi, please see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-might-have-to-move-away-with-his.html for more info. Basically, my boyfriend has asked me to move in with him. But... I said yes to moving in with him, I want to and have prepared all my clothes etc (bigger thin... (207 words)