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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Invited to ex's wedding but I don't think I can handle going

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my ex-girlfriend recently got engaged. We dated roughly 6 years ago, and for some reason this recent news I find ver upsetting. A little history: When we met she was studying english in Canada. She was my first and only serious relationship I have... (299 words)

Part of me wonders if he is hoping for a reconciliation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's ex fiance was a photographer. They broke up over two years ago, after being together for seven years. Now, we have only been together a few months, but I gradually came to the realization that he still has some of her pieces hanging in his apartment, and even has ... (264 words)

I have no friends and I'm clingy to anyone that wants to be my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi people I've got a really big problem. I had a tough childhood and went to nine schools as a child it made me finding friends a real problem and as a result I'm so shy and don't have any friends I'm now twenty six and have two children my kids dad left years ago. I work and ... (186 words)

What is he looking for? How can I make him see that I'm girlfriend material?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya About a year ago i met this guy through mutual friends and we instantly clicked and had a lot of chemistry and whenever we saw each other on a night out we would get with each other (not sleep with him) anyway then i found out he had a girlfriend so i imedietly stopped ... (283 words)

Sometimes I am so sure I am gay that I want to shout it to the world, but then I will meet a guy and the confusion starts again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel silly asking such a personal question to a bunch of strangers but... am I a lesbian? I know I am attracted to women sexually; I have fallen in love with two women in my life and have only ever fantasised about my own sex. The thing is... I seem to meet more men that I am ... (184 words)

I absolutely hate my mum. she has the most horrible mood swings in the world.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I absolutely hate my mum. she has the most horrible mood swings in the world. when she is in a bad mood, she makes me feel like Im not wanted, and when I talk to dad, he isnt interested or takes her side so i feel totally alone in my house, having no brothers or sisters. I've ... (579 words)

Only 5 days left to ask work colleague out but I'm shy!! Please help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have just recently found myself attracted to a colleague I have worked with for around 2 years, a few weeks after realising this we were told he has been given a really short amount of notice to leave, I have battled with the idea of telling him but lose my nerve when... (123 words)

He either doesn't notice she's flirting or he doesn't mind! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so at the beginning of the year i met this guy and we hung out alot and we ended up kissing and spending alot of time together but we never actually dated. I found this kind of odd but i never questioned it.then about halfway through the year, one of my good friends came up ... (189 words)

How on earth do you get over someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How on earth do you get over someone? This June, it will be a whole year since me and my exboyfriend split. I decided to leave the college I was at and went to one around 30 mins away to get a better education and when I was with him, I told him in advance specifically... (358 words)

Another cheater in distress...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 3 and a half years now (it's been my longest). Almost half of this time I spent abroad for work. Four months ago, while abroad again for the last time, a girl flirted with me out of the blue and I stupidly let myself lured into the g... (571 words)

He might like me but he might be shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4747 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok peeps, need lots of advice hear ive liked this guy for well ages infact since middle of last year, slept with him a few times but have never had th courege to say anything to him, Anyway we went away for the day to visit a friend, who knows i like him, basically she an... (246 words)

She just got a new boyfriend and I can't take it, I want a relationship with her so bad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, iv known my bestfriend for over five years now and we have built a strong friendship between us. I like to think its a romantic friendship, were we hold hands and mess about together nothing intimate or sexual, we also say "i love you" at the end of texts and face to face. ... (416 words)

What is wrong with him!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright Long story short I have known this boy for half-year we became somewhat great acquatineces and as I got to know him developed feelings decided to never tell ex-friend told I got somewhat rejected he said I had no chance and I decided that I should distant myself from ... (213 words)

Called too soon or is she testing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so here is the situation. 4 weeks ago i started to take this course in school and there is this sweet and cute girl i like. We always sit together since the second week of class (we have 1 class per week so only see her once a week). She caught my eyes since the beginning ... (277 words)

I think I have issues with love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I have issues with love. Every time I fall for someone I really like (and they like me back) I start to act really weird. When I am around them, I like them and feel loved but when I'm away I start to judge my feelings for them and start to become sad and a bit angry. ... (122 words)

Crush or does she just regard me as a good artist and respects me to the point that it just makes her nervous or shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl and I go to art lessons on Sundays. I've been going to these art lessons for 5 years. There's others there around my age who've been at the lessons for quite some time as well. It's fun to talk to each other while we draw and paint. I'm friends with everyone there. ... (296 words)

Things haven't been the same since his ex found out about our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Since Christmas i've been seeing this guy who used to be going out with a girl I know. Me and her are not best mates or anything but me and him decided to keep it quiet. At first things were going really good between me and him and then she found out and things got difficult ... (306 words)

How do you play hard to get by text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you play hard to get when texting a guy? I know most people don't like the idea of the 'play hard to get' game. So please, if you're one of them, this question isn't for you. ... (39 words)

I feel disgusted at the male penis. Is it just me or anyone else feel this way?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Penises just completely disgust me. I literally feel like i am going to throw up. And thats just from looking at it. I've been told there's great looking penises and horrible penises, but I just think they are all nasty. I don't want anything to do with it, look at it or touch ... (103 words)

Help! Best way to get over someone??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok first I'll say do to a family situation at home and the fact that I don't drive yet makes it kind of hard to go out. I just moved to a new town so I decided to try out this dating site to meet new people, I know pathetic right? But that was the most convinient way for me t... (451 words)

I hate staying at my boyfriend's house.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend keep arguing lately. He lives away at uni in a house with a couple of his male friends. I've been to stay there a couple of times and I really disliked it. His mates always seem to be getting drunk and my boyfriend makes us sit with them to be sociable. ... (151 words)

I'm falling in love with my straight best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i have this bestfriend since we were in 5th grade. we get along together. we were very close just like brothers. when we were in 6th grade he was in another section fom me but that never separates us. we still meet after class and i go to their house and talk even nonsense ... (712 words)

Does Ex want to reconnect or is it just for friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and i started talking again, but here's what happened...i was sitting with my friend on the bus and then he sat down next to her because we were small and made enough room for a three seater thing. Anyway he said hi to her then he looked directly at me and said hey. Then ... (222 words)

Married but think I'm still in love with my old high school girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - recently found my high school girlfriend, and i think i still love her. ( we dont remember why we broke up, and if we made it offical, we just seperated per family and friends wishes) she sought me out and we have been talking for a few months, we recently meet up to talk ... (294 words)

Excluded from my man's social life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there everyone! I have been with my partner for a year now. I am 28 and he is 23 ( a ickle age gap!!). He came back from afghan back end of 2009 (before I had met him). He has now quit the army and has come back to live at his parents house where he lives in an extensio... (310 words)

I'm 16 yet from time to time I long for a baby. Can I get over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. So I'm only 16 but sometimes I get like really hormonal and obsessive about having a baby. Its not all the time, but when i do get it its like unbareable - like I just want a baby so badly. Its really scary and upsetting - why do i feel like this? And how can i get over ... (60 words)

All she wants to do is take him from me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in this fantastic relationship for over a year now. I love the guy I’m with and he loves me. The only problem with it... my "best friend” loves him too. Last summer we hung out for about a week straight. It was amazing until I got an email from my boyfriend. He ... (392 words)

Why am I a bad person because I use prostitutes?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear All, I am going to ask few questions which might offend some of you if they do please pardon me and try understanding my query. I have few basic questions about life which I want you to answer but before that let me give you some insight about myself. I am 28 year ol... (669 words)

I'm 23 and still virgin. Is this bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm still a virgin at the age of 23. Is that bad?... (12 words)

After being fingered, I bled, does that mean my b/f popped my cherry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently when my boyfriend goes to finger me more than likely afterwards I start to bleed, I'm not sure why this happens and its beginning to worry me, does this mean he has popped my cherry? am I normal?... (39 words)

Girls are flirting with my very good looking boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is quite good looking and we've been together for 6 months now but on and off before, and basically quite a few of the 'slaggy' girls in my year seem to flirt with him and say he looks good looking and everything in front of me and i dont feel very comfortable. ... (126 words)

I've really hurt my husband but don't want to lose him. Please help??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have really hurt my husband. It is so bad that I'm embarrassed to say what it is. I'm truly sorry and I would do anything to fix it. What can I do? I don't want to lose my husband. I'm scared. Please help.... (44 words)

We want to stay friends but seeing her with someone else is just to hard!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, please help if you can. I met a girl in the first week of my final year of university, the first week of her first year. We had a wonderful relationship and seemed to be really happy together throughout. In the final weeks of the relationship we started to talk ... (462 words)

Should I follow my heart and date the guy I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 100% in love with this guy...I cannot imagine life without him he is just...amazing I love him. We tell each other that we love each other daily. So, about a month ago he technically broke up with me, we decided to wait for dating until we can see each other more, this ... (164 words)

Should I have tried to save our relationship or stand by my views?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i was in a relationship and i would like to know other peoples opionion. i was with an additict to gambelling and drink. we hav had problems with him and so has most his family, i tried to understand his problems and tried to be supportive, we both made mistakes and i tried ... (500 words)

Boyfriend says he sees girls everyday that he finds hot and sexy! Should I breakup with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend now nearly two years and when we first met he told me there was better looking girls out there than me. I was very hurt over this and very insecure and worried and everyday rang my friend for advise she kept telling me he was only telling me the ... (377 words)

How to break up with a manipulative smooth talker bf

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years often never calls for a week/two and then suddenly pops up again in my life. Whenever i question him, he says he was busy with work or other stuff. Never communicates anything to me before he disappers. I couldnt take this anymore when he disapp... (122 words)

I'm worried that my size may not satisfy my girlfriend. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20years old.....but my penis is only 4 inches ??? What can I do for me to satisfy my girlfriend?? ... (21 words)

I feel insecure because my boyfriend keeps saying other girls are good looking. Please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with him now nearly two years and when we first met he told me there was better looking girls out there than me. I was very hurt over this and very insecure and worried and everyday rang my friend for advice she kept telling me he was only telling me the truth and ... (365 words)

He hasn't texted for two days and I'm worrying. Am I being stupid?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, emm I've mentioned in a previous question about this guy I like, that I thought was gay. Well he's not! haha. Emm were hanging out alot and thats all kool. But, he hasnt txt me in like 2 days. I know, I have to be patient, cant be pushy! I'm the kind of girl that's like, ... (148 words)

I love him but I'm very jealous and now he's starting to complain

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me I'm in love with this guy he loves me very much The problem is me I,ve started to be very jelousy. How can I stop This couse he is now complaining of my jelousy.wht can I do to stop This I do not want to loose him we have a great relationship And we ar... (96 words)

I'm 14 and my boyfriend wants sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and recently he's been wanting more from me. I'm only 14 and he's asked me for sex, he is the same age too. I like him but I'm scared he's using me for sex or just too look good. I'm really worried in-case he ends up hurting me what ... (65 words)

I feel like he loves me just for my body

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Guy i'm in a bind. I really really need some help right now. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend of 4 years. He asked me to marry him a few months back and we were really happy at first. Now I feel like he doesn't love me for me just for my body. Like i'm a sex doll ... (239 words)

Should my girlfriend and I stop doing anything sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a teenager who's about to hit 16. My girlfriend also turns 16 at the same time as I do. We've been in a close relationship for almost 7 months. We don't get much opportunity, but when we're alone, once every few weeks, we partake in some form of sexual activity, usually ... (531 words)

Am I frigid because I don't want a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15, and im going out with this boy, we have been going out for about 3 weeks now. Thing is though i really dont want a serious relationship and i dont want my parents to know and i dont want to have him over and me go over there, i just want to meet up with him ... (219 words)

Cheats, but I love him too much to end it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - basicaly, me and my boyfriend have been goin out for long. and the other day he told me he kissed another girl, who i hate because she fancys him. what happened she kissed him, three times that i know off. and he thought it would all be ok if he told me, so he did. but ... (152 words)

I always run out of things to say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i always run out of things to say when talking to my friends, which makes it hard because as it is, i only have a few good friends. is this something that is wrong with me, or is this something i can fix? if so, any advice will be appreciated. thanks! ... (54 words)

He has a girlfriend, but he texts me a lot.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, so i met this guy over a year ago through a common friend,and he had a girlfriend who he had been dating for over 3-4 years,i would be lying if i said i wasnt attracted to him,cuz i was..but i never really got into it he was in relationship and it was out of the q... (140 words)

He gazed into my eyes, but he won't respond to my email.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age - I can't stop thinking about a man I use to work with. It was a two way attraction although neither of us said anything to each other. The only thing he said was that I should be more discreet when I was working with him. (He was the top boss). I was a little taken back by ... (395 words)

I'm uncomfortable that boyfriend flirt texts with other girls!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is mega flirty with girls via text. He's never cheated and I don't think he's the type but it still makes me very uncomfortable, especially as most include sexual flirting such as "Oh, we could have some fun with an empty house ;)". What do you think? Do I give him a br... (57 words)

LDR advice? She doesn't accept any of my ideas.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone, So I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for 4-5 months now. (We've known eachother for more then a year) It started out with just talking on msn occasionally but we found out we had much more in common so we started calling on skype until I as... (204 words)

After begging for me back, he dumps me for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do cope when the one you love dumps you for someone else?:(? I was with him for 5months..everything was great then after 4months he started been weird and asked to go on a break and I said ok. He begged for me back and he asked for another break again we got back an... (275 words)

Crush on dad at daycare.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I work at a daycare apart of a company. I've been there for about 2 1/2 years. I used to work in a toddler room called "Shining Butterflies" and there was a Dad there named Rick. I took care of his daughter and learned he was from Scotland and everytime I would see him, my ... (200 words)

Drinking problem, I feel like I'm letting down everyone around me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I don't know how to approach this. All I can say is I drink way to much yet I hate the term alcoholic even if thats where I am. I have been with my partner for 8 1/2 years and we are due to marry in October. I wouldn't have that any other way. What I do know is th... (294 words)

Developing feelings for my best friend, but she's seeing someone else.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im a girl at 14 from Ireland and i have had this friend (who is also a girl at 14) for around three years now. she means the world to me and i don't know where id be without her. we are really close and tell each other everything and recently i think i am starting to develop ... (229 words)

I have no friends except one who takes advantage of and tries to change me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i know this isn't to do with love relationships but it is to do with friend relationships. i've just moved miles away from where i used to live so i've had to make new friends. i didn't mind at first as i hung around a group of girls who were friendly. but then they started ... (202 words)

My break up has hit me very hard and I'm a complete mess...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi its been just over 2 months now since my boyfriend broke up with me and am still a complete and utter mess i dont know how to go on without him i still dont fully understand his reasons he made out he wanted be single but am sure hes with someone else now and he said he ... (130 words)

Is writing an anonymous love letter a good way to test the waters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is writing an anonymous love note a good way to approach my crush who is one year younger than I am? We stay really close everyday since we study in the same school. I can't live like I'm not going to die someday so I thought this idea was fun and effective, however, I confess ... (248 words)

If there's no one else in his life, then why did he push me away??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did my boyfriend do that? did he really love me? ? I was with my ex boyfriend for 5months, we were so in love and everyone thought. We were the cutesy couple. I believed him when he told me he loved me, but I was so paranoid in our relationship cos he made... (237 words)

How and should I ask this younger girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, and there's this freshman girl who likes me. I sorta like her a little, but I'm a sophomore. Also, I know her older brother pretty well who is a junior (so thats kinda awkward). Should I ask this girl out?... (42 words)

I was cheated upon and although we're trying to make it work again, I cant get over it...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, About two years ago I seperated with my wife of hour years because I wasn't happy in the relationship. There was no big drama, we had just got together far too young and hadn't matured before marriage. A few months later I met a girl and fell head over heels fo... (495 words)

I'm pregnant and my baby's father texted me saying that "" I've had a break down , I can't do this you're on your own". What do I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello , I am confused and really unsure what to do or what is going onright now . I am 18 weeks pregnant at 40 the father is 35 and we hv been together for 3.5 years . This pregnancy was a HUGE surprise. I was on the depo shot and never missed. Things had been bumpy mostly b... (495 words)

The lady who I'm having an affair with is not willing to walk out of her marriage. Where does that leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age - Got issues with the most beautiful lady in this world. Where do I start? I was married for 20 years and had allotted of problem with my former wife for about 10 years. So I left .Any way, I Have known this lady whom I am now in love with for 28 years but she is married.... (259 words)

Is he my best friend or my man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real dilemma with a man I love. Some years ago we became very close friends, I had strong feelings for him but kept it to myself as I valued our friendship so much. This all came to a head after I moved in with him with my young daughter (I was homeless and had nowh... (572 words)

My boyfriend leapt away from me like a scalded cat at the very mention of sex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been unable to have sex as I have been finding it really painful. The last time we had sex was 18 months ago. I found out that a medical condition was causing it which is now cured. We have been satisfying each other in other ways which has been ... (262 words)

Girlfriends drinking is causing protective services to get involved with our daughter

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - im 24yr male my girlfriend is 23 and we have been together for 2years but 3months into our relationship she became pregnant we both love eachother it was abit of a shock but we both agreed to stick by eachother, at this time she was living with her mum whos a drinker and ... (426 words)

My boyfriend values me at the same level as his gym!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We always go through phases where we fall out at least once a day. I know its partly my fault but I genuinely can't see how. I hate it when we fall out and so does he but it never seems to stop him picking an argument over ... (208 words)

Do I ask my spanish guy if he has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need some advise about a spanish guy I met overseas. I stayed at a hotel and I flirted with the waiter. There was alot of eye contact between us and we smiled at each other. I have since returned from my holiday and I decided to add him on facebook. I sent him a fl... (190 words)

After 2.5 years boyfriend dumps me by text!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so angry with my ex boyfriend. We were together for 2 1/2 years and he dumped me by text. I never imagined for a minute he would do something so horrible, as it seemed out of character for him. In fact, at the time I didn't realise I was being dumped which just goes ... (233 words)

I want to date my cousin's EX but worried about her reaction!!

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey people, I'm in big trouble here. The thing is my best friend who happens to be my closest cousin's ex boyfriend thinks that he loves me.Its been more than 3 months since he has been saying that 9 letter word to me but I never took that too seriously but now its has gotten o... (252 words)

Boyfriend doesn't know if he wants me as a girlfriend or a best friend

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I and my boyfriend had been best friends for one and half years, then we started dating. It has been around one and half years since we started going out as a couple. Now my boyfriend says that he is not sure if he wants me in his life as a girlfriend or best friend but he is ... (197 words)

How do I prove to him I'm worth it again

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex has been texting me for a week and it would only be late at night around 11:00pm and he would send me things like text back you douche and i would text back answering his text and he wouldn't text back to me but then on saturday he didn't text me once as i text him saying ... (110 words)

Boyfriend got what he wants and now all he wants to do is watch tv

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister has gone away and asked me to house sit, she agreed that my boyfriend could with me.For 2 weeks he's been going on about how exciting it will be to have the house to ourselves for a weekend! Which got me pretty excited too. He requested that I dress up for him seems... (189 words)

She's a distraction and I can't study!

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and have an ambition to go to the indian institute of technology but like this girl so much and she is a distraction in my mind !we are just friends!and im not able to study at all my grades are very low what do i do now??... (50 words)

No oral because she "doesn't like the thought that she actually did that."

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 15 months, and we get along pretty good. She is my first girlfriend and I think I love her. One thing is though, I would like the relationship to go farther. She also wants to, but she doesn't want sex yet purely out of fe... (213 words)

My mom has been diagnosed with an incurable disease and my world has shattered around me. Help me please...

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13 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Yesterday I was driving in my car with my mom and out of the blue she told me that she's been diagnosed with an incurable disease in her lungs and that she's gonna start some treatment which is gonna be useless. She was crying, saying she was scared and that she knew she won't ... (207 words)

He says he loves me but he lies to me

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP!. right i met this lad, hes lovely and everything but recently hes been changing, hes been letting his ex go trough his phone fromm like private messages i sent him... hes been lying to me alot, hes been slagging me off too his mates.. but saying i do his head in, he lied ... (73 words)

My ex is a compulsive liar how do I get over this

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem and would like some advise on this. Well I'm 26 and I got pregnant really quick to a guy at work. I didn't like him to begin with but he won me round and then kept leaving me and coming back when I was pregnant and after baby was born I've just learnt he's a ... (124 words)

Iv fallen for my ex's twin!!

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, about a year ago I started dating this girl, which was fun, except that her twin sister (non identical) hated every fibre of my being for it. The relationship only lasted about 3 months and soon after, my ex hated my guts but her sister and I started to mend a few bridges. ... (237 words)

Is meeting a girl you are attracted to cheating your wife?

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13 March 2011 (M)

age - A lady in office much younger than I am had been hitting on me for a while. I find her very attractive. She is married, and so am I. At the same time, I dont want to mess up my married life and have not gone beyond a coffee or lunch together. Recently, she left the company... (89 words)

My mind runs wild when my girlfriend is out with her friends

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am currently having trouble trusting my girlfriend of over a year.it has been 5 years since i was in a relationship and that last one she just up and left no reason.i love my girlfriend more than anyopne before but i have trouble whenever she goes out with her friends or ... (167 words)

I don't want to compete for Max only to lose, and be an even bigger idiot than I feel now. Help!

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright well i'm 18 years old and at University, and I really like this guy, lets call him max. I kept getting all the vibes that he liked me back, and so i was flirty and chatty around him to try to encourage him asking me out. But then the other night at a party, a friend ... (238 words)

I can't get this guy alone because of his overprotective friend!

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - O.K so There's a guy in my college whom i really like but i m doubtfull if he likes me. I m not at all goodlooking i get nervous talking to him . He is really a good frnd of mine and i dnt want to spoil it .we are in the same group and often are together . recently i also... (337 words)

When guys joke about sex, what are they getting at?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - random question; when guys joke about sex, what are they getting at? lol there is this guy who always jokes about cuddling with me, tickling me, or random things that have to do with sex. is he just being funny, does he wanna jump my bones, is he trying to see how i... (94 words)

This guy says he likes me but always criticizes me for being clingy. Should I move on or work on not being clingy?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy says he likes me but is kind of a jerk. He says I'm clingy and i freak him out sometimes ....but he still wants to be with me. I have no clue what to do... should I work on not being clingy or should i move on ?... (50 words)

I treated her like crap and now I want her back!

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hey guys I know your first instincts are going to be to go against me so I'm asking that you think about the logic of what I'm about to say before you respond. Ok I was casually dating a woman for a little over a year and I'm not proud about it but I shit all over her and she ... (426 words)

After 23 years. wife's sex drive diminishing. I feel like cheating!

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13 March 2011 (M)

age - I am married for 23 years now. My wifes sex drive keeps deminishing. I need more. It is a biological need. I end up masturbating, which is not half as much enjoyable. At times I fee like finding another consenting partner, which would be cheating. What do I do?... (49 words)

Was my mom having sex with my fiance?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - In 2010 i dated this guy who i fell head over heals for, we ended up getting engaged and he moved in with me, my mom, my dad and my daughters. well in august just after i had my daughter strange things were goin on, my mom and fiance would act strange around eachother and would ... (504 words)

Are these signs that he is interested in me??

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've posted other Q's on here about a guy I have a thing for, but i'm not sure how he feels about me. one day he cant stop starring at me, messes up words when i come into the room, looks at me instead of who he's talking to, is playfighting with me and rubbing his knee... (525 words)

Whenever we have a fight, he breaks up with me, and then comes back after I contact him. How do I stop this cycle?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I have been dating this guy for about a month. I have never met a guy who shares the same interests as me, and for the most part we get along. As soon as there is a fight he breaks up with me, and tells me he doesn't want to be with me and so on. Within a couple of day I ... (275 words)

Why are some men able to charm, while others who try the same techniques seen as players?

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13 March 2011 (F) age - This week i was purchasing a jewelery item with part of an inheritance as I thought that would be a nice way to remember them every time I looked at my hand.. . I recognised the salesman and recalled how very charming he always is, when I have seen him in the past serving ... (811 words)

How do certain guys my age get girls so easily?

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So today I was at a huge crazy party and I only knew 6 guys that were there and a bunch of girls who I only knew the name of (they didn't really know me). I'm 15 and there was a ton of grinding and such going on. One of the guys in my grade (sophomore) was making out with a ... (172 words)

There's someone else, how do I break up with him?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've kind of been seeing this boy(let's call him boy A) and people say he likes me alot. But I do not have feelings for him anymore. We use to be head over heals for eachother but I've meet this boy (boy B) and he told my bestfriend he was going to ask me out... I really would ... (118 words)

She says she loves me, but I feel taken for granted.

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13 March 2011 (M) age 30-35 - First off I'm In high school. Been in a relationship for well over a year my girlfriend tells me she tells me (only on the phone) how she wants to marry and have my kids! Well I want to marry her too but idk there's a "but". Let's just say I'm the more sensitive one right and ... (226 words)

Is it strange to not like pornography?

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this may seem odd for a lot of people to hear, but I'm a 16yo guy who is not at all into pornography. What I wanna know is, am I the only one? All my friends say I'm weird because I don't like it, but I personally don't understand why they do like it. I mean, I don't get ... (351 words)

Should I return to my marriage?

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13 March 2011 (M)

age - I'm interested knowing what others think I should do here. My wife and I have been separated for 8 months now. For a year prior to the separation I tried to get her to go to a marriage counselor with me. She only went a couple times; I went regularly by myself and tried to ... (573 words)

I feel used. why do people fake love for you just to make love to you?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi why do people make like they're into you but they really aren't secretly because all they really want from you is use you for sex while they sneak behind your back to find a bf or gf then they dump you and don't feel bad, wrong or guilty for doing that? This happened to me l... (191 words)

She agreed to move to be with me, but then changed her mind!

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I recently got married about 3 months ago. She's from Indonesia and I'm from Malaysia. About a year before the marriage, we discussed about where we're going to live once we got married. It was agreed that 6 months into the marriage (in July), she would move over to ... (368 words)

I don't want to have sex until he's committed, but will he commit if we don't have sex?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my question is..i have am in a relationship with this guy i have known for 3years.i truly love him.i have had a lot of failed relationships in the past and with him this might be our 4th time to try make it work.i have never slept with him before.i truly don`t want to for now ... (123 words)

Sex with virgins; STD risk?

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13 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - If I have had sex with three people and all of them were virgins, is there any chance of me having an STD?... (23 words)

Has this new guy made her totally forget me?

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - For three years my ex jumped through hoops to be with me and we finally dated for a year. We connected on a deeeeep level but have broken up unexpected. We r young and had slme differences. I opted to nreak contact as she start dating a new guy three weeks later and she begs me ... (106 words)

I've spent the last 5 years being single with the occasional encounter now and again with men who seem to like me initially but when it comes to bedroom antics, it goes horribly wrong.

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this lovely guy who is lives with my good friend. I got the feeling he liked me and he told me when my friend's back was turned that he clicked with me and that I must come to a party that was being held at their house. Last night I go to the party, and we meet agai... (507 words)

My new date is fabulous, but has an excessive dope smoking problem. Please help!!

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello All, Please can you advise me on the following. I have recently met a new guy. He has alot going for him. He;s kind, thoughtful, generous, attentive, and can offer me the stabiltiy I am looking for. We have been on four dates, and all is going well. I feel exceptionally ... (269 words)

I'm like a jealous and insecure mess and I hate it yet it wont go away.

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have issues!!!! Im incredibly insecure and I wish I wasnt...I dont know what to do! Thing is I know they are based on my weight, im not a skinny girl but im not exactly obese either but nontheless im overweight, but my bf likes girls with meat on them so...ergh idk!! ... (387 words)

Should I make a move?

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't see this girl I like very much, but when we do see each other; she talks to me, we have the same ideas, and she seems like she really trusts me as a friend. I haven't really made my move yet. She recently turned down somebody else because she thought she was to young to ... (79 words)

TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - TO MEN: What are your opinions on sex while the girl is on her period? My bf will sometimes do it but close to the end where you cant tell at all. Or shower sex is a plus but do men not like it?.. does it feel any different to the guy?... (53 words)

Will she ever come back?

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13 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend said to me she wasn't used to being treated this good. She would tell me that she didn't deserve a guy like me. So i made her dinner and took her to a movie and she broke up with me. she is now dating some guy who is the total opposite of me. will she ever come ... (80 words)

Safe with birth control?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im currently on Birth control have been for 5 years none of my previous boyfriends (2) ever cam inside of me.. my boyfriend now wants to. Not all the time but just every once and a while.. im not sure if i should let him iv never done that b4 because i never wanted to take any ... (74 words)

Too shy and nervous to talk to the guy I like?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do, I'm really shy, I never had a real boyfriend, and if I did like someone that was boyfriend material I would be too shy to talk to him and he woud get away. I'm stuck in that same senere again. It's a guy he is new to the school our school is like a ... (179 words)

Why do I feel scared and nervous with him?

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few months ago and i kind of got the feeling that he liked me and i liked him back. So we would text and get to know eachother but flirt sometimes. But the thing was he wouldnt make a move and i wouldnt either i was too shy. But after a few months of talking i ... (413 words)

Being 25 & a virgin might be pitiful, but I don't see the need to look for a one-night stand with a stranger

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13 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, just curious, is it so weird for a girl of 25 not to have a boyfriend and have never date and have sex before? i find it super annoying when people ask me these questions and when i say "no", they look at me like I am an alien and start to bombard me with "why not ?". F... (398 words)

I don't know what to make of these mixed signals

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13 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - This guy I'm dating is sending me mixed signals. Everytime we do more than kiss (fooling around but not too much) he runs and doesn't talk to me for a few days. And he always thinks we are moving too fast-even though he always initiates it. and when we are fooling around or ... (291 words)

I've fallen for him, the situation is complicated, and he wants someone younger

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13 March 2011 (M)

age - Hi , have a big problem that is totally ruling my life at the moment . I have been seeing a polish guy who is 32 for the last 10 months, It started out as sex, we have become good friends, but i also have fallen in love with him. He knows this is very cool about the situation ... (156 words)