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*azzy101
writes:This guy says he likes me but is kind of a jerk. He says I'm clingy and i freak him out sometimes ....but he still wants to be with me. I have no clue what to do... should I work on not being clingy or should i move on ?
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reader, naomes  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 Hi hun, you say this guy is a jerk and he says you are clingy its not good foundation for a relationship. Tell him that your busy next time he wants to meet go to the gym or go to a salon and perk yourself up meet up with your friends and limit the time you spend with him. You don't need someone telling you that you're clingy or criticism and putting you down you will only feel worse If he finishes with you. Prove to yourself that you can do things on your own and that you don't need him.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 If he did not like you, he would not try to help by telling you what the problem is.Do you understanding what clingy means? Its normally someone you acts as if they have no live of their own and are trying to live in his. You are always there, always available.You can still have him as your boyfriend but become a challenge, become interesting, go out with friends, do voluntary work, go to college and take up a course. turn down his date offers occasionally.You will see how things change.
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