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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I let him see his son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend of 3 years has agreed to let his ex-wife move back in with him. she left him and the kids and moved country. he gave up his job to raise the kids. she now wants back into the house and he has agreed for the kids sake to share the house. she came back six months ... (202 words)

I lent my sister's family money when they were suffering, but I feel used and I'm ready to break ties with my family! Am I right or am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My problem is my family (this could be a long one!!). I’m the youngest of three and come from a traditional background. Unlike my elder sister, I rebelled in every sense. I broke boundaries as I refused to be treated differently because I’m a single woman. The real issue is... (751 words)

I've fallen in love with a relative

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - before 2 years a boy came our home . he was my relative, he spended whole his summer holidays with us we became good friends and we made a lot of good things togather that days than he want back to swedan and i felt love with him i miss him a lot and think all of my time abo... (93 words)

My relationship with my family is unhealthy for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - lately ive been realizing my relationship with my family isnt okay, or healthy for me. im being mentally hurt and i find myself crying sometimes yet i dont know why.. my mom and i arent that close, and im the baby of 5, to make it even more worse the closest sibling to my age ... (379 words)

When did I become the shell of who I once was?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - After Google Crome history pointed out to me this evening, that my top visited websites are Lamebook, FMyLife.com and Facebook and that the time I spend on each of them laughing and saying "life could be worse" has just made me realise I should be on them :( Life is bad: I... (372 words)

Could these be signs that he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so here are some signs that I think that this guy likes me. When we first met he thought I was in high school. (but only a few more months and I am!) One day we were hanging out and he bought all of us candy. We were hanging out and my friend was bugging me by poki... (311 words)

How can I become a friendly person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To all the wonderful agony aunts out there with actual life experience, for I have little to none: A friend (by circumstance, not choice) recently told me that I was mean, extremely rude, inconsiderate, etc. and that I need to work on this. She hedged it in slightly more tac... (568 words)

I am afraid to talk to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He said he love me.but i said no to him.now i'm catching feelings for him.but when he dialls i'm afriad to pick the phone.what should i do??help me please!!... (29 words)

Is it reasonable to be jealous of my boyfriend's cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well do i have a right to get jelous of my boyfriends female cousin? Its only this one though because i know when they were younger they fooled around with each other he said when he got older he realized it was wrong and stoped. She says stuff to upset me on purpose but is ... (181 words)

2nd date--showing some skin ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is showing a bit of flesh during a date (number 2) acceptable...m just talking about a bit of my back . . .i dun wanna come across as too desperate or something... (32 words)

What to do about this girl who's changed my brother for the worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My Older brother is dating this girl and i dont like her at all. Its not that she is horrible to me but she's changed him completely and had kinda turned him against me and my family as she tells him were not a proper family etc. just because our mum has a full time job; unlike ... (213 words)

What does this flirting from my ex mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone yo know , i have a problem and i don't how to handle it. Okay so, my ex boyfriend as recently came to my school, and since then he's been flirting with me non-stop. He has been poking me, picking me up and throwing me over his shoulder, and all that crap. He told ... (117 words)

Have I chosen the right one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in love with a guy since 3.5 years and he loves me a lot , we had our part of fights as all relations do , the most important thing is our way of thinking is too different am a modern gal and he is narrow minded over possessive man I used to complain he used... (265 words)

I got hurt in the past and now I don't like anyone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll keep this short, I'm a 16 year old girl and I have liked guys in the past, but a couple of years ago I got hurt, nothing serious, but ever since then I haven't liked any guys, or had any crushes, or anything like that. Is that normal? And I don't want to turn up to college ... (87 words)

Recently, I've reunited with a boyfriend after 3 yrs apart. I struggle with the fact that I just can't trust him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently, I got back with my partner after a 3 year split. I love him with all my heart, but I don’t trust him. He’s been ringing his ex girlfriend and I don’t know if he’s meeting up with her behind my back. It’s driving me insane. I’m constantly phoning him and checking ... (85 words)

Should I continue to reach out to him, should I give him more space, or should I drop this thing altogether? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been seeing this guy for a while. He has extremely low self esteem and thinks that I'm better off without him. He opened up to me last weekend about a number of things, but now he's acting like I don't exist, which is sort of confusing. He knows that I care about him, ... (207 words)

How do I show him it doesn't matter to me that he's poor? I want to date him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This man i like said he wanted to date me and he has my phone number. I bumped into him in town yesterday and we hung out together. we also bumped into one of his friends. his friend asked who i was, and when i told him, he said the man i like had been talking about me to hi... (127 words)

What does 'fighting for him' mean? I don't understand what he wants

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met my boyfriend, let's call him Dave, through my ex-boyfriend, who we'll call Bill, on an online game. After Bill and I broke up, we stayed in contact and have become good friends. I've known Bill for almost four years, and I've known Dave since 2009. Bill and Dave are ... (475 words)

Has acting out on our sexual urges (and achieving disappointing results) ruined what might have been a promising friendship? Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - (Disclaimer: Apologies, this might get a little too long and quite detailed, but it's been bothering me non-stop for months.) Last August, I met a 34-year old musician who, it seemed, I shared similar interests with (We got to talking when he sat at our table and I praised ... (1478 words)

Has my boyfriend lost interest? If so, how do I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been dating for five months, and our communication has become pretty sparse. For the past week or so, it's become so that if I don't initiate the conversation, we just don't communicate at all for days. And he's always online on his Playstation 3, and I see him playing ... (601 words)

Trust issues with boyfriend being friends with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 18 months now but I am still having a lot of trust issues. My bf was previously married (and still is although they separated just before we got together). He has stayed really good friends with her and is in contact with her quite a bit ... (323 words)

Boyfriend buying me suggestive clothing. Is it ok?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has some different requests for me lately. He says I have a sexy little body and he would like me to show it off more. He has recently purchased some very skimpy clothes, like micro-mini skirts, tiny little shirts that show my stomach. He has bought me some very ... (86 words)

I am pregnant, boyfriend acting weird and I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 21 and 36weeks pregnant, my baby father started to act werid around me for the last two months I would have to beg himto spend time with me an now he wants his space he ignors my calls an texts I know I shouldnt want to be with him cause the way he been with me .But! I love ... (70 words)

Why do my friends hate the idea of me being pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do my friends hate the idea of me being pregnant? I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now and I feel like I am ready to have a child with him. And hopefully he does too. I know I should ask him first but as a young woman I have asked some of my friends opinions. ... (169 words)

I am developing feelings for a man that I know I can never be with. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I hope you will respond. I have a friend, he is 4 years older than myself and we have been friends for four years. However, we are not friends in the normal sense. We have never hung out, gone for coffee, a drink etc. He is a player, he likes to sleep around, he has b... (185 words)

Its been years but I still think of my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my first lover when i was 19 at my first job. I approached him and sparked up a conversation to get his attention and then walked away. he then approached me later and we talked about random stuff; then the conversation moved to me coming w him for some alone time. ... (412 words)

Why am I not getting angry even when treated like dirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf and i was together for 1.5 years. i cant say it was great, we had our ups and downs. But lately i started to feel that my outlook on things changed. Before i used to be very agressive and if someone accuses me of something and even if they are right i used to get an... (178 words)

Am I a cheater? We weren't officially dating when I started seeing someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been seeing a girl for two years when we broke up last June. Although we were not "officially" in a relationship, we still went on dates, kissed, said we loved one another, and spent most of our time together. However, in November, I met another girl, and I also began to ... (145 words)

He loves her and I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months, 3 months ago. I am still trying to get over him but i failed. He moved to another city after the break up to go to med school.He has a best friend. Their degree of closeness was always a threat to our relationship. At times i felt ... (193 words)

Will I ever be able to please her like my friend did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have recently started seeing a girl that my best friend had been seeing previously. I had a crush on her awhile back, but at that time she was seeing my best friend. My problem is that I don't think I'm fully satisfying her sexually. This may sound weird, but since... (135 words)

My fiance wants to go to a girl's party without me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I'm seeking some advice because I am so hurt right now I want to know if i'm right or wrong here. Basically I live with my partner of 4 years and we love each other and I do so much for him and him me likewise, he has travelled quite a bit and met many peo... (465 words)

Did he really want to break up or was he just angry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last week I had an argument by text message with my long distance boyfriend. I sheepishly text him the next day to apologise and he text back saying that he didn't hate me or not want to talk to me, but that he felt that this was very much the end. I quickly called him and all ... (351 words)

I'm trying to time my leaving of the abusive relationship to have the least impact on my kids

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancee for just over 6 years, 5 of which have been abusive. No, he does not hit me or physically harm me in any way, but he is controlling, degrading, insecure, jealous and a host of other things. My two children (ages 9 and 12)and I live in his house. I ... (633 words)

Can you access facebook if you are incarcerated?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok I got a question for you...can you comment and access your facebook account if you are incarcerated??? I am confused because I have a friend who told me he is in jail (in new jersey if that helps) and he is commenting on posts on his facebook page. He also texted me saying ... (127 words)

Boyfriend makes 5X what I do and is now calling me a gold digger for questioning the way he splits the bills

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'll try to make this brief. In a nutshell I have been seeing this guy for over a year, and my son (toddler) and I moved into his house a couple of months ago. Its a big beautiful house, he has only asked I pay a quarter of the mortgage. I am unemployed so I spend my days on ... (292 words)

It hurts to see my friend going with another girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My bestguyfriend told me that he liked me. I never really thought about us going out.mostly because he went out with mmy other bestfriend and I strongly belive in girl code. So I told him I don't but part of me did like him. He's just like me but a boy. Now he has a new gf and ... (121 words)

I need your help on this one guys...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well this maybe lengthy but i try to keep it short. I met this guy while separated. I told him I was. He was ok with it we pursue an relationship but i told him slow. Anyway he told me he had three children( girls). All by different mothers. He also told me it could be one on ... (805 words)

What am I getting out of this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused right now. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. I live in my own house and he lives with his family. We meet at my house and go out occssionally. My problem is that I don't think he cares about me. He was supposed to come to my house last week but his car broke ... (337 words)

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 this eyar and quite mature seeing as i have had a bad childhood-abused by my father and groomed by a peadophile. I've known this guy for over a year its been on and off so much. we would get serious and he would leave me. hes had a bad childhood to extent of his fa... (263 words)

Should I fight to stay in my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age - My husband of a year and 2 months; wants a divorce he was yelling for a year that we need to go our separate ways then we got married and it changed to he want out and now two years later it's he's gone but he will finish out the lease which ends in several months. The ... (472 words)

I don't have any close friends anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I'm 20 years old and currently in college. Back in high school I had a big close group of friends that I did everything with. When we finished school they all moved away for university and 4 of us stayed and got jobs. That was in 2007. For the next 3 years one got ... (388 words)

I want to get married, he won't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him and want to get married but he won't. Basically at the beginning of our relationship I messed up by talking to my ex and lying about it and now he doesn't trust me. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but that I'm ... (227 words)

I'm not a virgin, but I've decided not to have sex again til marriage. This seems to drive men off! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem seems kind of funny, so laugh if you want, but I'm getting a bit frustrated. Although I didn't grow up religious, I'd had a rough time in life and turned to the church. This was a few years ago and I'm now a devout Christian, and have decided to remain celibate until ... (240 words)

Her friends are popular and look down at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl at my college. We get on really well when we are together. The thing is her friends all think their popular and feel they look down on me. What should i do?... (36 words)

I met a guy at a party and we've met up to have sex several times. Now he is ignoring me. What did I do wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy at a party 6 weeks ago, we chatted for ages and ended up sleeping together. We exchanged numbers and texted each other during the week. At the weekend I went out drinking with friends and ended up sending him a text to meet that night. We slept together again and ... (112 words)

Is this a date or not? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I met this girl at a party a few weeks ago and I’ve asked her out for dinner. So I am picking her up and taking her out. Problem is, I’m not sure whether it’s a date or not. We don't see each other much around school, but we text constantly and get on really well. I want ... (75 words)

I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I got pregnant and my parents will kick me out if I don't have an abortion. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my name is Jane and I am 18 years old. My parents are from Nigeria and I was born and raised here in Alabama. I am 17 weeks pregnant and my parents want me to get an abortion. I don’t want one, so they are going to kick me out next Saturday. I have nothing, no job, no ... (117 words)

I don't have concrete evidence, but my gut tells me my boyfriend is cheating! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 8 years has gone from having some porn on is pc to something like 16 porn sites. I don't mind that, but I’ve found him on a dating site. I challenged him and he's no longer on it, but I have a feeling he's cheating on me. Over the last 12 months his behaviour ... (254 words)

Sex toys vs the real thing. Which one is more satisfactory?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi people I'm just curious. Sex toys (dildos) and the real thing (penis), which one is more satisfactory?... (19 words)

Boyfriend is abusive to me. So why do I put up with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know the answer to this so I think I am just writing it to get it out into the world. My boyfriend moved in with me about a year ago. Before he moved in we would sometimes verbally fight but I was always able to leave and go back to my own house. Now though being together the ... (502 words)

How do I deal with betrayal that ruined my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys ,why do people hate people? I am thirty. I met different kind of people in my life. I didn't have that many problems with the people that I met. Even if I had, we solved the problem, forgave each other and moved on. Lately I met bad, bad people. I feel like part of ... (127 words)

Is it wrong for me to pressure my wife to masterbate before sex, even if she doesn't like it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age - I love to watch or help my wife masturbate two or more times a week. We do have great sex after the masturbation. She says she does not like it but only does it because I like it and the all around sex after it. How do I get her to maybe want to sometimes? Am I wrong in ... (65 words)

Why does my boyfriend always smell like urine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear All, I have a big-big problem with my boyfriend. He is an Indian, 24, and for 3 months we are living together in Germany. I love him very much, he is perfect in every way for me, but I have a big problem. Everything he is wearing smells pee. His trousers, his pa... (272 words)

Does she just not want to have sex for her own personal reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I have been waiting a long time to have sex for the first time and I am 30. I am ready to make love to my girlfriend, but she says she is scared that she might ruin it for me. I have explained to her that I love her, and there is nothing she could do to ruin the moment for m... (209 words)

Help! My husband does not have sex with me..........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the thing. My husband and I have been together for nearly 7 years (married for 4). We have had sex once in the last 3 years. My husband is seventeen years older than me ( I am in my late 20's) and we get along in most ways, apart from the lack of affection. He doesn't ... (397 words)

How do I rekindle the spark of love and passion in my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner Daniel is my world. He is full time dad for our two young boys, drives me to and from work every day then goes to work as the head chef of a busy restaurant at night. I think the pressure of life is getting to him, because he's becoming more and more distant and ... (155 words)

What do girls think of a guy who flirts with a number of girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been consciously trying to improve my flirting skills with girls. At uni, I went out with a new group of friends and i dunno whether it can be called flirting but i was just basically practicing my teasing and being funny skills on a couple of the girls on the first day. I ... (209 words)

Will the picture of my husband with other women ever go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I met 20 years ago. I was15 he17. We have been together for better part of 18 years as a couple. we separated over a year ago. We have 10 yr old daughter and 6 yr old son. Legally married 6 years. He has stayed in family home past year. Recently we have ... (105 words)

Boyfriend's father dying from stomach cancer..he suddenly broke up with me, never calls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. last year late october, my boyfriend of 3.5 years Father was diagnosed with stomach cancer. Initially his Father had gone to the hospital with symptoms which turned out to be a mild heart attack..after testing, the cancer was found. My boyfriend and ... (594 words)

If he likes me, why is he hesitant about taking me to the prom??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 17 yr old single girl who goes to high school. So the prom is in a week and this guy was kind of flirting with me about 3 weeks ago. However we never actually went on a real date. He starts telling me stuff such as maybe something good will happen at the prom an... (168 words)

Is it harmful to shampoo your pubic hair during a menstrual cycle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom says not to shampoo my hairs on the first day of menstrual period. i asked her why and she just told me that shampooing hairs on the first day can disturb my menstrual cycle. is that really true? well i don't believe her, i need help. i haven't shampooed my hairs from 1 ... (79 words)

Smiling and staring at me, and excited to be in a group with me: are they signs that he likes me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - does he like me? i didnt even realize at first that he was there, but then he started looking at me and smiling at me a lot! we took a class together where he pointed at me to his friend and called me by my nickname and smiled at me (to get my attention i believe)? he somehow ... (262 words)

How to forget my affair and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Last summer I went abroad and spent almost 5 months there. I had a fiancé in my hometown at that time and I loved him, but I needed to get some work experience, and so I left. I didn't plan on doing anything but work, but I happened to have 3 cute guys working ... (369 words)

Does her flirting means she likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently met a girl at uni. I was hanging out with a group of her friends at uni chatting and laughing, having a good time. Because it was a large group of about 8 people I didn't really focus all of my attention on the one girl in the group that I liked but I continued to make ... (197 words)

Do I leave my liar boyfriend?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and i am very much inlove, he says he is too but i can not believe him. he recently admitted that he lies a lot but blamed me and said if he ever mentions a womans name i would go mad, which is not the case but i understood why ... (235 words)

Why would he suddenly go off porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok guys, i am wondering if someone could tell me why a guy who would usually watch porn by himself maybe once or twice a wk would suddenly not want to? My hubby used to do stuff himself about once a wk, sometimes twice. Thats in the few years we've been together. Before that he ... (352 words)

I am the other woman and don't want it to end.... but need more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a married older man who is better off finacially than I am, for the last 2 half years. Our relationship started out innocently... as friends, then it went forwards. He has been upfront with me all along about his marriage, and because this ... (192 words)

My husband pays full maintenance for his kids from his 1st marriage, and that leaves him with hardly anything for our household!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has 2 children from his first marriage, I don't have any and we do not have children together yet. He pays maintenance for the kids regularly and in full. The problem is that there always seem to be extra expenses and things they need that he ends up paying f... (186 words)

Do I go back to my husband and try to work things out or stay with my childhood sweetheart?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble knowing what to do, or where to turn, so I am asking you all for any advice. 7 years ago my husband of 6 years my husband come to me and told me that he was in love with a family friend, I was shattered, our children were only little, and as we lived in a ... (803 words)

Lump under my arm sent away for tests and I'm afraid its cancer

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have an lump under my armpit ! its the size of a pea !! some people told me its just a sweat gland since the weather is changin and i sweat a lot! the thing is . its not painful so i guess its not something serious , i went to see a doctor and he told me that i need to get it ... (125 words)

Now that we've broken up, should I ask her to return the expensive gift that I had given her?

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i gave my girlfriend a very expensive computer. after a month she broke up with me with an excuse that "she is very busy with all other stuff and she has no time for a relationship" is it ok if i tell her to give that computer back.? i gave her as a gift but it was not a ... (167 words)

I never get out and I want to!

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so left out: I stay home pretty much every weekend, I'm 17 and don't go out on a Saturday night for example. I get on well with most people (both guys and girls) and they seem to like me, but I just don't seem to get invited out or have the confidence to do this with ... (140 words)

Should I talk to my husband's friend that I cheated with?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age - Well to start I've been married for 29yrs about a year ago I cheated on my HB with a friend of mine and my HB's he was my good friend we talked all the time about every thing then I made a big mistake he got what he wanted then he did not want to talk to me and became a jerk I ... (113 words)

He's picking masturbation over sex?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together for two years now and we only really have one issue which is sex. I have a really high sex drive and I want to have sex once a day but my boyfriend rarely wants to. Whenever I'm at work he masturbates to porn. He gets shitty whenever I try to ... (87 words)

Are there symptoms of being sterile?

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - why is my semen look kinda milky !! its a white color,. and lately i wasnt able to produce a big quantity of sperm !! does that mean im a sterile or something !! that would suck coz i really love kids !! are there any symptomps of bein sterile !... (51 words)

Is it all lies? am I supposed to believe it? Can anyone confirm the truth?

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - is it true that a woman who has been with her partner for a given period, and where he has a small penis, would she get sick of it after a while and wish for a man with a bigger penis ? Because after a while does her vagina get bigger to the point where she just wouldnt ... (161 words)

What am I supposed to make of her actions? she's still affectionate. We've broken up.

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm 25 years old and my son's mother is 20 years old. We have been in a relationship for six years. Now she is saying that she doesn't know what she wants, but that she needs her time to think and figure out what shes looking for. So we ended our relationship, but she ... (162 words)

We've been together 6 years and he's still wondering if he's interested?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do I continue to drive blind? Tonight my Husbman took me to the bar for a drink. After walking inside, this man followed us to the bar proceeding to hit on me while my husbman ordered our drinks; as if I wasn't standing next to my husbman. Im used to the men hitting on me ... (773 words)

He's finally stopped using his dating-site profile. Could this mean he's serious about me?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Background: I've been seeing this guy since December, and I really like him, but I've been trying to play it cool. I don't call or text him every day, more like every other or every couple of days, and we will hang out for a couple days at a time and then go a couple days ... (527 words)

Am I just his plaything on the internet?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a married man for 6 yrs and never met but plan to meet this year. It is a long distance affair and we agreed to be honest with each other as honesty is what I can have from him. Yes, he doesn't give me hopes, he sets his limitations, he ... (196 words)

He told me he's not head over heels crazy about me but his actions say differently

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some help. I met this guy online 8 months ago. We have been dating for 7 months now. I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer just before we met. I told him the first night we met that I just had surgery and there was a chance that I would have to have chemo and he still ... (212 words)

As a teenager, why do I find older men attractive?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Am I weird? I mean for some reason I am attracted to older men. I feel attracted to some of my teachers. (they are just stupid little crushes, nothing out of the ordinary). Anyways ive told my friends some think its weird, I didn't st first. And now I'm having second thoughts. ... (106 words)

Getting into the head of a cheater

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well I have a question for anyone who has ever cheated to share the reason for cheating! What made you cheat and why? Was it worth what came to be of the situation? Did you love the person you cheated on? Why use your working late? Did you work it out and d... (131 words)

About my ex ldr I miss her a lot and don't know if it's to late to get her back?

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well to make this short as I can But if you like to read go for it. Well I meet this girl on A on line web site in I fell in love with her. I can't help but to think about her all the time and every day. But do to the ldr thing again I lost her again well It started out being ... (700 words)

Can you have sex and still have an intact hymen?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if it is possible to have sex, but not tear your hymen? I had sex with my ex boyfriend. He was my first, but I never bled as he entered me. Every time we had sex it would pinch and hurt as he entered me, but after a while it would go away and would feel ... (77 words)

Do guys really like to chase girls?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true that guys like to chase girls than have a girl continuiously say she loves him or chats to them?... (22 words)

Communication stopped and its been over a week

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've have been with a guy for nearly three months now. Everything is goin' great and wonderful. But suddenly he stop talkin' and communicatin' me all together. I gave him a week for him to talk to me but still nothin. I've done nothin' wrong to him. What should I do?... (51 words)

If we can't date I'd rather just get over him but I see him 2-3 times a week

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had a crush on a guy I met in my martial arts class for six months. I was super attracted to him from the beginning and I started flirting with him. Because of our interactions, I started getting the feeling that my feelings were mutual, but I also got these vibes that ... (616 words)

Hes afraid to date me because he doesn't make much money

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think this guy likes me ?. A friend of his saw me with him today ( i had bumped into him in town, and i had met him a couple of times before ) and when his friend saw me with him, he asked who i was and he said that he had been talking about me to his friend during the ... (113 words)

Could I be lactose intolerant?

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5 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - So I'm vegetarian but not vegan, and I eat dairy pretty much everyday. I've always felt better without eating it (I just can't seem to stop, but I'm going to now) and the only dairy I eat is cheese, ice cream, and yogurt.. about 30 mins to an hour after I feel bloated, I ... (90 words)

I don't want everyone knowing I like him!

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm 13 and I've liked this boy scince I was 9 an I flirt a lot with him and he knows I like him, but I asked him out and he's told everyone in his year and its started coming into my school now, and I don't want people asking me about him cause ill go bright red and ... (78 words)

I have let myself be "molded" into what hubsand wanted in a wife,and now I don't know who I am or how to find me.

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am turning 30 in a week. I cant help but look back at my 20's and think the only good that came of them were my 2 kids. My relationship has been more rocky than happy lately. I only have a high school diploma no further education,no job in the last 8 years. Mostly due to ... (192 words)

I'm trying to stay 'cool' about this online dating thing, but I'm just a nervous, crazy wreck right now!!!

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My stomach is in knots and I've got a nervous energy that just won't go away and I keep on asking myself 'How can I like a guy so much that I've never met?' Ok, for those that aren't mind readers: I was 'communicating' with a guy on eharmony and then he gave me his skype nam... (289 words)

How do I increase my sense of security in my relationship??

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am extremely jealous of my boyfriend's ex. We have been going out for a year now and have lived together for 6 months. It all started before we were living together she came to his house at 4 in the morning and made a huge scene cops were called and everything. Since that day ... (166 words)

I really want to get this girl's attention, any suggestions??

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl at school and I try to get her attenden but it never seems to work how could I get her to like me ?... (27 words)

When I have sexual intercourse I feel nothing, is there anything I can do??

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. He fingers me a lot, and I love it, it feels really good. But when we have sex, I don't really feel anything. Is there anything I can do, or he can do? I'm always on top, does that have anything to do with it? He ... (77 words)

My penis size insecurity is driving me completely paranoid!!

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend, I absolutely love her, and she and I are both virgins and aren't going to have sex until we're married. But I'm super self conscious about the size of my penis..I'm 5 1/2 inches fully erect, but if I flex it gets to 6 inches, my girlfriend has seen my ... (210 words)

My boyfriend may be into transexuals, based on a few clues, what should I do??

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - THiS iS VERY iMPORTANT!!!!!!! i NEED SOMEONES HElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -My boyfriend is very much straight,i believe.Hes such a manly man.but over these passed 5 months ive experienced things that make me think hes somewhat bisexual or maybe has a certain fetish? clue #1..there was a ... (307 words)

Am I ready to settle down with this girl who's sexually more experienced than me or do I need to go away and have more sexual partners?

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5 March 2011 (M) age 41-50 - I am in my early thirties. My girlfriend is in her late twenties. She is my first real girlfriend. Sad I know but I just hadn't been in the right places at the right time to meet that somebody special until last year. Basically I am not exactly Mr charming and definitely not ... (379 words)

My girlfriend is incredibly blunt and moody with me and I am not sure if I can take much more of walking on eggshells....

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5 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is 42 and I m 38. We have been having a long distance relationship for 5 months. I visit her every other weekend and on the whole it is great. However, she can be incredibly blunt and moody with me even if something that has annoyed her is not connected with me. ... (277 words)

Should I get in touch with an old love after he supposedly said really mean and nasty things about me?

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A few years ago, my partner's best friend (let's call him "C") was living in a camper in the backyard. C would always make me dinner and we would hang out in the yard every night. Then suddenly we were hanging out all the time, every day, every evening, talking for hours. C ... (567 words)

My boyfriend says I act like a kid, how do I act older??

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5 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says i act like a kid. So how can i act more my age?... (16 words)