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female
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26-29,
*arissalover1
writes:I have been in this fantastic relationship for over a year now. I love the guy I’m with and he loves me. The only problem with it... my "best friend” loves him too. Last summer we hung out for about a week straight. It was amazing until I got an email from my boyfriend. He wrote, "I need you to call me! I’m like crying because this is so important! plz call me. I love you" I emailed him back asking what was wrong and all he said was that he had to tell me in person. I ended up getting a long distance phone call from a town about 4 hours away. It was my boyfriend. I asked him what was wrong and he said “I really wanted to tell you this in person, but I guess the phone is my only option. First off I want to tell you that no matter what I love you. Last week, when you, me, and your best friend were hanging out... I kissed your best friend." I began crying on the phone and asked many questions. Finally, we worked everything out without me punching my best friend in the face, but ever since then, she has been all over him! She says she’s over him, but everybody can tell that she clearly isn’t! I've talked to her a few times about it, but nothing seems to be going into her thick skull! I understand that it isn’t only her fault, but she is the one who persists on causing me pain! and the thing is, he is always with me now, almost 24/7, but she is the one clinging on to him when ever she is around.we are always trying to avoid her! and like i said, he kissed her, so its kinda both of their fault, but i really love this guy and she knows it! all she wants to do is take him from me. she is always telling me that she isnt flirting and she doesnt like him, but obvviously she is lying when even the whole school notices!! and when i say the whole school, im not over exagerating. its not as bad in the last like... 5 months but i think she is nothicing hom much closer me and him are getting.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (5 August 2014):
 Hi
You continue to grow from strength to strength. It is lovely to hear. Well done indeed.
Regards
Abella
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reader, Larissalover1 +, writes (5 August 2014):
Larissalover1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question once again, i would like to update. my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our 5 year anniversary in the coming January, and i have reached out and spoke with mu old best friend. she and i have cleared so many things up since this accident, and i can honestly say that i am over this :) thank you for being concerned for me and my situation, i appreciate it and am forever grateful. thank you. 3
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
That is a beautiful follow up - thank you
Abella
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reader, Larissalover1 +, writes (22 January 2012):
Larissalover1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt is interesting that you ask this at this point in time because today we are celebrating our 2 year aniversary :) we are extremely happy and she has realized that he and I aren't going anywhere soon. Unfortunately she is dating one of my closest ex's. He and I also used to be best friend but that has gone quite down hill since I found out about them only because he was the first person I had gone to about this situation.but I guess you can't really controll what goes on in the world can you? Thank you so much for your concern though :) you make me smile :)
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
Hi Larissalover
This is an important question and it's obvious that you were just unlucky to not receive a reply at the time.
Things may have moved on now, but is there anything else that you need? Any advice that might help? Or did it end up working out fine back then, around the time you asked this very good question?
regards
Abella
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