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30-35,
*pendy
writes:How do cope when the one you love dumps you for someone else?:(?I was with him for 5months..everything was great then after 4months he started been weird and asked to go on a break and I said ok. He begged for me back and he asked for another break again we got back and he started been weird again so I told him to take some time out, I waited for 3days and I asked him what was up he didn't wanna say it so I had to force it out of him and he said doesn't know if he loves me or not, he miss the single life and wants to be alone. He doesn't want a relationship.I was really hurt and today I found out he dumped me for someone else after telling me he loves me and he doesn't want anyone else.Am so hurt, I can't stop shaking:( I really wanna call him and tell him I know.Please what should I do? I loved this guy so much. I can't believe me he lied to me, I asked him every time he saw there was no one else, he saw on his mums life.. Am not ugly, guys think am gorgeous and everyone I meet say am really sweet, am not a horrible person. Why would he do that? I hate him so much:(Please what should I do?Thanks..xx
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 Well, he lied to you and you just found out, and are in a state of shock.Not surprised you hate him. Not surprised at all after the way he treated you.Perhaps you could write a letter - don't send it! - expressing your feelings about what he did. This will at least help you vent.On the other hand, after you put your anger, disappointment and disgust on paper you MIGHT THEN seriously think about putting it in the mail to him. You can end by telling him you never want to hear from him again, ever, under any circumstances. That will pretty much guarantee he will not contact you.IF you do choose to send a letter, however, give yourself a week before putting it in the mail. Your emotions are very raw right now. You don't need someone like him in your life who would deliberately mislead you and hurt you so badly....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): Hi hun I hope that you are okay I know all to well what you are going through. This guy doesn't seem to know what he wants he breaks up with you then comes back to you. It seems like he wants his cake and to eat it. Don't give him the satisfaction of phoning to tell him you know he doesn't care its his loss. And probably in time will want to come back again do you know why he left you the last time maybe he was with someone then he didn't leave to sit by his self. He left you and he will do the same to this girl he's with now, theirs plenty more fish in the sea. He's not trustworthy and if he thought of you he would of told you the truth and not lied. Show him you don't care and smile next time you see him. X x
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