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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Being a single mom is hard...Is it bad to wish it hadn't happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it bad to wish for things not to happen? I wish I had never met a man, so I wouldn't have been in position of being knocked up. Being a "single mom" was not in my plans. If my child screams, I scream. I have no support system. My child is with me 24/7. I feel sad when I'm ... (84 words)

My boyfriend scares me when he drinks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for almost 2 years, and everything is wonderful. We are both very social and every weekend we used to clubbing and drink with his friend etc. However, in the past 2-3 months when we went out he would drink the same amount and stuff but would get very ... (360 words)

He always says "don't trip" and I don't understand...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started dating this guy and we have been hitting it off well. He seems to know when to be serious and knows when enough is enough. But at times he seems to act weird. Whenever I disagree with something or let him know that I won't be around he is quick to say " don'... (128 words)

Can he refuse to see the kids on the specified dates if there is an order by the court?

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31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i recently got a court order for scheduled visitation for my children and their dad. let me inform u that he has already been seeing them prior to this order. i decided to get the court involved bcuz he called when he wanted and my kids always had to wait on him. i wanted to ... (85 words)

How do I continue to heal from a devastating break-up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Broke up with girl 5 months ago. she dumped me. was with her 6 years. heart breaking. she contacted me every 2 weeks or so. how are you etc etc etc. ive only started to feel bit better lately. still miss her so much but I'm not in as low mood as before. i feel i need... (136 words)

I've ended and affair, but I'm having trouble moving on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2099 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a married female 32 years of age, and recently ended a four month affair with a married man,2 kids, same age as myself. He worked in the same building, and after many months of serious eye contact, approched me and we started off just spending time chatting, and ev... (870 words)

He cheated on me with his psycho ex and he has dope issues...should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right so me and my boyfriend have been together for like seven months now. But before me there was another girl, and he was with her for 3 years. She fucked him over big time, like seriously messed with him emotionally and phsyically. S o a few weeks ago she threatened me in t... (259 words)

My LDR boyfriend broke up with me...When I asked him the reason, he said he didn't have one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping intouch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend alot of time with him because he only come... (254 words)

I keep falling out of love. Is this a pattern, or just a coincidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my partner seem to by losing our spark, i hardly feel attracted to him anymore but i'm seeing a trend appearing. My first love i started to feel the spark had gone but found out he had cheated so we broke up. My 2nd serious relationship, he cheated we work... (197 words)

He burned me. I've done everything I can to get over it, but it still hurts. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy at work last year. We had a thing, for a few months, until I started to listen to the voice in my head about how he seemed to good to be true and yet always unavailable when I needed him. Surprise he's engaged to his gf of 8 years. I felt stupid, dirty, angry and ... (296 words)

I don't know if I can get past this or will be able to trust her. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone.. I have been dating this girl from last 8 months. We started slow and fell in love and kinda lived together for couple of months. Everything was great, but now i found out there were many thing she lied about, so i need some help to decide... there was a gu... (593 words)

Can't tell if he likes me or he's just messing around. Should I push it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, so i kind of like this boy at school, but i didnt used to, i only like him now because of how nice i realised he is, but he can be quite complicated. He always texts me we talk about everything! I won't admit to anyone that i like him only to my closest friends. When he ... (322 words)

How do I flirt in a pool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

31 March 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, in desperate need of help! Alright, tomorrow I am going to Nottingham with our badminton team and this boy I have a crush on is going also (we are managers of the younger years) and basically, we've been given the green-light to stay up to whatever time we like, so we agree... (189 words)

GF has mood swings. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well im 18 and me and my last gf dated 2 years and my current gf and me have been dating around 2 years...so its not my first rodeo....but to my question..my gf and me are generally very happy with each other but lately there are days were she is genuinely hateful. I mean ... (141 words)

We hardly have sex anymore. How do I get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i get the spark back? Me and my partner have been together a year. I am quite confident, opinionated and bossy were as he is shy, quiet and passive in arguments etc. I think i must intimidate him as we hardly have sex anymore because i never feel sexy or he never takes ... (149 words)

She doesn't love me. Should I let go of the friendship? This hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am not sure shall i disconnect from a really good female friend of mine. We only started to know each other about a year ago even though we have been at the same school for 5 years already. Our relationship is between love and friendship since she has stated she doesn... (248 words)

How do I know if we're just friends or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you know if you are really good friends with a guy or if he wants something more? I have this guy friend who I kind of like, and we joke around and flirt a lot, and are really touchy, but I'm not sure if he's interested that way or not, or if we're just friends. I ... (113 words)

I love my teacher and I can't hide it. I want to tell him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. im so confused about my feelings for my teacher and its really hurting me. i cant bear to not go to school especially when i have him for his subject that day, i cry all the time if i haven't scene him in a couple of days. i look out for him all the time everywhere i go ... (115 words)

I know I should, but how do I leave my older lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, I have been with a man since I was 16 (legal in the UK) and he is now 49. Due to this no one else in either of our lives knows about us being together. In the last 6 months we have tried to end it, but neither of us are able to break it off. We have too much fun ... (123 words)

I still love him and can't be just friends. Did I say the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did my ex boyfriend say that? did we do the wrong thing? My ex and I broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me it's cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is why he couldn't break up with me... (260 words)

I don't know how to read this shy guy I like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I seem to have that problem when I don’t know wither or not a guy likes me or if he just wants to be mates. I’ve liked this guy that gets on my bus for a month now and we only talk when I say hi and ask him questions. He tends to be interested when I’m telling him something and ... (204 words)

I feel so empty and lost. Has anyone ever felt this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so numb lately, I spent the last 25 years of my life i am twenty, pleasing people, and living up to other peoples expectations. After i got out of my emotionally abusive relationship of five years, and finished my masters I FEEL worse.. I don't think I'm worth anythi... (121 words)

He's changed. I feel like I should take him back, but my feelings have changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently very confused and would like your advice.. My ex of five years which was a ROCKY relationship has come back into my life, he left wanted a break and to make a long story short he has come back being a new sweet self... Even though i have told him things are n... (323 words)

He's got to change some things for our relationship to survive. How do I get through to him?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and were friends for a long time before that. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and even though i love him and he is an amazing person there are a couple of things that are royally pissing me off... 1... (198 words)

Does he still care for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, he is the one for me, you may all think I'm being ridiculous because I'm only 15, but I've been through a lot and I know what I want. He is absolutely lovely and I love him to pieces and I care about him a lot. But ... (318 words)

He was once married and never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I met my boyfriend 2 years ago and we have been living in the same house with his parents who own a big house and we wanted to save before we move out.About a year ago in April I found out that he was married and nobody told me,neither him or his parents. I found ou... (292 words)

Husband isn't in love with me, should I stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband came home from being gone over seas for 7 months..The first wk things were ok and then it just got worse. He told me he wasn't in love with me and that there is just no spark there no more. I felt like dying right there. Well I thought first that maybe b/c he was ... (563 words)

He's horrible towards me but great with the kids, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!!! how do i get over the pain!??!!!!! my story is full on...well to me anyway. I have been broken up with my daughters dad for two years now and it would have to be the most horrible experience I have ever had....I had post natal severely....I love my baby very much bout ... (268 words)

Three years later....I'm confused on what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am very confused as to what is happening at the moment. But I will start from the beginning, 3 years ago I was "going out" with a guy, and we were both virgins, but about 2months later, my dad died, and I went off the rails. By this I mean I was so down, and Unsure of ... (371 words)

My family won't allow me to date, so how can I stop thinking about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm really very confused because...some boys love me...and I cannot say yes to them because I am scared of my family and teachers too..so in this situation what should I do now????? Because my family and the teachers won't allow me to do so...and I love my family a ... (130 words)

Worried about my penis size

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a 5.7 inch erect penis length and 4.3 girth is this enough to satisfy a girl?...... (18 words)

Is it ok for 2 men to share a bed??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for 2 grown men (early 40's) to sleep in the same bed? What if they were watching a movie and due to the late hour had simply fallen asleep? Is it normal for grown men to lay on the same bed watching a movie together in the first place? What if there were no other... (87 words)

Her husbands friend is BAD NEWS and their marriage is being wrecked

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My cousin who I love dearly is married and 7 months pregnant. They are in their thirties, him approaching his forties. They have been married for almost two years. I am becoming quite concerned with her husband. He has this friend who he met over the summer. This friend is a ... (879 words)

Is sex with a 'player' a good idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'll get right to the problem and i need answers asap! please :( The guy i had a crush on started talking to me about a month ago. He said he thought i was cute and a type of girl he would date. So he asked me to come over to his place and watch a movie. I agreed, ... (288 words)

My bi-sexual wife has made friends with a lesbian. should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - should i allow my wife to be friends with someone she's attracted to? my wife is bi and the person she's attracted to is a gay girl. i just found out about. shes been hiding it from me by deleteting her text messages. when i confronted her about it shes said that they are frie... (106 words)

It's time we had sex. Tips please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have been in my first relationship now for 3 months. So i am a rookie. What i want to know is when should i suggest having sex with my gf. she isn't a virgin, and i am. we haven't done anything like orals/handjobs, but do we need to do that before sex. the most i've done with ... (65 words)

I'm in a relationship but I love someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i love a guy and in the same time i am in a relationship with another guy, and this guy that i am loving is so strange with me in this past week, he's like just wanna stay friends and live his life, i love him what should i do?... (50 words)

Anyone ever have a friend that eventually fell for you? Does it ever happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Suppose you have been friends with someone for a long time (eg,months or years) and the person sees you as a friend but has never had romantic feelings for you. If you've been friends for a long time but this person doesn't have feelings for you, could they possibly fall fo... (137 words)

Confused that BF interrupted love making to use bathroom.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone explain this to me? Woke up when the alarm went off this morning, bf of 7 months was kissing my neck...so we ended up having sex, and kinda half way through, he stops and says "gotta go, baby"...I was like, "go where?" and he jumps out of bed saying he needs a ... (131 words)

My cousin and I like the same girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hello, well I've been good friends with this girl for 3 years now and now i suddenly like her... Here's the problem.. Well, my cousin failed and is now in my class... He always hangs around her and i don't have any time at all to talk to her. Help will be very much appreciated ... (56 words)

Afraid to tell him how I feel because I don't want to lose the friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have feelings for my close guy friend and i need them to stop. he has no idea how i feel, but we both have had conversations about relationships with friends and how it's too risky and how it could ruin a friendship if the relationship ends badly. i feel like i can't tell him ... (130 words)

Husband is happy to be nothing more than a roommate. I need him as a man. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband asked me for space and time three months ago. I was in our house by myself the whole time, I was working overtime because I wanted to be busy all the time.(no kids- no family, we are both are foreign) Now he is back and he says to me that he loves me but he is not... (257 words)

How can I get my husband to make love to me, rather than just having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - [MOD NOTE] User has written duplicates of one question, so we have combined the two in one post. I love my husband dearly, but he doesn't know how to make love to me. He thinks that having sex is making love. How do I make him understand the difference? i have been marri... (93 words)

BF is moving to a flat with three social guys. Do you think he will be tempted to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 20 year old girl who has been going out with her bf for just over 6 months. We have both said that we love each other and recently, he has mentioned that he has thought about us living together. He also said that he never said it sooner as he didnt want to scare ... (550 words)

I've had a lesbian relationship before and now find I am in love with my son's teacher.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been head over heel in love with my son's teacher for nearly 18 months. I've been in a lesbian relationship once a long time ago and now I know that she is the right one and all I want. Cheesy but true. I wish I knew what to do!!! Let her know how I feel or take it slow ... (69 words)

I want to change her opinions about me and I want her to fall for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i know this girl for 3 years...we were kinda friends and now i am totally in love with her. She is always nice to ppl, very sociable and good to talk to. She is beautiful and very smart. the problem is that i have been into her for like 6 months and she has eventually found... (250 words)

He is not ready to commit to me because he is 'not the man he needs to be' - what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man going on two years now ... and I recently suggested that we take our relationship more serious level and commit to one another .... he told me he's not ready because he is not the man he needs to be right now .... what should I do ?... (54 words)

Why do so many women hate porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Maybe I'm opening a can of worms here, but why are so many woman so vehemently against porn? What is there about it that makes it so evil? I read so many questions from women who are disgusted by their partner's porn use. Some consider it as bad as cheating and are thinking... (226 words)

He asked me to pay for dinner on the second date! What should I think about this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man asks a woman to pay for dinner on the 2nd date what should she think ?... (19 words)

I slept with my ex's best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a confusing situation and I think I have to write out the whole scenario so I can get advice about what to do, but basically... I was with my ex for a long time, we were each others firsts and we had a happy healthy relationship. At this time, his best friend (the... (472 words)